Not sure if I can go through with the abortion
Q. hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good ...
A. 7 January 2009: Don't terminate this pregnancy unless you are certain that is what you want to do. It would be awful for you to regret this decision later on when it is too late.
How does you boyfriend feel about keeping the baby? 4 months isnt a long time but... (read in full...)
Sometimes its like she's flirting...
Q. Hey, I know lots of people ask this about their teachers but this is literally driving me mad. I am a 18 yr old lesbian from nrth england and i am madly in love with my 28yr old business teacher. and i have been for almost a year now. She is appr...
A. 7 January 2009: Dont do anything about this until you are no longer her student. Just if anything were to happen between you then she would be abusing her position as your teacher.
Maybe once you are no longer her student you could tell her that you will mis... (read in full...)
Female curious about animal sex
Q. my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...
A. 4 January 2009: It is illegal and wrong and yes she would probably catch something nasty!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my old school friend that I fancy her in a sexual way?
Q. Okay i am 23 years old and have never been in a relationship before. I have been on a few dates with guys before but it has never lead anywhere. I have only ever kissed a guy before. recently i found out that an old school friend of mine is...
A. 4 January 2009: I think that you should tell her - it may be she feels the same way about you?
I wouldnt worry that you have never been in a relationship you will know when the time is right for you and it will come naturally.
Just try and talk to her abou... (read in full...)
Do I go back to my abusive ex bf or stay with my current guy?
Q. I have recently split up with my partner of 2 and a half years (billy). He has hit me several times and i had also stopped fancying him, i went off sex with him so i decided that it was time to end it. I have started seeing an ex boyfriend (Jason), ...
A. 4 January 2009: Hi,
Im sorry i can't tell you what to do as that has to be your decision.
However my personal opinion is to stay with your nice new guy! Ask yourself why you want to go back to your abusive ex? Is it really worth the heartache?
I think you f... (read in full...)
Could anyone give me advice on why the imflamed vaginal lip still hasn't gone down to nornal size?
Q. I was coming off my period but had to go to work, I knew I wasn't able to have any breaks so I wore a sanitary towel just to be safe. I never bled when I was at work so as the towel was dry and rough, irritation occurred. After my shift I reali...
A. 4 January 2009: I think that you should definately get it checked out. Dont feel embarassed about it your doctor will help you and there may be something that can be done to reduce the swelling.
... (read in full...)
I missed a pill. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, I've been on the Pill for almost 4 months. I take 21 pill packs. I started this months pack last friday. I took every Pill regularly, except on wednesday. That day I forgot it. Sadly, on Thursday I took my pill a few hours later than u...
A. 8 March 2008: I would say that it is unlikely but there is a small possibility so id recommend the morning after pill to be on the safe side.
xx... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't wait for someone special?
Q. Hi, I´m a 28 yrs old female virgin too (seems that are a lot of us around here). In my case, it havent´t happened for lack of opportunity. I´ve been always been too "right". With my first boyfriend, when I was about to do, he dumped me. Then nev...
A. 4 September 2007: im 22 and still am a virgin. i think its important to meet someone special and make sure it is right for you i dont think it would be good to go with anyone i think there would be regret. ... (read in full...)
During the holidays in Portugal I fell in love with a native! He mentioned moving here but I doubt there really is a chance...
Q. Hi i just got back from holidays in portugal. whilst i was there i met a man and i felt so close to him i only knew him for a week but we really did fall for each other. Now since i have been home i cant stop crying and i miss him so much. he calls ...
A. 4 September 2007: I met a guy on my holidays and i feel the same he is all i think about. Ive been talking to him since i came home and i think he is expecting more than i can give him. My advice to you is that you are young and maybe not ready for such a commitm... (read in full...)
My friend has asked me not to go see my holiday romance as she thinks I don't know him well enough and thinks I'm putting myself in a dangerous position...
Q. I met a lovely guy when i went on holiday. I didnt really get to know him that well till towards the end of the holiday. We have since been txting a lot. He was a barman when i met him but he now HAS to serve his time in the army. He wants me to go ...
A. 4 September 2007: Follow your heart! if its meant to be you will know. If your friend is worried ask her to go with you! You say you are inexperienced im guessing you mean you havent has a sexual relationship? Just be aware and make sure that he doesnt expect to... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?
