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... Send *aglish a private message | | | *aglish's profile:well big-ups to all of you guyz out there.. its really great that i have got this chance to join you. Its been always my pleasure to help people coz though iam still in my early 20's, i have been thru alot.. i hate to deliberate coz many wont believe it. However in brief, i have done some psychology specifically in the field of relationship-building as the main theme of sociolization. But books aren't all that i have to show but even the numerous complications that have indirectly and directly come my way.. Right now i want to give thanx to God that i finally have a stable relationship with a one Doreen T N back here in Kampala,Uganda. Both of us are having the time of our lives because of the experiences each of us has been thru.Its on this background therefore that i want to help my numerous friends and SPECIFICALLY SISTERS and brothers who might have any gliches in their love affairs in all aspects of the field |
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What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?
Q. I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sounds strangest when you believe this lady cant play u when she could play somebody else during a steamy sex session in which you are taking part. Players are half born and half made. In most cases such very good ones are born coz they might never ... (read in full...)
I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.
Q. I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he...
A. 30 August 2007: So many things determine how u deal with such unresistable forces of nature. First how apart are u with your bf? Are u sure both of u are thru with each other? if yes then go ahead and see what might be in stock for you in the sexual magnet of urs. ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone is cheating? I suspect my dad is, on my mum!
Q. How can you tell if someone is cheating on their wife...i suspect my dad may be cheating on my mom with a close relative. ...
A. 30 August 2007: Now honey thats dangerous businness. Involving yourself in ur parents sexual issues can be disastrous especially if you begin spying on either. I would love you to keep your distance unless your dad brings a woman home for sex in your mother's ... (read in full...)
I hadn't seen him for 12 years. I like him. Does he just see me as a friend???
Q. hey dearcupid.. I am 14 and met up with this guy today and have known him since i was born as our parents were really good friends. Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so. At first it was slightly awkward as i fancied him and ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sorry but that sounds like you know the answer. Its funny what guys can take girls to be and so you can never know. How he turns out to take u to be will depend on the signals u give him. Pliz just be modest in your character and be nice to him only ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain impotence????
Q. I have been reading about ED (impotence), i would like to hear some general opinion on how to determine if one has it. would it means unable to achieve an erection at all, or only at times, or persistent, if so, how often is called consisten...
A. 30 August 2007: Impontance not only includes failure to achieve an erection but also failure to fertilise a woman during unprotected sex after numerous attempts... (read in full...)
He's a major flirt! It's very frustrating!
Q. What to do? Should I ask him to leave? We've been married for nearly twenty years and have two doting children. But you can bet that almost every holiday we have ends up in frustration and near separation, because of his prolonged eye-contact with a ...
A. 30 August 2007: Unfortunately no man ever stops looking at women unless he,s dead. Even the importent do. The only problem is that for your case, he doesnt seem embarassed even in your presence. Am afraid 20 yrs is too long for you to be thinking abt separation. ... (read in full...)
My wife treats sex as a reward, as its the only bargainig tool she has... would an affair be the answer?
Q. I am married to my wife for 5 years now, after dating her for 4-5 years. She is good looking and sexy and I love her. We have a 1+ old baby and another one on its way. I work from home and my business is good, so we have no financial problems at all ...
A. 26 August 2007: You almost got it spoton but forgot that two wrongs dont make a right. But some times desperate times call for desperate measures, if you tow sit down together and still fail to reach an agreement then better see a marriage concellor. May be your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of a year has just found out i'm on probation, shes angry. What d i do?
Q. My girlfriend of a year just found out I was on probation. Shes mad I didn't tell her. What should I do?...
A. 26 August 2007: At some point in life everyone is supposed to pay for a lie he/she told coz truth is never coloured. If u lied to her abt it b4, she's got the right to be angry but if she's just angry at the mere fact that u are on probation then you should start ... (read in full...)
He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me
Q. basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him ...
A. 26 August 2007: No matter what others always tell you the most important person in such a contescious matter is you. Am madly in love with adventure but that doesnt mean i have no limits. If my vriend's gal wanted me to do sth with her, i would give it a thought. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he has been conversing with another woman. How do i confront him about this?
Q. I desperately need advice. I am in a relationship with someone that I am truly in love with. we have been together for two years. He says he loves me and we have plans for the long road. I recently discovered that he has been conversing with anot...
A. 26 August 2007: Thats exactly where u might easily blow it all. pliz honey unless u have reason to suspect he is creeping on you just dont tamper with the panic button. Men can appear desparate to wed the love of their life but make no mistake, not all are ... (read in full...)
