Should I turn to lifting weights?
Q. I asked a question a short time ago about how my confidence is so little when I am at school. From what I can gather I need to make myself - be myself. I need to stop careing about what others could think of me and be who I am. But I get so bitter ...
A. 16 January 2010: Do they play football in your country? or im sure you could wrestle? or go find a training gym, and inquire into boxing, or mma training! bro I lifted weights and started juicing when I was in 9th grade,(14yrs old) it was extremely stupid of me, and ... (read in full...)
Can guys fall in love with girls who have scars on their bodies?
Q. Can you guys fall in love with a girl with scars on her body? burns, insect bites, injuries and other types of scars. Can you guys stay, love and be with a girl with those? Does it matter?...
A. 16 January 2010: My ex had a big scar down her stomach, when she was young the doctors fucked up taking her appendix out, it's pretty bad, she was mega self concious about it! to tell the truth, I noticed it, but thought she was the most beautiful girl id ever met, ... (read in full...)
How can I make her really WANT me again?
Q. I have been with my gf for about 2.5 years. i love her with all that i am. we plan on being together forever. for about a year she has been giving me blowjobs/handjobs. today, yesterday and the day before that, things were getting hot and heavy. she ...
A. 15 January 2010: Oh dude dont get me wrong, im not clowning you, Im just trying to help you with your original question! you know they make rubbers, and Im not telling you im right, as I dont know either of you, but it sounds like maybe she is getting frustrated, ... (read in full...)
How can I make her really WANT me again?
Q. I have been with my gf for about 2.5 years. i love her with all that i am. we plan on being together forever. for about a year she has been giving me blowjobs/handjobs. today, yesterday and the day before that, things were getting hot and heavy. she ...
A. 15 January 2010: I guess im just curious as to why you do everything but sex? whats the point? your already doing things that are "bad" I dont see even from any religious standpoint what the point is, if your saving it for marriage, arent you supposed to save it all ... (read in full...)
My bf has anger issues, he has cheated and he's hit me 3 times! Stay or go?
Q. hey guys. well i will start with the basics. i'm going out with a boy who is fifteen (the same age as me) and we've been basically going out since year eight (seventh grade) so over the years we have obviously become very close, but we have been ...
A. 14 January 2010: Just as I dont believe in long distance relationships, dont ever stay with anyone who's hit you, ever!... (read in full...)
Suggestions about 'breaking up'?? Anyone know any good ones?
Q. This isn't really a relationship question. But i was wondering, does anyone know some songs about you and your girlfriend breaking up and then you replace her but start to realize shes the only one you need and you want her back. Prefera...
A. 14 January 2010: every song ever written! try 38 Special - Back Where You Belong!... (read in full...)
How can I make her really WANT me again?
Q. I have been with my gf for about 2.5 years. i love her with all that i am. we plan on being together forever. for about a year she has been giving me blowjobs/handjobs. today, yesterday and the day before that, things were getting hot and heavy. she ...
A. 14 January 2010: Have you offered to give her oral? all i read from your post is you, you, you, I didnt see one thing about you accomodating her sexual needs???... (read in full...)
How do you move on when your heart doesn't want to let go?
Q. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me recently. We were together for six years. We were high school and college sweethearts. I am now 24. He said he broke up with me because he felt that I was not the "right one", meaning he couldn't see himself ...
A. 14 January 2010: I want to add something else, as going through it the same time you are, I cant really do anything but relate, you are losing something important in your life, it's okay, to treat it like that, you know, I cant think of a time ive felt worse in my ... (read in full...)
How do you move on when your heart doesn't want to let go?
Q. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me recently. We were together for six years. We were high school and college sweethearts. I am now 24. He said he broke up with me because he felt that I was not the "right one", meaning he couldn't see himself ...
A. 13 January 2010: I know exactly what your going through, as im going through the exact same thing myself, my girlfriend of 8 years and me recently went our seperate ways, the first couple weeks are almost like a dream, they seemed surreal, every night it seems I ... (read in full...)
Is anal sex painful?
Q. hello all! i was just in a curious mood about anal sex. i have not tried it , but i want to. any tips? how much will it hurt?? (i can handle pain in general) will i need a lube? what does the guy feel during anal? is it like a vagina wet and ...
A. 13 January 2010: Ive done it a few times to some of my girlfriends, and I never found it painful at all! just make sure she's relaxed, and wants to do it! ... (read in full...)
Do women sleep around when they are in a boring relationship?
Q. Hi. Thanks in advance for any insight you may have on this matter. I am sort of hung up on my girlfriends past. She lost her virginity to her first boyfriend when she was almost twenty. Their relationship got very platonic and stale after a couple...
