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I hadn't seen him for 12 years. I like him. Does he just see me as a friend???

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Question - (29 August 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey dearcupid..

I am 14 and met up with this guy today and have known him since i was born as our parents were really good friends. Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so. At first it was slightly awkward as i fancied him and was shy. After about 30 minutes we were of talking none stop. I got along with him soo well and felt like i had known him for forever. He asked mee who i fancied and i just paused.

He glanced at me a lot when i wasnt looking and i smiled a lot. He asked for my number and myspace.

Does he really like me or am i just another one of his friend girls?

Please answer soon because i am like crazy over him and i don't want to get hit down.

Thankss. xxxxxx

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (30 August 2007):

stina agony auntHello Anonymous,

I don't know what this guy is like, but from the sounds of it he may like you. Why don't you see if he wants to get together sometime - maybe for a movie or something. The more you hang out together, the more you'll figure out what the deal is. He might even just tell you straight up if you get to be more comfortale around one another. ^_^

Take care.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou say you are 14 but you say " Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so." Frank just did his math.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

"Frank B Kermit" this is completely and utterly a true question. You though have misread it. I never said i fancied him at 2... MISREAD. Why would say i fancied him at 2?! You by the sounds have things have commented on this question just to give that advice- DON'T

I ask for help not critisism.

Please never speak to me again.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (30 August 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntThis can not be a real question.

You fancied him when you were only 2 years old, and now want to know if you are just friends?

You remember him from 2 years old? its been 12 years, and......

Oh please, this can NOT be a real question.

-Frank B Kermit

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A male reader, daglish Uganda +, writes (30 August 2007):

daglish agony auntSorry but that sounds like you know the answer. Its funny what guys can take girls to be and so you can never know. How he turns out to take u to be will depend on the signals u give him. Pliz just be modest in your character and be nice to him only when you feel its necessary if not at all times.

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A male reader, Clive890 United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2007):

Clive890 agony auntI recon he does like you, but is a bit unsure as you have only just met after a very long time. But id keep chating to him and see where it goes. He clearly does like you whether as a friend or more, but remember all great relationships come from a good friendship. So as i said before, just keep chating and prehaps flirt with him abit, see his responses he may flirt back. But if in real doubt just ask him, no harm in asking. If he does say no then just smile and carry on as friends.

Hope that helped x

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