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writes: Me and my husband have been married about eighteen months now, our relationship is long distance as he works away so he views porn online of real life couples having sex. however he wants me to now go online and have sex in front of strangers too. the question is 'is this love and respect for me or am i being used by him?'
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Is he asking you to have sex with someone while he will watch it online?
If he doesnt mind you having sex with someone then since he is away, and you also have your sexual needs, i would say it is a good opportunity to use it. have sex with a guy u like and your husband won't even mind.
Enjoy both worlds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): You have to seriously consider the consequences of letting strangers view you on the internet. You could be online on websites for years to come and any one could see you, just look at youtube-there is footage of everything on there from years and years ago.Personally, I think sex is a private and personal thing and for someone to ask that of you certainly, in my books, lacks respect for you. If I was in your position I would tell him where to stick that idea and consider that the end of the matter.It is his choice if he wants to view people but he can't expect you to be into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Hi if hes away all the time and his sex life is wanking to strange couples having online sex, im just wondering, what do you actually get out of this marriage? If some guy wanted me to have sex online for weirdos to perv over, i would tell him where to get off. Im sorry but you dont seem to have very high expectations of marriage
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 January 2010):
I don't think this is anything to do with love and respect.
This is to do with his fetishes.
If you want to do it then go for it. If you are not interested and he doesn't take that for an answer THEN it becomes about respect.
If he was using you then I don't get why he picked a woman who was long distance and then married her. Why not just pick up a girl at a truck stop, whip out the web cam and bob's your uncle??
If you aren't happy with the way your relationship is then you have to talk about it with him. Make compromises and long term plans so you can both be happier.
Good Luck!! xx
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