A
female
age
41-50,
*ifeislife
writes:Hello, I am not sure how to ask you what I need to know; I’ve had boyfriends and I’ve gone in many dates. When I start going out with someone I always get to like them very much and care deeply and sometimes even love, as a friend, but it was never enough to fall and be in love. I am 30 years old and I see women my age who are totally in love or happily married. I just don’t see myself that way. I am about to move in with my boyfriend because I figured `hey if I can’t fall in love at least be with someone I truly get along with` and trust me, I know this is wrong and unfair. My questions is, is it really possible that someone, like me, not want to be deeply involved, therefore, unconsciously never truly fall in love? I thought we couldn’t choose these things… I thought it was just supposed to happen, I was wrong and I do wish one day to be in love… Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 theres something holding u back u may not want to admit it but there is. every1 can fall in love but sometimes there is somethin holding them back. u could go counsellin if u want to find out want could be wrong somethin could of happen in ur past that u blocked out
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female
reader, candy00s +, writes (4 June 2007):
 I think there is something preventing you from falling in love?
Are you scared of being hurt or let down?
It could simply be that you have yet to meet the right person. 30 is still young.
Its not fair to mislead your boyfriend and lie about how you feel towards him.
Love is something that grows i dont believe you can find or feel love immediately
can you grow to love him?
if not then keep looking there is someone who will set you heart on fire out there.
xxx
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