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... Send *iona xxx a private message | | | *iona xxx's profile:I am married and have been with my husband for a total of 14 years. That is longer than most people I know. Although before that I have had other relationships experience, eg 3months, 6months 10 months, a couple of weeks here and there and the occasional ONS when I was 20.
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After you lose your virginity does your cycle gets thrown off course?
Q. I've heard that after you lose your virginity your cycle gets thrown off course, I was wondering how long is too long though? It's been 36 days since the start day of my last period, and 19 days since I lost my virginity. My periods usually ...
A. 10 June 2008: I am so relieved for you! I bet you are so glad you are not pregnat. Although he used a condom, it doesn't stop you being paranoid and worried though does it?! Done enough of that myself.... (read in full...)
After you lose your virginity does your cycle gets thrown off course?
Q. I've heard that after you lose your virginity your cycle gets thrown off course, I was wondering how long is too long though? It's been 36 days since the start day of my last period, and 19 days since I lost my virginity. My periods usually ...
A. 7 June 2008: As I said I have had so irregular periods in my time, even from two weeks apart to 6 weeks apart. I remembe we hadn't known eachother long, and I was 2 weeks late. I was naturally worried and it was all I could think about, despite using condom ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 6 June 2008: Times have changed, and it would appear that very few wait until marriage, or even only have sex with the one partner.
Don't see it as a bad thing if you meet a girl who isn't a virgin. We all have different life experiences.
Although if y... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my boyfriend about sex?
Q. Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with ...
A. 6 June 2008: I am sure if you even hint at the topic, he will be keen. In fact it is normally the lad who suggests sex in the first place.
Just mention it directly.
You are bound to be a bit nervous.
Like anything else you are nervous even though you ... (read in full...)
They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?
Q. everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?...
A. 6 June 2008: I agree, you stick to your principles and don't smoke the weed.
I houseshared once with a girl who smoked weed, and she was still in bed at 3pm!
Not good and not practical to say in the least.
It's them with the problem not you.... (read in full...)
I have never been given an orgasm by my boyfriend. what do I do about it?
Q. my bf and i have been together for 1 1/2 now n we love each other alot. we have a great relationship inside and outside of the bedroom but the only problem is in all that time i have never gotten an orgasm. he's my first and i knowi'm not hhis but ...
A. 6 June 2008: Does he know where your clitoris is?... (read in full...)
Is 5 years a big age gap?
Q. i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 25 years of age..so do u think 5 years of age gap between us makes a difference..do u think he is too old for me????...
A. 6 June 2008: If you are right for eachother and it is meant to be, then don't worry about it.
We have an 8 year age gap and we are married, and been together 11 years.... (read in full...)
Will she ever want a three-some again?
Q. me and my wife have been maried for almost 10 years now. Our relationship is great and the sex is wonderful. About 5 years ago we had a threesome with a close friend of ours. It happened twice and was great for all three of us. The problem is I ...
A. 6 June 2008: I think there are always complications, and few women are truly comfortable with the idea, due to jealousy etc.
Why would you want to bring somebody else into the marriage?
I can possibly understand it if you are younger and not been togethe... (read in full...)
Is this possible? Science-wise?
Q. is it possible to get pregnant if i have my boyfriend ejaculate in my mouth, and i save it in a syringe and then inseminate the semen into my vagina? ...
A. 6 June 2008: I agree, I really hope this question is to clear up a school dispute amongst friends.
I wouldn't recommend it in practice; honnesty is the best policy. In a loving relationship/marriage, why would somebody want to do that?!
Please don't ... (read in full...)
I nearly had sex with my Mum's 37 year old friend
Q. I'm 16, and I fancy my Mum's 37 year old friend. I have since I first met her, but I knew nothing would ever happen between us. But the other night, she was at my house with my Mum, and they had a few drinks. My Mum went to sleep on the couch, I ...
A. 6 June 2008: I cannot imagine that you Mum would like it one bit, and things could become very awkward to say the least.
There is no way you would do this without your Mum suspecting. Many parents are uncomfortable, and there are issues surrounding sex at t... (read in full...)
I get horny during my period. My boyfriend won't...
Q. hi everyone quick question when im on my period i get super horny and i want sex but my bf wont have sex with me bc im bleeding how can i convince him 2 have sex with me? plz can anyone tell me what 2 do he wont go into the shower with me when i ...
A. 5 June 2008: I have never had sex on my period with any guy. Men don't go for this even at the end of the period or the start if there is less blood. Just doesn't seem practical for either person.
Often a way of saying no to sex if you have not known so... (read in full...)
