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Should I tell my old school friend that I fancy her in a sexual way?

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Question - (4 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay i am 23 years old and have never been in a relationship before. I have been on a few dates with guys before but it has never lead anywhere. I have only ever kissed a guy before.

recently i found out that an old school friend of mine is gay. we used to be good friends and i keep finding myself thinking about her, thinking about her in a sexual way.

I dont know what to do - should i tell her that i like her and find her sexually attractive? Its just that i am so inexperienced and im scared of getting close to anyone, i really dont want to push her away.

Any Advice?

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A female reader, scorpian lady United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2009):

I wouldn't tell her how you feel about her. You can contact her, saying how much you miss your old friendship. Maybe suggest you get toghether and then see where things lead. She'll get the message if you still like her and she feels the same way. Good luck x

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

candy00s agony auntI think that you should tell her - it may be she feels the same way about you?

I wouldnt worry that you have never been in a relationship you will know when the time is right for you and it will come naturally.

Just try and talk to her about how you feel.

Good luck

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