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writes:well me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 4 months and now me and her are thinking that we have moved too fast. I got my girlfriend pregnant and she does not think i am the one she wants to have a baby with. I want to know want i can do to keep our relationship going good so my baby does not have to have separated parents. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): "he got me pregnant right as i was going to leave for the military. so i have some bitterness." you do realize that it's half your fault, right? If joining the military was what you wanted since you were little you would have been way more careful.. SUCK IT UP and don't blame anyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): I am this mans pregnant girlfriend... and what everyone is saying about making things work for the baby is what i have been telling him. he got me pregnant right as i was going to leave for the military. so i have some bitterness. thats what ive wanted since i was little. i plan to do my up most to make a family of this. M daughter WILL NOT grow up with out both parents. And for the man who said i wouldnt be fit to be a mother is the farthest thing from right. I just planned to be with the man i was to have a child with a lot longer than 4 months. but yes i plan to make things work
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): Better to be reaised by loving, seperated parents, than be raised in a fractured home with parents who don't love one another.
Trust me.
Flynn 24
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (8 January 2010):
 Thats a tough one, you guys barely know each other, so I cant really even begin to speculate, but she is pregnant, it's a little late to decide your not the one she wants to have a baby with, you know what the other option is, you dont know if this girl is even fit to be a mother! Id be doing some serious talking to her, and figuring her out!
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reader, missy_10 +, writes (8 January 2010):
your girlfriend needs to understand that its not about the two of you anymore, you guys are number 2 and that baby growing in her is number one you both have to start thinking about what you can do that will benifit the child. did you move too fast... yes after four months and pregnant you skipped through the whole dating, moving in, married, phase and jumped right to the big one. you have to talk to eachother and find ways to make it work for the benefit on the child i had my baby two days before my 18th birthday and now shes 2.... from the beginning i had to think of her cuz her father and i werent together as a matter of fact the whole pregnancy we werent together.... shes gonna need you
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