My inner lips are bigger than my outer lips! What will my husband to be think?
Q. i'm a female i think that sth is wrong in my vagina,i mean that i have an inner lip bigger than the other(meaning libia minora).it disturbs me so much and i'm going to get married,will i find any problem in intercourse and how my husband will think ...
A. 26 August 2007: How i would willingly exchange shoes with your husband to be. Am so obssesse with big vagina lips infact its one reason i love my honey so much. And i even feel that element of imbalance makes u one of the sweetest gals any man can ever go to bed ... (read in full...)
I was seeing a married man for 3 years but he loves his family so i ended it. But i'm missing him. What can i do???
Q. I was a girl fallen in love with a married man.I was 20 that time and he was 43 when we had an affair.i love him so much i even sacrifice all for him but nothing i can do. He loves his family thats why now i broke up with him. For 3 years of relation...
A. 26 August 2007: The first mistake you made was letting your feelings crowd the fact that you were dating a family man. However there is always a way out of everything. It's a tough one to call but i think u just need to get hold of your heart, put your morals and ... (read in full...)
I keep getting itchy and smelly.
Q. Hi My name is Sabrina and I'm in a problem now a days kindly release me from this whenever i made love with my guy itching has started in ma vagina and start smelling after 2 days I'm very depressed about it i took so many medicines but useless ...
A. 26 August 2007: It wud be wrong for any of us who aint a gaenacologist to suggest any treatment. But the atmost i can say thats an STD probably candida or siphillis. The remedy is to go for a thorough medical examinationn of your vagina by a gaenachologist.... (read in full...)
Can getting fingered damage you?
Q. When being fingered can your body be damaged? so you can't have kids or anything like that? thanks...
A. 26 August 2007: Well it might especially when you get too excited to take any precautions 'cause when we are in need of pleasure we end up ignoring things like how clean are the fingers and how short are the nails. So girl watch out...... (read in full...)
I think he is a child porn addict.
Q. My boyfriend was out of town last night. I got drunk by myself (mistake) and had a thought that I would go to his apartment and look through some photos that he seemed to be hiding from me (mistake). So after much delay and trying to talk myself ...
A. 26 August 2007: I thing the guy was seeking help out of his addiction and this should be good enough to call for ur patience. If you act in a rush you could miss out on the man of your life. Remember that even you have weaknesses.... (read in full...)
How do you block numbers on a phone, he wont leave me alone!
Q. how do you block numbers on an O2 sony ericsson? please help, he won't leave me alone...
A. 26 August 2007: You dont need to do that, simply tell him off if you really cant take it any more. But be careful what you say to him coz what goes around comes round.... (read in full...)
He said he prefers porn to me sometimes.
Q. Alright, I need some advice on what I should do or say in this situation. Last night my boyfriend and I were talking about us getting married, Just the cutsie, lovey dovey conversation. Well to bring up a past problem, when I would go to bed my ...
A. 26 August 2007: Quite odd that one can prefer porn to a vagina. Personally i do watch porn sometimes but when my sweetie is around even when she doesnt want to have sex, i can never watch porn or prefer it to her. I believe that guy is at a cronic stage and needs ... (read in full...)
He's trying to work things out with his wife and has stopped calling and txting me now, i miss him, shall i call him???
Q. Ok, so I posted a question the other day and got greta responses! Thanks! My next question is: So the guy who I like that is trying to work things out with his ex-wife has kind of let up on texting and calling me back. I told him that I had a ...
A. 26 August 2007: Did i hear u say he had a wife with whom he's trying get with again? If thats so then am afraid there's little chance that u are an issue in this guy's life anymore. You should simply pray for the worst in his efforts but that would be devilish of ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how to squirt?
Q. I am 14-ish and have been wondering how to squirt...i masturbate alot.. and was just wondering...Ive put in like 2 fingers b/c that's my limit and pushed on what felt spongy-like kinda. and just held it i put more pressure and it felt like i was ...
A. 26 August 2007: Peeing is very different from squirting. Squirting comes due to intensively un controllable spasms running thrugh your body specifically at the highest level of sexual excitement or climax. Its not easy for you as woman to reach it but continued ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from a jacuzzi (if there's man-love floating in it)?
Q. My boyfriend and i are going to be using my jacuzzi tub tomorrow night (not for sex, but other things) and the whole pregnancy issue resurfaced again..Does anyone know if its possible to get pregnant if sperm gets released into the water of the ...
A. 26 August 2007: No i dont think so and so there should be no worry... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity, what do i do?
