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SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 22 July 2007: I would love to. :) I log on every day, and would be absolutely delighted to help out.
Take care, let me know.
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He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?
Q. I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take ...
A. 19 July 2007: Maybe he just is genuinly busy? He wouldnt text you all that stuff and kiss you if he just decided he wanted to brush you off to be honest. Its just pointless really. So dont worry. Arrange another day if he cant make it. :)
Good luck xxxxx... (read in full...)
I am in love with my teacher. How can I get through summer holidays without him?
Q. Right i'm in the most awful, emotionally-depressive situation. Now as you're reading this you'll think that by my first sentence i'm over-exaggerating! But trust me, if you are or have been in a similar experience to this then you'll hopefull...
A. 19 July 2007: You know, im having to go through exactly the same thing here, snap! I know EXACTLY how you feel as well, because its sending me through a deep depression too, and other people dont realise how it can affect different, different ways, people say ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me what love can do to you?
Q. Can someone explain to me what love can do to you? I've been reading many things on the internet about love and how seretin or somthing can decrease and how men don't have as much testosterone as normal. Is this true or just false? I have been wi...
A. 17 July 2007: Love can make you feel overwhelmed with emotion, and for that one special person, words cannot even begin to explain the way you feel for them. When you see them, you feel a rush and your heart beats twice as fast, your legs go weak and you feel ... (read in full...)
I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.
Q. Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...
A. 17 July 2007: Two years isnt much difference at all!! Its only inappropiate if you have sex with her. As shes younger.
Try it out.
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Why are my ears ringing?
Q. I hear something in my ear, its like a ringing noise. It goes on and off. What should I do? Could it be a bug?...
A. 17 July 2007: Its not a bug, ive had it before, you need to have it checked out and the doctor will tell you to go and get your ears syringed. Its probably a blockage of ear wax further down in your ears. ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous if my partner kisses someone else as part of an acting class?
Q. My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous? ...
A. 17 July 2007: I dont think you should be jealous, but i can see why your uncomfortable with it. I would be as well. Dont say anything and just be supportive, it depends on how much you trust your partner, if you feel you cant trust him, maybe you could talk to ... (read in full...)
We broke up 5 months ago. Should I try to straighten things out with her?
Q. its been 5 months since me and my girlfriend broke up. it was a pretty bad breakup and i havnt seen her or talked to her since. she now has a facebook account and i dont know if i should try to talk to her and try to straighten things out between ...
A. 17 July 2007: I would try and sort things out and make her realise that theres no hard feelings, because theres nothing worse than a vengeful ex. Hope it works out. =]
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I am 15 and dating a 27 year old
Q. i am turning 15 and i am dating a 27 yr old i dont know how to tell my parents i really love him...
A. 17 July 2007: Be careful because he could be already attached and using you, i would tell your parents, for your own safety to be honest, i know you may love him but hes way older and probably already has a wife or girlfriend. Be careful, its upto you, but i ... (read in full...)
I'm happily married but I've had this crush on a female co-worker for a long time.
Q. I'm happily married but I've had this crush on a female co-worker for a long time. How do I make it go away? ...
A. 8 July 2007: Crushes and love are two very different things, would you plan to break up your marriage just for a crush?
Try and steer clear of her, keep it a proffesional relationship. Dont risk your marriage.
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My straight friend who has a girlfriend made out with me; I like him but I don't want to hurt anyone
Q. I am a comfortably gay 24 year old male. Recently I met a 23 year old straight male that I have hung out with a couple times and really have come to like (both as a friend but also am strongly attracted to him). We were out late last weekend and he ...
A. 8 July 2007: I think its wrong of him to be honest. He kissed you, and hes supposed to be straight. Although i would steer clear and not act any further on this. Stay friends with him, but try and get over the attraction you have on him. Somebody right will come ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher
Q. I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher. I'm 12 and he's in his 20s. It's been about a year since i started liking him. Everytime i see him he always says hi and asks how i am. I blush whenever he talks to me. My friends say that he's a perv but i ...
A. 8 July 2007: Its completely normal. Ive had crushes on teachers before, and theres nothing wrong with it.
Just dont act on it really.
Over time you'll get over it, trust me.
:)
Hope it works out okay. xxxx... (read in full...)
She's has been having a relationship with her bf's father! How do I tell her daughter?
