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Do guys judge a woman's body?

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Question - (11 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

right. i know my question is going to make me sound like every other teenager and you're all going to say "you're not ready for sex!" but i want to ask some questions about relationships and sex.

i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i am nervous. i have no idea what to expect for my first time. it is his as well. neither of us have ever done anything remotely sexual so have no idea what to expect.

also, do guys judge girls on their bodies? i mean, will he notice the things i don't like?

and if something did happen, would he tell his friends?

thank you.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (12 July 2010):

person12345 agony auntFrom every guy I've talked to they basically think this the first time they see a woman naked, "omg boobs boobs boobs sex sex sex boobs sex boobs sex *drool*" Then when I ran it by my boyfriend and asked anything to add he went, "boobs. vagina. *drool*" Then after the initial shock wears off, they're self-conscious too. They flex their muscles, suck in their stomach and get performance anxiety. So between the "boobs vagina sex *drool*" and their own self-consciousness, they're not noticing that tiny scar or that bit of cellulite. The only time they start to notice is when you point it out to them and act self-conscious. If you act confident about your body, they won't notice any little flaws you think you have.

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntNah they dont, if he loves you like he should before you guys have sex, then he will love every part of you even the bits you hate!

If you act happy with your body then he wont even notice anything!

and what could go wrong?

I suggest not having sex straight away, and explore each others bodies before, and get more comfortable with each other, that way you guys arent afraid or feel awkward about pleasuring each other.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010):

Well I guess you are too young for sex because if you were mature enough you wouldn't have to worry about how you look, what he thinks and if will tell his friends.

Don't do it because everyone else is having sex. Do it because you want to, with someone you really like and likes you back! No matter how freaky you look naked...

Have fun, mess around, but don't get pressured into having sex unless YOU WANT IT!

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