I'm over the fact that she left me, but not the resentment.
Q. To cut a long story short, my partner who I loved very much left me for another guy. This was 3 months ago. I have gotten over the jealousy and the feeling of sickness when I think about 'them' but I can't seem to shift the anger. I've tried to tell ...
A. 10 March 2010: Me too, just let yourself be angry bro, just like the jelousy, and rage, and hurt, and nausia, the anger will become less and less, then it will just eventually not be there anymore, your angry cause someone fucked with your heart, you have reason ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship worth fighting for dispite his issues? I feel life he's my other half.
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm looking for help about my relationship. I've been with my partner for 7.5 years now and I really love him. I have never loved anyone as much as him and I feel as though he is my other half, an anchor and I feel so happy ...
A. 5 March 2010: You said that you would get in touch in a few weeks! Right? now the few weeks is up and you havent heard from him? um maybe thats because you told him youd get in touch with him? good lord! and I say if he means that much to you, it's a no brainer, ... (read in full...)
What did she mean when she said this?
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month now, and she said she still needs time to forget about the bad stuff, and miss me. I hurt her by changing as a person. Like I got comfortable and I guess things changed between us. Like I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Could there be a chance maybe she's just not interested anymore? I havent heard anybody mention that! if she's not interested, then I cant tell you how to make her interested, or if it's even worth the effort!... (read in full...)
I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl ...
A. 28 February 2010: I know this is old, but did anyone catch the fact, this is presented sneaky, and in back fasion! I believe this was the girlfriend, posting as though she were her boyfriend, and seeing it from his unsympathetic point of view? just my opinion man!!... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 28 February 2010: Not to mention when your old man gets out of the joint, if he finds out there could be bad reprocussions, and he could be going back as quick as he was out!!... (read in full...)
What does a woman mean when she says she wants to be with me, but doesn't?
Q. Okay, so here it goes... Me and my girlfriend (we've been dating for 9 months), had recently broken up...and basically, she's in a state of confusion. She's talking to three other guys, and all this other stuff as a rebound. Just yesterday we saw e...
A. 28 February 2010: I would just cut contact from her for awhile, if youve still got the element of want, even a little, if you make her miss you it will surely grow, she's obviously confused, I think the best thing is just make her miss you!... (read in full...)
Can you move from the 'friends ladder' back to the 'good ladder' if its an ex?
Q. Alright, I just saw the question asked by another member, and I want to take it one step further, and then maybe even a step further then that, Someone on here told me about the Ladder Theory, which I think is brilliant, my question, lets say you've ...
A. 28 February 2010: Denise32, I was asking this question because I try to think up semi-intresting questions, and post them to see what people say, you seem to be giving an answer that re-directs the oringinal question, of course what you say is true, but not everyone ... (read in full...)
What did she mean when she said this?
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month now, and she said she still needs time to forget about the bad stuff, and miss me. I hurt her by changing as a person. Like I got comfortable and I guess things changed between us. Like I ...
A. 26 February 2010: Man if she cant just give you a yes or no answer, stop wasting your time, she's obviously jerking you around for whatever reason, if she cant just happily say yes, or angrily say no, then chances are good even if you did get back together, she would ... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex-husband knowing about the co-inhabiting new boyfriend...
Q. Heres the story: Married 5 years, emotionally the marriage has been over since January 2009, seperated in July 2009(not legally), asked for a divorce in October 2009. We have a young child together. I re-met an old friend from High School in ...
A. 16 February 2010: Im not going to bash you, If im a little stern sounding it's because ive seen and been in this situation and seen the old blinders scenario, you should not have a new boyfriend living with you because you have a child, you are not thinking about ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swor...
A. 14 February 2010: Bro! Honestly, sometimes Ive (out of nowhere) started taking something that didnt happen in its natural usual order,(something tiny like a movie) and sub consciencely escelated it into a full blown cheating plot! where Ive literally known without a ... (read in full...)
I had sex with a bodybuilder!
