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writes:I think I REALLY need help! I don't think if this is the right site to ask this but... I got atrracted by my best male friend! We like to spend time together but we're not gay! I feel so strange! What is wrong with me?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2007): Wow, I thought It was just me. I guess this is normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): I dont think there is anything wrong with you. I have the same problem. My best friend and I are always together, and I have sudden urges to kiss or what not. But I think it might be a phase, or I'm just extremly close to her. It'll work out.
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 You're just doing what friends should do - hang out n' have a laugh. You probably feel this way cos you're close.....nothing wrong with you.
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reader, Misty_Rain  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 I have the same problem...in away. I have been friends with my female friend since we were in fourth grade...now we are 23 yrs old. I have been attracted to her since we were seniors. And I did make out with her once, when we were really REALLY drunk. And I love her so much, and had to distiguish it between whiether it was because she had been my best friend for so long or I was really in love with her. And after a while I noticed that I wanted to be with her because we were close, like sisters than lovers. I'm not guy or bi-sexual...and I have been with my boyfriend for five years, but I somethimes feel like I want to be with her relatioship wise. It is confusing and hard, but maybe it is because you think of him more like a brother that you haven't seen in years, and just want to hang out while you have the chance. So there is nothing wrong with you...promise.
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reader, crazyclemens2005 +, writes (4 June 2007):
 no nothing is wrong with you. people get wierd fases where you have somthing like this happen. most likely theres somthing behid it like not having a gf or having other problems in your life. in other case you and your friend migjht jst be good friends and its a totally different feeling you are having not attraction.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Nothing is wrong with you.
Do you feel like you fancy your friend or like you are close (brother kind of love)
Most young girls/boys feel curious/confused about their sexuality and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex.
I think maybe you both are close and you have confused this bond for something more?
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