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... Send *aglish a private message | | | *aglish's profile:well big-ups to all of you guyz out there.. its really great that i have got this chance to join you. Its been always my pleasure to help people coz though iam still in my early 20's, i have been thru alot.. i hate to deliberate coz many wont believe it. However in brief, i have done some psychology specifically in the field of relationship-building as the main theme of sociolization. But books aren't all that i have to show but even the numerous complications that have indirectly and directly come my way.. Right now i want to give thanx to God that i finally have a stable relationship with a one Doreen T N back here in Kampala,Uganda. Both of us are having the time of our lives because of the experiences each of us has been thru.Its on this background therefore that i want to help my numerous friends and SPECIFICALLY SISTERS and brothers who might have any gliches in their love affairs in all aspects of the field |
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He gets freaked when I discuss emotional issues with him! Why is he like this?
Q. The other day me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he asked me a question that led to me talking about some pretty emotional things, like abandonment issues, my worries and fears. The next night he told me he had been thinking about it ...
A. 28 July 2007: My dear Sassy, not all men have issues with handling emotional problems. However your worries are pretty substantial but no need to start pressing panic buttons. The need for some worry is understandable though you should be looking on the bright ... (read in full...)
I walked out of his home two weeks ago after he said he didn't want a dead relationship and he hasn't made any contact... do I ring him???
Q. I believe my relationship of 8 years is over. The past 2 years haven't been too good for either of us due to my belief that he was seeing someone else. I'm sure he had a fling but he made a lot of effort to keep us together. Alas my trust was not as ...
A. 27 July 2007: Thats where we should learn to always think twice be4 we act.. Am sorry am having pains getting any kind words for you because walking out of a relationship was never to be a solution in first place. Its unbelivable that your now ex went to pains to ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out, only problem is I fear her rejection...
Q. I'm 17 and there is a girl who I like, 2 years younger. My famly don't like her, and I personally used to hate her, and she like wise, yet the other day when I saw her, I just longed for her. We only talked for a minute but we had matured. I want to ...
A. 27 July 2007: Its never easy later on wise to just wake up one morning and ask a girl out after just second of jazz. You might alot about her but in the negative context like you have mantioned abt the family stuff. What you need to do now that u have actually ... (read in full...)
Anyway if I start online dating which are the best ones and is it ok to tell them that I am a virgin?
Q. I am a 22 year old virgin female not sure about online dating. Is it ok? Though I am trying to finish college I decided not to start dating until I am 25 or 26, however not only did my mother tell me not to date during junior high and high school ...
A. 27 July 2007: I was avirgin at 21. Nothing feels as good as being a virgin even when everybody is screwing around you . Infact if i was the lucky guy dating dating you online, i would do everything to take this electronic relate to the highest level possible. ... (read in full...)
When I was drunk she kissed me on the cheek about 3 times and asked me if I liked it? Do you think she likes me or am I just being paranoid ?
Q. well I'm a girl and I love a girl, I've never felt attracted to the same sex before. She talks to me about liking these lads but when we walk down the road she will hold my hand, seems like nothing but she stops half way down the street and we ...
A. 27 July 2007: Ya, pretty sure this girl likes you and i personally think you are being cold towards her and your feelings. Trust me when a gal seems to be intimately attracted towards another, then thats something pretty biggerthan infatuation or silly play. So ... (read in full...)
I started sleeping with a girl I really like while her boyfriend was away; he's coming back and she doesn't want to see me as often. What should I do?
Q. A few months ago, i became friendly with a local girl who moved over here. She was stunningly good looking and way out of my league, and i found out she had a boyfriend who'd gone to australia for a year. But as we became friends i found out she ...
A. 27 July 2007: Variety is what everybody dies for today in the world of democracy. This has too come with disadvantages. Sit down and weigh the gains of continuing in such a relationship against the risks of this act. My stand would be that; having tasted what ... (read in full...)
