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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 23 December 2011: ROFL.. my ADHD made me forget that conversation... sorry!
I guess I'm very clear about my flirting and if someone thinks I am hitting on them, they are making it up in their head.... ... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 23 December 2011: to IamheiAmHereToHelpYou:
see that's where you are missing the point... flirting is NOT sexual. if it's harmless and friendly even with babies it's FLIRTING
if it's sexual it's HITTING ON THEM...
for me when I "flirt" with my fiance i... (read in full...)
Early on in dating, is 26 hours without contact a cause to worry?
Q. I hvae just started dating a new man. We have been on two (what I think) have been amazingly wonderful dates, and there is great chemistry and a connection already. It is obvious he is attracted to me - he isn't making any attempt to hide the f...
A. 27 October 2011: if he contacts you he's interested. give him space and time if you are interested...... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 18 October 2011: Flirting that is intended to get someone's sexual attention is very much sexual. And when done to a taken person is rude.
FLIRTING as I am talking about it, is
a. NOT sexual
b. NOT to be hidden from a person's partner
c. NOT contrive... (read in full...)
Ignoring him isn't making him go away, so how do I break up with him?
Q. One of my friends who I didn’t really like asked me out three days ago. Said he loves me and would like if we were in a relation. He asked me if I could start developing feelings for him. I didn’t want to be rude and I thought that maybe something ...
A. 10 October 2011: you can't just ignore him. you have to be brave and tell him "look it's just not working out, I'm sorry"
it's hard to break up with someone but it's cruel if you just walk away and don't say anything.
it would be "more mean" to ignore him an... (read in full...)
How can a handle family members commenting on my health/weight?
Q. Ok. I have a question about family. So I am sitting at my nieces bday party. Once again the subject of health comes about. I have health prob related to my being overweight. Once again I hear advice from those "well meaning" family members ...
A. 10 October 2011: As a person who used to weigh nearly 300 pounds and didn't want to hear it from family friends etc... I get how you feel. EVEN if you are not doing anything to lose weight you will tell them such to get them off your back.
AND I know that who... (read in full...)
How to stop being jealous of husband's female friend?
Q. This is a short question: How do I get passed being angry and jealous of my husband having a picture of his female friend in her underware? How do I forgive him when he assures me she didn't give him the picture, and it was supposed to be f...
A. 10 October 2011: you are entitled to feel the way you feel.
you have hurt feelings. you can't control how you feel only what you do with it.
As for jealousy... it is an emotion rooted in insecurity. why are you so insecure about your husband's relati... (read in full...)
I think I screwed up by getting drunk on our date! He has updated his online dating profile but is 'too busy' to contact me, is that is it for us now?
Q. I met a guy on match.com about two months ago. We talked for about three weeks and then finally met. We really hit it off and for the next month saw each other three to five times a week with texting in between. I think there were only one or two ...
A. 10 October 2011: you have false hope.
Like Honeypie said "he's just not that into you" I DOUBT it had much to do with the getting drunk evening...
from what I know many men start out like a house a fire and then when the initial fire starts to die out they ... (read in full...)
After all he said and did why did he call me last night?
Q. My recently broke up with my ex boyfriend since he cheated lied and decieve me I was a very good woman and friend to him when I mentioned it to him he flipped it cursed me out and said I didn't satisfy him sexually and told me until I heal we ...
A. 10 October 2011: so why did he call you? because human nature is to have the last word and to be the leaver not the leavee.
He cheated on you and you left. He's trying to make YOU out to be the bad guy "i cheated on you because you are sexually inadequa... (read in full...)
My husband (who cheats) wants to go off his anti-depressants, and it is way too soon!
Q. I've got serious issues, and no one to talk to. I have a great family, wonderful friends, but I'm so afraid of judgment. And now the plot has thickened. I'm 25, he's 29. My husband and I have been together 6 years, married 2. He is a former...
A. 10 October 2011: "most people go off of them after a year" shocked face here OMG where did this doctor get his/her degree SEARS???
UMMM NO.... Depression is a neurobiochemical imbalance. do most diabetics go off of their insulin after a year? do most folk... (read in full...)
How to stop being jealous of husband's female friend?