Q. Hi everyone. I kinda need help. you see im a virgin and i think im ready to loose it to this guy i know. I mean like he is soo sweet and he makes me feel sooo good inside. but the thing is hes not a virgin. we talk about the subject "sex" when we a...
A. 25 August 2007: I know how special most girls want there first sex to be but from what i have studied, it aint at all. However life is what u make it. I belive sex is something you can get as long as you want it especially when it comes to ladies This is bcoz there ... (read in full...)
We talk all the time, but I don't know if I should ask her to the school dance or not
Q. I got a problem I like this one girl at my school and sometimes we talk to each other in class and I can't tell if she is just being nice or not. At our school we usually hang out with our other friends all day unless we have a class togeather if we ...
A. 25 August 2007: Everything that we do in life starts with an element of trying. If you really want to dance with this cutie, please let her know early enough coz her decison on which scholl and with whom to dance may be influenced by your interest.... (read in full...)
I like this guy but what do you think he wants, is he playing me???
Q. well this is my problem... ok well i liked this boy last year well i had this big crush!! i mean i even dressed different 4 him 2 notice me and dont get me wrong it worked!! but come to find out he had a jealous x girlfriend. well one da...
A. 25 August 2007: Puppy love! is what i usually call it. This is not take anything away from it but you should not be so upset coz you are yet to see how complex boys can be. This guy was simply upset when you just came up and told him about a girl who might still be ... (read in full...)
My ex just got engaged, but then slept with me!
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for a couple of years. We broke up but remained good friends. Out of the blue he told me that he was getting married to a girl he's known for three weeks... I found this very strange, as he is not the type of ...
A. 25 August 2007: The strangest thing i might have ever met 3 years ago. But like i have always stressed, there is nothing apart from God's will that can completely ever destroy what has happened btn a man and a woman b4 as long as they sleep togethr. I dont think ... (read in full...)
Mixed race relationship. How can i get his family to accept me?
Q. Help!! i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and i converted to islam a month before we got together, and were now getting serious. he has very strong family ties and values. i have met his brother in law who basicslly interviewed me o...
A. 25 August 2007: YES! it will. Its very rare for the boy's relatives to find a gal appropriate for him especially when it comes to his mother. Its even worse when you come from a different part of the world.But take it from me that where there is a will, there will ... (read in full...)
He cheated online , and now I dont trust him and am a jealous maniac!
Q. I have recently found out my partner of three years have been 'cheating' online with a girl he claims he never met. I came across a saved msn conversation on the computer which was quite graphic, this girl knew I exsisted as she asked where I was, ...
A. 25 August 2007: Its unbelivable that u've developed such a great deal of dissatisfaction from mere conversations and no physical cheating. This would be a hard case to prove for divorce in court though you really have reason to worry. I have this gut feeling that ... (read in full...)
I am married and dont want to jeapordize that, but I think I met my soulmate!
Q. I'm wondering if anyone else is in my situation. I'm a happily married woman. I still love my husband dearly and we have never had any problems. A few months ago, I was blown away when I met another man. We were introduced through work and were ...
A. 25 August 2007: My dear gal this is a complicated situation to find oneself into but i can explain that. First of all, from experience, this is infatuation and not love. PERIOD. Not everybody is comfortable when u are happily married. And if so then at least SATAN ... (read in full...)
HELP!
Q. HI, I was hoping someone could give me some advuce. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have a beautiful son, I really love him but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. We were very very close but I feel like I can't talk to ...
A. 19 August 2007: You are already special. Its just that you have lost yuor raw confidence and libido after your first kid. This is absolutely know and shouldnt pose a threat to your relationship. The other thing is that you are assuming too much and reading alot ... (read in full...)
Can you get someone to develop feeling for you?
Q. Do you think there is any way to get somebody to develop feelings for you? The reason why I am asking is because I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend and he told me he still cares for me a lot but doesn't have those feelings to take the ...
A. 19 August 2007: Funny enough that sounds like both of you are in love again. So i think by denying that he has any feelings for you ,is just simply mere words. So the best thing to do is try to get him believe that you really feel very intimate around him coz by ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess it up.
Q. hey me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and we talked about sex (were both virgins) but im woried that im gonna screw up any advice?...
A. 19 August 2007: Come on big oy, by the time you hook a honey, and even get to intimately talk about sex, what else is left that you cant discuss with her? May you just dont know how to get her to bed and are worried that u might do it the wrong way. But remember a ... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?
Q. I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...
A. 18 August 2007: I must confess that sometimes m tempted to look down on porn superstars but when i come th think of it more deeply, i just appreciate what they do. Its not the best thing you can do for a living coz you are still only 18 .But if its waht you like to ... (read in full...)
