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... Send *IE-romantic. a private message | | | *IE-romantic.'s profile:Hello, I'm Kelly, I haven't been on for a while, but I'm back haha; I'm sixteen, I'm single and I have been for a while, it doesn't really bother me all that much; I've been through alot of relationship experiences though, and I know my fair share about forbidden love, so I may be able to help more with those topics than some others; But I will help as much as I can on all;
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Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?"
Q. Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?" We were talking about teenagers for some reason and he said that but didn't go into their body parts or saying anything sexual about them. He babysits his 8 year ...
A. 16 August 2007: That is very disturbing of a man to say that about teenage girls. Id pull him up about it. Yet, i do agree that he could just mean they look good as in older than their actual age. xxx... (read in full...)
I have fallen for the guy my best friend likes
Q. i haven fallen for the guy my best friend likes! i mean fallen hard- i dnt want to hurt her, or lose her! me n this guy hooked up a couple of times but the second i found out how much she liked him i backed off (i knew she used to have a thing for ...
A. 16 August 2007: Well it sounds like hes a waste of space to be honest, playing you to pass time to get with her. I really wouldnt waste time with him, it is a hard situation though so i can understand, i realise your concern when you say that you want her to be ... (read in full...)
I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?
Q. I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...
A. 16 August 2007: You cant do much, because he would lose his job and you wouldnt be in a very good situation. So really, as i know what its like, i understand, but you cant do anything. Like duskyrowe said, you can only admire him from a distance. Tak... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 4 August 2007: Whatever you do, do not stop eating entirely, it doesnt work in the long run to be honest. As previous answerers have said, your body eats itself because of you not eating, it does this to keep you alive, your boobs do shrink, and if you kept this ... (read in full...)
Is it just a crush or something more?
Q. Ok, this is my first time doing this, and i am pretty nervous about who is going to read this, but i've read a lot of other answers and such, and the people seem to be really understanding so here goes. Well, this summer i met this girl from pol...
A. 27 July 2007: I think its much more, theres an obvious physical attraction, and she obviously feels alot for you. Although, I agree with dropping a hint to her, see how she reacts and then you can see if you really do feel that way for her, take it slow and see ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, bisexual but I like older women.
Q. Hi, my problem is I am bisexual, but prefer older women, (I am 17). I really like my friends mum(50) the other day I went round to my friends house when I knew she wasn't in, but her mum was. I invited myself in, and we had a chat and a coffee. I we...
A. 27 July 2007: Hm. It would be quite awkward for your friend. :S Although she is single, its really dangerous circumstances, you could lose your friend and arguments will start between your friend and her mum. I doubt that its worth it.
Although it is entirely... (read in full...)
What are the chances that i will bleed the first time we have sex?
Q. Hey, me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex. I wanted to know how much of a chance there is that I will bleed? I've never had sex or done anything sexual with anyone else before. I've heard that the hymen can be broken by exercise... well ...
A. 27 July 2007: You probably will bleed, but like Just a Girl said, everyone is different. But there is more chance of you bleeding the first time.
Take care love :) xxxx... (read in full...)
Is this normal? Am I still a virgin?
Q. hi! i have a question... today, my boyfriend and I were just watching tv. then, things led to another, and he started fingering me. im a virgin, so it hurt, and felt good at the same time. then, when everything was done i realized i was bleeding. it ...
A. 27 July 2007: I believe that you're still a virgin, because your boyfriend hasnt properly penetrated you yet, but I do agree with happytochat, there are many views on whether you're still a virgin, but my personal opinion, yes you are. :)
You're bleeding beca... (read in full...)
I love her, but I'm not in love. Should I stay, or should I end it with her?
Q. I've been in a relationship with a very sweet woman for almost 2 years now. It's the same old cliche: I love her but I'm not "in love" with her. I care for her very much, but i've never felt "in love" with her or felt any deep passion for this ...
A. 27 July 2007: There's a huge difference between loving someone and being in love with someone i agree, if you are not happy in this relationship then there isnt much point, but i can see how hard it is, because shes a lovely woman, so i would break it to her as ... (read in full...)
