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Typical dating timeline?

Q.   I have been talking with a guy for a few weeks now. Having never been in a real relationship before I am unaware of the “typical dating timeline.” So far we have made out and done a bit clothes-on fondling, but nothing else. I really want him to ...

A.   31 January 2009: Hello :-) There is no dating 'timeline' as such. It really all just depends on the two of you and when it feels right and natural to move on to doing more. For me personally, I always feel that I should have been with the boy for around a m... (read in full...)

Why can't I get over someone I have never had?

Q.   I feel such an idiot writing this. I'm not sure how to even start this. I like my teacher, alot. Wow like I have never heard that before. I haven't told anyone about my obsession, about how I spend every living second thinking of ways to get h...

A.   11 January 2009: Please message me we're in a similar situation, i think... xx... (read in full...)

Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral

Q.   A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...

A.   26 October 2008: Well I think that you have to tell him - what are your other options? Either you tell him, your boyfriends 'mate' tells him and will make it look like it was your fault, or you have to go with his friend! Just tell the truth. If you two trust ea... (read in full...)

I'm worried my height is inadequate for my future career as a model! Help me stay positive?

Q.   All i want to do is model and people tell me I look like a model and I`m really slim ,but I`m not tall enough.Its really getting me down .I am only 15 and everyone says I might still be growing but its getting me down. Any advice on how to try an...

A.   2 October 2008: At 15, yes you still have time to grow. how tall are you exactly? You have to be 5'9 for catwalk modelling and something like 5'7 for photoshoots for most of the big agencies, however if you wanted to do a different type of modelling you might be... (read in full...)

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to be!

Q.   Cut a long story short, i am madly in love with my geography teacher. i am a 17 year old Bisexual (very nearly 18!) female and she is 25 years old and apprently also bisexual (but this has never been confirmed although i do get what some will say ...

A.   25 September 2008: I am in the complete exact same situation as you here, except my teacher is male. message me if you like, i know how this feels. xx... (read in full...)

Do guys like short girls?

Q.   do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?...

A.   6 August 2008: :0 What about us tall girls? Why is it that there's always some kind of reverse discrimination on these issues... I'm constantly meade to feel like shit because I'm tall and thin and then I read these things from people who are small or overweig... (read in full...)

Should I tell my teacher he was of great help in person or through a card?

Q.   i've posted lots of answers on this site (mainly to the 'my teacher' questions i'll admit!) but right now, i'm the one who needs some help. i've liked my physics teacher for about 1 year and a month now but I just found out i'm not going to hav...

A.   10 July 2008: aww im sorry to hear you won't be getting him next year! that's not to say you can't pop in to speak to him sometimes though :-) glad to hear you're not considering telling him how you feel though, that's refreshing to hear. I think it's a lovely... (read in full...)

I gave my teacher a letter explaining my feelings, but he has not opened it, I'm worried he won't...

Q.   I love my teacher, but he see's right through me. I think he knows to some extend I love him, yet he ignores me and doesn't act so friendly with me. He always acts friendly to others, and blanks me out. I don't know what to do anymore; because it ...

A.   10 July 2008: awww i feel for you! If you think your teacher knows how you feel and yet he still ignores you, it's probably because he's trying to send you the message that nothing can happen between you two. Male teachers get very panicky about this type of ... (read in full...)

Does my teacher have a crush on me?

Q.   i'm in seventh grade now but, i still have a crush on my sixth grade science teacher i think he likes me does anyone else? details:i think he likes me because he's always talking to me, smiling at me and when he high fives me he like holds my hand. ...

A.   24 June 2008: Hmm I dunno... just from what you've said there, that sounds as if he may just be being friendly. Some male teachers are just like that. How old is he and how old are you? x... (read in full...)

Rules to dating a teacher? are there any?

Q.   Okay, does anybody know the rules of dating a teacher? like, after you graduate and are 18, can you date them, or do you have to wait, will they automatically be fired if you are thier previous student?...

A.   16 June 2008: Eyeswideopen, just out of interest, what do you define as a totally professional relationship? x... (read in full...)

Is it possible that I could make this a good relationship?

Q.   There is a guy that i have been talking to and i can tell that he is falling for me and, in a way, i am falling for him as well. He's your average guy and he's just sweet, but there is one problem: I have feelings for my teacher. I have liked t...

A.   13 June 2008: Hey I was in the same position as you... madly in love with my teacher, but at the same time there was a boy i'd always liked, and i had a feeling he liked me too. wasn't planning on acting on it, as I rarely thought about the boy in compariso... (read in full...)

My teacher is amazing I like him.. HELP!

Q.   help! I am a 17 year old female and my teacher is in his mid-30s and I like him. I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if he likes me, he used to be really cool with me and treat me normally (sometimes kinda weird.. but I guess he's jus...

A.   22 May 2008: Collaroy, I think that was some of the best advice I've seen on this issue, and I am one of the girls who has (unfortunately) developed feelings for her teacher. Thanks, Im actually really gonna listen to that. :-) x... (read in full...)

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

Q.   I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...

A.   14 April 2008: Oh my god, Im literally in the same thing here :0 It's heart breaking isn't it x... (read in full...)