Q. This is a short question: How do I get passed being angry and jealous of my husband having a picture of his female friend in her underware? How do I forgive him when he assures me she didn't give him the picture, and it was supposed to be f...
A. 9 October 2011: so sorry but even MY forgiving nature would not get past that.
EVEN if she sent it as a JOKE.. he KEPT it till he lost it... NOT COOL in my book...
and this: "I'm not sure how close they are as friends or how often they talk. "
this is Y... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant or an STD?
Q. About a week ago I had sex with this boy called shane that I Am seeing ( it was my first time) we both really like each other but the next time he came round we wanted to do it again . While rubbing his penis I felt further up and felt a few lumps I ...
A. 9 October 2011: that urge to pee all the time and the burning when you pee sounds like a UTI and that can for sure be caused by sex... I used to get them all the time... then i learned to pee both right before and right after sex... and wipe front to back all the ... (read in full...)
My 12 year old daughter kissed a boy. A little shocked, wasn't expecting it! Even though I knew it would! Big deal or not so much??
Q. My daughter is 12 almost 13! I know what I'm getting ready to say ppl will think I'm nuts. Yes what I have to say is normal, but I am a single mom, I work and go to school! I have my own buisness so I could always be home with her! I have done this...
A. 9 October 2011: glad you talked to her and feel better.
if she's nearly 13 and well developed (as I was) I'm assuming she already gets her period... it's hard when hormones kick in.
keep those lines of communication open with her and make sure she knows she ca... (read in full...)
I feel like my faith in men is non existent right now! It seems that jerks always win!
Q. I was seeing someone for about a couple of months. But he dumped me by text, coz he "wanted to be single". I said I deserve better and that's your loss. Months later he apologized and said he made a mistake etc etc. He asked to meet me for coffee. ...
A. 9 October 2011: "I'd really like togive this spineless person a piece of my mind. I'd like to contact him and tell him I've met someone who doesn't treat me like shit. And that he missed out on something really good. "
waste of good breath! he's a jerk and a l... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can use to keep my hair from looking brassy while I grow it out?
Q. Please please please don't reject my question, I've looked everywhere and can't find any help or answers and I need help! My question isn't about sex, love or relationships this time, its about hair. But I've asked personal health questions on ...
A. 9 October 2011: go to the salon and have them strip all the color out and then lay on a color that's close to your natural color
avoid over washing and chlorine..... (read in full...)
I love my bf so much but seeing his ex's name tattooed on his arm makes me wonder...does he still love her?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend been 2gether almost a year now.. And I really love him! He makes me happy and I couldnt picture me with anybody else but him. Well b4 me nd him got 2gether he had a baby by his ex, he even has her name tattoed on his arm! I ...
A. 9 October 2011: tattoos are forever or very expensive to remove. If it bothers you that much and you guys stay together maybe you could ask him later on if he could get it covered...... (read in full...)
Does he just want to cuddle to avoid sleeping alone?
Q. I've been having feelings for this guy who just got out of a very long relationship about a month or two ago. We've only been hanging out the past few weeks, but I can't tell whether he has any feelings for me as well. I've been very patient with ...
A. 9 October 2011: maybe he just wants to cuddle? some guys do....... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time finding a boyfriend. Why arn't guys attracted to me, they same way they are to my friends?
Q. I am 20 years old and I have having a hard time finding a boyfriend. I live away from home at my university and when I go out to bars, my friends have no problem picking up guys or getting guys to dance with them. I do not think I am unfortunate ...
A. 9 October 2011: IF you are looking for a boyfriend.. a bar is not the place to look..
Clubs (hobby clubs such as gaming) or house of worship (church or mosque or synagogue) are nice places to meet folks...
"I think I'm prettier..."
do you carry yourself... (read in full...)
She cheated but I love her to death....how can we make our relationship stronger?
Q. I have a question and that is if my and my gf stopped having sex like going cold turkey would that cause problems in our relationship. So far it has I've been extremely frustrated not being able to have sex with her and she likes or should I say ...
A. 9 October 2011: "she came up to me crying because she felt horrible for cheating on me (note: she is the tough girl type and usually never cries for anything) so seeing that made me see that she realized that she loved me"
or she was manipulating you to conti... (read in full...)