I get horny during my period. My boyfriend won't...
Q. hi everyone quick question when im on my period i get super horny and i want sex but my bf wont have sex with me bc im bleeding how can i convince him 2 have sex with me? plz can anyone tell me what 2 do he wont go into the shower with me when i ...
A. 5 June 2008: I have never had sex on my period with any guy. Men don't go for this even at the end of the period or the start if there is less blood. Just doesn't seem practical for either person.
Often a way of saying no to sex if you have not known so... (read in full...)
I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!
Q. ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with ...
A. 5 June 2008: I am convinced that nobody is honnestly ever ready, and there comes a point where you either do or you don't.
You do realise you are about the only people I have ever heard of that got so near, but didn't?! You certainly had the chance, any othe... (read in full...)
Bf wants me to have sex with me on top. How do I do that?
Q. i recently got with my boyfriend and he wants to have sex. While talking about it he told me he wanted me to go on top however i have only had sex with my ex boyfriend and he always went on top so i dont know what to do. i'm scared he might be ...
A. 5 June 2008: Ahhh I didn't get the chance to worry in advance. He just guided me in place, and I think he guessed I hadn't done this before as we made eye contact and he nodded.
It can feel advanced, I have to say.
Some men seem to like it; my husband certa... (read in full...)
First time sex, how will I perform? Please help!!
Q. My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on) I also want my girl to be happy. I know it's our 1st time, but tr...
A. 5 June 2008: How long have you been together? Somebody hinted that you are not ready? If it has been a couple of months or more then you are probably as ready as you will ever be.
I say that because I think it is normal to be worried, and not feel truly re... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but too embarrssed!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 3 months now. I have sucked him off and given him a hand-job. As he is two years older than me, he says he doesnt want to have sex as i am not ready yet and he says that he is happy with waiting ...
A. 5 June 2008: I don't believe anybody's first time is great. So don't think it will be and think that the second time will be great.
For me it was great in terms of I was ready as we had been together 2 months. However I didn't "want" want it, it was like jus... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?
Q. I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...
A. 5 June 2008: I of course mentioned it. He said he knew, because of how I reacted when he carressed me, which was 2 months prior to actually having sex.
That way he knew to take things fairy slowly.... (read in full...)
How long does you wait to have sex in a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! I was wondering if any of you could tell me how long one should wait to have sex in a relationship. For those who are wondering it's been around 6 months and we're both virgins! thanks in advance!...
A. 5 June 2008: Many people say there is no set time. It has to feel right like you have known eachother a while. So you know it isn't just about the sex etc.
You sound like you must be ready by now, after all 6 months is ages. For my first I was with the guy ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?
Q. hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...
A. 5 June 2008: By nature we don't want to believe what our Mother's say, out of fear she is being too strict.
However, from what you said, I agree.
I had the chance to have sex at 14 and didn't. Not for any reason other than I felt like a kid playing at a... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish and unreasonable about sex?
Q. my wife and i both work full time jobs.it seems that we have sex only one day a week.always our first day off together.we have the same two days off every week.its always in the morning when we wake up and usually the same way.during the week im ...
A. 5 June 2008: Busy lives, and being up early for work is never a recepie for a sex life. I have to say we tend to have sex at a weekend not in the week.
Everyday things such as shopping, gardening, laundry, hoovering do take priority as does going to work. ... (read in full...)
After you lose your virginity does your cycle gets thrown off course?
Q. I've heard that after you lose your virginity your cycle gets thrown off course, I was wondering how long is too long though? It's been 36 days since the start day of my last period, and 19 days since I lost my virginity. My periods usually ...
A. 5 June 2008: I have been prone to irregular periods by nature, and I wouldn't have said that loosing my virginity had anything to do with it.
If you used condoms, then I am sure you will be fine, although it is a worry isn't it.... (read in full...)
Am I still a teenager? even though I am 20
Q. i just turned 20 and a lot of people call me teeny(as in teenager).So i was wondering are you still considered a teenager if your 20?...
A. 5 June 2008: Aww strange question, and an annoying nick-name.
You are no longer a teenager by definition at the age of 20.
However you are not suddenly going to look tons older or just act differently because you are 1 day older.
You are young, of cou... (read in full...)
I am so confused. He thinks we should take it slower. What's going on?
Q. I have meet a very geniune guy,we have been communicating via the internet, sms and phone calls, we got on very well, as we live far apart,5 months later we arranged to meet, the entire weekend was like fire works, two days later, he travelled all ...
A. 5 June 2008: There are two ways of rushing into things two much too soon for you. 1. physically or 2. Emotionally and knowing too much about eachother's life story etc.