A. 13 January 2010: I got fixed on my girlfriends sexual history, like I said on another post, I came to realize it was because I was so into her, I wanted to know what made her tick, what she was thinking, feeling, wanting, when she was doing it, I had NEVER EVEN ... (read in full...)
How do you put yourself in someone else's shoes to see their point of view?
Q. So this is basically a short, right to the point question, how do you "put yourself" in someone else's shoes to see their point of view? And how do you figure out if its you or them with the problem? Ive noticed many relationships of all kinds end...
A. 12 January 2010: This is something I learned to do when I was a little boy! it's extremely important that people do it, it's easy, you merely stop for a second, and imagine if you were going through what the other person is going through, think of how you would ... (read in full...)
I can't attract girls!
Q. No matter what I do, I just cant seem to attract girls, and the rare occasions I do, They get bored and move on after a short while. (But that's another issue). I'm not very confident, so going out and meeting new people is a bit hard for me. I'm ok ...
A. 12 January 2010: DoubleM gives some good tips here, let me add a few, that work for me anyways, a good tip is to go look around an atm, and find a recipt someone has thrown on the ground with a large balance on it, pick up a few of these, then when you go to the ... (read in full...)
My feelings for him have changed and I don't know what to do...
Q. hi there. i promised myself that life was too short to think about thinngs so deeply enymore so i said as a new years resalution that i would just go with the flow (with in reason of course).. then i met sean... he is a big man i mean as in body ...
A. 11 January 2010: Hey you know what? if he makes you honestly happy, then it shouldnt matter what anyone thinks, maybe you can nicely work with him on grooming, and maybe even weight, if your doing it to improve your relationship with him, then you should always make ... (read in full...)
Her words have become meaningless
Q. I'm a 31 yo guy who is getting married to a beautiful 28 year old girl who i love very very much. However i have some issues, and i know they are my issues but i need to know how to get over them. Firstly, the small town where i grew up is the s...
A. 11 January 2010: I had this same type of thing, she didnt tell you at first because she thought you would think less of her, i promise you that's the reason, she didnt want to screw it up, she's telling you now, because she's being adult about it, be happy if she ... (read in full...)
She says after 2 kids I'm still too big and hurt her
Q. ok me and my gf have been togther for 4 years and our sex life is pretty much nonexsitent because she says my penis is to big and it hurts her everytime we have sex. Now im only 21 and shes 20 shouldnt she have some sort of tollerance after all ...
A. 11 January 2010: Has she ever been able to have sex? without pain? sounds like she's not aroused enough to accomadate you! try getting her aroused fully, you will see a big difference(no pun).... (read in full...)
Crush Verses Obsession
Q. What is the difference between a crush and an obsession. When do you cross that line between having a crush on someone to having an obsession with someone?...
A. 11 January 2010: I think generally if someone has an obsession, they wouldnt have the presence of mind to know they were obsessed! so it's probably a crush!... (read in full...)
Is it possible to stay together with a liar and a cheater?
Q. My question is a very short one. I have been married almost 3 years to a man I really love and consider to be my best friend. however since i first showed him the cyber social sited he bagan to talk to girls all overr and began telling them hewanted ...
A. 11 January 2010: I came out of a 10 year relationship, with someone who isnt a straight out liar, but whos mom raised her that it was ok to leave things out, or not be fully truthfull if it ment not hurting someones feelings, or if it wouldnt enflame the situatiion, ... (read in full...)
What do men find really irrestible in women???
Q. Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you? Im not talking about attracting a guy so you can sleep together, but the kinda love where he wants to meet your parents. What do men find really irrestible in women??? please be honest,...
A. 11 January 2010: every guy is different, I know that many of my best relationships were ones where I really wasnt even attracted to the girl until I got to know her, same with my best friends, my 3 best friends my whole life, started out in fist fights, or I hated ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mom seen nude pics of me and says she's going to show everyone!
Q. I sent my boyfriend some nude pics of me, and his mom saw them and took his phone. Now she is saying she is going to show people the pics of me. I was just wondering if there was anything i could do. Now before you judge me, i have been with my ...
A. 11 January 2010: Well if your under 18, ask your bf mom if she's ready to be a sex offender! because distributing kiddie porn isnt looked at highly in any country!... (read in full...)
My ex with another man is destroying me. Please help!! Please.
Q. I am in a very low bad place at the moment. I have just found out that my ex girlfriend who split up with me 2 months ago has a new man. It shook my world when she split up with me but whilst she wasn't with anyone else, I was coping ok. Th...
