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writes:hi! i have had a crush on this guy for a while. he likes me too and he told me a couple weeks ago. my parents made me cut off contact with him because he has different views then them. i am an older teen, so personally i think that i should be able to decide who my friends are, but however, we're going to respect my parents and not talk to each other until we're allowed to again, or until i'm a legal adult, even though it is very difficult for both of us.my question is, does it seem likely that he would continue to like me in the meantime? i'm worried that when we talk again that he won't be interested and that he will have moved on. i'm not sure what to do. please help! thanks:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2022): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi! thank you everyone. i've been asked a couple times if he is older then me, but no actually he is half a year younger.
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reader, !!anonyma!! +, writes (17 March 2022):
 No one knows what the future holds. You don't need to waste your time thinking all this now. Things that are meant to be your will never leave you.
But idk what u meant by he has a diff point of view. Is he kind of too independent and too much in sort of like a bad way or just think of things a bit diff but in a good way? You should really do what you think is good after considering this. I mean getting back with him when you can or just simply think it over before you talk after all this. I am sure your parents know what they are doing.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (9 March 2022):
 Maybe, maybe not.
And maybe you won't be interested in him by then. There is no way of knowing this.
If you think the best thing you can do is respect your parents and keep a distance, then do so. I presume your parents are looking out for you and that is why they said no contact.
I have to ask you this, is he older than you? That is my guess.
If he is, then maybe you might want to consider that a big age grab is not in your favor in your teen years. At all.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (7 March 2022):
 It is hard to say if will still like you or not, maybe he will, maybe he won't.
If he does than all well and good. But don't be to disheartened if he does not, its all just part and parcel of teen dating. You will get over it and meet someone else you like even more.
Just take each day as it comes and, stop worrying about if he will or will not like you when your older, no can knows, so just relax, be happy and positive and what ever happens happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2022): When it's a girl and a guy it is not just about friends.If you find a woman/ girl you want to be friends with that is very different man who is often just wanting to get into your pants, might give you a nasty disease, get you drunk, make you pregnant, get you to fall in love with him and hurt you and much more. At your age you are not experienced and wise enough to see these things. The fact you are so worried about him losing interest shows you want this to be a lot more serious and important than just a friend. Is he too old?Is he normal? Has he got any serious problems? Is he rough?All of these are things that normal, decent parents weigh up before they decide whether or not a guy is good enough for their daughter! At your age you are probably easy to manipulate and swoon, going for looks or chat instead of the things that really matter, and probably believing everything he tells you, which can be dangerous and very unwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2022): Testing****submitted answer checking for technical issues.
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