Not sure which of the two or both you are referring to.
Doesn't sound like there is an... (read in full...)
Why am I always horny? Any advice?
Q. Why do I get horny a lot I always feel horny and always wanting to send pictures of my private to girls Any advice for me?...
A. 5 June 2008: I don't think being turned on all the time is even a problem restricted to lads. Although please don't send pics.... (read in full...)
My mind's in turmoil, I'm madly in love with an older man!
Q. I am a 20 year old female doing UG course in a college. I am madly in love with an old man who is 65 years old. I call him uncle. I know him from childhood and he is very close to our family. In the college I am an introvert seldom mingle with opp...
A. 5 June 2008: I am aged 32 and my parents are just about the age of of the guy you mention. I am open minded about age gaps as my husband is 8 years older than me.
However!!! This is way way too much. No good, and not right, he must be far older than you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's parents banned me from seeing her!
Q. Hello, Id really like some advise/opinions from other people. I have been with my gf for 7 months, she is nearly 19 and im 23 (we both still live at home with our parents.) Things started well, but after 2 months her dad decided to say we couldn't ...
A. 4 June 2008: Things are tricky when you live at home with your parents. Perhaps they are strict and don't like the thought of you having an adult relationship together.
Studies and any part-time job, or holiday temp. jobs have to come first.
In my mind se... (read in full...)
I didn't tell the clinic the truth when I got the injection today. Will this do something to me?
Q. Hey... i got the injection today your suppose to get it when your on your period but i wasnt they asked me if id had sex since my period (i have) but i said no. she said she could give me it aslong as i hadnt had sex since my period. and she ...
A. 4 June 2008: Not sure if the nurse was at the GP or family planning clinic. You could go to a different clinic. Or even complain if you found her rude.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face?
Q. Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face? ...
A. 3 June 2008: As soon as I read the title I thought "eewwwww!"
Not for me, so I suspect not for you either if you are asking about it.
Don't feel obliged to do stuff if it doesn't feel right.... (read in full...)
Took the emergency contraception, but I'm unfamiliar with it and my cycle! Advice please!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been making love but he has never cum inside me. well he did it just the other day but i took the EC on time so my worry was can i get pregnant since i dont know how my cycle goes and i dont use the regular birth control. ...
A. 3 June 2008: First of all, you shouldn't be having sex without using regular contraception preferably condoms.
As you have taken the morning after pill, that is a real bonus, and will give you peace of mind.
You may have found you had a very heavy perio... (read in full...)
When I ask for sex, he says no, but what should I do when he asks for it?
Q. i live with my boyfriend for the past two years but any time i ask for sex he says no with the reason that he is either sick or tied but if he ask i dont dont hesisted to give it out because i luv and dont wat him to go out and have sex with ...
A. 3 June 2008: There can be many potential reasons, for example:
Lack of sex or lack of sex drive can be a symptom of ill-health. Not sure of the full situation, but is he prone to loads of coughs colds. Worse still a sufferer of a chronic illness? Or be at th... (read in full...)
For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!
Q. This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when ...
A. 3 June 2008: So.......
A while has passed, I assume you have at least cought a glimpse of eachother?
Normally I would say the behaviour on both sides would be a one night stand; but I imagine it would be awkward you two living so close.
Do let us know ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets annoyed when I don't stay errect. What can I do to make her understand it's not helping?
Q. Me and my G/F have had sex about 4 times. Before we finally had sex I was a virgin and we had to try 3 times cause I kept losing my erection. Partly because of nerves and partly because of her...how should I say this...Lack of Stimulation. 2 of the ...
A. 3 June 2008: You need to both relax more. You must know eachother pretty well, so there is no need to be nervous. Just hav a good chat, and say what you would prefer her to do etc. Avoid other distractions in the room. Did you mean you have the TV on? Well ... (read in full...)
Why do they ejaculate on my belly? Is this normal?
Q. I am on the pill and recently started having sex. Even though I am supposed to be safe, the boys I've been with still pull out and ejaculate on my belly. My friend tells me all guys like to do this. Is this normal? Is it necessary at all?...
A. 3 June 2008: You could use a condom as well, so you both relax more, and you will avoid prgnancy.... (read in full...)
I got drunk and pregnant! Help help help!
Q. okai my friend invited me to her house party i said sure so that night i went.they were all drinking and my friend told me 2 take a lil so i did juz that little got me on it i got really but really drunk and the only thing i remember was a dude ...
A. 3 June 2008: Aww I really feel for you! Do I assume you really didn't remember it? Do I assume you have no contact with the guy, and no phone number? Just assuming it was a one night stand.
