What are some cute and creative gifts to make for your boyfriend?
Q. What are some cute and creative gifts you can make/give to your boyfriend for Christmas?...
A. 15 December 2009: Knit him a scarf in his favourite colours.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Tips on taking steps?
Q. Okay so i've been in a relationship for a while and my boyfriend wants to do some stuff. I've been fingered before and that's it. I started giving a guy a handjob but had to quit. My current boyfriend is older than me and i'm nervous about doing ...
A. 15 December 2009: This isn't all about him and his pleasure.
What a guy wants you to do when you are being fingered is to relax and enjoy it. You have to start thinking of yourself here too.
As for hand jobs, well pretty much yes, you have to sit there, but y... (read in full...)
What is the best way for my friend to deal with this situation?
Q. My friend met this person a year and half ago and thought she had found her soul mate. He told her he felt the same. But at the same time he told her they could never be socially together because he comes from a Bangladeshi rural family and he is...
A. 15 December 2009: She needs to take control and end this affair.
She needs to cut contact and make a decision to move on with her life.
Until she decides she WANTS to move on and find happiness then she is going to keep going back to him and being miserable.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is still in regular contact with the woman she cheated on me with, what should I do?
Q. I am female and i am in a relationship with a girl we have been together over a year now and in November i proposed to her on our year anniversary she said yes. the only thing is six month into our relationship she cheated on she told me straight ...
A. 15 December 2009: You can't get married when you are having all these issues.
Separate them down.
Number 1. You have to tell her that you have nothing against her having female friends, but when one of those friends fancies them openly she has to step back and... (read in full...)
Stimulating my boyfriend...
Q. Hi can anyone help me. I have met a new guy and we have had intercourse on a couple of occasions but he has hinted that he would like a hand job. One problem. He doesnt seem to have any skin to pull up and down over his penis. he has a plump shiney ...
A. 15 December 2009: Wow you really rushed into sex, if you don't know anything about him, and are too scared to ask.
I really really hope you are using condoms.
The reason this guy looks different is because he has been circumcised. This means he's had the ski... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with someone I cant have, and its my cousin! What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, this is really hard for me to say, and I know some of you will mock me but I have nowhere else to turn, I have to ask these questions, and I need the anonymity of the Internet. I don't believe you can ask somebody to control who they ...
A. 15 December 2009: You can't help who you've fallen for but you CAN help what you do about it.
So if you know being with her is an imposibility then distance yourself and TRY hard to look elsewhere.
You can choose to WANT to get over her.
Spend less time with ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to love her because we are both girls!
Q. hi my problem is that i love my friend so much and she does too but i feel she doesn't want this love because we both girls! i know that but it doesn't matter for me, and what makes me sad and Confused is that she sometimes treats me well and lets ...
A. 15 December 2009: She's confused too.
It's hard having a big box of chocolate in front of you when you know how people would treat you if they saw you eating from it.
She's having the occasional sneaky nibble because she wants you.
Your best bet is just... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to learn from my affair and failed marriage?
Q. I had the affair first, im still trying to understand why. I pushed my wife away then she had an affair. I have lied and cheated, i have been egotistical and controlling. I have hurt my wife and my young children. I have destroyed everything that i ...
A. 15 December 2009: Don't get into a serious relationship if you aren't ready for it.
If you are a guy who cannot commit then don't get involved with someone.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why do I get these bad feelings in my tummy just before something bad is going to happen?
Q. I am having bad feelings in my belly it hurts then something bad happens like once i was out and my tummy was hurting and then i got a call and my loved one died can someone please answer this it will help me a lot thank you very much xx...
A. 15 December 2009: It's called women's intuition.
We have a sense for danger because back in the day, when all the men folk were off stabbing mammoths, it was our job to look after everyone else.
Chill out and welcome to being aware of your self.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Do I have to change the way I act when he's over?
Q. (Sorry, not a relationship question!) My mother's friend are the epitome of proper-ness. One in particular looks down on everything. For example, rock music. His two nine-year-old sons play in the same youth orchestra (I'm 17, btw) as me. At r...
A. 15 December 2009: The fact that he turned round and told your mother how to raise her daughter in front of a crowd of people says to me that this guy is not worth your time worrying about.
Talk to your mum and ask her why she continues to be friends with someone ... (read in full...)
I'm a woman and hate my genitals!
Q. So I feel female, I love being a woman, and love being my gender. I was born a woman etc... However, I hate having the genitals I have. I've asked a question here before and someone responded telling me I had bad self-esteem and asking if I also ...
