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I'm hearing stories about him and I don't know what to believe
Q. Hi, I really need to know what i should do.I'm in a 9 month relationship with a guy that is older than me.I have done the last hing for him. At first my parents didnt approve of our relationship (our families had a fall out) and i ran away from home ...
A. 3 July 2007: Most rumours turn out to be total rubbish in the end. But deep down what do you believe? I would stay with him and just see what else pops up. If you feel you cant cope with all of this, maybe it would be best to call it a day. That way its less ... (read in full...)
If women cheat on a man, could it be that something is missing in what he is able to give a relationship?
Q. If a man has had two women who he loved who cheated on him would you assume something is missing in what he is able to give to a relationship? This guy seems so emotionally detached....
A. 3 July 2007: No, it isnt the one who's been cheated on, its the cheater. They lack being faithful. And if it is your man you are talking about, take it slow and understand hes been heartbroken. He doesnt want it to happen again. Hes obviously having trust ... (read in full...)
I think he cheated before we got married
Q. Ive been married for a year and a half now. My husband and I are best friends. However, there was a point before we married when I felt that he had cheated on me while I was away studying. I sometimes still have this strong niggling feeling that he ...
A. 3 July 2007: Break it to him and ask him. Well if it was with one of your best friends, then thats low. But if he admits it, you can maybe put it behind you, at least you will then know, and its better him doing it then than doing it now. Although its not ... (read in full...)
My text-on-the-side has stopped texting--what gives?
Q. Let me start by saying - I'm married - but I love attention from attractive men. Recently, I have been text messaging with a man - he sent naughty pictures of himself and he wanted me to send pictures of myself (which I wouldn't). We'd been tex...
A. 3 July 2007: Well to be quite honest, a married woman shouldnt be texting other men, isnt it part of the vows to stay faithful? because it can be classed as emotionally cheating, it was abit of fun, he obviously has moved on, so stop and start thinking about ... (read in full...)
I used to like to have sex with fat girls, but now I want to move on
Q. I'm a cute guy but I hung out with FAT chicks and I invested so much on them to have sex with them and my question is: how do I get rid of them and find new friends?...
A. 3 July 2007: Well yeah, like Danielepew said, were not meant to be judgemental, but i cant help but say, you are one shallow person. And NOBODY will want to hang around with you after that, you cant just get rid of them like they are a piece of garbage, these ... (read in full...)
He has behaved badly and now my parents dont want me to see him!
Q. im so lost i need help!!! i am 18 and my boyfriend has just turned 22. We have been going out for 2 years and i love him very much. it was all very well with my family and both them and him were close. however they logged into my e mail and found ...
A. 3 July 2007: What on earth..? He spat in your face and grabbed your hair? Its completely disgusting! I totally understand where your parents are coming from here. You might still love him, but surely if you had self respect you would see that he doesnt respect ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years older than him... Is that bad?
Q. is 13 years older bad? Ive got chatting to a really sweet man but problem is he is 18 and im in my 30's, he wants to met up, im a bit unsure because of the age gap but he looks older then his age. any advice?...
A. 3 July 2007: Age differences dont matter, as long as the feelings are there. But if he has doubts about the age difference, it wont work out. You both have to be certain. 13 years isnt that much. But like danielepew said, you both have very different ... (read in full...)
I believe his exs are more pretty than me and I'm jealous! Does he really love me?
Q. i have a bf from 2 months i love him so much but iam very jealous from his old girlfriends i think they look more beautiful than me and much richer than me i dont know what i do i want to know if he really loves me?????...
A. 3 July 2007: He wouldnt be with you, like flowergirl said, if he didnt want to be, 2 months is a long time. Its not about looks or how much money you have, personality is the main thing. He probably does see you as beautiful as them, and even better. :)
And like... (read in full...)
Is it in his kiss?
Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...
A. 3 July 2007: Well if he really meant it, surely he would show it as well as say it. It seems like hes just saying it because you want to hear it.
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My Mom wants me to intervene in her fight with Dad, but I am afraid I will make it worse
Q. Im sorry this is a kinda long qiestion, my parents have been together for over 30 yrs, but a few weeks ago my father created an argument and walked out on us, my mother wants me to speak to him as she has tried but to no avail. Im not a child, I...