My mom thinks my BF is abusive, but he's not!
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 8 months now.My parents don't really like him because when he was 17 he and a bunch of friends broke into a cottage, threw a party and the place got trashed. He got house arrest and had to do community service. My ...
A. 9 October 2011: I get it... we sometimes get rough... and I bruise easily because my vitamin C is low.
1. up your vitamin C to see if it helps the bruising
2. ask Bf to be more mindful of it. (hard I know I'm covered in deep scratches down my back right n... (read in full...)
Can I ask him if he's still a virgin?
Q. Hey, Okay so there's this guy who I dated than we broke up because he still 'loved' his ex. We stayed friends, which eventually turned to something more than friends... This 'thing' continued for over a year, he asked me to be his girlfrie...
A. 9 October 2011: you can ask but he might lie. the only thing you can do is ask for proof of STD testing for proof that he's safe.
but sadly : "I want him to be the one I have my first time with. But I know he's probably already lost his and I want my first ti... (read in full...)
I have this nasty habit of making fun of girlfriend's class. People, please help me get rid of this nasty habit?
Q. I am deeply in love with this gorgeous girl and we have been in a relationship for ten years. I was born in a rich family and hardly made myself sweat for anything I wanted my life whereas she’s middle class but with decent education background ...
A. 9 October 2011: put a tight rubber band on your wrist and EVERY time you even THINK one of those horrible terrible rude thoughts (because they are rude and obnoxious) snap the rubber band HARD...
and if you speak them.. wash your filthy mouth out with soap.
... (read in full...)
We broke up and he hasn't called me or texted yet
Q. Okay .. Umm so me and my boyfriend had a fight the other night and it turned out to be pretty nasty unfortunately we both were hell mad at each other and were being really selfish. In the end he was like "lets end it here only", I said "if that what ...
A. 9 October 2011: If you want to try to patch it up you will have to contact him... it may work or he may really be done.. only he knows whether he's waiting for you to contact him or he's really done...
... (read in full...)
Ex - Teacher Trouble
Q. Hi, so in my last year of high school, a new science teacher joined the school and obviously i thought about him as much as any other teacher. Which was almost never. He never taught me, only the lower sets. And he hardly ever talked. Howeve...
A. 9 October 2011: you are 20 and not a his student.
i can't see any problems with you dating him.
if you are interested let him know...... (read in full...)
I would try and find a j ob if we could move in together...
Q. I am married but want to leave my wife and leave home. I have met a woman who lives many miles from me. We would love to live together but she does not earn enough for us to live. I am unemployed at the moment but would try and find a job if we ...
A. 9 October 2011: you need to move from the marital home. you want out your wife wants you out... what would you do if you didn't have this other woman to go to? where would you go then?
can you do that... find a roommate and get some job? are you eligible... (read in full...)
Is he trying to suggest we go on a date?
Q. One day, a guy friend emailed me and said, "how are you?" Then I responded to this and said, " oh,how are you? I'm fine!" He then said he would go to the city and also said that the city is known for a dating spot.. Why did he say this to me? Please ...
A. 9 October 2011: have you asked him?
he said "the city is known as a dating spot"
this is you chance to say "what did you mean?"
or if YOU want to date him you could ask him.... (read in full...)
I slept with him after the first date, he hasn't contact me yet, and now I'm obsessed
Q. I feel I am obsessed with a guy I slept with on a first date. I have never felt such incredible connection before, it wasn't just physical, it was emotional and spiritual too, really cannot explain it - it was crazy! I keep looking him up online ...
A. 9 October 2011: the only thing wrong with you is that you trust and put your heart out there early on...
sadly it seems the old saying "women need to have a reason to have sex men just need a place" is true here...
each day will get a bit easier... and ... (read in full...)
I can say for a fact that we are both in love with each other and we always will love each other
Q. Me and this girl have been dating for over a year and I can say for a fact that we are both in love with each other and we always will love each other. We've never cheated on each other. Here recently in the relationship, we haven't been able to see ...
A. 9 October 2011: "She said that not getting to see me or talk to me was killing her, so we agreed to take a break (and not see anyone) until we have more time to spend with each other."
