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My name is Lu or better known on here as angelblueeyes, i found this site by accident after searching google with a problem & i found everyone else's, i love it on here that much i never left!!
I'm 32 & i live in the midlands with my Soulmate, daughter and god knows how many animals, I am a qualified hairdresser but i gave up my job at Ann Summers 10 years ago to have my beautiful daughter and i never went back after she was born.
I have been married for 12 years but we have been together since i was 16 he is my best friend & a fantastic lover!!
I love walking with my 2 Labs anywhere & everywhere i can get to, Oh i also LOVE shoes ha ha what woman doesn't i currently own around 60 pairs.
I believe that my life experience may be able to help others so this is part of what i have been thro in my life......I lost my mum when i was 8 yrs old, & later on in life i witnessed the awful divorce of my dad and step mum, As a young teenager i took a beating off a b/f, but i feel that shook me into action & it changed my life & made me the person i am today. A few years back i cheated on my husband after having problems in my marriage i took the weak option & fell into the trap of feeling wanted, which was the worst thing i have ever done & i am most certainly not proud of it. I have had my fair share of crap thrown at me but who hasn't? I don't complain i just deal with it in the best way i know how. I am easy going kind of person with a fantastic selection of friends, when things get rough we prop each other up & offer advice, a shoulder & a box of tissues!
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I'm pooing a lot - am I pregnant?
Q. I was Fooling around with my boy friend and i was in my THIN pjs and he was on top of me naked and i think he ejected pre cum but im not sure... later on we had sex with a condom on but this morning i feel sick and im always feeling thirsty and im ...
A. 10 December 2007: Hi
You won't know if you are pregnant for sure until your period is due, i doulbt that you are but i am not a doctor & i am only offering my opinion.
The best way to deal with this situation is to take the morning after pill this is effectiv... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do! I think I'm pregnant!
Q. I was wondering if anyone could help me figure out if I should worry about being pregnant. Here are the things that I have been feeling, I would tell my friends but I am too embarrassed and I don't want to shock them or seem worried about this if I ...
A. 7 December 2007: Hi,
The first thing i would do is to go to the chemist/GP and get a pregnancy test, you could just let time pass & keep guessing but realisticly doing a test is the only way of knowing for sure.
Monthly cycles can change around from time to time ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of just over a year meets girls in different places and then emails them and arranges to meet with them.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, My boyfriend of just over a year meets girls in different places and then emails them and arranges to meet with them. I found this out by checking his emails - wrong I know. However, when I asked him about it, without mentioni...
A. 7 December 2007: Hi,
Firstly i have to say that i wouldn't be that impressed either if my husband was doing the same thing, however your fella isn't doing anything wrong at the end of the day, meeting people and having a laugh with people(girls) does not mean he w... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
I strongly believe that he cant love you because if he did he wouldn't feel it nessesary to see other people and to be intimate with them, also i think that this will ruin your relationship in the future.
If my husband metioned that he needed t... (read in full...)
Can pre-cum get you pregant??
Q. I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ...
A. 23 November 2007: Hi Yes you can get pregnant by pre-cum. Lu x ... (read in full...)
Get over it. Move on. Your happiness and sanity are more valuable than a husband who cheats or a so-called girlfriend who took part in that. Your opinions?
Q. i have been reading a lot about affairs. just wanted to get in my two-cents. my husband left me over 20 years ago - we had been married 14 years at the time and did not want children. my girlfriend was having an affair with him the last year or ...
A. 23 November 2007: Hi
You sound like a great woman, I cant begin to imagine how hard it has all been for you.
In reading all that i say good for you In getting your life back on track after they tramped all over it, and i totally agree with what you said (althoug... (read in full...)
I want him to kiss me more, What now?
Q. I broke up with my bf a few days ago because he thinks I like his best friend more then him. His best friend, also my good friend, had flirted with me alot and even kissed me once, even though he has had a gf for a few months now! My bf said that ...
A. 23 November 2007: Hi
I don't think that is such a good idea, maybe he does like you but snogging your best friends b/f is not the way to do things.
Not only would you hurt your friend but you will probably loose your friendship with both the boy and your best fri... (read in full...)
How long to know if I'm pregnant
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend around like 7pm yesterday. and when he was done he said the condom broke and now i'm gna be pregnant cuz he busted. how long until i know if i really am or not??...
A. 23 November 2007: Hi
It will take a couple of weeks to know for sure if you are pregnant, the best way to deal with this situation is to take the morning after pill this is effective for upto 72 hours after sex but the quicker it is taken the more effective it is, ... (read in full...)
Should I give the "favorite customer" my number?