A. 3 July 2007: No way should your mother put you in that situation! Its completely unfair. Your mother and father should sort it out between themselves, they shouldnt be dragging you into it. I wouldnt say anything and tell your mother that to, as it is too much ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be tied down, but I feel an urge to have a baby!
Q. This is really weird. I'm nearly 16 and I've had sex twice with my boy-friend. My cousin is 18 and has a daughter and has just moved in with her boyfriend. My mum is a child minder so I see a few babies around the house sometimes. Recently I rea...
A. 3 July 2007: Carry on with the plans you have for future before you do get tied down with a child, get some money to support you first, then you can stand on your own two feet and feel secure to raise a baby, at least you'll have a roof over your heads and money ... (read in full...)
I am addicted to watching sex movies and yet i am only 12.
Q. Hi, I am addicted to watching sex movies and yet i am only 12. I am a girl as well, and i watch lesbian porn. I am the straightest of straightest girl ever but lesbian porn, turns me on. I am addicted to sex, but when my bofriend who is 2 years ...
A. 3 July 2007: First off, you're too young to be thinking about sex and so is your boyfriend. It does sound like your curious and you enjoy it, so if you are still curious, you are too young to be thinking about doing it yourself. You dont have a problem at all, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher... well it's an obsessive crush anyway!!
Q. I'm in love with a teacher - well i suppose it's an obsessive crush really! And the thing is, he appears kinda paranoid whenever i stare at him - which is literally whenever he steps outside the staff block! Right, i'm mad about him and i want him ...
A. 3 July 2007: Nope dont act on it, you cant do because like whats already been said, he could lose his job and it doesnt land you in a very good situation either. Although its really hard to deal with, you have to try and stay away from him, no matter how ... (read in full...)
I'm just not happy.....could it be depression again?
Q. I have been very fortunate in life but i feel that there is something missing which is preventing me from being happy. I never feel happy and am only relatively happy when im drunk. I often jst burst into tears and feel incredibly lonely even when ...
A. 3 July 2007: You probably are depressed. It seems from what you wrote you are. But like Penta said, people could just be putting on a brave face in front of others. Try talking to someone about it, a close friend or a professional couselor. It helps to get ... (read in full...)
Gay pride..what are your views?
Q. do you believe in gay pride? jw...
A. 2 July 2007: I definatly believe in Gay Pride. Many of my friends are gay, and i think they are the best people to hang around with, they're funny and witty, and ever so caring. Most of them are also very sensitive and find themselves ashamed of being gay, and ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl--is it normal that I like lesbian porn?
Q. I'm a female--is it normal for me to love and get very turned on by lesbian porn?...
A. 2 July 2007: Its nothing to be ashamed of, if you are bisexual. If you're not then, just carry on and enjoy yourself, whatever pleasures you. :) xxxx take careee love.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher! Help!
Q. i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...
A. 2 July 2007: I know exactly how you feel. Im in the same situation, and i havent told a SINGLE person about it. And with me and my big gob, im seriously surprised. :)
But i know what your going through and i know how hard it is, the teacher i like is in his ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my brother--help!
Q. I fell for my brother. My brother and I have been close since I was born. When I was 6, I was taken away from my mom and brothers, through a custody trial. Last summer I was able to reconnect with my brother, Tim. We now live together. We wer...
A. 2 July 2007: Woah, okay. Well, your brother being blood related, you must see somewhere along the lines its wrong and you cant do it. If you do plan to have children, because of you two being blood related, your genes will make your children deformed like ... (read in full...)
I am in love and am obsessed with my teacher! What can I do?
Q. I am in love with my teacher he is 26 years old and has a girlfriend but no kids i am 13 so he is only twice my age i have never felt this way about anybody before, i know what car he drives and even his regestration plate lol and im not obsessed ...
A. 2 July 2007: Yep, its totally common and like many people have posted on here, their crushes on teachers. You're not on your own hun. :) Atm, im going through the same, and like maryjane said, you cant act on it, and if it is supposed to happen it will, its just ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ''straight'' friend, who seems to like me too
Q. Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend whose straight. Well at least plays it off like she is. (She made out with our Lesbian friend who she knew was a lesbian when she kissed her and she definatley kissed back) There have been many times ...
A. 2 July 2007: Tell her that you've realised you're gay. See how she takes that news before telling you how you feel about her. That way she can see it as, you confiding in her as a best friend. If she doesnt take the news very well, then you know that she doesnt ... (read in full...)