A. 9 January 2010: Im going to go ahead and throw my 2 cents in now, on Dec 3, my 8 year girlfriend, and mother of my daughter, out of nowhere ended our relationship, and I knew she was hot for another guy, and I know him, and he's a fucking dork! which made my self ... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex husband after 3 years (kind of) apart
Q. Hi everyone,I have been having relationship problems for just over 3 years now and have come to the conclusion that I could do with outsiders views and suggestions. OK here goes...My Husband(who i"d been with for 11 years) and I moved into our drea...
A. 9 January 2010: Have You asked him if he still loves you? or what his thoughts are? I didnt see anywhere that you mention if youve actually discussed your feelings with him? Or if you know if he's with anybody else?... (read in full...)
He knows about the fling and is very distant to me!
Q. I have posted some very similar questions on here already but I am still trying to win my husband's love and trust back. He left me and while separated I had a fling and I really regret it. He knows about it and I am living with him again, but he is ...
A. 9 January 2010: Have you tried sitting him down and talking to him?... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to this guy at work...but I am married!
Q. Hi I am a 30yo woman married for 4 years. Of late, I am getting attracted to a workmate who is 26 yo and unmarried. Whenever he is around I just can't seem to focus, my hands start to shake and butterflies in my tummy. Even he seems to feel the same ...
A. 9 January 2010: It would more then likely be passionate, and extremely arousing! because your infatuated with him, but guess what? infatuation, goes away, and then your left with guilt, possibly a divorce, and a broken family! not to mention a devastated husband, ... (read in full...)
I don't want my baby growing up with seperated parents. How can I make my relationship last?
Q. well me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 4 months and now me and her are thinking that we have moved too fast. I got my girlfriend pregnant and she does not think i am the one she wants to have a baby with. I want to know want i can ...
A. 8 January 2010: Thats a tough one, you guys barely know each other, so I cant really even begin to speculate, but she is pregnant, it's a little late to decide your not the one she wants to have a baby with, you know what the other option is, you dont know if this ... (read in full...)
What is my long-distance boyfriend thinking?
Q. Me and my boyfriend got into a big fight about 5 days ago. This is the biggest we've had in the year we've been together; granted we never really fought for starters. Our relationship is long distance and is been getting harder to handle because his ...
A. 8 January 2010: Long Distance relationships, are pointless, why don't you be with someone you can actually grow and develop as a partner with?... (read in full...)
Can illicit strictly emotional only affairs be overcome?
Q. If a guy has had an illicit emotional (nothing physical but sexy and loving talk) relationship with another woman, do you think it is possible for him to 'drop her' because he is found out? If he has been able to completely cut her out of his life...
A. 8 January 2010: I told my girlfriend(upon finding out about an emotional and physical affair) your not sorry you did it, your sorry you got caught! if they are sorry they did it, they would admitt it to you, emotional affairs in my mind, are every bit as bad as ... (read in full...)
Help! What is going on in her head? Does she want me back or not?
Q. Evening all I recently found out my Fiancee (together nearly 4 years) was cheating on me. I think it's still going on as well. I went ape, but I only shouted and stuff. She denies it all and says they're just friends. I have copies of emails...
A. 8 January 2010: Cgrylgo I do know that role, thiefs will many times use the same jedi mind trick! where they steal something from you, and sit and help you look, or make you doubt that you even ever put it where you know you did! pretty soon you really start ... (read in full...)
Heeelp!!! I can't get him out of my head. Any tips?
Q. I can't get him out of my head. Any tips? I know he is not right for me, but I miss him tremendously. We were good friends who then had sex a few times -- I am married but that is complicated and he understood the situation - but now he won't ...
A. 8 January 2010: Your married, he hit it, then it hit him, just what he was getting himself into! he got smart, and decided he didnt even want to touch it with a ten foot pole, and stopped contact! can you blame him?... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men.
Q. Hi there. I could really use some help. I am currently engaged. I love my fiance. She is the best woman I could ever ask for. Here is my problem. I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men. Particu...
A. 8 January 2010: I think this has something to do with the way certain guys think, because I went through this same exact problem with my ex, who I condsider my first true love, even though i had many before her, I never gave it much thought until I actually started ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have experience with larger men?
Q. I am a virgin and yes I'm aware of protection and wait till you're ready. I am ready now and I'm going to be in a relationship soon with a boy who's kind of on the big side. I wondered what kind of things am I going to have to do.. as I'll hav...
A. 8 January 2010: How do you know he's on the big side? if your a virgin, It's not going to matter what size he is, it's going to either way, just make sure you take some lube if he's that big! but as far as your question goes, no, i dont have any experience with ... (read in full...)
