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My name's Anna, a mod on DC since 2007, I feel we have here a small community I grew very fond of as I am always looking forward to read your thoughts, I like the exchange of experiences and I think this is a wonderful site as it provides us with the opportunity to be solidary and learn from one another.
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My husband is very quiet and doesn't make much conversation with anyone... including me! What can I do?
Q. Hi, i'm at a loss as to what to do about my husband. He just doesn't make conversation- with me nor other people. He's got worse as he's got older, not better. And the worst thing about this is that i've got a really outgoing personality and ...
A. 8 August 2009: Well, he can't 'get' a personality, he already has one, it seems he is the phlegmatic type. He sounds a bit apathetic too. You can't change the situation much. How come you haven't considered this before marriage, I wonder? It may be a boring life, ... (read in full...)
If he wants sex, I feel used. If he doesn't want sex, I feel rejected!
Q. Question to all: What would make you feel better given that you still love your ex and hopes to get back with, that he/she wants to have sex with you or that he/she no longer wants to have sex with you? Coz I am confused, my ex wanted to have s...
A. 8 August 2009: Lazyguy is right, your ex is your ex for a reason. You sound very confused, take a step back and take a look at the situation. If you know he is a player and a user, don't give in to his charms, plainly. Your self-esteem is clearly not at its peak ... (read in full...)
Why has she contacted me again to set me up with other girls??
Q. we are both in our 20,s We never went out but had serious chemistry. We were on the verge of going out then her ex came back into the picture. She never got back with him but I guess talking to him made her like him more and me less. She played...
A. 6 August 2009: No matter how well you treat them, some people still won't like you (as much as you'd wish, at least) and you will have to come to terms with that. It can be very hard coming to terms with a rejection, but you can't 'make' someone want to be with ... (read in full...)
I feel needy. I don't want to have to rely on someone else to make me happy.
Q. I can't seem to know why, but I feel really insecure in my relationship. My past with boyfriends hasn't really done well for me as they have all ended pretty badly. I'm usually the one ending it because of the way I've been treated. It really sucks ...
A. 5 August 2009: A needy person will usually overlook any negative behaviours because she really wants to have someone around. I don't think you are so needy as you think, because you say you are usually the one who put an end to your past relationships, and ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend? She's always moody and there's no passion in our relationship!
Q. before you read any further, please don't let the length of this question put you off readling it fully! i'm going out with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, we took a break for about a month a while ago but got back together. the night we decided ...
A. 3 August 2009: The fact you think by ending the relationship you would be a happier person says a lot about how you feel and that you seem close to a saturation point and can't take this much longer. It's a warning alert when our relationship, that is supposed to ... (read in full...)
I'm always worrying about getting cancer.
Q. Hey everybody. This isnt a relationship question, but i do need some advice. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Im a 17 year old female, and i think im a hypercondriac. Not too the extreme though. Im forever worrying that im going to...
A. 3 August 2009: Well, it is good to be on the safe side but if you worry so much about being seriously ill then you obviously have a problem and there's probably little else that you notice of all that goes around you, being obsessed with your health. At this age ... (read in full...)
I'm going to put all I have to say to him in an email so how do I write it?
Q. A year after I met my boyfriend I found out he was cheating, we argued and split up for two months. He contacted me via MSN and we got chatting again, within three weeks I went running back because I was still in love with him. I thought because he ...
A. 3 August 2009: You are lying to yourself if you want to write a good-bye email and "that's it, I'm done with it" but deep inside you are looking for some kind of hope from him. What do you actually want to do after you have caught him in the wrong yet again? ... (read in full...)
He has so many beautiful female friends, how can I tell if he's really interested in me?
Q. This doesn't make much sense, but I'm seeing a guy who has a lot of female friends. His best friend is a stunningly beautiful single woman and other attractive women are always so friendly and interested in him. I'm not normally jealous, this is the ...
A. 2 August 2009: There is no sure way to tell if he is really interested so early on, as it doesn't seem you have been seeing each other for long? It's a good sign if you meet relatively often and if there is a connection at intellectual and physical levels. I see ... (read in full...)
Why do opposites attract?
Q. Why do relationships seem to last longer between people who have very little in common? I had everything in common with my girlfriend, and yet it lasted less time than the relationships where the guy is a total abusive d*ck.....
A. 2 August 2009: Women don't like abusive men, how did you reach such conclusion? There are unhealthy relationship that survive longer than they should but they are not happy. This happens for many reasons, but usually the woman is too weak to leave, or has been ... (read in full...)
What to do for the best??? Help!
Q. My bf of 8 years and I have broken up (his choice) and I need some advice on how to play it - I don't know whether I should play it cool (would he just forget me?) or fight for our relationship as I love him with all my heart, and would love to hear ...
A. 2 August 2009: 8 years together is a lot of time, I find it hard to believe you didn't have any problems in the beginning and the cheating only happened in the last couple of years. Flirting with three women at the same time, what a womaniser. It's entirely... (read in full...)
My husband and I are going through a period of limited contact. Is there anyone that can share similar stories?
Q. It seems like me and my hubby never get the amount of time together that we want. We live in two different cities in the same state that are about an hour and a half apart. We have been married now for one year. I thought he was going to be with me ...
A. 2 August 2009: This problem should be discussed with your spouse. Anything that bothers you should better not be swept under the rug, and of course it bothers you, you're just married, it's only natural. There are many articles out there with tips about surviving ... (read in full...)
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