I have always liked a girl who is now pregnant--should I chase her?
Q. Ok I'm new to this site but I was looking to see what people thought about this situation that has me trippin'. I met this one girl and I always liked her, but we never talked. I never tryed getting with her because she's my friend's little s...
A. 2 July 2007: I think its great, she knows that you are there and feel that way for her, just as long as you are ready to take on the responsibility and always stand by her throughout the pregnancy. Take it slow. :) Go for it. Good Luck. xxx... (read in full...)
Three nights ago he found out my age, now he's barely talking to me! Is he worth it?
Q. Heres the situation. Im 18 and I've been talkin to a guy online, we met last week and we got on real well. He's 32. I spoke to him 3 nights ago and he found out that I was 18. I've been texting him and talking to him online a bit but he's ba...
A. 29 June 2007: You've done nout wrong at all, you were truthful, he made the presumption, its his fault. Hes not worth bothering with babe. :) He doesnt like dating younger women obviously, you can find someone better, your own age and will treat you right. ... (read in full...)
I like this lad but he's my best friends brother...
Q. I was stayin at my best friends house recently when she decided that we should stay in her brother's room because he has a double bed. he came home and was fine with it he said he will just share the bed with us, I was fine because I have grown up ...
A. 29 June 2007: Talk to your friend about it first, if she has a problem then dont go there, it may be awkward to her, with her best friend dating her brother, but if she doesnt, go for it. Like Eve said, at least your best friend will know who hes dating, and she ... (read in full...)
Is an online romance still considered cheating?
Q. Is it okay to talk to a guy online that you have really come to enjoy talking to everyday and you could possibly see yourself with when you already have a b/f?...
A. 29 June 2007: Yes it is cheating, in a way, you have feelings for another man, the same feelings you have for your actual boyfriend. You imagine yourself being with this guy you met off the internet, that is a cyber relationship, its the same thing as an actual ... (read in full...)
How do I introduce her to my family?
Q. i am having an affair with a girl since from my seventh standard and im still having the relation with her and she loves me very much. she even says that nobody should come into my life except her. if i happen to leave her she says she will commit ...
A. 29 June 2007: That is total emotional blackmail, and slight obsession. You shouldnt have to spend the rest of your life with her. Theres no gain in it for you, it would be like slavery. Your not happy, theres no point at all. Theres alot for you to think about ... (read in full...)
I'm 58 and I'm with a 19 year old polish waitress. Am I just a silly old fool, and if so, should I call it a day?
Q. Last Christmas when I was out eating with friends they dared me to ask out a young Polish waitress. Now I'm 58(and Single) and I was amazed when she said yes.I later found out she is 19. We had a tremendous time and I've been seeing her ever since. ...
A. 29 June 2007: Shes old enough to make her choices. She seems to be in love with you as well. So go for it and have fun! Your not a silly old fool at all. But all i can warn you about, like everyone else, is make sure she isnt using you. :) Take care. xxxx... (read in full...)
I'm in a secret relationship with an older man--should I be afraid of the law?
Q. Please help me--I am in a 1 year 7 month secret relationship with a 31 year old man. We love each other to bits. Can he get in trouble with the police if my parents go to the police? And we both want to try for a baby--can he get in trouble ...
A. 29 June 2007: Well, you have to be 16 and over to have sex, so on that face, the law cant touch you at all. Although, you having a child, it IS your decision, but like DV1 said, your still a child yourself, your not classed as an adult until you are 18. Having a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is 17 years older than I--I worry about how other people see us!
Q. I'm dating a man 17 years older than me. I really like this guy but sometimes I wonder how people view us as a couple. I think it personally doesn't matter but I would like to know what other peoples' views on this are? ...
A. 29 June 2007: Age differences dont matter! Its the love that counts between the 2 of you. If people judge you, and they cant see that your both adults then their opinions dont matter. :) xxxx... (read in full...)
I love the stimulating conversation with my teacher but I'm confused about where we stand
Q. I have been in love with my history teacher for three years now. I had him for one year (sophomore year) and afterwards I was a teacher's cadet for the other two. Since I was sixteen our relationship has grown a lot intellectually and emotionally, ...