Should I tell my teacher I like him when I leave school??

Q.   Well I kind of like one of my teachers. He is a good bit older than me but I really like him but he is married. I never want to get him into trouble or anything but I want him to know but I guess he already does because of ny friends blurting it out ...

A.   2 March 2008: Tell him when you leave, yeah. Ive debated it long and hard, and I can't see any harm in telling him how you feel if you're leaving. At least then you'll have some closure on the situation. Depending on your relationship now with him, he'll... (read in full...)

Anyone ever have a crush on a teacher?

Q.   Just wondering, have any of you had a crush on a teacher?...

A.   31 January 2008: Have you actually read any past posts on this site? Virtually everyone seems to have had at one point lol x... (read in full...)

Student and teacher flirtations...

Q.   Hey! Well im slightly puzzled and annoyed at the fact that so many people on the site always say us girlies - omg! u will mkae him loose his job this that and the next thing, or that we are totally imaginin things that are there and there is no wa...

A.   19 December 2007: I completely agree with you. *Nods* I think people on this site seem to forget that teachers are humans too, and that the average 15/16/17 year old girl does not look, and in most cases, does not act like a child. Teachers DO flirt wit... (read in full...)

Are there any teachers out there.

Q.   Hi, I am 13 years old and would like to ask any teacher for advice, I have a crush on one of my teachers and I am annoyed with it, I know that love will never prosper when it comes to pupil teachers,but, Have you any advice on what I should do...

A.   9 November 2007: Private message me! I'm in a sort of relationship with a teacher, I'll try and help you out! x... (read in full...)

How does dressing reflect (homo)sexuality?

Q.   my 17 year old son wears his jean really low down with his boxers showing and a short t shirt. Does this mean he is gay or has problems with his sexuality?...

A.   21 September 2007: No it doesn't!! That's a really popular style at the moment, loads of people are doing it, and its starting to cross over into female modern fashion as well. Means nothing honestly, just that your son's following a trend :D... (read in full...)

I discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting a known cruising place, a place where guys meet to have anonymous sex. He's told me to trust him but how can I? What do I do here????

Q.   I’ve been dating this guy for the last 5 months and I really love and care about him. Last month, I discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting a known cruising place, a place where guys meet to have anonymous sex. I know he had been there a...

A.   22 February 2007: That all sounds very suspect to me. Personally I wouldn't believe him. It depends on you as a person as to whether you want to stay with him, but just remember DO NOT LET ANYONE TREAT YOU LIKE A FOOL!!!!! As Askeve said, the first thing is bad eno... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   19 February 2007: You really need to stop worrying. Nobody really cares about age differences, particularly when they're only like... 5 years. ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel like "Billy-No-Mates?"

Q.   I am supposed to be getting married in two months time. What is the problem. Well, we have both been married before. He has been married twice before. We both had the big wedding stuff in the past and don't want it now. or i thought i didn't! He has ...

A.   19 February 2007: Like everyone's said, just tell him!!! Start your marriage like you mean to go on by being open with him...... (read in full...)

Both married to other people and having an affair. Is this just a disaster waiting to happen?

Q.   This might take me a few to sort through,to the actual question. Few basics,I am married ,been married 19 years now,been through alot,husband is 10 years older then me,have 2 boys ,both grown and gone now,Husband has cheated on me 3 times in th...

A.   17 February 2007: Whoa, hang on a minute... why are you staying in the relationship with your husband??? Regardless of whether you are having an affair or not, I hardly think it's fair to stay with this man if there's no attraction between you. I know it will be hard ... (read in full...)

My teacher is getting too close for comfort! I think he fancies me and it's freaking me out!

Q.   Ok well... I am 16, and I am in my last year at school. I will be leaving school this summer. Basically my problem is that I think my teacher and I have some kind of weird relationship that neither of us really understand but it's kind of just ...

A.   11 February 2007: Lol, I'm not 13-15, I'm 16 I dunno why it's coming up as that. Not that it makes much difference anyway. I know that what you are all saying is right. But it hurts so much to think about him like that. I know you probably all think I'm just som... (read in full...)

My teacher is getting too close for comfort! I think he fancies me and it's freaking me out!

Q.   Ok well... I am 16, and I am in my last year at school. I will be leaving school this summer. Basically my problem is that I think my teacher and I have some kind of weird relationship that neither of us really understand but it's kind of just ...

A.   10 February 2007: Hey everyone thx for the advice.... I really don't know how I feel!!! I have always had very strong feelings for him, it will be hard to just turn them off just like that. I accept what you're saying about him being a pedo, and I know that th... (read in full...)

Haven't had a serious bf in 3 years and it's getting me real down! Any ideas?

Q.   hi im 22 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend for 3 years ive been on dates but nothing serious but now its really getting me down everyone says how attractive i am and funny and all my mates say they cant belive never met anyone but know ...

A.   9 February 2007: I have a lot of the same trouble as you... I am a jeans model so I know I must be at least slightly attractive and I get a lot of male attention, however no one ever makes a move on me!!! I think sometimes men are intimidated by women, and you ... (read in full...)

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