Q. I am 18 years old and work part time at a supermarket at the checkout. There is this guy who comes in all the time and always comes through my checkout! Always! I think he is pretty cute and he seems nice from what I have seen of him so far, from ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, I agree with Tom, If you slipped your number In with his shopping It may get lost and he would never know you were interested also what if he has a girlfriend or wife and she found your number, I say that you are best to just ask him for a da... (read in full...)
New to the city. (Birmingham) How do I meet people?
Q. hi everyone, im back for another question.haha. well i was so impressed with the answer for the last one. :) as some of you may know im new to the area (birmingham) but i find it very hard to meet new people and make friends. i know i need to j...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, Isn't there someone on here that you could meet up with that live in birmingham, i'd offer my own services but i live in leicester lol. You could try singles bars and stuff like that if your into that alot of people go there on their own a frie... (read in full...)
My ex is still harrassing me and uses others to do it for him.
Q. I have had it. I am so sick of my ex bf and his stupid ways of geting back at me! I broke up with him 3 months ago and he is still making attempts to get my attention. I broke it off because he was abusive. Anyway, he got his friends to send me ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, The best way for you to deal with It would be to completly Ignore It all, I know Its easier said than done but Its better that way it makes you the bigger person and he will soon get sick of It when he relises your not bothered, I must ad... (read in full...)
I miss her so much it hurts! Should I call her or should I wait to not ruin the work of getting over her?
Q. Hey all my original post is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-has-been-giving-me-the-runaround.html So i've now started a new job since uni graduation, I am living in a new location, new house with new people. The thing ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hiya, I know you must be feeling lost and empty right now but you need to stay strong you have already done 4 wks and as time goes by it will get easier, You deserve to be happy and the on/off situation does not make you happy, If you keep going b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has sent intimate photos of us to his ex!
Q. my boyfriend took some pictures of us in an intimate pose with my consent. However he recently sent these to his ex girlfriend I have confronted him about this and he is very sorry and says he has never done anything like this before and will never ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, What on earth was he thinking when he sent the pictures? I dont blame you for being betrayed i would be too but why did he do it in the first place was he trying to make her jelous by seeing the 2 of you together? I'd sit him down and t... (read in full...)
I am 40 years old and my husband of 23 years has told me he wants us to seperate... I am devastated!
Q. I am 40 years old and my husband of 23 years has told me he wants us to seperate, I am devestated (an understatment) things havent been good between us but I was really trying to make things work, However he is adament that it is over. I cant ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, I know this must be hard for you right now but there is light at the end of the tunnel, He clearly has given up on your marriage so i say If he wants to pack his bags then let him, harsh i know but it wont make you feel any better if you try ... (read in full...)
I think I have a crush on his workmates.
Q. i love my boyfriend soo much and i would never do anythin to hurt him or ever cheat on him but i think i have a crush on his work mate. his work mate is a nice guy but has a gf himself and i know he's a sleeze coz iv seen him cheat on her and he's ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, Its perfectly normal to fancy someone else after all we are only human, I have an attraction to my husbands friend but nothing would ever come of it and as long as you dont follow it up with more then I say it's harmless!!... (read in full...)
Suspected: The Cheated Becomes The Cheater...?
Q. Hi All, I appreciate all the comments on my original post about the break up (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-loads-of-attention-from-other-girls.html). Yesterday evening I found out she’s been seeing someone else for the last month ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi Just had to add my little note on this, i have just read all of your story and I feel for you, I believe that you are a truely 'nice guy' and I hope you find someone that can give you the love and respect you deserve!! Keep smiling, Lu x... (read in full...)
Divorced and with a high sex drive. Should I have sex with the mate I'm dating to satisfy my needs or wait for someone I really love to do it?
Q. Im 39 just divorced my husband. We've been married for 14 years. I've no regret to divorce him. The problem is I have very high sex drive. I have no sex life for 9 months now and find it hard to bear. I am dating a man at the moment but I dont ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi Personally i don't see a problem with having sex with this man you are dating even tho you don't love him, i don't believe that you should only have sex with someone if you love them. At the end of the day it's your choice if you feel comfort... (read in full...)
I had never cheated before in my life and now that it's happened it must surely mean the END of my marriage? Is there any hope now that I've done this, which he does not know?
Q. Hi all, does it count as cheating say if : you are married, your husband walks out with no real reason for 2 months, you go back when he asks you, but find it hard to deal with. You leave him for 3 weeks and you are intimate with another man. You ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, In 1 way you can say it is cheating as you were still married in another way no its not as you had seperated, I understand how you are feeling right now as i cheated on my husband around 6 yrs ago, I felt like i had given everything to my marri... (read in full...)