We want a secret marriage, hes 21 I'm 18 is this okay ?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have a secret marriage..without the knowledge of anyone..im only 18 years old ang my boyfriend is 21 year old.. do you think its ok???...
A. 27 July 2007: Well you can have a secret marriage when you're 18. So its perfectly okay.
:) xxxx... (read in full...)
Its 7 years on and Im still thinking about her, do I tell her and risk the friendship ?
Q. I'm 24 years old and have been friends with this girl since high school. We both kind of mentioned to each other back in high school how we liked each other, but she had a boyfriend at the time so nothing ever came of it. Flash forward 7 years and ...
A. 27 July 2007: I really think its about time you tell her my friend. :) If its 7 years on and you still feel the same, then definatly! If shes admitted liking you before, then their probably is a chance but if she doesnt feel the same, surely she wont want to ... (read in full...)
My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!
Q. my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...
A. 27 July 2007: I agree with the previous answerers to be honest, although i do appreciate what you're going through, but her mum is dying and she may not have long left at all, so understandably she wants to spend her remaining time with her daughter. And i agree, ... (read in full...)
Im falling for my best friend, but feel I'm too young for these feeling, what should I do ?
Q. I'm Falling For My Bestfriend and i know she has fellings for me....Last friday we had a pillow fight (like normal) she was dead hyper and so was i she kept pushing me on top of her...I felt strange and she keeps telling me she loves me...I think im ...
A. 27 July 2007: Your not too young at all, you start developing crushes at this stage, and believe me, ive been in this situation before with my best friend who was also a girl, i began to believe i was bi-sexual, theres nothing wrong with it at all, you go through ... (read in full...)
Is ten years too big a difference?
Q. There is 10 years difference between myself and my girlfriend. She is 47 and I'm 37. She has been married and divorced but has no kids. I'm not sure if I still want kids. I do care for her and enjoy being with her, but don't know if 10 years is...
A. 27 July 2007: Of course its not. I, personally dont see the problem with any age gap, if the love is there it shouldnt matter. If you dont notice the problem while you are with her, then there shouldnt be a problem. At 47 though she is pushing it if she wants ... (read in full...)
I hate cheaters, but now I have become one!
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. he lives over 200 miles away from me and i only see him about once a month. i get lonely a lot of the time which makes me interested in lads more. I've always been against cheating and ...
A. 24 July 2007: Im against cheating too but i admit doing it once before and i regret it, so i can recognise where you are coming from. I agree with Dr Pete where he says that this relationship cant carry on as normal, and its obviously not meant to be. But i woul... (read in full...)
After we lost our viginity to each other-she stopped talking to me! Any advice?
Q. hey i have been with my gf for nearly a year now and we lost our virginity's to each other the other day and now she wont talk to me ,what have i done wrong i didn't force her into it and i made sure she was ready plz help ...
A. 24 July 2007: Confront her and ask her whats up. She may feel abit funny about it.
xxxx :) Good Luck.... (read in full...)
How can I relax more when I have sex?
Q. Hi I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin and am worried that I may have trouble losing it as I'm quite shy and also when I have tried before I have either not been able to penetrate or sustain an erection.. please help.....
A. 24 July 2007: I agree with YummyMummy. It will happen in good time and your girlfriend may be able to help.
xxxxxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to make love but my ex wants mad sex! Who do I choose?
Q. hey i need advice how do i decide between my boyfriend and my ex??? i'm a virgin n i really love my boyfriend n my ex. i think i'm ready to go all the way but the problem is i want them both to b my first...i kno its not possible but i cant decid...
A. 24 July 2007: Making love is more meaningful, and it shows he cares & he respects you more than wanting 'mad sex'.
Stick with your boyfriend.
xxxx... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?
Q. hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...
A. 24 July 2007: I think your mom is right you know.
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!
Q. i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...
A. 24 July 2007: Dont be forced into this, its entirely upto you, and if your ready to have the responsibility of a kid, although if he did get you pregnant, he can be arrested and locked up. Your still a child yourself love, do you really want to be tied down with ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity
Q. i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that ...
A. 24 July 2007: Virginity isnt like a toy, once you lose it, you lose it forever, part of your childhood, its something that should be lost with someone special and who you sincerely love, not just for the sake of it, and you are way too young. But ive never heard ... (read in full...)
