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My name is Lu or better known on here as angelblueeyes, i found this site by accident after searching google with a problem & i found everyone else's, i love it on here that much i never left!!
I'm 32 & i live in the midlands with my Soulmate, daughter and god knows how many animals, I am a qualified hairdresser but i gave up my job at Ann Summers 10 years ago to have my beautiful daughter and i never went back after she was born.
I have been married for 12 years but we have been together since i was 16 he is my best friend & a fantastic lover!!
I love walking with my 2 Labs anywhere & everywhere i can get to, Oh i also LOVE shoes ha ha what woman doesn't i currently own around 60 pairs.
I believe that my life experience may be able to help others so this is part of what i have been thro in my life......I lost my mum when i was 8 yrs old, & later on in life i witnessed the awful divorce of my dad and step mum, As a young teenager i took a beating off a b/f, but i feel that shook me into action & it changed my life & made me the person i am today. A few years back i cheated on my husband after having problems in my marriage i took the weak option & fell into the trap of feeling wanted, which was the worst thing i have ever done & i am most certainly not proud of it. I have had my fair share of crap thrown at me but who hasn't? I don't complain i just deal with it in the best way i know how. I am easy going kind of person with a fantastic selection of friends, when things get rough we prop each other up & offer advice, a shoulder & a box of tissues!
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Should I stay or should I leave?
Q. I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi,
I think you already know the answer to that, if he says hurtful things to you then he clearly has no love or respect for you & my personal advice would be to leave, you cant live with a man that treats you wrong we all deserve to be happy in l... (read in full...)
I feel trapped, what do I do?
Q. I dont know what to do i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months living together for 3. i do love him but 3 weeks ago an old friend of my late husbands turned up to see how i was and then a few days later he texted me to say he wanted to see me ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi,
If this is not where you want to be then you should leave, its not fair on yourself or your b/f staying there for the fun of it.
Sit down with your b/f and explain how you feeling and whats going on of coarse it will hurt him but he will get... (read in full...)
Should I take him back?
Q. My ex and I were together for over a year before he had to move back home for work. We were so in love and very happy. I knew though that him and hie ex were still in contact over the phone but thought nothing of it as I tried to deal with the fact ...
A. 31 October 2007: I say absolutely not you should tell him to go jump he made his choice when he finished with you & now he has to live with it,
But that is easy for me to say as i'm not the one that is in love with him, You cant help who your in love with and if h... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's family
Q. I think I hate my boyfriend's family. Its been 6 months since the last time I've visited them (which went horribly wrong).I took the brunt of their meaness and turned my cheek and they still complained to my boyfriend that they thought I was a bad ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi,
I know exactly how you are feeling i didn't get on with the mother in law at all we were like chalk and cheese but one day i went mad and shouted back at her & ever since that day she is has been fine!, not saying that is the way you should go b... (read in full...)
I've met a guy online. Should I cancel my plans to go and see him?
Q. So I've met this younger man on a dating website. He used to live in my area, but has moved back home because he is training for a fight. We instantly hit it off for a couple months and called and text each other almost every day. He recently...
A. 31 October 2007: I strongly believe that if he was 'into' you he would have replied to your message's even though he's really busy, I would send another message stating that you will be changing your travelling plans as you are not sure where you stand.
See what... (read in full...)
I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.
Q. I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also ha...
A. 30 October 2007: I did not mean to sound judgemental in what i wrote and for that I'm sorry, i didn't mean to offend you, i was offering advise that i thought was right, i have been down that path before i too cheated on my husband a few years back so i know how ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time with him?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi,
Firstly you should talk to him and tell him that you want more from your relationship and if he can t give it to you, you will be moving on, there is no point wasting your life with a man that cant commit to you!!
If at the end of your chat he ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?
Q. Hey What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi,
She is most definately into you as this is the most common way women flirt to attract a man's attention. Stroking, combing and generally moving her hair away from her face or shoulders to show bare skin are strong signals that they are open to b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'
Q. My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi,
What a situation you have, he sounds like he needs a good kick up the arse lol, no but seriously how long has this been going on? & is there any other reason why he no longer wishes to have sex?
I would talk to him find out why he has changed ... (read in full...)
4 month anniversary is coming up, and I want to do something special... and cheap!
