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writes:Hi,i just want to ask some help about my turkish boyfriend now,he is married to a filipina like me ,,,they have two kids now,,i dont know if he really loves me,,how many many times i told him to break up with me but he dont want to,he told me that his the one will break up to me when he wants to,,i think im in love eith him now,,how should i do now Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-to-do-when-the-person-youre-attracted.html
You're the one that controls your own life, not him. Don't give him that control.
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reader, GirlyGirl76  +, writes (15 September 2010):
sorry but you cant ask him to leave his wife. All you can do is see him when its good for him and maybe someday he will decide to leave her or just accept the fact he wants his cake and eat it too. He may leave her to be with her but chances are you will never ever trust him when he walks out that door. Better to accept what it is... a good time for him and get the most you can out of it ... agood time .. money, nice meal great sex. Whatever but either accept that or get some better self esteem and run!
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reader, kanri +, writes (13 September 2010):
kanri is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you,,,,i can sleep now,,,,hopefully
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reader, kanri +, writes (13 September 2010):
kanri is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot guys,i think its time to end this up,,yah maybe it is LUST not LOVE,,and im ready to call him now to end this foolishness,,thanks again
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Leave him, dont talk to him, even if you "love" him. he will never ever ever ever ever leave his wife and kids for you, he would have already if he was going to, he uses you when his wife is away for sex. Move on and find someone you deserve. Leave and if he gets in contact with you again, threaten to tell his wife. Think about her if anything.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Stay away from him. Move and don't tell him where you are going, change your phone number, just do whatever it takes. There is no future here but there will be lots and lots of heartache. Look out for number one.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (13 September 2010):
 You told him to break up with you and he won't? Surely the answer is obvious...you break up with him! He will never leave his wife for you and I can't believe you'd want to be with a man like this anyway! Walk away now and find a real man. Preferably one of your own instead of someone elses.
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