HUH? this is very counter-intuitive to me. IF you can't stand to not be t... (read in full...)
He spends hours talking about his ex. What do I make of this?
Q. My partner spent four hours talking about his ex yesterday. About how they broke the bed by having so much sex, about how her butt is just amazing etc but also how she was annoying, and caused fights. So it wasn't all praise but just a long, LONG ...
A. 9 October 2011: and how do you react?
do you ask why he brings her up?
do you tell him it bothers you?
it may just be how he relates.... it's what he knows and how he expresses himself... it may mean nothing serious but you have to talk to him about it to f... (read in full...)
Am I shrinking or is she getting loose?
Q. so the other day me and my girlfriend was having sex.. it seems as thought she is getting really loose now.. i gotta admit im a pretty small guy and i am pretty small down there, but now it seems like i can't really feel her as much as i use to..and ...
A. 9 October 2011: there are times bodies fit better than others.
I doubt she's stretching or you're shrinking but sometimes she may be better lubed than others or you may be more aroused than other times.
certain positions work better than others also.... ... (read in full...)
My Lesbian Girlfriend is as Nice as the Grinch
Q. Pretty as a princess with the heart of Gargamel (the creepy old mean guy from The Smurfs). I love my girlfriend but she's incredibly mean. We are in a long distance relationship so we actually only get together every 2-3 months. However we talk 6-7 ...
A. 9 October 2011: "I love my girlfriend but she's incredibly mean."
"if I'm really really lucky she'll text me back."
All I hear from you is how mean she is, how disrespectful she is, how cruel she is... and how you could do better.
WHY are you... (read in full...)
We's been together for 4 years. But is my 22 year old partner losing interest in me?
Q. Hi I've been with my partner for 4 years he's 22 snd I'm 34 , we always had a spontaneous sexual relationship but for the past year and half we hardly ever have sex I am gettin frustrated with him as I caught him pleasuring himself , why don't he ...
A. 9 October 2011: I doubt it's about you... at 34 you are coming into your prime sexually and he's starting to move out of his...
Has he had a medical work up to rule out medical problems?... (read in full...)
He said I can't get pregnant because he didn't cum
Q. My boyfriend broke the hymn in my vagina and didnt wer a condom after he broke it he put on a condom he said You cant get pregnant as he didnt come is that true?...
A. 9 October 2011: it's still possible to get pregnant if there is pre-cum..
all it takes is ONE sperm to get to ONE egg... and poof you have ONE baby.... (read in full...)
Should I wait until the holidays are over to leave him?
Q. I'm 22, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have a 3 year old son. I've been miserable in the relationship for the past 2 years but we've both tried to make it work the whole time. If we didn't have a kid together I'd be long gone. I'm ...
A. 9 October 2011: there will always be holidays coming up. and birthdays....
if you know you are going then just go...
as for being a single mom, have day care in place... have a job have a place to live and end it as nicely as possible.... (read in full...)
Can masturbation change people?
Q. Many people masturbate. Some people more than others. The question is, can it change people? Do you think it can make people into a sex-addict? Or maybe even narcissist? I've been masturbating for a long time now, and I want to know, what is the ...
A. 9 October 2011: Masturbation is normal. even daily, I went through stages where it was 2 or 3 times a day...
IF you give up other activities in favor of masturbation then it could be excessive...
I do not think it makes you a sex-addict or a narcissist at ... (read in full...)
Early on in dating, is 26 hours without contact a cause to worry?
Q. I hvae just started dating a new man. We have been on two (what I think) have been amazingly wonderful dates, and there is great chemistry and a connection already. It is obvious he is attracted to me - he isn't making any attempt to hide the f...
A. 9 October 2011: so my question is ... when they decide they are not interested and move on what do you do? do you chase them? call them? ask them... or do you just move on?
26 hours w/no contact after 2 dates is not a lot... 26 days... yeah he's done.. 26 hours... (read in full...)
He NEVER will talk to me in public! Am I just his booty call? PS: he also has a girlfriend
Q. So, there's this guy. I really really like him, and he seems to like me back. But he NEVER talks to me in public. Only when its just me and him. He has this girlfriend that he claims to love. But when he's with me he says he doesn't even care...