Q. Hi everyone ..thanks for reading , Im in a spot here and I really dont know what to do ! I had always wanted to go to bed with one of those really BIG body builder guys at the gym , just watching them always got me aroused . Then one...
A. 13 February 2010: If I were your boyfriend Id just assume you were lying, and go bang someone else, storys like that dont generally just come about, what are you going to do when he gets the bodybuilder under his wing, brings him home, and asks you to tell him it ... (read in full...)
How do I inform my daughter that I can hear her masturbating in her room?
Q. My 34 year old daughter's room is above mine. I've been hearing her masturbating. It wakes me up and I'm amazed she doesn't know it. How do I tell her to pick another time when I am not at home. She's been wondering why I have been sleeping on ...
A. 13 February 2010: Goddamn!! How long does she do it for? I don't even think my mom would be able to tell I was doing it, she must be really going to town,id embarass her, she's that old, if she's old enough to play with it, she's old enough to be respectful of other ... (read in full...)
How do you move on after a break up?
Q. what do you do to get over a very hard breakup when ur still in love with the person but he as moved on and after 6 months i cant seem to move on and you cant seem to find anyone else. he has moved on and looks happy and i just want to be happy too. ...
A. 13 February 2010: I know how you feel, my ex seemed to forget I ever exsisted, after being together for a decade, she was very eager to hop in the sack with someone not even a week after our split, so how quickly she got over me made me hurt even worse, and for that ... (read in full...)
Help! Having issues with getting over a break up.
Q. So I'm 28 and my ex girlfriend is 24 and we dated for just over 2 years. To make a long story short just over a month ago my girlfriend became very distant and I suspected there was somone else. Well after looking into the matter more I figured out ...
A. 13 February 2010: I feel you bro, I went through the same thing, only it wasnt my friend, I think it's irrelevant who the other guy is, people are going to do what they are going to do, unfortunatly like I responded to someone else, integrity isnt something thats in ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am only staying with my partner because he is my best friend, how can I explain this to him without being too awful?
Q. I have been with my wonderful partner for near on 8 years now. As much as I love spending time with him, I don't think it is in the same way as it once was. What we have feels much more platonic than romantic to me, and not just in the 'we're ...
A. 12 February 2010: Your going to get into a relationship thats all physical and everythings going to stop, your going to be so sorry you let go of the emotional thing, I say if it's even there a little bit, it's worth doing everything you can to save it! because hot ... (read in full...)
Why don't I like it when my boyfriend smokes?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a while, he's 19 and I'm 17 so therefore he's in college and I'm not. He smokes, not a lot but like a few times every week max. I vowed that I would never date a smoker. I'm not sure what really gets me about it, but I ...
A. 11 February 2010: Because you dont smoke!!! if you dont like it, tell him to quit or break up with him, I smoke, if I met someone, and they werent cool with it at all, Id quit, if I had to , id go buy the gum, or patches, but, I basically started smoking, so I ... (read in full...)
I am exhausted by the intense highs and lows that come with my boyfriend! Do all couples go through this?
Q. I am so confused. Been with b/f 5 years and they've been rocky years. He's short tempered and impatient and it causes us to have alot of fights, but he is aware that his personality is very intense, and he does apologize and he's good at doing a ...
A. 10 February 2010: It sounds like me! eventually my ex started to freak out, and she said it's like she was slowly going crazy, I got checked out, and it turns out, im Bipolar II, it sounds like he may be Bipolar also!... (read in full...)
Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?
Q. This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started d...
A. 10 February 2010: Dont feel stupid at all! thats what we are here for, wish I would've had a place like this to ask all these questions when I was a youngster! if you have any questions, never feel dumb to post whatever quesions u have about anything! thats the only ... (read in full...)
Threesome heartbreak...
Q. Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her ...
A. 9 February 2010: Oh by all means, do it! especially if you know your with the right people, it sounds to me like youve got the right outlook on it! it's him thats hounding you into it! I say you say fuck it! and go for it, youve hit the right spot mentally, if he ... (read in full...)
Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?
