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writes:We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about a week since, we've been talking by msn, facebook and texts more and more.We talk alot about things we want to do next year, she's going to get me to cook for her alot, every time I joke about letting her down, the amount of times i have to cook goes up and up. I'm also going to teach her the piano. We both want to spend more time together. Cooking and spending time together, but i would of thought 'just friends' would have had other friends being mentioned and plans more for the whole group kinda thing? No?Anyway, she was going out with someone last couple of terms but broke up when university ended. We weren't as close when she was with this other guy, but still friends. I never told her why and we've both put the less hanging out thing behind us.Back to the present and we're both looking forward to spending time tog. I'm texting her alot at her request (inc. morning texts) , we have nicknames for each other: silly private names, I call her 'my girl' or similar by text and she seems to like it, she'll text me for company not as if she has anything really to say.One text tonight (I've just said that I probably won't be in Soton at the same time as her so we probably couldn't see each other down there.) She wants to meet up some other time:" Damn, don't think I can do friday the 10th - ### and #### are taking me to ironbridgeYou free any other time?We can always go out sometime in freshers if not"I’m gonna text her today during her train journey for company.We said earlier:Me: "Yeah, drop me a text later when you're on the train then my girl. X"Her: "Will do ma boy"I love her, we know each very well and this feels like something new.What do you think? Still friends or something more?She's so genuine, beautiful, playful, great to be around, someone I truly get along with.It now feels like something new.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (4 September 2010):
 she definitely likes you. text her telling her than since you guys have been talking more you have grown to love her and would like her to know and hope she feels the same way.
Good luck!!
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reader, Blod +, writes (4 September 2010):
 So we know that the reason you talk to her so much is because she means so much to you. So why do you think she treats you the same? ;)
You definitely sound like more than friends to me. You want to spend more time together, just the two of you, and you're making an effort to keep in touch with her throughout the day. Plus if she liked you calling her your girl, I reckon it's because she likes the idea of being your girl. By what you've said, I think you two have potential. You sound like you're in the transition zone between friendship and a relationship. Good luck.
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reader, Goodguy84  +, writes (4 September 2010):
So grab your balls, man up and tell her how you truly feel, thats the only way I know. If yes great, if no, its will suck but life goes on. Just do it!
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