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writes:Help!I broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and I feel like im missing something. Its really strange because it always happens whenever i break-up with a boyfriend.also he keeps on texting me sayin that he never loved me and he just wanted to have sex (I said no) and im soo ugly and fat.What should i do beause its really hurtful and i really dont like it.Thanks for all your help!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 May 2010):
You dumped him. That hurt him. So he's trying to hurt you back. He'll get over it and then probably say sorry at some point.
Tell him to stop texting you or you will show your parents who will tell his parents. Yes that will make you look a bit childish but it will scare the hell out of him and he will stop texting you.
Also it's perfectly normal to feel a bit weird after a break up. How do you expect to feel???
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Honey, he isn't worth wasting your energy on! True, his hormones are all over the place at his age (teenage boy - which I suppose he is?)
He's frustrated and lashing out at you......best thing you can do is to totally ignore him, and as Auntie E said, block him from sending any more texts......you will sooner or later meet a boy who likes for who YOU are......
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Oh honey this is just a mean guy. You did the right thing by saying NO to sex - you are not ready. He's mad because he could not get what he wanted. What a crybaby! Block his text - it's just that simple.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Listen, this guy is a complete liar. If that were true and that you were too "ugly and fat", he wouldn't have wanted to have sex with you.
The truth was he never loved you but he wanted to selfishly use you and take advantage of you, and instead of owning up to it, he is being immature and lying his head off trying to make you feel bad for his immaturity.
The guy is lint. He's not worth having a girlfriend.
However, you are TOO YOUNG to be having sex! Could you handle the risks of having sex (pregnancy, STD), and would you trust the risks of sex to the guys you're having sex with? If you started looking at sex as the HUGE risk it is, you'll become a lot more choosy about who you consider going out with, which will tend to weed the immature creeps out of consideration.
Become *really* choosy, and better yet, tell all the guys you meet that you don't have sex before you're able to take care of a kid. You'll find that the really good guys are the ones who stay and love you.
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