I bleed every time we have sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex and everytime we do, I end up bleeding! I thought it was normal the first time but now I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me because I always start bleeding whenever we try to have ...
A. 24 July 2007: I agree with LauraE maybe it happened too fast? Perhaps talk to your GP or something about it, then he can tell you whats wrong and what can be done about it.
:) Good Luck xxxx... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my 17 year old boyfriend and I had sex; he said he'd pull out when he came but I don't think he did it fast enough. Could I be pregnant?
Q. hiya im a 13 year old girl,and i lost my virginity to my 17 year old boyfriend on saturday but we didnt use a condom!and now im scared incase im pregnant!!befor we had sex he said that befor cuming in my vagina he will remove his penis but im not to ...
A. 24 July 2007: Well, your too young to be having sex, and he could be done for it, but anyway, get a pregnancy test, and if you are pregnant, tell him and talk about it, and i would tell your parents, that way you can decide whether to keep it or not together.
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Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?
Q. is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...
A. 24 July 2007: Well i'd agree that a birthday card is more traditional than virginity. But, it says that your between 16-17? You are allowed to now, your at the age. But 3 months isnt long enough, then again its upto you babe. :)
xxx Good Luck.... (read in full...)
What's the youngest age to fall in love?
Q. What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well its unlikely that you fully know what love feels like, but that doesnt mean that you dont feel alot for him, not getting him out of your mind, is a sign of strong feelings. Maybe not love, but its just as important, and if you truly do like ... (read in full...)
My friend and I both like the same guy and he likes me, not her! Should I go out with him?
Q. My best friend likes this guy, but he likes me, not her. I like him too. So should I go out with him, or not? My best friend says I can, but I'm not sure......
A. 23 July 2007: Ooo boy do i know what this is like! Its just that it was the other way around, i wasnt the one that the guy liked and my friend went out with him regardless of how i felt, and i did stop speaking to her, not because of him, but because of the way ... (read in full...)
When's the best time to have children? During college or after?
Q. so i've been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and we plan on getting married in the future. we also plan on having kids. but the problem is. i dont know when is the right time to have kids?? during college? or after?...
A. 23 July 2007: After most definatly, because you become pregnant while still at college, it may put you off and stop you getting the grades you want. Have a child after then you can fully concentrate on that. ... (read in full...)
My 16 year old son is very verbally abusive with me! How do I deal with him?
Q. i feel very embarrased about having to ask for some advice on here regarding my 16 year old son. whenever he doesnt get his own way or he is in a bad mood he is becoming very verbally abusive with me, by calling me names such as dickhead and slut ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well, i dont know what advise i can give on this one, although im not like that with my mother, so i dont know and cant try and tell you where hes coming from, but as an outsider, my opinion is that his father has passed his behaviour onto him, and ... (read in full...)
Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?
Q. None of the boys on my year seem to like me because I have ginger hair. I also really like this one boy. How do I get the boy I'm after?? Please help...
A. 23 July 2007: Well then these people are just pathetic, and not worth bothering with. If the guy you like, isnt one of these people that would judge you because of something silly like your hair colour, then go for it. If he does, then hes not worth bothering ... (read in full...)
Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?
Q. Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ...
A. 23 July 2007: Why on earth would she do something like that? Thats a serious thing, if she can lie about something like that, what else is she capable of lying about? Get out, she cant be trusted love. Take care xxxx... (read in full...)
Do people just come out with spontaneous compliments sometimes?
Q. Hi all, this is just something that bothered me while my girlfriend and I were together, and kind of still does. (Very quickly: We were together for 2 years, separated by 200+ miles, broke up 3 weeks ago) Anyway, we'd be on the phone sometimes,...
A. 23 July 2007: Of course she could of. Shes just not a very nice person, and people like that, dont. Its choice. You really are lucky to be rid mate, find somebody who will treat you with the respect that she never did. Take care xxxx... (read in full...)
I'd love to open my own hair salon before my time runs out; am I too old? Is this a crazy idea?