Q. is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...
A. 24 July 2007: Wait until you are ready - you will know when the time is right and you wont feel you need to ask if you should.
It will be worth the wait .
xx... (read in full...)
What shall i do with my husbands online cheating?
Q. My question is 'what should I do with my husband'? He was caught in December meeting women online then calling them and then actually meeting in person two of them. He did not have sexual relations, but just the same it hurt. He promised...
A. 24 July 2007: I think you need to tell him now that you refuse to put up with this, you deserve better.
Maybe a trial seperation will make him realise that his behaviour has been out of order and make him re think what he wants from your relationship.
OKa... (read in full...)
I want to kiss and do more with my male cousin.
Q. Hi. i am male and 14 years old. my male cousin is 17 yaers old and i fancy the pants off of him. he slept round my house looking after me one night and we both decided to get naked even though we could'nt see each others privates we knew it was ...
A. 24 July 2007: Okay...
I think you are rather young to be thinking about a sexual relationship with anyone. Are you sure you are ready to go that far?
He is older than you and would be in the eyes of the law having sex with a minor - therefore it is very risk... (read in full...)
His horoscope said 'an ex is back'! How much validity do you think this has?
Q. Things have been going beautifully between my b/f and I for the past few months, after much stress over an ex-girlfriend that took him 4 years to get over because he insisted on remaining friends with her, even though she's manipulative, intrusive ...
A. 24 July 2007: Dont worry about the horoscope.
I read mine regular and none of it happens like the predict. Its all made up - that would mean every person who is a gemini (for example) can expect the same thing.
Ignore it!... (read in full...)
Does my tutor fancy me?
Q. Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A week or two ago was t...
A. 22 July 2007: Okay...
I think that he does like you - but you have to remember he has a girlfriend so i dont know if he is after anything serious here.
Also he is a tutor and although you are old enough to be in a relationship he is in a position of trust so ... (read in full...)
Ladies, looks or personality?
Q. Are looks more important to women than personality? Or vice versa? I've heard looks are 30% and personality is 70% important to a women. What you guys think? As many posts as possible would be great! Thanks...
A. 22 July 2007: I dont think you can go purely on looks - just cos i person is good looking doesnt mean that they are necessarily a nice person.
I think that there needs to be an attraction there and you can be attracted to a persons personality.
I dont judge ... (read in full...)
He hasn't updated his internet profile status from 'single' to 'in a relationship'
Q. hiya what do you think it means if a guy you are seeing calls himself "single" on a internet profile thing eg facebook/myspace. He has been on it recently but has not updated his relationship status though lots of people know he is seeing someone/...
A. 21 July 2007: It could be that he is in a new relationship and doesnt feel ready to commit to it and say he is in a relationship.
He might not even realise he hasnt changed it.
... (read in full...)
I cheated because my wife cheated, but now I want my f*ckbuddy to go away
Q. Hello all, I have been thru a lot in my years of marriage. My wife has lied and cheated so many times that I gave up any hope that we would ever grow old together. After her last round of cheating, I had had enough and decided to seek out a woman ...
A. 21 July 2007: You need to talk to this woman you have been having sex with and explain to her that you were in a bad place and that she helped you through it but that (if you want to stop seeing her) it has to end.
Can you and your wife really start over? ca... (read in full...)
Why do I only want what I can't get/don't have?
Q. why do i always want what i cant have?? When i had the perfect boyfriend i didnt want him and stopped liking him. Now im single,i want my ex back but i cant have him. Can anybody shed some light on this?...
A. 21 July 2007: I think you are on some level unsure of what you want. That is why you want what you know you cant have.
Maybe you are not ready for a boyfriend? or anything like that?
A lot of people feel like this that they want what they cant have i know... (read in full...)
My wife stay's out sometimes not coming home at all.
Q. I'm married and I need advice. Recently my wife has been coming home late or not coming at all what so ever, so I confronted her and she said she's going to do whatever she wants. I thought we'd resolved this matter but she did it to me again. WHAT ...
A. 21 July 2007: Get her to sit down and talk to her.
It sounds like she is no longer commited to your marriage but i think that you at least deserve some sort of explanation she cannot just expect you to live like this.
If you marriage is over she should have ... (read in full...)
How is it neither of them have an STI?
