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writes:Dear Agony Aunt,My boyfriend of just over a year meets girls in different places and then emails them and arranges to meet with them. I found this out by checking his emails - wrong I know. However, when I asked him about it, without mentioning what I had seen, he said he wasnt going to stop meeting people and it wasnt wrong. I dont know what to do, I love him so much and I feel so confused.Thanks for your help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): Hi Momo,I have the same problem as yours and the only different is, my husband did that to me.Angleblueeyes,Totally agreed, there is nothing wrong if my husband just want to find friends to talk but he has been telling that women everything about us, including sharing our sex live. He even make up stories to the women about us. and the worst part was, they went travel together. When I found out, my husband told me that in order to make me feel better, he will stop this friendship with that women.And when I was away for business trip, I found out that they have been seeing each other everyday!!I am lost now, I wanted a seperation but he refuses. He promise me that he will change but I figure i have lost trust on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): let this guy go,hes cheating on you and believes its ok as he aint hiding it,if you cant let go,do as he`s doing and see how he responds to you meeting other men
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (7 December 2007):
 Hi,
Firstly i have to say that i wouldn't be that impressed either if my husband was doing the same thing, however your fella isn't doing anything wrong at the end of the day, meeting people and having a laugh with people(girls) does not mean he wants to jump into bed with them all.
I think you have to talk with him about it maybe you could be included in the meetings with his new friends then you wont feel so left out.
Hoped that helped you & good luck!!
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