A. 29 June 2007: Your not the only one in this situation, or that has been in this situation, so dont worry. In fact, im in this situation right now, with my Religious Studies teacher. And like you, we have a connection. But, there is very little that can be done, ... (read in full...)
I want to meet my Irish boy without my parents knowing. What can I do?
Q. I met this boy, on Habbo Hotel a popular chatroom for teenagers, i am 12 years old and he is 13 he lives in Ireland and we got on really well, we started going out a while ago its a hard relationship because, i am from england and he is from Ireland ...
A. 29 June 2007: Meeting people over the internet is really unsafe. Habbo is a pretty awesome site though, but surely its too soon, and too far away. How would you even get there for a start? Without your parents knowing. What if something were to happen to you? And... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual but I don't know how to pleasure a girl
Q. im a 17 year old girl. recently finding out im bisexual. i really like this girl i have been kissing. she wants me to stay over at her new house next weekend, the thing is. ive never slept with a girl before and im scared i do it wrong and she gets ...
A. 29 June 2007: First times always the hardest, like flower girl said, tell her that it is your first time. Take it slow. Dont panic. xxxx :)... (read in full...)
How can I tell her "nicely" (for her own good) to lose some weight?
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are both in our early 20s. We have been dating for over a year and we love each other very much. There is one small issue. She has been gaining a few pounds and doesn't seem to be that concerned about it. She doesn't ...
A. 29 June 2007: =o! There isnt a nice way of saying 'lose weight'... to a woman thats extremely offensive, and self esteem wont be boosted either. You say you love her, so what if she gains a few pounds? Like Beckto said, if your that bothered about it, suggest ... (read in full...)
I see him actually having sex with someone else. What do these dreams mean?
Q. My name's Summer. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. In my past relationships, I was abused, cheated on...and lets say I haven't got the greatest trust issues. Latley I've been having all kinds of dreams about him. Such as him cheating on ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hmm, well this is a hard one. Well its totally understandable you having trust issues! I would as well. Well, these dreams probably dont mean anything, yet i wouldnt be too certain, ask him about it, gently, tell him about your past relationships if ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clear to them that I JUST want to be friends.
Q. Oi, I need help, aunts! Okay. Let me start off by saying I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love very much, and who loves me. We are happy together, and things are going smoothly. My relationship at home is not my problem. However, I'm sta...
A. 29 June 2007: Your commitment to your boyfriend is outstanding. Hes a very lucky guy. Just be straight with the other geezer, tell him that your not prepared to cheat on your boyfriend and you want to be friends, thats all. And your not prepared to throw a good ... (read in full...)
Why am I always attracted to guys much older than myself?
Q. Hi, I've always been attracted and have dated pretty much always older guys, far older than me. Like I'm 18 but the guys I date are around 30 of age. Why is that? Is there a reason why I'm attracted to older guys?...
A. 29 June 2007: Yep, its because of them being more mature and more experienced. I'm exactly the same. The guys around my age and your age, are total prats and cant take a serious situation to heart. They're immature and idiotic. Dont worry about it. :] xx... (read in full...)
Is the age gap ok??
Q. I've fallen for this 14 year old girl. I'm 16. i'm not too sure about the age gap, what you guys think? How can i ask her out or meet her without embarrassing myself coz if she rejects me she will tell her friends which will be hell for me as they ...
A. 29 June 2007: Go you. Its not wrong at all. Many older guys have younger girlfriends. About the loud mouths, well. Who cares what they say? Immature. Admit it, be honest, dont care. :] ... (read in full...)
Is this guy into me or is he just stringing me along?
Q. So i Met this guy on myspace a few weeks ago and he then added me on MSN and we spoke atleast 4-5 hours a day on it to get to know each other. we've met up and i know what he looks like and who he is. im 14 and hes 15 and we both live pretty close ...
A. 29 June 2007: I dont think hes stringing you along. He does need time to get over his previous relationship first. If he went out with you straight away, then i would be worried, because you could be the rebound, let him get his head together and when he feels ... (read in full...)
I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now!
Q. I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now! I think we were good mates but found out she really fancies my best mate. My best mate has already got girlfriend and hates her. She's used me a lot to get to him, my friend told me everything ...
A. 29 June 2007: Well, i know how that feels also, but like whats been said hate is a very strong word, and everybody says it when they're angry. Thats completely fair enough. All you can do is just stay well out of her way, it will take a while to get over ... (read in full...)
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