A. 15 December 2009: Either therapy or just accept that you have a bit of an unusual fettish and then get on with life.
Girls with boy bits are really common in Japanese pornography.
It doesn't affect your life, it's just a bit strange. People get off on all kinds... (read in full...)
Ex won't take no for an answer and has anger issues, help?
Q. He won't take no for an answer and he's been violent in the past so I'm scared of what to do next. :( Texts: (btw, the guy he's talking about is my best mate.) Him: y cant i b ur bf still?xxx Me: Cause you argue about the same stuff everyday an...
A. 14 December 2009: He only has this power over you. So you get someone else involved.
If he doesn't leave you alone then you tell someone. Tell a teacher or your parents.
You CANNOT let this boy near you if you think he could be violent.
Do not be his mate. D... (read in full...)
I need time to reflect on my marriage...
Q. I have been married to my wife for 27 years. I fell in love with her in college. About 8 years ago, I told her I was gay. She was hurt, as was I. We had children still in school, and I promised myself that I would stay with her until our youngest ...
A. 14 December 2009: So you want to have a think and then go back to a loveless marriage because you missed her company?
That's hardly fair on her is it?
Tell her that you are going but please set her free to find a man who will truly love her and want to be with ... (read in full...)
I really like him but since I told him to stop being so sexual he's gone... what did I do wrong?
Q. Ok is there anyway of getting this back... advice please!! Really liked this guy, he would always stop and chat to me as we work near eachother, he would stop his car to talk to me, flirt etc, this went on for a while ... the thing is i coould never ...
A. 14 December 2009: So he was being really sexual, you told him you weren't interested in just being sexual and he disappeared.
What you have had there is a lucky escape.
He would have used you and dumped you as it's clear he just wanted sex. If he liked you the... (read in full...)
Ideas for our 1 year of dating anniversary...???
Q. I need help quick please! Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and i dont know what to get her. I am writing her a letter but i dontknow what else to give her. I have already given her many stuffed animals before and a necklace, i dont know what to ...
A. 14 December 2009: Well you know her better than us. Think about what she is into and what she likes doing and what she will like to use and have in her life.
She must have mentioned a few things she'd like to have at some point. It's coming up to Xmas so she's pr... (read in full...)
Does cheating empower women?
Q. Is infidelity in the male/female relationship immoral or empowering for the women? Religion can be a factor in the answer if needed....
A. 14 December 2009: We aren't here to do your homework for you hun, sorry.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does a guy like you if he asks for your MSN?
Q. If a guy ask you for your msn does that does to show that he is interested in you?...
A. 14 December 2009: Tell him that you were seeing his friend for a while but explain it and then see if he asks you out.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I make him realise he is better off with me?
Q. I have a guy friend who I'm extremely close with. He has a girlfriend who has been giving him nothing but grief for ages. I care strongly about him and knows he feels the same way, but I have told him I'll support him no matter what and understand ...
A. 14 December 2009: If you want him to see how your friendship is better than hers then tell him you want him but know you can't have him and need to get over him.
Then cut contact for a few weeks.
If he has feelings for you then he will miss you and realise you ... (read in full...)
Does a guy like you if he asks for your MSN?
Q. If a guy ask you for your msn does that does to show that he is interested in you?...
A. 12 December 2009: He's asked you out to dinner, this is a date.
Be careful with your feelings until you know he is serious about you. Tell him you have been hurt before and want to take things slowly.
As for the fact he is your ex's friend, just ask him what he ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until he realizes he was wrong or text him back?
Q. I've been dating a guy in a band for a few months now, he is incredibly sweet and treats me well but the last few days have confusing. We see each other evey weekend and during the week. When his band usually plays a show, he takes me along, ...
A. 11 December 2009: So he had a bad night and just before a majorly stressful tour he let his admin slip?
You could cut the guy some slack. He can't be perfect all the time and he's apologised.
He's away and probably surrounded by temptation and he's taken time ... (read in full...)
Where can you turn with almost impossible problems?
Q. I know it is hard to describe ,what I'm trying to tell. I'm not even hoping for full understanding. But ,I'm hoping someone maybe familiar with such an issue. My problem is ,that my life has sooo much horrible things in it, that even the therapi...
A. 11 December 2009: Any therapist that tells you have a lot of problems and should set up a direct debit with him is just milking you for cash.
Find a new therapist, or better yes, just write down a bullet point list of all your problems, stick it to the wall and... (read in full...)