Q. Hi all.. okay would very much like your help, my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months this weekend, we always like to do something special to mark it (i know that may sound cheesey). Anyway he's taking me for a meal but wants me to do ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi, can you add some more things on like what are his interests etc i'll rack my brain's see if i can think of something to help you with your surprise!!... (read in full...)
When is enough, enough?
Q. I've had some bad luck in the past with boyfriends. Fell pregnant when i was 19, and my daughter is now almost 5. I met a guy 18 months ago, and fell in love. It was the same for him, but he just came out of a failed engagement, so things took a ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi, My husband NEVER cooks dinner he NEVER picks his pants up off the floor and I get flowers once a year for an anniversary, it's how men are. I think you should sit down and think of all the good things that he does he looks after your daugh... (read in full...)
25, about to get engaged... but still have feelings for me ex. What can I do?
Q. Im 25. Have been with my partner for 3 years. we met immediately after a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years - who was my first love but completely broke my heart. Im still in love with him but im also happy with my current partner. My ex called me ...
A. 30 October 2007: It's a bit of a bad situation really, thinking about the ex don't you think its a bit bad that it has taken him 3 yrs to tell you that he loves you and he wants you back? He broke your heart 3 years ago who says he wont do it again and do you hone... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about having cheated, the relationship won't be the same if I tell her.
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a month now. last night i cheated on her, i dont know what came over me. i feel so ashamed and guilty since my girlfriend is so amazing. i do love my girlfriend and she loves me, ive been thinking i should ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi,
It does happen often so your not alone, but i don't think sitting at home with your conscious eating away at you is the way to go, bad things have a habit of making an appearance so to give your g/f the respect she deserves i think you shou... (read in full...)
I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.
Q. I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also ha...
A. 30 October 2007: I think you really need to talk to your husband & tell him the truth because at present your marriage is a lie,
i believe the other man does not love you else he would not be marrying his g/f, if you really love each other that much why are you ... (read in full...)
She has Anaemia - will it affect her ability to have children in the future?
Q. Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It ...
A. 29 October 2007: Hi,
I had Anaemia while pregnant it can cause you to feel a little tired etc but it did not cause any problems with pregnancy i had to take iron tablets for the whole of my pregnancy and a while after but everything was fine.
Try looking things u... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along?
Q. dear aunt, iam 20 and have been dating my boyfriend for 9months. he seems to love me just the same way that i do. but the problem here is that he has a baby with someone else but told me he's gonna part ways with her soon. he told me he only wants ...
A. 29 October 2007: I do believe he is, he wants it both ways and im afraid he can't!
I know its hard when you love someone but you should forget about him a get yourself a better man that can give you everything not just empty promises! The problem is he has a life... (read in full...)
She slipped through my fingers
Q. Ok i'll give this a try, i've been friends with the girl for a while now. Lately we have gotten really close, and i've fallen for her...However, i introduced her to one of my friends who turns out that thye also like her, and she likes him too. He ...
A. 18 October 2007: I'm a fraid i have to agree with Tommy he is not your friend even if you said it's ok he knew how you felt a real friend would never have done it!!... (read in full...)
Why do I stay when he beats me?
Q. why does my boyfiend beat me up? i have been with him just over 6 months and we have started having sex but only because he wants it. if we aregue he always hits me. he starts arguements to bilittle me and he says hes scared of me breaking up with ...
A. 18 October 2007: Hi,
I know how you are feeling i went thro the same thing at about the same age, my boyfriend was an obssesive control freak who too liked to use his fists a little to often,
I know that its hard for you right now but you need to get out of this ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with b/f BO?
Q. my boyfriend has a bit of a B.O problem. i mean ont get me wrong he baths daily, uses aftershave and keeps clean but he doesnt use anti-persprint under his arms and tey get sweaty and you can smell it. he comes over to me and he leans over gives me ...
A. 17 October 2007: The best way would be to just tell him, nicely that is else you will hurt his feelings, Buy him some special smellys that he loves then he will smell as fresh as a daisy!
i'm always telling my husband that he stinks lol but i know that he woul... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi, Just had to come back after reading up on the oil thing,A lot of people have said that it gave them really bad stomach cramps and they had terrible diarrhea, i also read a comment by a nurse and she stated that it can cause very strong contract... (read in full...)
How do I cope with losing my babies and not push my fiance away??