Q. Hi, I've just found out i've got a sti, i don't sleep around it was my ex that gave it to me. I found out he had been sleeping with is ex and thats how i got it, i was unaware i had this untill me and my new partner split up. I found out i'd given hi...
A. 21 July 2007: OKay - one of these guys did give you an STI.
Whichever one it was i dont think you will find out - they r both embarassed about it.
You have told them both which was the right thing to do.
... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or not?
Q. Hey, I'm 14 and the guy i like is 16, he flirts with me quite a lot. He is always brushing up against me as if to kiss me and putting is arms round me, he has also fallen asleep on my sholder lots on coach journeys. Do you reacon he really likes me?...
A. 21 July 2007: Hi.
I think he probably does like you but is maybe being a bit cautious because of the age difference.
Its not a big age difference though its just that you are under 16 that maybe he is being a bit cautious?
I think you should talk to h... (read in full...)
I can't get a boyfriend, and i want one now.
Q. Can u help me?? Why can't i get boyfriend? I'm 15, i'm not bad looking with a confident personality, but i just can't seem to get a boyfriend. Everytime i meet a boy he's the one who makes the move. He gives me his number and asks me to ring him, ...
A. 21 July 2007: Dont be in such a rush to have a boyfriend.
I dont think you are doing anything wrong at all it sounds like its them that have the problem and want to mess you about.
Take time to get to know a guy and im sure he will like your personality ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 21 July 2007: Can i apply? Im back off holiday now and have 100% to give...... (read in full...)
Is it normal for us to enjoy filming eachother having sex with other people?
Q. I have always talked about my girlfriend have sex with other guys as a turn on. i met a girl 6 months ago and brought up this during sex. she started describing scenarios of what she would do with another guy. one day she asked if i would like her...
A. 29 June 2007: This sounds like a good idea but believe me it could destroy your relationship.
You would become paranoid and both loose the trust.... (read in full...)
What do I do to gain back her trust?
Q. ugh i feel horrible when we started going out, i promised my girlfriend that i would quit smoking which i did and did not smoke afterward at all, and i have kept all my other promises... yesterday my friend wanted me to smoke his last ciga...
A. 4 June 2007: Just be honest and tell her that you made a mistake and you have no intention of doing this again.
You broke a promise to her and she is bound to feel a bit let down by it.
Explain that you did it to help a friend give up the fags.
Jus... (read in full...)
I am 30 years old and I see women my age who are totally in love or happily married. I just don’t see myself that way.
Q. Hello, I am not sure how to ask you what I need to know; I’ve had boyfriends and I’ve gone in many dates. When I start going out with someone I always get to like them very much and care deeply and sometimes even love, as a friend, but it was ...
A. 4 June 2007: I think there is something preventing you from falling in love?
Are you scared of being hurt or let down?
It could simply be that you have yet to meet the right person. 30 is still young.
Its not fair to mislead your boyfriend and li... (read in full...)
I'm a male and feel attracted to my male friend but I'm NOT gay! What's wrong with me?
Q. I think I REALLY need help! I don't think if this is the right site to ask this but... I got atrracted by my best male friend! We like to spend time together but we're not gay! I feel so strange! What is wrong with me?!...
A. 4 June 2007: Nothing is wrong with you.
Do you feel like you fancy your friend or like you are close (brother kind of love)
Most young girls/boys feel curious/confused about their sexuality and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex.
... (read in full...)
I think I've fallen in love with a guy I met in Turkey!
Q. i recently went on holiday with my mum and dad, we met up with my auntie, uncle and cousin over in turkey, during the week on holiday We became very friendly with the lads that worked at the hotel, and there was 1 that i was attracted to (although i ...
A. 4 June 2007: Keep talking to him via phone or internet.
If its meant to be then it will happen - but i think you need to wait until you reach 16 before you even consider a relationship with him.
There is a bit of an age difference and a lot of girls feel lik... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my best friend's little sister
Q. I have a crush on my best friend's little sister. I really don't know what to do about it...I've always been able to take confidence in the fact that if I was approached by a girl that I had moral reservations about, I could always turn it down. ...
A. 4 June 2007: How old is his sister?
Your friend is going to have a problem with it - its his little sister after all and he will be looking out for her.