My ice cream craving!!!
Q. Why do I have a craving of ice-cream so much? I have a bowl to the rim every day and that's not enough for me? Is this normal?...
A. 10 December 2009: You may be craving calcium so try drinking milk.
Remember to get your multi vitamins and brush your teeth after it and you should be fine.
Plus make sure you are getting lots of exercise to counter all the sugar you'll be getting.
Good... (read in full...)
I enjoy sex much more while I have my period, does anyone else agree?
Q. hi all. i enjoy sex much more when im on my period. it feels so good "down there". does enybody else agree? and why is this? ...
A. 10 December 2009: Personally I can't get over the mess factor so I can't enjoy it... But if you can then go for it!
I'm guessing it's the fact that you are lubricated a bit more than usual and the fact that most of your insides have been replaced with massive ... (read in full...)
We are not going out and he started touching me, does he like me?
Q. well thers this guy and we're not goin out or any thing but when we snogged he got close to me and started fellin me up what does this mean does it mean he like me as more than a friend...
A. 10 December 2009: What it means is that he wanted to feel some boobs and since you let him, he did it.
If you want him to like you then please please please learn that guys won't respect you or want to be with you if you let them do what they want.
They'll assum... (read in full...)
I like a girl I don't know, and I don't know if she is gay or straight either!
Q. Hey all...I have a rather immature question, I think. So this year at college, I noticed this other girl in a couple of my classes, and from what I can tell, she is my definition of awesome. I've only talked to her a few times but she's been nice to ...
A. 10 December 2009: This is the classic problem that gay and bi people face.
Back in the good old days you'd just ask her if she was a friend of Dorothy and be on your merry way.
Apart from quietly singing katy perry songs at her or asking if she's a fan of t... (read in full...)
I lose interest in my lovers. How can I curb this pattern?
Q. I have a couple of questions and am interesting in knowing how others feel about his topic. 1. Why do people who've been together for a number of years fall out of love? What causes this? 2. What can I do to prevent this? I fear it has become a ...
A. 10 December 2009: I saw a documentary on this that suggested that most of the feelings of "love" that we experience will fade after 3 to 4 years.
They found that you find your partner more or less attractive than they actually are at different stages of this pro... (read in full...)
Will my crossdressing tendency be inherited by my children?
Q. i am mtf married crossdresser ,my wife is supportive to me, after evening i turnr myself in fem mode and my wife is in man,we enjoy fully in bed too,now my wife is pregnent, Is my crossdressing tendency will go to my kids?...
A. 10 December 2009: Well there are many theories about whether sexual preference is inherited, learned, or just random.
But I think all you need to worry about is making sure your children know that mummy and daddy love each other and teach them that men and women sh... (read in full...)
Should we do anything about this teacher?
Q. [Mod note: I think it's safe to assume that the poster is not between the ages of 26-29.] A new teacher came to my school this year and I don't have him except for roll call in the mornings. But my friend has him for geography, and she is the type...
A. 10 December 2009: If you are worried then go and talk to another teacher about it.
It COULD all be perfectly innocent, and he may just be messing about but this kind of gossip is really dangerous to a male teacher. So you could be doing him a favour by getting ... (read in full...)
How will I know when he wants to kiss me?
Q. i have a boyfriend and we have never been on a date and i want 2 know how will i know when he wants to kiss me on our date...
A. 10 December 2009: You will know the moment when it comes.
It's just really nice and he'll look into your eyes. You'll look into his and then it will happen.
It may not happen on the first date though so just enjoy yourself and get to know him.
Remember that y... (read in full...)
What do I do if my feelings aren't as strong as his?
Q. Yesterday I decided to say yes to this guy who asked me out and has really liked me for a while, it was a hard decision because I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship and I thought it would be weird for him because he likes me more than I like him. ...
A. 10 December 2009: Just tell him that you are getting freaked out by all the pressure on you.
It's really weird being the centre of attention so just tell him you want to take it slowly.
I have been in your situation and it's not great, but the best thing to do... (read in full...)
Is he just using me if he doesn't want to marry me?
Q. I have been with this man for going on three years,he shows me in many ways that he truely loves me,but he wont marry me or even make plans,he just tells me we cant aford it.that makes me think all he wants is a clean house to come home to and ...
A. 10 December 2009: If he's making you happy and makes you feel loved, then that is the most important thing.
Have a think about WHY marriage is so important.
If you want marriage then leave him and find a man who wants to marry you.
If you want a man who loves... (read in full...)