How can I best find out the level of intimacy my girl is ready for ?
Q. hi, I just wanted suggestions on how best to find out what level of intimacy my girlfriend requires as we progress through our relationship. I know that asking her seems to be the obvious answer. But i'm afraid that she might say "ok" to me whatever ...
A. 27 July 2007: Like poles always repel. Nobody says that you should be as over sensitive and emotional as your girl. Am afraid if you continue this way, this might as well turn out to be an embarassingly boring relationship. Girls like there boyfriends to be the ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex twice, what are the chances I might be pregnant?
Q. Hi, I stupidly had unprotected sex twice when I was ovulatating, two weeks ago and I'm due my preiod next week. I'm 17 I just wondered what the likliness is that I could be pregnant? and how long would I have to wait to find out for sure? I wont be ...
A. 25 July 2007: Personally i dont think the question shd be whether might be preggy or not. But how stupidly could you have unprotected sex more than once? Am sorry, i aint trying to pin you here but the chances of getting pregnant prior to, during and immediately ... (read in full...)
I want to give my ex boyfriend my virginity as a birthday present
Q. well heres the thing. i'm 14. iv'e split up with my boyfriend about a month ago now. but i still love him very much. lately he's started speaking to me again like how things used to be. i asked him what he wanted for his birthday and his answer ...
A. 25 July 2007: well to be frank, i dont think its a bright idea to even think of giving away your virginity b4 u are married.. It dont matter whether u love this guy or not, it jst aint right..If he really needs to scratch you this early then am afraid he's gonna ... (read in full...)
Do i do it when he's hard or soft?
Q. hi, I'm about to go out with this guy and he is more experienced than me and i wanna kno how to give a blow job. and when you do is he hard or soft when u start?...
A. 25 July 2007: come on honey, pick it up when its still soft. Though its very rare for a guy to have his tool soft when he knows he's gonna eat the friut..But just in case he turns out flacid please be sure he's clean enough or use a condom to give him 'head' ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel unattractive and stupid during sex; how can I feel more confident?
Q. How can I be more relaxed and confident when I'm having sex? Sometimes during sex I just feel really stupid with what I'm doing even though I like it and sometimes I feel very unattractive. how can I just "let go"?...
A. 25 July 2007: It sounds funny that you actually have time to think about such during romp. Gal you know what, i doubt u give sex ur all! The only way you can ever enjoy it is only if u focus on nothing else apart from two things; you and the guy or guys in ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 29 and ready to settle but so far my relationships have failed; why could this be?
Q. Hi, after so many relationships obviosly not succecful I am alone again, the reason why i am concerned is cos i am 28 soon 29 and despared for settling with the right person and have kids, but for some reason seems I do push people away, is it cos I ...
A. 25 July 2007: The last thing u should ever sound in life is desperate coz this way u earn more sadists than sympathisers. So my dear Jaklina, does 28 seem to be the age at which a woman should lose hopes of marriage? If u thought so, better think again coz each ... (read in full...)
How can I subtly as my boyfriend what he enjoys during sex?
Q. How can I ask a guy what he really likes during sex without just asking "what do you like during sex". anyone got some subtle questions that might help?...
A. 25 July 2007: sound simple a question but it can be such a brain teaser. Always try to make sure you are very free with ur boy first so that there is no storm when such a querie pops up. Most people including myself would be like, "How would do you really like ... (read in full...)
He seems obsessed with building a collection of online friends; I think he's choose them over me!
Q. My boyfriend is adding new single women (who look like me by the way) on his MySpace Account and he gets defensive with me whenever I try to ask him why. He says most of his friends male or female have actually asked him to be his friend and I ...
A. 24 July 2007: Am really sorry to read what u r going through coz it can be disturbing when the only person you love seems to have some lots of time for other electonic friends. However have you ever sat down and asked yourself the true cause of your mentioned ... (read in full...)
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