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writes:Hey, I know lots of people ask this about their teachers but this is literally driving me mad.I am a 18 yr old lesbian from nrth england and i am madly in love with my 28yr old business teacher. and i have been for almost a year now. She is apprently a lesbian as well but obviously because of the situation it has never been confirmed!Sometimes i feel like she is flirting with me then other times i am not so sure. We chat loads and have so much in common, like hobbies, music tastes, tv programmes etc and always chat about these things.When ever i walk past her room she either stares and smiles, or just stares. we are always catching each others eyes.When i am in the room with her we chat and smile and always just have these little looks at each other.The other day i stayed after school with a couple of other students and another teacher. about 10 minutes into the session this teacher came up to me and sat behind me, putting one of her legs up on the table in front of me and on my bag. she then stood up and leant over my shoulder i could feel her breathe and her leaning near enough on my back. Her hands we literally cm away from mine. She then sat with me for the rest of the session and we just sat chatting.then today everytime i saw her i had the biggest smile from her and when i stayed after school again she was there and we kept meeting eye contact.my only problem is that i really dont know if it is in my head or there is something generally there.I leave school in June and i dont know if i should do something about it then.....Helppppp please.Am i being irrational?!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do you guys think tho, do you think its in my head or maybe something is there.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Dont do anything about this until you are no longer her student. Just if anything were to happen between you then she would be abusing her position as your teacher.
Maybe once you are no longer her student you could tell her that you will miss her and try to get something from her response.
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reader, Jillybean234  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Hm. Well first of all, I wouldnt want want to flirt, or have any type of relationship with a teacher that is anything borderline flirting. It can get the teacher in a lot of trouble or worse, fired. If you really think she likes you then i would wait until the end of the school year and tell her how much you enjoy talking to her and ask for her email so that you can keep incontact. Once your out of school, no teachers are off limits. So i wouldput yourself at there towards the end of the yeaar. You have nothing to lose. If it turns out she wasnt flirting and is not a lesbian then its not like you would go back to school embarassed because school would be over. you know what i mean? Best of luck!
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