Contraceptive implant...
Q. Hi to all those wonderful aunts, I am after a bit of advice with regards to having the contraceptive implant, i have read up about it and spoke with the doctor, also i am booked in at the clinic to have this done in a couple of weeks. but befor...
A. 22 November 2007: Thanks to the both of you for your advice i appreciate that very much, i'll be having it on Tuesday so wish me luck!! Lu x x ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what are your thoughts about tattoos? Can tattoos have a negative effect upon obtaining dates?
Q. Hey, so I'm wondering what most girls think of tattoos. I've already got one, a cross on my right bicep and I've never heard any complaints about it. But this Christmas I'm looking at getting a koi fish done on my forearm (half sleeve), and event...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, I really like tattoo's my husband had 2 when i met him and he has got a few more since, i dont believe that you will hate it in yrs to come unless you have something completly ridiculas you just have to remember its there for life. I had my ... (read in full...)
My erection goes as fast as it arrives... help!
Q. I have a full hard on im fingering my girlfriend then i take my pants down and gone... what should i do it's killin me...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, Dont panic this does happen to alot of men mine included, i find that if you relax completely you need to clear your mind and forget all the other times that it has gone wrong. Start with touching your naked bodies together and gently kiss... (read in full...)
Should I embark on a sex-free marriage?
Q. I'm engaged to be married and have been with my fiancee over 5 years. The first 2 years we had lots of sex. After 2 years sex got less and less now we don't have sex at all and I havent had sex for about 2 years. Dispite this I still proposed a...
A. 20 November 2007: Hi
Firstly i am sorry that you are in such a pickle, i have been with my hubby for almost 14 years we used to have sex 5 times a day every day then a few yrs later it would be once a week, nowadays we have sex maybe 5 times a week but we went thro... (read in full...)
What to start taking the pill but don't want to go to my doctor.
Q. hi,im thinking of starting the pill,the only thing is i dont want to see my male doctor,is it possible to go into a walk in center to get it? also what sort of questions would they ask when i do see them?, plz help...
A. 20 November 2007: Hi
You can visit a health walk in centre and ask them for advice or take a look in the yellow pages for family planning/sexual health clinics, its all confidential and the people are very friendly and helpful (i used them all the time when i was ... (read in full...)
Do guys really break up with girls because they aren't shaved to turn them on?...
Q. I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not ...
A. 20 November 2007: Hi
I do believe that nowadays men do prefere the hairless look for some reason or other, but i agree with waterloo sunset this is a personal thing and its up to you not him, if a man leaves you because you don't shave i say good ridance he obvi... (read in full...)
My addiction to masturbation is affecting my desire for women, makes me feel guilty and want to isolate myself. What can I do?
Q. hi there, i kinda need your help. i am addicted to masturbation and it is known that this is really bad. and it is affecting my desire for wemen i met, i feel so guilty , i am losing my self confidence to love and especially to be loved,i am isola...
A. 15 November 2007: Hi,
What makes you say that masturbation is really bad? it is a perfectly natural thing to do.
You CAN control it, and you CAN leave the house without doing it. Masturbation isn't addictive in and of itself, you've just established a pattern ... (read in full...)
I've got a sore throat - could I be pregnant?
Q. I last had my period on Oct. 6. My boyfriend and I played around on October 12 and November 11. There's no penetration involved but his genital touched mine. I'm still a virgin. It's November 15 now and I should have had my period on November 8-10. ...
A. 15 November 2007: Hi,
I'd say no your not pregnant, i have never heard of someone getting pregnant without actually having sex, it is quite normal to have a cycle change but your period is most likely late because you are fretting over this, periods can go all mess... (read in full...)
He no longer tells me he loves me
Q. Hi. i have this boyfriend he is father of my baby. the problem is he no longer tell me that he loves me as he did before. since we have the baby. i am the one how calls him, wishing him luck in the morning before he goes to work and at night i call ...
A. 15 November 2007: Hi
you need to sit down with your b/f and talk about how you are feeling etc.
Some men struggle with their feelings towards their partners when they have a new baby they find it hard to talk or just to be close to you, its ok saying he does not... (read in full...)
She we move in together?
Q. Me and my bf have been dating for 4 months and we're absolutley in love, no doubt about it. We spend a lot of time together, I stay at his place 5-6 nights of the week. We both know we're gonna be with each other for a long time, and we have ...
A. 7 November 2007: Hi
I would say yes i think you should, this is yours and your b/f's choice only and no-one elses you know how you feel & you already spend most nights with him.
When i met my husband i still lived at home, my husband moved in at my parents ... (read in full...)