Does a guy like you if he asks for your MSN?
Q. If a guy ask you for your msn does that does to show that he is interested in you?...
A. 10 December 2009: It shows he wants to talk to you.
So he must like you at least as a friend.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How could you be sure of your sexuality if you never had any indication towards the same sex before an online encounter?
Q. I am confused and upset. I had a chat a while back that has really been ingrained in my head. I had a chat with another guy. At first I thought the guy was joking so I joked around back being a smart a$$, but became aroused and the rest is h...
A. 10 December 2009: Sexuality isn't a black and white issue.
You could be 95% into girls and 5% in to boys or the other way round.
Many people don't figure out who they are until their mid 20's so there's no need to stress. You are you and this is only a small par... (read in full...)
Who is going to want me looking like this?
Q. I´ve just been feeling sad about my appearance lately. As a child, I was very early to develop (by the standards of the times I lived in). when I was ten, I suffered from severe acne... and now my face is horribly scarred. My parents were alw...
A. 9 December 2009: Hello again.
I think you got a fair few suggestions last time on how to boost your self esteem.
I think the fact you are back here again suggests that this goes deeper than dearcupid can go.
Go and talk to your doctor. You are clearly ... (read in full...)
What's right for my partner in regards to size?
Q. Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake...
A. 9 December 2009: Alright then 7.3 inches! That make you feel better?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
2 boys love me and never want to lose me
Q. i have two boys telling me they love me and never want to lose me, One was from a previous long term relationship the second boy ive been with a month but he keeps threatning my ex and his having trust issues. I still really like my ex I do...
A. 9 December 2009: Go with the none violent one. Always.
Dump the guy with issues and show him that a real man has faith in his girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What's right for my partner in regards to size?
Q. Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake...
A. 9 December 2009: You should know that the ONLY people who obsess over penis size are MEN. All those adverts you saw on porn sites LIED to you!
Being great in bed is nothing to do with size.
What is right for your partner is YOU because she loves YOU!!!
... (read in full...)
20 and never had a serious relationship!
Q. am 20 and ive never had a serious relationship... am a nice girl with a big heart.. friends loves me and everyone i meet says am a lovely person..guys all say am pretty and sexy. but i want a guy who would love me.. am always alone on ...
A. 9 December 2009: Where are you meeting these men??
If the answer is just in pubs and clubs then THAT is your main problem.
You need to meet NICE guys. So expand your circle of friends, join some groups, and meet people who will get to know you, not just stare a... (read in full...)
Do I have a legal case to end this marriage?
Q. I've been married 32 yrs to a totally aloof man who can't communicate and has no joy or smile on his face. When I've tried to communicate,he always becomes defensive and says I'm attacking him. He's never had a normal relationship with me,his...
A. 9 December 2009: Violence is always a reason to end a marriage. You are in Canada and I am pretty sure they take a dim view of violence around women and children.
Get out of there and start divorce proceedings.
Why on earth have you waited this long!?
Good L... (read in full...)
Should I resign myself to my current unhappy life or pursue the new relationship...it's just so hard. Is there an answer?
Q. I don't know where to begin, so I will start with some background information. I have been married for 20 years, have a child in college, 1 in high school and 1 in 4th grade. I got married at age 26. When I dated my wife we had a lot in com...
A. 9 December 2009: I think you owe it to your wife to give it one more go. Tell your girlfriend you are going to give it one last push with your marriage and if she hasn't heard from you by easter she should move on. I bet she'll be willing to wait for you knowing ... (read in full...)
How do I get my 38 year old lover back?
Q. Hey everyone, Ive got a big problem. He's 38 and im 18 and even though ive heard all the comments about robbing the cradle, hes only using you for sex. I dont care and I love him and he loved me. it all started on saturday when he came up from...
A. 9 December 2009: I advised you on the information you gave.
Sorry if you didn't like it.
Tell your friend to have emergency taxi fare in her bra so if she gets left again, she doesn't have to phone you for rescue.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get my 38 year old lover back?
Q. Hey everyone, Ive got a big problem. He's 38 and im 18 and even though ive heard all the comments about robbing the cradle, hes only using you for sex. I dont care and I love him and he loved me. it all started on saturday when he came up from...
A. 9 December 2009: Hang on so he came hundreds of miles up for the weekend and paid for a hotel and you buggered off out for a night of clubbing with your mates.
sorry hun but that's just rude. It's alright being sorry now, but you didn't even consider the possibil... (read in full...)
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