Help! What is going on in her head? Does she want me back or not?
Q. Evening all I recently found out my Fiancee (together nearly 4 years) was cheating on me. I think it's still going on as well. I went ape, but I only shouted and stuff. She denies it all and says they're just friends. I have copies of emails...
A. 8 January 2010: Dude you cant trust this girl! you were going to get married and she didnt have enough love and respect for you, to keep some other guys cock out of her, DTB, you will never be able to trust her again, im angry at her, and I dont even know you guys, ... (read in full...)
I need us to TALK... but can't get the chance. What do I do next?
Q. So I have some trust issues, and this past weekend, my boyfriend and I fought like crazy. The next day, I wanted him to come over so we could talk about it in a calm and rational way. He tells me that he already made plans to hang out with friends. ...
A. 8 January 2010: He's obviously not ready to talk and your trying to push him into it, a word of warning, let it go! or he may never come back to talk to you again! Ive been there and know exactly whats going on! it's almost like your mothers making you come in and ... (read in full...)
How do I end this relationship with sensitivity?
Q. How do I end my relationship with my boyfriend who is so kind, considerate and loves me to bits, when I just dont love him any more and can't see a future with him? I hate the feeling like I am lying to him whenever we are together!...
A. 8 January 2010: And dont tell him the good things about himself, just comming off a break up myself, I can say nothing is more patronizing then a chick dumping you, then telling you whats good about you, cause obviously if those things were so good, why would she ... (read in full...)
I know I shouldn't but I'm falling for him... Help!
Q. hey guys. this is a weird one but plz help!!! i've recently went back home to europe to c my family over christmas. Went out with my mum for new year and we bumped into her cousin that i never really saw before and there was a heavy attracti...
A. 8 January 2010: Well! you already nailed him, so dont trick yourself and believe just cause it was so good, it will be that good the next time you nail him, it was just one of those spur of the moment rush's, as far as his girlfriend and kid go, It sounds like ... (read in full...)
Should I send her a letter trying to explain?
Q. I'm reposting since i didn't get any good advice! About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she want...
A. 7 January 2010: Yes bro, I just went through the same shit, with my lying, cheating, worthless, ex, she would have just rather had the safety and security of having me around, while she found her next cock, I too had to physically get in and do some dirty work to ... (read in full...)
How can I be 'just friends' with ex ... and work colleague?
Q. Hi, I need advice on how to get my working relationship back to normal with my ex ... I married my first girlfriend 15 years ago, and I suppose like in all marriages we had our problems, but they eventually wore me down so much that I could see...
A. 7 January 2010: Well bro, I know I preach only a couple of things in all of life, hardcore! on is NEVER!!! have any kind of relationship with a coworker, other then a working relationship, my professor taught me that not only is it a bad idea, if you like your job ... (read in full...)
Ex is not interested and it hurts
Q. Dear Cupid...so far you are the only person i talk to and who has been kind enough to help.Thank you. Nway with the newyear,i had to make resolutions, that can help me be a better person. So among other stuff, i decided to get into a relationship ...
A. 7 January 2010: I dont think your as head over heels as you think you are, you stated it was your resolution to "get into a relationship"which in my book is about as good of a resolution as your going to start shooting up heroin, or your going to start smoking! it ... (read in full...)
My life is in tatters with an ex that won't move on and a new guy who isn't that interested in me. I don't know what to do!
Q. My life is in tatters at the moment. I split up with my ex in july, mutual decision but since then it's been hard to move on as he is in daily contact with me. I have told him to cut contact but he can't go a day without texting me. The other wk I...
A. 7 January 2010: Maybe the ex doesnt think he's stalking, maybe he's so destroyed inside, and in disbelief and disillusioned, that someone he is so in love with could do this to him, he's doing the only thing his mind will let him do, even if he knows it's ... (read in full...)
The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.
Q. I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...
A. 7 January 2010: Dude I didnt listen to Grimms advice, I will never post another thing on this site and not ask for Grimms advice, it's almost like he's written it all out, and just sit back and watches! it's eerie just how right Grimm is, and his advice about the ... (read in full...)
Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?
Q. My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help...
A. 7 January 2010: Nobody has actually got to the crux of the question!you used the term,"helping" this could point to many different actions in this spectrum, were you helping each other, because one of you is an amputee? was one of you holding the blinds up to watch ... (read in full...)
Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?
Q. My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help...
A. 4 January 2010: LOL this is great, hey bro, Id say your fine, but if you start getting the urge to have him put it in your butt, that is gay, or if you perform fellatio on each other, what your doing now, is teetering on the edge of gay and straight! ... (read in full...)
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