Q. This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started d...
A. 9 February 2010: Youve never had an orgasm! When you do, you'll feel silly for asking! trust me! if I were you, Id masterbate, and take lots of time doing it, pay special attention to your clit, when you feel the feeling of pressure start building up inside of you, ... (read in full...)
My ex and I still talk but I don't know how he feels about me. How can I find out?
Q. ok ...so me and my ex still talk and stuff but we r not 2gether anymore ... every now nd then i spend time with him ...nd have the greatest time ever... he still tells me he loves me but ..we dont talk as much as we did b4 ...only when he bas...
A. 9 February 2010: Obviously! Does he need to hire the goodyear blimp to fly over your house with it on the electronic board? HE STILL LOVES YOU, AND IT'S KILLING HIM!If he still tells you he loves you, THEN HE DOES!!!... (read in full...)
Threesome heartbreak...
Q. Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her ...
A. 9 February 2010: Maybe because he trusts you! my ex told me the same thing, "go do what u want to do" but I would only felt comfortable, and like I wasnt cheating if she was there with me! because it is her that I trusted and loved, I just wanted the other girl ... (read in full...)
Threesome heartbreak...
Q. Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her ...
A. 8 February 2010: I dont believe from the sound of it, that he really wants to do this, it sounds more like he's just sore that youve done it, and wants to feel like you desire him sexually more then you did the people you had the threesome with! which by personal ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: This is bullshit! you assume your an unattractive black women, ive learned something very important! the more attractive a girl is to me, right off the bat, the less attractive they turn out to be once you get to know them, and when I don't find ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: Could you email me where I might find this tree? I think we should probably build a lodge around it, and schedule appointments, we could charge $15 a session! and dude, your asking a bunch of people if theres something wrong with you fucking a ... (read in full...)
Do men only cheat when they feel like less of a man?
Q. Is it true that men only cheat when there girldfriends make them feel like less of a man?...
A. 6 February 2010: I have a sense in my mind, ive had it my whole life, sometimes I wonder if im just a pussy, but ive just come out of an 8 year relationship, that I never once did anything innapropriate with another female, and I never have with any previous ... (read in full...)
How do you know when love can conquer all or when you have to call it quits?
Q. I have been struggling w/ my marriage and am in the process of getting a divorce. This is a painful decision, as I have two kids, but am not in love and have not been in a healthy marriage for years. During this process, my boss and I have become ...
A. 6 February 2010: You mean how infatuated you are with your boss!!! right? remember that wears off, why in the name of hell! couldnt you divorce your current partners, and keep your pants on, until it was all finished?? I dont think it much matters what you do now! ... (read in full...)
Do I break up with her before or after valentines day?
Q. After much difficult deliberation, I think it is time I break up with my girlfriend. Or, at the very least, have a much needed "state of the union" conversation that will quite likely end in our breaking up. We've been living together for alm...
A. 6 February 2010: Id do it on Valentines Day!! I mean what does it matter? at least you waited to tell her happy valentines, then end it! that way she knows you cared enought about her, that you would make her feel happy on valentines day!! she will be so in love ... (read in full...)
My wife had a fling and I am worried about our marriage
Q. my wife has been talking to some guy she met at work about 10 years ago.it started on the internet and then got to the point where he started calling my house to talk to her.they hooked up about 2weeks ago when my wife said she was at her mothers.i ...
A. 6 February 2010: I would immedietly figure out a way to secretly make contact with this guys wife! that in itself could alliviate the problem long enough to figure out your next move, I would make every move neccasseery, within your power to legally secure yourself, ... (read in full...)
24th girl shot me down in a row, please help me!
Q. this question is for the woman reading. I dont know whats wrong with me im a nice guy, very patient, understanding, and good listener. but all the girls i hang out with awile then become good friends with them, i ask some of them out, but i always ...
A. 31 January 2010: Girls can smell a pussy a mile away, baddogbj gave you the most useful advice on here, I have to say, follow what he told you and you'll be gettin some trim before you even know what hit you!... (read in full...)
