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Why can I only get turned on by my girlfriend? Porn does nothing for me and I'm starting to worry!

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Question - (6 January 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2010)
A male Australia age 26-29, *dhocracy writes:

Ok this may not seem urgent or even useful but at the moment I am in a very strange predicament, not serious or bad in anyway I do not think but never the less it is quite how should I put, well bugger it it is pure strangeness for me. My girlfriend is the only thing that can turn me on. I'm sitting here watching bloody Naked News and I'm still getting absolutely nothing. Any porn or whatnot is simply (to me) boring and really not very hot at all. I'm not worried persay but I'm certainly thinking holy shit you know? Also my girlfriend lives on like, the other side of the freaking city, and I can't drive D= Anyone know wtf is going on with me? (or more specifically why I don't find any sexual aspect hot except for my girlfriend)???

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A male reader, Adhocracy Australia +, writes (7 January 2010):

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Haha cheers everyone for your replies. As for the first comment, Yes I know i am in love with her and I was just looking at porn nd shaking my head thinking to myself that its sad. The difference is that porn has always turned me on alot in the past, and i really like to fap. =) But it is always better with my lovely girlfriend xD.

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A female reader, ForeverDawn United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

ForeverDawn agony auntThat is so nice I hope this will happen to my boyfriend LOL Dont worry about it and let her know I bet she wull be thrilled!!!

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A female reader, torngirl United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

If only more guys were like you i think a lot of girls would be happier!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

Porn isn't for you, but your girlfriend is. Sounds like you're a pretty decent guy. Don't worry about it at all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

You dont find other girls a turn on because you are so attracted to the girl you are with. Thats rather lovely actually. I hope i meet someone like that one day! Lots of people dont find pornography interesting at all. You are perfectly normal in that respect so dont worry. As for your girlfriend living across town. I can help you with that but maybe start saving for a nice car and driving lessons.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (6 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntYou possess most healthy mind that I have to say. Porn movie do not inspire any erection in male or in female is normal. How ever people see it merely out of curiosity, and later it become habit. Real sex park came from the company of desirous person or just from Harmon of the body. Where as nude site or sex pic inspire only curiosity, and not spark of sex pleasure.

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A male reader, LessonsLearned United States +, writes (6 January 2010):

Not every guy is turned on by mindless depictions of sex. Porn isn't for everyone nor should it be. Your not weird for not caring for it. It took me until the age of 25 to admit I didn't like strip clubs. I just felt sorry for the girls and was turned off by the perfunctory nature of their sad displays.

To echo another point. You are head over heals my friend. Nothing wrong with it. Quite the opposite. Everythings as it should be. Carry on.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (6 January 2010):

baddogbj agony auntThat's very cute. You should let her know.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

It's called "being in love." You may have heard of it.

You've realised that porn is a bit pathetic and a real girl who you have feelings for is actually far better. I wonder why you are so desperate to be turned on by women who AREN'T your girl. How would you feel if she was trolling the net trying to find men to look at?

Welcome to the real world!! Now get on her facebook, find a really nice photo of her and I don't think you'll have any more problems.

Good Luck!! xx

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