Q. hi there everyone I no this is a relationship advice site but i have a small question... I am currently a receptionist and to be honest i am tired of my job and i am contempating starting my own business. I am 24 and i thinking of going in to the ...
A. 23 July 2007: Of course your not too old! it really is a perfect age! Its not too late, if you dont have qualifications, you can get them still, sign up to your nearest college, its great that you have a dream job and you know what you want in job aspects! Go for ... (read in full...)
I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?
Q. Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of ...
A. 23 July 2007: I really think that she does you know! :) Aww, i would say go for it! If shes said that twice, i agree, she really does think its a date. Awww i hope it works out. Good luckkk xxxx :)... (read in full...)
Does my tutor fancy me?
Q. Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A week or two ago was t...
A. 23 July 2007: I would say he does like you, but he does have a girlfriend. You are old enough to have a relationship with him now, and the law can't really touch you, but i would wait until you leave school to be absolutely sure and certain that you can be ... (read in full...)
He thinks of me as his cute little sister, but I want more than his brother love
Q. I am inlove with this boy that is two years older then me and i feel like he thinks of me as his little cute sister how do i change his opinion of me?...
A. 23 July 2007: Try telling him how you feel about him, and ask him how he really feels about you, and if you both like each other that way then go for it! But i do agree with the previous answer, would you rather have a really great 'brotherly love' friendship or ... (read in full...)
My close guy friend distanced himself after I found a bf..why?
Q. Hello- I a fairly sure that one of my best friends has abandoned our friendship because I am no longer single. I will describe the situation and perhaps you all can tell me what you think. I met this man several years ago while in college. We bot...
A. 23 July 2007: I agree with the past two answerers. Hes obviously in love with you, but he knows you dont feel the same way so this is hurting him even more, he cant be around you because its too painful. Give him time, he may come back when he see's that your ... (read in full...)
I blocked contact with her for 4 months; now I want to be friends again and she's not interested, what can I do?
Q. hey, i blocked contact from a close friend about 4 months ago and just recently unblocked her a couple of weeks ago. she doesnt like me anymore and doesnt want to be friends. ive wrote her poems and such .but no luck. i realy like this person alot ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well there must of been a good reason to block her, if there wasnt a good reason then no wonder she isnt talking to you now, if you really want to talk to her again, try talking to her face to face if she lives nearby. Get her to understand why you ... (read in full...)
MY mum won't let me stay at my bf's place! How can I persuade her to change her mind?
Q. I'm 16, my mum knows me and my boyfriend have sex, she wont let me stay round his house, ive tried everything! She let me stay round once on new years, its his birthday in 2 weeks and i have to stay round! Ive written letters, begged, threatened! ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well you are at the age of having sex, so if you did have sex she couldnt do anything, but you ARE still living in her house, and it is her rules to be honest. Try winning her round, by helping out alot round the house.
Good luck babe xxxx... (read in full...)
Can I ask my sister if I can kiss her? Any advice?
Q. Hi, I am 5 years younger than my sister. I find her attractive. i have never kissed or anything with anyone. Can i ask her to kiss me? If so how far can this go?...
A. 23 July 2007: Hormones babe, does your sister even know how you feel?
You cant do this, it is against the law chick, try and forget about it.
Best wishes xxx... (read in full...)
Would it be a sin or illegal to be with my first cousin?
Q. Ok, over the past few years me and my first cousin and i have gone really close and want to go further she lives kind of far and we talk time to time but i am afrain my family will not accept me. What should i do? and also is this a sin if we have ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well, she being your 1st cousin, its against the law because your related by blood. I dont know about sinful though, but its certainly against the law.
xxx... (read in full...)
I caught my partner having sex with my sister-in-law; can I ever put it behind me?
Q. i caught my partner having sex with my brothers wife! he said it was a mistake and begged me to forgive him. A year has passed, we have moved from the UK to NZ to start again, we are happy but i still have this image of them both and just dont ...
A. 23 July 2007: Oh my, that is something that is unforgiveable and unforgetable. Well it depends how different people would react to this, but it seems like its something that could haunt you forever, i know it would certainly haunt me forever. Its whether you can ... (read in full...)
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