A. 8 October 2011: You're a booty call.
he's cheating on his girlfriend
he's lying to both you and her.
... (read in full...)
Am I a loser? And is it wrong that I no longer miss my ex-girlfriend? Is that normal after 14 months?
Q. My girlfriend me dumped 14 months ago, saying I would never get a good job thus wouldn't be able to give her financial stability. She used to call me a loser which would make me laugh. I am still doing smaller paying job and I am fine with this los...
A. 7 October 2011: sounds perfectly normal to me.... (read in full...)
If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?
Q. If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...
A. 7 October 2011: she may not be getting the messages
she may hate texting
she may have an older phone that is harder to text with.
not everyone likes texting...
how about you pick up the phone and make a phone call........ (read in full...)
If I'm 17, is it OK to be in love with a 26-year-old man?
Q. im a 17 year old woman in love with a 26 year old man and he is in love with me we both live in indiana is this legle we need advice cause my parents told us both that if we continue our relationhip that they would have him arrested please help...
A. 7 October 2011: not sure what the age of consent is but with that age gap yeah they can make his life difficult.
wait till you are 18 then there won't be any problems.... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my inner lips ever since one guy said they looked weird!
Q. hi, so this is more of a body issue question.. I am 21 years old and I'm a virgin. I have had oral sex once a couple years back but it has really made me isecure. I have larger inner lips 'down there' (labia minora) and the guy I had oral s...
A. 7 October 2011: my standard response to my man when he complains about my body is "you watch too much porn"
Men in love will love you no matter what.
relax.
besides if it was that big a deal I'd be in BIG trouble to be honest..... (read in full...)
Burning "down there"- Help!
Q. Hiya, i've just started university a few weeks ago and during freshers week I had a one night stand (actually it happened twice) and the condom split. Now i'm on the pill anyway, so that aspect is ok, but since then i've had a burning down below. ...
A. 7 October 2011: I suggest you go to the health clinic on campus and get a work up
it oculd be nothing
it could be yeast
it coule be something else
we are not doctors and we can't make that call for you.... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 7 October 2011: Thank you for your very detailed response.
I clearly see your point of view and while I disagree with it I respect it enough to think that maybe i should not talk to anyone anymore but my boyfriend.
Seriously. How in the world can I NOT flirt.... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 7 October 2011: Thank you for your very detailed response.
I clearly see your point of view and while I disagree with it I respect it enough to think that maybe i should not talk to anyone anymore but my boyfriend.
Seriously. How in the world can I NOT flirt.... (read in full...)
Courtesy and Texting
Q. I usually wait to text my boyfriend until I hear from him first. We've been together a year. Initially texting like gangbusters on both sides, so it's not like it was an annoyance when we started. I knew he was going out last night (no problems ...
A. 7 October 2011: maybe he didn't get the texts.
Texts are not sent on their own, they piggyback on other packets on the network (why we can get cheap or free texting it costs the company almost nothing for us to use texting) and sometimes they don't get where th... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 6 October 2011: Dear Anonymous poster,
At first I thought you were male but now I am not so sure. Hard to tailor my response to anonymous folks without a gender so I'll be generic..
You said: "I hate it when people flirt with me, it makes me feel horrible ab... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 5 October 2011: Oh Chigirl you are so right what this girl is doing is NOT harmless and to me it's not even FLIRTING.. it's blatant exploitation of her sexuality to gain attention to stroke her ego.
See this is interesting to me... I would NOT classify what you... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 5 October 2011: "Tickling, sitting on their laps, splashing them in the pool, and flirting up a storm.
Oh dear... that's beyond what I'm talking about... seriously. I would never TOUCH a person I flirt with. Body contact is NOT flirting.
Sounds to m... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 2 October 2011: Exactly Cindy. A natural flirt flirts because THEY CAN... it's not to gain anything (i.e. sex) it's flirting for the sake of flirting.. it's FUN.... and yes, those are the young guys that flirt with the old ladies at the nursing home, etc...... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 1 October 2011: See I disagree with it to be honest. If someone thinks that I flirt just to hook up they would be wrong.
Flirting is not about LOVE.... it's about fun and humor... yes occasionally it's about hooking up but to me that's not true flirting... (read in full...)
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