Q. please help me I've been going through alot and really need some good advice as i cant stop hurting and cry. My fiance is very understanding and there for me but i know he is hurting too. I can't be there for him. I feel like i do try but i feel l...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi, Fistly i will say how sorry i am of your loss.
It will take time as a couple to grieve after a pregnancy loss. How long a woman and her partner mourn for will vary from couple to couple. Only you will know how long you need to grieve for.... (read in full...)
Could I be pregant??
Q. Hi, I really need some help. My bf is my first seuxal partner, I have been intimate with my bf for about 10 months and we have always used condoms (i am not on any other birth control). Last night we had sex and i was really dry but we continue...
A. 17 October 2007: The answer being possibly you would not know this for sure until 14-21 days after you had sex.
The morning after pill has to be taken before 72 hours of having unprotected sex but it is more effective the earlier it is taken. The effectiveness is 7... (read in full...)
I like a guy but the age difference keeps holding me back.
Q. Hey I am a senior in high school and im 17. I like a guy who just turned 15 so im over 2 years older. Im more worried about the age difference for his sake because i can deal with what people say, but i dont know how it would affect him. I think he ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi
I know this is the other way round but i was just 16 when i met my husband and he was 18 but we have got on ok I don't think age should hold you back if you are keen on each other who cares what other people say about it, its your life at the ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi,
Just got to ask if you have been checked out by midwife for leaking fluid? if not go and see her thats how my labour started.
My friend used the oil thing with all 3 of her children and no harm come to her or her kids but also i have heard th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.
Q. Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi,
Don't worry about finding the right time or what to do it all comes naturally when the time is right and you will have a wonderful experience together, speaking from experience i was terrified at the thought of doing it i thought that i'd look... (read in full...)
Relationship going on for years, worth it or not?
Q. I'm 6 years in a relationship that's not going to the next level. I didn't ever hear a word that he loves me.We're intimate, sometimes, only once a month. I do everything for him. When I tell him I'm done with the relationship he doesn't want to ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi
You should look after yourself if you are unhappy with a relationship that is going nowhere fast then leave it, you sound like you are both on different paths in life he is happy to watch the world go by but you want a little more from him have... (read in full...)
His mom says he shouldn't get in a serious relation with anyone since he's joining the military...
Q. well i have a question for you all out there...me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months 2 weeks and 3 days...we are both in love...but now his mom has a problem with us dating...she says that since he's joining the military he shouldn't get ...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi,
My sister has the same problem as yourself, but she is managing to keep the relationship up even when he is away. I think that is up to him to make his own choices but his mum is only looking out for his best interests, You need to talk to your... (read in full...)
I leave him, but I can never seem to leave him for good... What do you think?
Q. I'm 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together and have a little chihuahua that we both adore like nothing else. Sometimes my boyfriend can be so sweet and I can't believe I'm so lucky to have a boyfriend like him. But most ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
I am sorry if anything i say offends you but this is what i think.
This bloke is a self obsessed controlling idiot, i can't believe that you have put up with that for 2 years, he does not deserve to have your love and respect when he clearly ... (read in full...)
I still like him, what shall I do?
Q. i split up with my ex just before christmas as the age was an issue but we carried on sleeping with me. about 5months ago he started going out with this girl and recently and im 18 now. we have been talkin and he is on a break with her and keeps ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
what a situation you are in the only support i can offer if you have feelings for each other then whats meant to be will be, but if these feeling's are only one sided(from you) it will never go anywhere & he will just keep coming back as and ... (read in full...)
I care for him, but I don't know if that's enough.
Q. Hi, I am worried about my relationship and have been for a few months now. My relationship with my boyfriend has not been typical. We met working at a summer camp together, and started dating in mid-July. We were both planning on simply a summ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
I think what you shared was an intensive holiday romance & when you returned home the fun loving had gone, you didn't have the ideal set up that you had imagined & you were both back to being normal people in ordinary surroundings. I don't thin... (read in full...)
How to make sex last longer.
Q. I want my sexual experience to last longer. Unfortunately, I last for only about 5 minutes. I could handle oral sex okay for quite a long time but when I am inside my girlfrind, I cum within minutes. Please help me by advising me what to do. Can i ...
A. 16 October 2007: hi
Try the 60 second rule it work's really well on most guys, when you get almost to the point stop and don't do anything for 60 seconds and then start again, this is like a training exercise for your penis before long you will be lasting for ages... (read in full...)