Long Read - My boyfriend's drug problems
Q. I don't like feeling so torn, and I tried to mentally prepare for this to not happen, but it happened. My ex was in a bad place in his life when we met. He tried to make it seem like he was not, but it soon became obvious to me that he had not ...
A. 30 January 2010: It seems almost like your trying to convince yourself you don't want to be with him, when everything ive read in your post says otherwise! maybe im just reading into it wrong, but you are clearly if not in love with him, puting way to much thought ... (read in full...)
I cant help but think she is cheating on me, what should I do?
Q. Hey, Me and my fiance have been together for about three and a half years. Over the past few months I have noticed that she has been keeping her phone with her at all times even when we are at home. If it is not with her she has deleted her text...
A. 22 January 2010: Trust me from personal experience bro! DO NOT KEEP TIPPING YOUR HAND!!! DO DO DO DO NOT NOT NOT NOT!!!! STOP NOW!!! STOP!!!! Do you think u understand me bro? okay, I just finished going throught this exact situation, your going to drive yourself ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?
Q. This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...
A. 18 January 2010: look everybody, what I see is what I see, it's not to argue with, if it's correct, it's correct, if it's not, its not, I wont comment anymore on this, I dont know either of you, just the scenario! my opinion isnt going to change, im sorry, but did ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?
Q. This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...
A. 18 January 2010: and btw, I just got out of a 8 year relationship with someone that continuously lied to me, that I continuously gave the benefit of the doubt to, I don't know if theres anyone on the website that so freshly knows exactly whats going here! NOBODY! ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?
Q. This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...
A. 18 January 2010: Bro! she wasnt asking you because she was concerned about HIV, or she would have said, "If you had unprotected sex while we were apart, id really like it if you got tested" sound like anything she said? I didnt think so, hey you can think what you ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?
Q. This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...
A. 17 January 2010: Fuck her bro!! seriously, tell her to get fucked and go fuck with somebody else's head! you two werent even together when you did that! so on top of it being none of her goddamn business, you should tell her you banged a different chick every night ... (read in full...)
She dumped me, moved on and has a new boyfriend, but is calling me - why?
Q. Long story short; My Ex and I went out for 18 months. Last month we broke up (she broke up with me a few days after I talked to her about how she is always lying to me and others). We were deeply in Love. We also lived together. Anyways, the bre...
A. 17 January 2010: You mentioned in great detail that she is a full blown LIAR!! Im curious as to having many a liar girlfriends myself, does she really have cancer?? without a doubt? your 100% positive this is just not one of those girls who by your own words is a ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex will think of me at all...?
Q. When your ex is in a rebound, I read generally they start doing extravagent(sp) things together and making big plans usually and spending all there time together. I just found out my ex is going snowboarding with his new girl and her family...
A. 17 January 2010: I'll tell you this having just come out of a 8 year relationship, alot of time was spent being selfish, on my part, instead of not wanting to do the things she wanted to do, I wish I had just done them if nothing more then for the sake of spending ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of respect?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let ...
A. 17 January 2010: I guess I look at this differently, while I have been in a few relationships in my time, I have found that Ive never said something hurtful like that to one of the girls,a words a word! ive never directly called a girl,girlfriend or otherwise a ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex will think of me at all...?
Q. When your ex is in a rebound, I read generally they start doing extravagent(sp) things together and making big plans usually and spending all there time together. I just found out my ex is going snowboarding with his new girl and her family...
A. 17 January 2010: Does he not have his own family??? why is he so dependent, on finding a girl, who's family accepts him? that sounds very very very strange to me! do you know if the new girls family happens to be wealthy?? answer that for me if you could?... (read in full...)
Should I turn to lifting weights?
Q. I asked a question a short time ago about how my confidence is so little when I am at school. From what I can gather I need to make myself - be myself. I need to stop careing about what others could think of me and be who I am. But I get so bitter ...
A. 16 January 2010: Do they play football in your country? or im sure you could wrestle? or go find a training gym, and inquire into boxing, or mma training! bro I lifted weights and started juicing when I was in 9th grade,(14yrs old) it was extremely stupid of me, and ... (read in full...)
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