Q. Just found out that my daughter is having a relationship with her partners father. How the hell are we going to explain to her two year old daughter that mummies new boyfriend is her Grandad. Just can't get my head around this, has anyone else had ...
A. 8 July 2007: I agree with flower girl really, its not illegal and shes at the age where she can do what she wants. Although i can understand how hard it is, so i also agree that she should tell her daughter, as really its her own mess. But if she is happy, then ... (read in full...)
What do I do about this flirty 14 year old girl, who has a crush on me?
Q. ok im 17, im a start senior year after this summer, but i have a friend who ran track with me, one day her sister met me, and well she's really into me. shes going to be a freshmen after this summer. so makes her 14. i like her and she knows and she ...
A. 7 July 2007: Age difference when people are younger matters more than if you are mature adults. But my friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 18, they've been dating for over a year now, although they argue and he did force her into having sex, just as long as you ... (read in full...)
I thought he was the One but I was wrong; now I feel unloved
Q. dear cupid, i have this ex of mine named jerry, i thought he is the right 1 for me but in the end its not. and before him i was always been left behind, the worse is after him i guess no one loved me at all. what should i do? im so desperat...
A. 4 July 2007: We all think everyone we date is the right one, but we can only know for certain if we feel butterflys in our stomach and that certain person makes your heart stop. If he did that for you, then maybe he is.. it could be a temporary blip? If not ... (read in full...)
I met a guy that I can't stop thinking about but he's in a happy relationship
Q. i just met this guy at a friends house, i really like him and cant get him out of my head, but he has a girlfriend for 17 months and he really likes her, i dont feel like going out with friends anymore and i just feel sad all the time, what can i ...
A. 4 July 2007: You cant break up a 17 month relationship.. If you did, he wouldnt be very happy and you wouldnt have a chance at all. Theres nothing you can do, if hes happy then just leave him be. There may be time if they break up? Dont put your life on ... (read in full...)
Normally guys that are into me make me feel smothered; am I fooling myself this time?
Q. I am with a guy a month and getting on very well. He is a perfect gentleman and cannot fault him. The physical attraction and desire for him is not 100%. can this grow or am i just fooling myself?? I always prefere the blokes who are not that into ...
A. 4 July 2007: Well, i think it can grow, afterall you have only been together a month. Give it time love. :) Well when you feel like that, you dont need to break up with them, just ask for a breather, this guy seems nice and someone to hang onto. And as you cant... (read in full...)
My daughter ended an affair she was having with a married man twice her age and now he won't stop pestering her
Q. I've recently found out my 19 year daughter has been having an affair for just under a year with a married man of 39. His wife has known for 10 months and didn't until a few days ago choose to tell me. I feel as though my world has been turned ...
A. 4 July 2007: She can take care of herself, and like flowergirl said, you are more likely to push her away, and she'll feel you are impossible to talk to. Parents should support their children no matter what really, throughout whatever mistakes they make, because ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend
Q. Ok well my bf cheated on me with my bestfriend not even just once but like 4 times in like a few days and i found out obviously which he is also her ex boyfriend and she cheated on her boyfriend with mine but what do i do its hard for me to be mad ...
A. 4 July 2007: They are both lower than low babe!! If she was a true friend, and if you referred to her as a sister, well best friends or sisters dont act like that! Get rid of him!! And as for her... well, she seems to have no consideration for you... and no r... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend for sex?
Q. hi i am a 15 yr old boy and i really want to have sex or at least get a bj from my gf but im to scared to ask her to what do i do...
A. 4 July 2007: Dont rush her into anything, you could at LEAST wait for the legal age really, but mehh, drop hints or maybe see if you can take it a little further when you are kissing, if she doesnt feel comfortable or looks nervous, you know that she doesnt want ... (read in full...)
I am worried about what my friends would say if they knew my BF was a virgin
Q. my boyfriend is 18 but he has never has sex. i am a bit worred about mine coz all my other m8 have 18 year old bf and their bf have all had sex before. but i dont wont to tell them that my bf has never had sex becouse i am worred on what they would ...
A. 4 July 2007: Well to be honest, its non of your their business whether or not he is a virgin. I agree with everyone else who have answered this, its something that should be between you and him, not the whole world. Respect that and dont tell anyone about it, ... (read in full...)
Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 4 July 2007: Nope she cant do anything, and also, you are at legal age to have sex with him anyway. I totally agree about the guys the same age being immature. Well most of them are. Try and talk to your mom about it. xxxxx... (read in full...)
I love four different boys and am dating three of them
Q. dear,cupid i am in love with four boys and all of them really like me and all but anywayz im going out with three of them right now. and im cheating on all of them and im also scared if i do break up with just three of them and go out with one then ...
A. 3 July 2007: Oh my god. Break up with every single one of them. What is going on in your head girl? You dont even know the meaning of the word love mate. Do these guys a favour and give them a break. ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back--she kisses me, but won't leave her boyfriend!
Q. Hi there, Me and my girlfriend (now my ex) split up a few months back, we were together almost 2 years. I was heartbroken for ages! We never really got on since we split... until a couple of weeks back where we started to talk properly and...
A. 3 July 2007: Well simply, i agree with flower girl on this one, shes not married and she can easily break it off with her boyfriend if she really wanted to. She does seem to care about you, but maybe not as much as her current boyfriend, its like your abit on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 3 July 2007: Erm okay then, well i agree with what past writers have wrote, hes upto no good at all, dont stand for it, confront him and embarrass him and get the hell out of there! Treat him with the same respect hes treated you with: ZILCH! Good luck hunn... (read in full...)
I've broken up with my married lover...any help?
Q. I know this sounds like the old cliche, I'm going with a married man, and it is but ... how do I deal with this. I'm single\divorced. Ive been seeing a married man for 17 months. I live in London and he lives in Manchester however he lives...
A. 3 July 2007: I agree with the anonymous reader and i also agree with rhythmandblues2 It will work out much better if you find someone single maybe?... (read in full...)
I like a guy who has a girlfriend--how can I break them up to get what I want?
Q. Well, I really fancy this lad. I have been talking to him on msn for ages but the thing is he has just got a new girlfriend (he is my sister's best mate's cousin) and lately everything I tell him he sends my conversations to his girlfriend to read ...
A. 3 July 2007: You cant break them up, because if he wanted you he would of broke up with her already, and he also wouldnt of sent her the conversations either, which seems like abit of a cruel thing to do as if they were laughing about it. I know its hard but ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me but I still love her
Q. Hi i am a 16 year old male i have just broke up with my girlfrend she got blind drunk at a party and had sex with another man. she said she didnt meen for that to happen i do believe that. We broke up that night she told me, she said she had lost ...
A. 3 July 2007: Well, theres not much you can do really, if she doesnt want a relationship with you anytime soon, but that doesnt mean she means forever, the only thing is, if you move on now its going to be pointless moving on and getting back to square one if she ... (read in full...)
I slept with someone else everytime I temporarily broke up with my boyfriend..is this okay?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend because we always fight and argue a lot. I hate the fact I did. Anyway, when we broke up...I slept with someone else because I thought it was really going to be over this time and I should move on. But a couple d...
A. 3 July 2007: It was okay, it wasnt classed as cheating because you werent together at the time so dont worry about it. :)... (read in full...)
Was forgiving her a mistake?
Q. Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake? ...
A. 3 July 2007: You both sound as bad as each other here! I mean, seriously you seem to be giving her a bad time here, LOOK AT YOURSELF MATE! And shes still non the wiser! Tell her the truth, maybe you can both move on and forget about it. Sleeping with someone ... (read in full...)
Do I dump my 2nd family for my 1st wife?
Q. I am married for 13 years with 3 kids, a great family life and friends, I am very successful. Sounds great, huh? I have one issue... I am not in love with my wife, I am done "trying" to love her (yes, we did seek therapy and yes things are better ...
A. 3 July 2007: Well, i would say to be honest, talk to your current wife about it, you can both see its not right. But i really wouldnt mess it up again, it seems like you've worked really hard to get what you have, dont lose it all. You cant help the feelings you ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to marry me, but he's always on the phone with someone else--help!
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for 9 months. My boyfriend is much older than me and it was with much effort that we are where we are. I have never cheated on him but I suspect that he is having telephonic communication with a girl that was from ...
A. 3 July 2007: Its upto you really, but if its happening regularly then, its obvious something isnt right and something is going on, so i would ask him right out, give him a choice. Then it is depending on what he says, its upto you whether you choose to carry on ... (read in full...)