My love is getting divorced, getting back with her husband, taking a break... It keeps changing and I am heartbroken and lost
Q. OK here goes i am 26 and she is 26 ,i am about to spill my heart out for advice ,everything i am about to mention is the truth , some things have not been mentioned to protect the people involved however this is only about half of the things i would ...
A. 15 October 2007: Hi
I know how the g/f must be feeling cause i have been in the same situation,(i know every situation is different) weather she will come back to you only she knows that, but your g/f and hubby share a child and they are still married so it's hard... (read in full...)
Turns out I was the other woman, so I broke it off with him, but now I regret it.
Q. i found out the man i was seeing had another woman and i finished wish him because he wouldn't leave her again (he already left her for someone who then dumped him, twice, then got back with the first woman who he is now with still). I miss him so ...
A. 15 October 2007: Hi,
I'm sorry that you have had to put up with this for such a long time but now is the time for you to get on and to meet your perfect guy. I'm sorry if this is a little harsh but this man clearly has no respect for any woman, there he is boun... (read in full...)
My husband never knew how to show affection so we became just friends. I'm having an affair with the love of my life, do I let him go and do "the right thing" ?
Q. I have been married for 12 years. My husband never knew how to communicate or show affection. We became just friends and not lovers or husband/wife. I have been having an affair for over a year now with "the love of my life" from years ago. I ...
A. 15 October 2007: Hi, i think that your relationship with your husband has come to an end, and maybe its time that you sat down together and talked about it all,
i don't believe that you can finish with the lover and work on your marriage as you would never be happ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this work again?
Q. my boyfriend and i broke up. He doesnt really know how he is feeling except he misses me a lot. Also he is soo stressed with school and just where he is in his life. So thing is, is that I want to get him back sometime in the future-more so near ...
A. 15 October 2007: I say that you should call him, tell him how your feeling that you made a mistake and you miss him.
arrange a time to meet up and talk about whats gone on etc and take it from there if you both love each other it will work out ok in the end!... (read in full...)
Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.
Q. Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked i...
A. 15 October 2007: I think you should just forget about what you have read, he did the right thing cause he didn't go, it sounds like to me that he didn't want to go while you were not around i guess he would have rarther have took you along with him too.... (read in full...)
Cheated on my girlfriend, she forgave me, I just found out she's pregnant, Now what?
Q. Months ago, I had a one night stand with a girl who I met previously before that night at a night club. What makes this situation very difficult for me is that I did this while having a girlfriend. I told her about it and she was devastated, but she ...
A. 15 October 2007: Ok so what you did was bad but you and your g/f were strong enough and got through it,
just beacause the other woman is having a baby dosen't mean you have to marry her lots of people have babies without being together and they get on fine, if she ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my personal trainer. Do I confront him?
Q. Hi, I recently joined a fitness club and also took personal training sessions. My personal trainer is good looking and cute while I'm juz a normal looking overweight girl trying hard to loose weight. I have started fallen for him and I think I ha...
A. 15 October 2007: Hi, This seems to me like a playing hard to get situation but only you know if he does like you, there must be some signs that he is into you? i think if you talk to him and maybe then tell him how you feel, whats the worst that can happen? I hope ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck
Q. is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !...
A. 12 October 2007: hey,
I don't think you are wrong for wanting to have sex in your fella's truck but i do think because he had sex with the ex g/f in vehicles that could be the reason why he no longer wants to do the same thing, this could hold to many memories (bot... (read in full...)
Should I email him to arrange a meeting?
Q. My husband and I are emotionally separated, but not financially; he works abroad and only comes home 3 times a year. I really fancy a man going through a divorce, and have met him vaguely though social functions, as our kids are at the same sch...
A. 12 October 2007: Hi,
I think that would be a great idea to email him saves on the wrong words coming out and feeling all embarrassed, I'm sure if you have been chatting with him you will know weather or not he is into you, Good luck with the email!!... (read in full...)
He screams when he sees food!
Q. i have 14mth old and all he does is scream when he sees food can someone please help me ...
A. 12 October 2007: Hi,
can you be more specific? does he do this with every food cooked/uncooked/packed/unwrapped etc. do you feed him in the same place when he screams etc i may be able to offer advise if i know a little more. thanks... (read in full...)
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