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writes:I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not very shaved down there, and he's seen me naked and my upper legs are fairly hairy because its winter and i dont shave all the often. Does this mean we might not last because im a little hairy? Do guys really break up with girls because they arent shaved to turn them on? Reply to this Question |
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (23 April 2008):
I guess it just my personal preferance, but i love unshaved scrotch, Especially because my GF is a redhead. The little red bush is so beautiful! If someone breaks up with you because of that, then he is a complete superficial ass hole!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): Hey thanks for asking, great responses so far. As an experiment I shaved all my hair off but I didn't like how bumpy/itchy it got growing back ( I couldn't wear any underwear for weeks!)- HOW DO YOU GUYS MAINTAIN IT? LOL!
Anyway, now I go for trimmed & just keeping the bikini lines & stuff waxed - or use nair. I think its so much trouble to keep it smooth if its shaved.. i think it looks really cute though, but I think hair well maintained can look cute too. With my last b/f I hadn't shaved at all & he didn't complain any!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): if your guy breaks up with you because of that he's an ass and he doesnt love you as a person he likes u as a toy
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Let me start by saying that I do not like a completly shaved women down there....my wife gets a bikini wax down there and I love it. She also trims the area short.
I agree with most comments here...if a guy breaks up with you because you don't shave down there...he is an ass.
Just an fyi, I trim as well....or let the wife do it how she likes :) lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Porn has ruined western males' perception of what women should look like. If you are comfortable being unshaved, then by all means remain so. If your boyfriend is squeamish about body hair in a woman's nether regions, maybe he should just stay out of them. Let a man handle you properly.Women who don't shave are just as sexy, even more so to some of us. As long as a woman keeps clean, there should be no problems. Tell him to stop being a baby and stop watching so much internet porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): I am a 23 year old woman. Contrary to the stylish "in thing" now, I don't shave my pubic area, but an occasional light trim. I do shave underams and legs. I am quite bushy in the pubic area with this weird little line of black hair from the pubic area to my belly button. I don't shave that either. To be honest, I am finding many guys totally turned on by the hair. Possibly because they aren't seeing that much any more from girls my age. If you practice good hygiene, I do, hair is not nasty or dirty. I consider my hair a sign I am a fully grown mature woman, not some little girl. I guess we all have different likes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): If your boyfriend is that shallow, dump him. I have never turned it down, nor enjoyed it any less because it was hairy. I am presently dating a Hispanic girl who is very hairy in the pubic region. She does shave her legs and underarms. I don't shave my pubic area which is also very hairy. Why should I expect her to? Some guys are just little cry babies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): I for one like full bushes any day. Red is a nice color that should never be shaved or messed with. One of nature's truly great wonders.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): I am a 30 year old man. I happen to like a woman's pubic hair very much. However, I do like women to shave underarms and legs. If a woman keeps herself squeeky clean in the pubic area, I see no problem with hair. Personally, I think many shaved girls look like little prepubescent girls with tits, even more so if she is petite. I am definitely NOT into little prepubescent girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): Is he allowed to run around looking like a grizzly bear? Yes? Isn't that a pretty clear sign of a double standard?
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reader, Msblessed +, writes (20 November 2007):
 well some men like that area shaved but some dont all men are different if he's seen you naked and he wanted you to shave he would tell you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Don't you get manipulated by this person and don't let him harm your self confidence. He would be lucky to be anywhere near you and if he loved you he would cherish every bit of you as you are. This person is a selfish and shallow pig if he expects you to do this. Does he want you to look like a little girl or has he been watching too much porn? You are not a slave.
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hi
I do believe that nowadays men do prefere the hairless look for some reason or other, but i agree with waterloo sunset this is a personal thing and its up to you not him, if a man leaves you because you don't shave i say good ridance he obviously does not love you.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (20 November 2007):
 No! I trim down there but haven't shaved all my hair off. I find that not attractive. That man is an arse hole, you got an b/f and he's happy with you, if he wasn't he tell you!! so chill!
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 If they genuinely like you then no they won't break up with you because of that, it's just something that can be used as an excuse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): How pathetic is that? If they are real men then No they dont break up because of something so trivial as that. It is a personal thing and up to you not the bloke! Be yourself and be proud of it.
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