I don't seem to feel anything sex-wise, down there?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. He can get me really horney and get me to the point where I REALLY want sex..and his dick inside of me...but when he does its like I dont really have much feeling down there. I have NEVER ...
A. 18 August 2007: Seee sex is more psycological than physical because it all starts from the brain. As long as your brain aint tuned to it, you are as good as fullfilling a routine. However their are so many people like you in the world and the good news is there are ... (read in full...)
Is it gross to have sex while you are on?
Q. I have a date with my boyfriend this Sunday, August 19. The thing is that we always do it, but I got my period today Saturday. Do you think is gross to do it, or does your period stop? Know should I tell him, im on it or what? Help??...
A. 18 August 2007: I dont believe in having sex when one is having her periods. Infact i usually take it as my wife's grace period unless she is really in need.... (read in full...)
He could not get it in.
Q. ok i usually know this but um well me and my boyfriend tried having sex today see we were fine we had our clothes on but that shouldnt matter we knew where it went he was fingering me and well we just couldnt get it in? this is both our first time ...
A. 18 August 2007: First, Daglish is back after a long period on the sidelines. Second, both of you guyz just arent ready to have sex. Infact you are lucky he couldnt just get it in.... (read in full...)
How should I approach getting more physical with my girlfriend without risking causing distance between us?
Q. What I'm wondering is how I should approach getting more physical with my girlfriend. She seems only to follow my lead in nearly everything. Which can be bad, because I'm hesitant to try certain things with her for fear of being turned down. At ...
A. 28 July 2007: Just like everything is supposed to start from some where, your physical intimacy is supposed to start from some where. The problem is that u are supposed to initiate your girl coz most are shy even when they are dying to drag a man to bed. However ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how I can be better at sex on top!!?
Q. The guy am with and I enjoy sex and we try a lot of different things and it is really good, but he wants me to be on top. I have no problem with this and I have tried, but I am doing something wrong. I feel like I don't have good rhythm, and he k...
A. 28 July 2007: For caution's sake try as much as possible not to do things you are not comfortable with during sex. Sex is supposed to be the source of the greatest pleasure one benefits from love. As an act of love you should be considerate to your partner as ... (read in full...)
I ended it without good reason and I still like him
Q. I went out with this guy for a month before but it ended because of something my 'friend' told me that i thought was true. I still like him though but i don't know what to do because he likes someone else now and it feels odd. I feel stupid, as ...
A. 28 July 2007: When you choose to listen to rumours you have got to be ready to live by them. Its even worse that u feel bad abt what u did. I personnally dont think u should. First of all there must be other reasons why you ended this stint but its not me to ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him I'm not going to cheat on him?
Q. Trust issues with my BF: Ok, so we've been together for 11 months. I'm 18, he's 22. He's my first BF, and I'm the first girl he has lasted so long with in a relationship. One of his exes cheated on him with one of his friends. His father abandone...
A. 28 July 2007: Its sad there are gentlemen who cant see the jewels behind their stubbornness. This guy is not really serious .Am sorry but we have to speak abt certain things even when they hurt. Love doesnt ask questins like WHY?, WHEN? HOW? AND WHAT? ! It just ... (read in full...)
What symptoms of pregnancy are there besides weight gain and missing periods?
Q. Hey there, just a quick question what are the symptoms of pregnancy? Not like missed period or gaining weight i mean other symptoms before you know....
A. 28 July 2007: Absolutely uncountable because most of them vary for one woman to another. Some of them include;
1)Unstable body temperature; If you have a personal clinical or digital thermometer, you usual temperature should be btn 36.9 and 37.6. But when you ... (read in full...)
My ex wont even talk to me and I just want him back!
Q. I broke up with my ex of 5 years almost 6 months ago.. I still love him but it was a bitter ending and he won't speak to me anymore. He always told me no matter what happened he would always be there for me if i needed to talk and that no one would ...
A. 28 July 2007: Its Strange that you are still in love with your Ex but atleast its true. Always be careful how you handle matters to do with rocked relationships. Most people in the world have over the years lied to themselves that one can terminate a romantic ... (read in full...)
He gets freaked when I discuss emotional issues with him! Why is he like this?
Q. The other day me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he asked me a question that led to me talking about some pretty emotional things, like abandonment issues, my worries and fears. The next night he told me he had been thinking about it ...
A. 28 July 2007: My dear Sassy, not all men have issues with handling emotional problems. However your worries are pretty substantial but no need to start pressing panic buttons. The need for some worry is understandable though you should be looking on the bright ... (read in full...)
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