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male
age
51-59,
*witlov
writes:Dear Cupid,I and my wife have been married for 24 years with children. We have been trusting each other so much so that she even tells me when some man tries her for sex i do the same, when a woman,mostly her friend, starts sweet-talking me. However recently she stopped telling me these stories and our sex has gone real low. At one time she hinted to me that someone wanted to take her to an expensive hotel for dinner or other and since i was not into such life she one time go with those who are willing to take her. I have been without a job for now three years so i cannot promise her anything. she has since kept quiet but she moves out anytime she wants, even at night saying it is part of her business; that most of her customers want to pay her at close of the day - 9-11pm. Is she seeing other men in disguise? Reply to this Question
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reader, switlov +, writes (7 August 2022):
switlov is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you swapna.
I have since found out my wife didnt marry me out of love but rather to fufil her wish to have a husband. she still feels and shows it to me that i have never been the right man for her. She likes making money and loves to flirt with good looking young men whether with or without a wallet. She makes her own money and now believes she doesnt need to respect me since she can live without me.
I have kept in this relationship just for the sake of our children and i believe she still shares a bed with me for the same reason; the children. At 60, am still a very unhappy man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2020):
Hello..humans are always in search of love.they go to the person who offers them most love..especially women..they always need care love n protection
you can talk to her n i think she is unhappy with your love she may be unsatisfied with your sex life..actually sex or romance doesnot cost u much n women always dont need sex what they want is just your time..
Love her because she is yours n yours onlyy..
You will get her back..if any.
Just tell her i love you darling.may you live n love happily.blessings.
With love
swapna
the wife of a warrior3
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2019): Nobody here can possibly know if she's seeing someone else but you do need to talk to your wife. It sounds like there are things she's unhappy about. If she's asking to be taken to hotels for dinner the truth is probably that it's not really about the hotel or the dinner, it's about feeing unappreciated and unloved. Show her appreciation and love. Show her care and consideration. Treat her romantically in ways that don't cost much money!
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