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Why does he lie about stuff just to get away from me?

Q.   Boyfriend and I have been together a year and 6 months and we live together. How ever every time we fight, or I'm depressed or upset and cry and freak out on him he makes excuses to not be around me. Like today we have been fighting all weekend ...

A.   17 August 2014: I think your boyfriend might just be bad at confrontation. Maybe he would rather leave than continue to fight with you fearing it might end up in a breakup. I know you'd expect your boyfriend to be the one to comfort you, but maybe you could seek ... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   I'm just curious but...is my teacher just a big flirt? I've been in his class for two years, I always stop by his room before school starts to say hi, chat or to study. He poked my arm at times and jokes with me. I know a lot about him and he knows ...

A.   22 May 2011: I've gone through the same thing :/ if you ever need anyone to talk to, whenever, message me :)... (read in full...)

Was my teacher genuine or will he forget me while I wait? He told me to cool until I'm no longer a student

Q.   Okay, so I've been crushing on this teacher for a couple of years now, and we've gotten pretty close lately but he's been scolded and he told me we should cool things off for a while because he says he doesn't want to get me in trouble. He said he ...

A.   24 March 2011: Is it only the age gap or is it the fact that we are student and teacher?? :/ because in a couple months we won't be anymore, and he's dated young people before, he is kind of immature for his age.I can't help but keep in mind that he could have ... (read in full...)

Are these signs he's planning to propose?

Q.   me and my fella have been together for 9 months now, we tell eachother everyday how much we love eachother, we do everything together, have alot of fun. hes my best friend aswell as my lover. thing is hes brought me a lovely ring for christmas which ...

A.   30 December 2009: Ummm but are you 16-17?? How old is he?... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with me for being in love with a much younger girl?

Q.   [Moderator note: The OP is not asking for advice on how to pursue a young girl. He just wants reassurance that he's normal for fantasizing about being with her when she's older.] Hi I really like this 10 year old girl I dream about her that she is ...

A.   24 December 2009: Awww I think that's actually pretty cute!! It's not like your having dirty dreams about her, you're dreaming about her being your girlfriend and such! Maybe right now it seems like such a great age gap, but in the future it won't be such an issue. I ... (read in full...)

Tell him or lock it in my head?

Q.   I feel confused and wrong. I'm 17 and i'm crushing on my 29 year old teacher. i have it bad, i can't stop thinking about him and being around him makes me excited and happy as well as nervous and scared. i need help i dont know why im feeling this ...

A.   24 December 2009: Awww, sweetie I'm kind of in the same situation, except mine is 30 :S Well, I think it's best not to tell him. If you do he might: report it to the head teacher and there could be an awkward conversation; he could give you the cold shoulder thinking ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

Q.   what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

A.   17 November 2009: I don't think it's necessarily about having sex with YOUR teacher. what should be just frowned upon is a teacher just dating one of the students at their school not exactly THEIR student but just one who happens to study at the same place where he ... (read in full...)

Student and teacher flirtations...

Q.   Hey! Well im slightly puzzled and annoyed at the fact that so many people on the site always say us girlies - omg! u will mkae him loose his job this that and the next thing, or that we are totally imaginin things that are there and there is no wa...

A.   2 November 2009: Yes, teachers do flirt with us students. The teacher I have a crush on always has the biggest smile when he sees me, we hug, he calls me pretty girl, gorgeous, his favourite student, princess. Even sometimes when I'm with my friends he calls them ... (read in full...)

If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?

Q.   My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an ...

A.   7 October 2009: wow, mysterious_blonde_lady, you really got me thinking. Thanks for responding. I think you might be right. I got hopeful that I might have even a slim chance of him being interested in me just from the fact of his girlfriend beeing an ex-student as ... (read in full...)

If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?

Q.   My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an ...

A.   27 September 2009: Really he's not a creepy sick man. I know it may sound like it, but he's really not. :S I'm just thinking maybe cause I'm not HIS student anymore there wouldn't be a problem.... (read in full...)

If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?

Q.   My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an ...

A.   8 September 2009: I never intended to say that my teacher and the girl had sex while they were still student and teacher. They didn't start dating because of the time they spent at school, but because my teacher loves to go out and have fun and he used to run into a ... (read in full...)

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