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Hi all !

My name is Lu or better known on here as angelblueeyes, i found this site by accident after searching google with a problem & i found everyone else's, i love it on here that much i never left!!

I'm 32 & i live in the midlands with my Soulmate, daughter and god knows how many animals, I am a qualified hairdresser but i gave up my job at Ann Summers 10 years ago to have my beautiful daughter and i never went back after she was born.

I have been married for 12 years but we have been together since i was 16 he is my best friend & a fantastic lover!!

I love walking with my 2 Labs anywhere & everywhere i can get to, Oh i also LOVE shoes ha ha what woman doesn't i currently own around 60 pairs.

I believe that my life experience may be able to help others so this is part of what i have been thro in my life......I lost my mum when i was 8 yrs old, & later on in life i witnessed the awful divorce of my dad and step mum, As a young teenager i took a beating off a b/f, but i feel that shook me into action & it changed my life & made me the person i am today. A few years back i cheated on my husband after having problems in my marriage i took the weak option & fell into the trap of feeling wanted, which was the worst thing i have ever done & i am most certainly not proud of it. I have had my fair share of crap thrown at me but who hasn't? I don't complain i just deal with it in the best way i know how. I am easy going kind of person with a fantastic selection of friends, when things get rough we prop each other up & offer advice, a shoulder & a box of tissues!

Thank's for reading and keep smiling!

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