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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend asked me for a threesome about 2 months ago, he said I could choose the girl etc. I had always wanted a 3sum but had never said, so I agreed. We went on a website to look but he immediately started looking at all the skinny girls and messaging them. I didnt even get a look, he seemed so excited, so i Sat down and watched TV instead. After about an hour he must have realised and siad to me we dont have to you know, and I was so happy he finally realised how I felt.Now everytime he's drunk he says "I want a 3some, find a slutty friend and do it with her" He even shouts at me sometimes in front of his friends and totally degrades me and they all say "we've had 3somes" even though I know they are lying.I hate my boyfriend for being like this and I hate him for making me hate myself. I don't understand why he has to do this, I want to leave but I cant, I love him too much. How can I tell him about how I feel when I know he will either laugh or shout at me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): if a man truly loves you he wouldnt want to share you or put you thru the emotions of watching him have sex infront of you, next time he asks for a threesome infront of his friends tell him yes we can do that, which one of your mates shall i choose to join us in bed well who says it has to be 2 girls, askm him ever so sweetly why he is so desperate to share your bed with another man, might shut him up for a while and if not he isnt really worth your heartache honey,
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 September 2008):
 to me if he loves you like you love him he wouldnt degrade you and humiliate you or make not likeyourself..tell him that you dont want a threesome and if he does this again you will not put up with this behaviour..you are worth more than to take this crap from anyone and if you do want a threesome dont give into this bully..and him laughing at your feelings that is horrible i think you need to take time to yourself to think about whats going on here whether you are really willing to put yourself through this or if you deserve better and i think you deserve better.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 September 2008):
If he's demanding that you perform a sexual act, and degrading you then he doesn't see you as a girlfriend, just a route to a possible threesome.
Yes you might want one one day but why give it to this idiot.
Tell him you are sick of him nagging like a stupid teenage boy and that if he ever speaks to you like that again when he's drunk then you'll leave him.
He's had his warning - so if he does it you know he doesn't care about risking losing you... and walk away.
Good Luck!! xx
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