I caught him with an "old friend"--what does it mean?
Q. OK, bizarre story. Boyfriend of 6 months told me he was going away for the wknd for work. No big deal, I travel for work too. I was driving to a friend's place on the weekend - I see my BOYFRIEND walking with another girl, and her dog. Not hol...
A. 3 July 2007: It really does sound all abit too suspicious. Confront him and ask him out right: Why hasnt he mentioned her before? Why hadnt he told you about the job? And most of all ask him: Is he cheating? And is he really planning to spend his life with you? S... (read in full...)
I help people as much as I can, but I am not happy--any advice?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 7 months tomorrow and I don't feel happy at all! Since I have been going out with my girlfriend she has cheated on me 3 times and I even caught her giving one of my "friends" a blowjob in a toilet of a discotech. ...
A. 3 July 2007: STOP! Get out. Geeeesh. Find someone else, and i do agree because it does say your between 18 - 21 yeah? Find someone your own age then. Start hanging around with different people then, people who respect you alot more than these lot your hanging ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a bad boy with a girlfriend--how do I get him?
Q. Who loves bad boys? I do. lol I'm in love with this boy and have been for years--he was always playing hard to get, but I loved it really. It what made me like him even more, him making me chase him. The problem is we slept together and then car...
A. 3 July 2007: Theres probably nothing you can do then, i know its hard but you must try and get over it and find someone else. Theres a perfect someone for everybody. :) ... (read in full...)
I can't help making myself look like an idiot.
Q. I liked this boy for ages, I was like in love with him. I slept with him and things didn't work out. After that he started seeing another girl, but she had a boyfriend. He found and stopped seeing her--now she is seeing the boy I like. To get ...
A. 3 July 2007: Nobody is stuck to someone, he has the mind to leave her, he can leave her if he wants to. And if he really does, just wait and give it time. He might do, tell him how you feel if he acts on it then good on you! If he doesnt theres nothing you can ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to string one girl along if it is the only way for me to be with my true love?
Q. Is it okay to string one girl along if it is the only way for me to be with my true love? This is the longer version for those willing to read: While attending the birthday party of my best friend's little brother, I met a two girl...
A. 3 July 2007: Erm, well.. for once, this is the only problem im actually stuck for words on. I dont know what to explain first: YOU ARE 16! SHE IS A 9 YEAR OLD CHILD FOR GOD SAKE! She was in nappies when you were 7 years old! HELLO WAKE UP! You cant seriously L... (read in full...)
I have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her!
Q. hi i have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her! My boyfriend was the one who told me (as my friends boyfriend is his mate) but he said if i tell my best friend he will finish with me. i don't think he would ...
A. 3 July 2007: Does he really expect you not to tell your friend? She has a right to know! Finish with him, and tell her about it. She really does deserve to know! Its upto her what she does, but if she has any sense she'll dump him!
xxxxx take care and i hope... (read in full...)
We forgave each other for cheating but can we still make it?
Q. i`ve been with my current girlfiend for over a year we are going through our roughest time yet she claims shes had sex behind my back a few weeks ago to make matters worse i slept with my ex lst yr she forgave me and i forgave her can we still be a ...
A. 3 July 2007: To be honest, it doesnt seem right. To get married you must vow to stay faithful. And it looks like neither of you can stay faithful to each other. Although, if you can both REALLY forgive and forget and get ready to move towards the future then i ... (read in full...)
Update: I've caught out my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his case
Q. I posted a question already about my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his travel case and I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, play the waiting game and keep an eye on him. Well he was away at a corporate games weekend with his work ...
A. 3 July 2007: This is a big problem. Regardless of how long you've been with him, he may still be cheating. Ask her outright and then confront him. People that have been together for over 10 years, a partner can still cheat and its over. Its just the trust issue, ... (read in full...)
I'm hearing stories about him and I don't know what to believe
Q. Hi, I really need to know what i should do.I'm in a 9 month relationship with a guy that is older than me.I have done the last hing for him. At first my parents didnt approve of our relationship (our families had a fall out) and i ran away from home ...
A. 3 July 2007: Most rumours turn out to be total rubbish in the end. But deep down what do you believe? I would stay with him and just see what else pops up. If you feel you cant cope with all of this, maybe it would be best to call it a day. That way its less ... (read in full...)
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