I hate to say it, but in that situation, I would have got the morn... (read in full...)
I want to cum too, but I just can't. Any tips?
Q. me and my boyfriend have had sex before and every times he cums, he tries to get me to as well but, i just cant, i dont know why? i want to as well to let him know i can but im afraid i cant. Can someone plesae tell me if anythings wrong or ...
A. 2 June 2008: Firstly, I am surprised that you have such concerns already.
I do hope you are using condoms.
I don't even want to advise somebody who is still at school.... (read in full...)
I didn't tell the clinic the truth when I got the injection today. Will this do something to me?
Q. Hey... i got the injection today your suppose to get it when your on your period but i wasnt they asked me if id had sex since my period (i have) but i said no. she said she could give me it aslong as i hadnt had sex since my period. and she ...
A. 2 June 2008: I agree, please don't lie at appointments, as questions are for a reason.
I used to have the contraceptive injection. You don't actually have to have the first one on your period, if you do, it just means that it works quicker. Therefor... (read in full...)
Our relationship is progessing too quickly...
Q. ok, I have a major problem here. My girlfriend and I are very close and recently our relationship has been accelerating at an unreasonable rate. I mean we haven't hardly dated that much and already she is interested in sexual activity (not ...
A. 2 June 2008: I agree with what the previous person explained. It has to feel right for you both. Chances are she is not a virgin, and sexual contact is what she is used to.
How long have you been together? How old is your girlfriend?
It is a refreshing ... (read in full...)
I want to bring his birthday to him in his hospital room (he's got a private room). Anyone got any good ideas of how we can celebrate it?
Q. My boyfriend will be in hospital for his birthday, he is having an operation tomorrow and has been told he will be in hospital recovering til the following Monday - his birthday is on Friday. We had planned a big night out but obviously that's...
A. 2 June 2008: Firstly good for you for being so nice and supportive!
Just bring in his cards and gifts, and let him open them in bed. Just having you there for some time will be a great bonus, and should cheer him up.
Mention to the nurses, there may be a c... (read in full...)
Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?
Q. DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...
A. 2 June 2008: Do you remember your wedding vows: in sickness and in health... Plus the meaning of loyalty.
Pain or illness, naturally reduces ones sex drive, and no doubt this will be for a limited period of time. Although 2 years must feel like a long tim... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me why he wants me to move in with him? What ever happened to marriage?
Q. I am 43 yrs old and my boyfriend 42. I have been going with him for over 2 yrs. We get along well and have share the same interests. We both have been married and divorced under good terms with the ex'es and both own our own homes. We have no ...
A. 29 May 2008: I personally don't like all this lets move in and see how it goes.
If there are doubts, why be in the situation.
Call me old fashioned, but it usually predicts a throwaway relationship. We live in a throwaway society with clothes etc, but... (read in full...)
I have thought of asking my BF to shower with me and get him to masturbate me with the shower jet. Guys, do you find this odd?
Q. This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate... I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it,...
A. 29 May 2008: None of your concerns are abnormal BTW.
I agree and am concerned about your no sex before marriage morals. You are already crossing the line. If you cross the line with your BF then you are getting nearer and nearer to having sex.
What yo... (read in full...)
I have thought of asking my BF to shower with me and get him to masturbate me with the shower jet. Guys, do you find this odd?
Q. This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate... I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it,...
A. 29 May 2008: None of your concerns are abnormal BTW. I agree and am concerned about your no sex before marriage morals. You are already crossing the line. If you cross the line with your BF then you are getting nearer and nearer to having sex. What you... (read in full...)
How can I have a one night stand tonight?
Q. Considering a one night stand tonight. I know you can't choose when and where these things happen, but tonight is a good opportunity. Anything I can do to make it happen? Thanks. p.s. It's been over a year since I last had sex, and I can...
A. 29 May 2008: Here's something for you, although I am female, I find this sort of thing entertaining LOL, and possibly true to life:
http://www.advancedmacking.com/onenight.html
By the way, please don't forget to use a condom.
from Fiona... (read in full...)
How can I have a one night stand tonight?
Q. Considering a one night stand tonight. I know you can't choose when and where these things happen, but tonight is a good opportunity. Anything I can do to make it happen? Thanks. p.s. It's been over a year since I last had sex, and I can...
A. 29 May 2008: Make sure you look your best etc.
I bet you know how to flirt LOL, or had opportunities in the past?
Just make sure you stand near, or edge towards single-looking girls, and make eye contact. You have to survey the place and select a target ... (read in full...)
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