What is this lump I have in my groin?
Q. I'm a virgin, but i found a lump on my inner thigh which is sitting on the right side my vagina (the edge of the lip). Its not too hard but if i apply pressure to it, it does hurt a little bit. What is it ? Im really worried about it and i'm ...
A. 7 November 2007: Hi, I know its scary going to the doctors but you must, it maybe something as simple as an infected spot but you its not worth the risk and you are better to get it checked out. Hope it works out well for you!... (read in full...)
Any tips on kissing, please
Q. Hey Could anyone please give me tips on kissing I'm not such an experienced teenager so anything would help My boyfriend and I kiss often but I know I am not great at it... Too much tongue? or Should the guy take control? Anything thanks everyo...
A. 7 November 2007: Hi,
there is no right way or wrong way in kissing its just practice, some people like mad pashionate kissing where as others like slow sensual kissing it depends on the individual person & the situation.
i would let him take the lead and just fol... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.
Q. im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...
A. 7 November 2007: Hi Firstly your periods can become iregular should you get stressed or having a change in lifestyle, if you are fretting over the possibility of being pregnant etc then this could be the cause of that, The symtoms you described are not typical symt... (read in full...)
He confessed he's been kissing another girl, should I accept him back?
Q. I have been with boyfriend for nearly a year but we have been going through a bit of a bad patch, he has been acting really strange so i accused him of cheating, we moved to live apart for a few weeks and started getting on great again. Last night ...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi, what a situation you have! I think only you can answer that but in my opinion i would tell him to get knotted but thats only my opinion and its your life, seriously tho do you think you could completly trust him again? will you keep hav... (read in full...)
We've talked about having no strings attached sex, but I chickened out. Now he wants to continue to see me without mention of sex, can there be more to this?
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt know my ex so it was nice to talk...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
In my opinion i would say that he likes you & maybe not just for the sex, also your friend caught him checking you out thats a start & he likes your company but it has never ended in sex,
If you ae enjoying being with each other just talking ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my time of the month to change?
Q. Dear cupid is it normal to miss a month of period?? because i miss mine last month and now it came on the first week of this month..is normal?...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi, there is no 'normal' cycle rountine each individual is different, we are expected to have these cycles between every 21 or 60 days so anything in between is ok, if you are still worried speak to your doctor they will be able to advise you.... (read in full...)
I like him but don't know what to beleive
Q. Well, theres this guy. I like him ALOT. I can't say that I love him, because I'm too young yadda yadda, but it feels like it. I was SO sure he liked me back. Examples: At a dance, he asked me to dance 3 or 4 times. The next day at a party, he asked...
A. 6 November 2007: In my experience i would say that he is into you but the only way you will know for sure is if you ask him yourself,
what's the worst thing that can happen?... (read in full...)
How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?
Q. Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hi yes i have have done this before just continuing to take the pill for the following month without having a wk off. It does work but you may have some spotting also i must tell you there are down sides to doing this like the next month when you ... (read in full...)
My ex has been giving me the runaround, is it worth another go? If not how can I get over her?
Q. Hey all, Me and my ex hav'nt spoken in a week and a half. She broke up with me last sunday - for the 3rd time in 4 months. She is very on/off, one minute she is telling me she loves me and dreaming of our future together, the next she is telling m...
A. 1 November 2007: I think absolutly not, you dont need this everyone deserves to be happy and you are letting her walk all over you!
Is this on off situation making you happy?
If you keep crawling back how many more times are you going to allow her to do this to ... (read in full...)
We've been married for 13 years, with 3 kids and one on the way, and he's been having an affair. The woman says she is pregnant. I don't know what to do.
Q. I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recently found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hi
Has your hubby been seeing this woman since before you were married or just recently?
I feel sorry for you that you are dealing with pregnancy as well as a selfish husband, i think i would personally throw him out, but i am not in your situatio... (read in full...)
My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.
Q. I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi
Don't but in on their relationship else you will look like the desperate ex & its no good telling her that he is no good because i doulbt she will listen to you.
You have to just sit on the fence & watch, but be there should it go wrong and she ... (read in full...)
Should I arrange a threesome? Does she really agree to it?
Q. Hi For the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me. Our s...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi,
A friend of mines brother put a similar fantasy into practice which was to have a threesome with another woman, not long after she left him, she is now living & having a relationship with the other woman!
In my personal opinion i believe a ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I leave?
Q. I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi,
I think you already know the answer to that, if he says hurtful things to you then he clearly has no love or respect for you & my personal advice would be to leave, you cant live with a man that treats you wrong we all deserve to be happy in l... (read in full...)
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