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*ashionista76
writes:I was with my boyfriend for one year and three months. He broke up with me because he found out I was constantly lying to him. I ended up seeking treatment and counseling for all my issues. When I was with my boyfriend, I lived with someone else that he didn't know about. I didn't love the man I lived with because he beat me but I was too abused to leave. When my boyfriend came into my life, I made the worse decision of my life to continue two relationships. After counseling, I realized I had serious self-esteem and abuse issues and realized that I really loved my boyfriend that treated me right. I really miss him and realize he was the one that I loved all along. I know it is too late. I have sent him several I am sorry emails, texts, phone calls, and he won't respond to me. He cut off all contact. The only time he did respond was to say that he was at the police station and if I needed to stop contacting him, calling him, texting him, because he was sorry but he couldn't be my friend and couldn't continue this relationship at all.I was devastated and still had hope for the relationship. I don't know why I keep hoping that he will answer or call me one day. What do you think? Why did he cut off all contact? Why won't he answer me?
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 He cut off contact cause he doesnt trust you anymore and doesnt feel that being in a relationship is good for him.
You need to give up and try to move on. Focus on yourself and get yourself strong again. You blew this up. Next time you will know to be different or you could lose something important. I hope this helps.
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