If you have a relationship with her, then you both need to talk to your friend and explain how you feel.
m... (read in full...)
Why can't I get an erection???
Q. i am a 15 yr old lad who was getting 'close' to his girlfriend, problem was i couldnt get a hard on. what is wrong with me?...
A. 4 June 2007: It is probably just where you are nervous. Try to relax and make sure you are ready for a sexual relationship first and im sure it will all come natrually.
xxx... (read in full...)
My heart belongs to a married man, I need help!!
Q. My heart belongs to a married man, I need help!! We have been together for three years. He was my high school principal. I fell in love the first time I saw him. From that point on, I knew he was the one. One day I had to tell him my feelings,...
A. 4 June 2007: Ok from what i have read i dont think he is willing to ever leave his wife and be with you and only you.
you deserve so much more - you have given up a lot for this man and you have got nothing back.
Is it too late to do the cheer leading?
... (read in full...)
I thought he was joking, when he said "he had a daughter"..he's only 22! Did I react badly?
Q. I am 20 years old and met this guy whom i really like. He is the sweetest and most considerate guy, and i am madly in love with him. I saw a picture in his room and when i asked who the people in the picture were, he told me that it is him and his ...
A. 4 June 2007: Just let him know how commited you are to your relationship and be ready to accept his daughter.
Its not like she is going to be living with you, so you wont be expected to be a full time parent towards her.
I think your reaction was normal o... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...
A. 4 June 2007: it sounds to me like your boyfriend is curious, whether or not he has acted on this curiousity is something else.
The cleaning side of things could be a compulsive obcessive disorder if he is cleaning a lot.
I think you need to ask his friend (... (read in full...)
This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday.
Q. This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday. I have been on many holidays but its since I have hit around 16 I have become less bothered about going away. The thing is I am going with my girlfriend in a week and I am ...
A. 4 June 2007: Im in exactly the same situation as you and i feel the same!
I go on friday and im terrified!
I think once im there itll be okay its just the first time away on your own (in a sense) is going to feel scary.
Try not to think about it too muc... (read in full...)
I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 4 June 2007: You need to tell her why you ended things with her, be completely honest tell her how you regret doing this and wish you hadnt pushed her away.
She might forgive you and take you back but you need to be truthful with her about everything and reas... (read in full...)
If I kiss another girl on the cheek as in a greeting, I feel I'm cheating! Is this bad?
Q. hi this may sound like a stupid question but ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months, i just wanted to know that is it a bad thing to kiss another girl who is a friend or sumone you'r being introduced to as a matter of politeness on the cheek like ...
A. 4 June 2007: i dont think you should feel like you were cheating at all. like you said you didnt see this girl in that kind of way any how.
I think a kiss on the cheek is a polite way of greeting someone and you shouldnt feel bad about it.
Its clear that you... (read in full...)
When I shave my legs it hurts so bad because I have very sensitive skin. Anyone got any ideas?
Q. I have dark hair on my legs so I have to shave it but I also have very sensitive skin. Whenever I am shaving my upper legs it hurts like something wicked. I use a venus disposible razor with some sort of shaving gel. I have tried alternatives to ...
A. 3 June 2007: Try a sensitive shaving gel or a baby lotion. and moisturise after.
maybe a different razor might help.
have you ever tried veet shaving kit? they do one for sensitive skin, you just leave it on and then wash off works a treat.
xx... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to him physically, is that something that could change with time?
Q. I went out with a guy once, and I wasn't really attracted to him. He's called me a few times since then, and we had great conversations on the phone. He has many good qualities--he's intelligent, has a good job, he's friendly, he actually seems to ...
A. 3 June 2007: I dated this guy for a couple of weeks knowing i didnt find him physically attractive, but i thought id give it a chance. I ended it and he was really mad that i lead him on. oops!
I think that if you dont think of him like that now then are you ... (read in full...)
Should I trust her alone with my boyfriend?
Q. i met this girl at a job that i had and we became cool. i also met a guy there who became my boyfriend. One day me and my boyfriend went out and he said that she was going to open up her own business and gave her number to him. She never ...
A. 3 June 2007: I think this girl fancies your boyfriend and no i dont think you can trust her.
The thing you need to ask yourself is can you trust your boyfriend to be alone with her? You definately cant trust her.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you... (read in full...)
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