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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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25 November 2012: So many times folks submit good questions but, get few answers. It's very frustrating to have an important topic you need advice on and not be able to get it. While talking with friends is easy to get to what you need, asking in written form can...
Am I Co-Dependent?
No replies yet... 24 October 2012: So often folks will ask "am I co-dependent" or will label someone "co-dependent" There was a period of time that it was the "popular" diagnosis of mental health disorders. I often wondered if I myself was co-dependent. I read many books ...
Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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6 December 2011: Being in a relationship where you have regular face to face contact is difficult enough. Being in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) is more difficult. Local Relationships (LRs) require a few things; Honesty, Trust, Commitment, and ...
How you can tell someone loves you
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23 November 2011: So many times we see folks here saying "I know he loves me he tells me he does all the time" “But” I want to scream, “but how does he SHOW you he loves you” because I learned that WORDS without ACTIONS are meaningless. A partner that says “I lo...
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 10 November 2011: I agree with Honeypie.
you need to dump her and move on.
the fact that you view her as selfish and inconsiderate because she won't have sex with you says that you guys are incompatible as partners.
... (read in full...)
FWB: do any of you think that we will ever be together properly? Or am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi everyone this is my situation I have been in a fwb sort of situation for about 8 months now. Naturally I want more than this. So to find out how he really felt about me I made him jealous he came around one morning and I told him I had a date comi...
A. 6 November 2011: You are wasting your time.
he's stringing you along till the first of the year, when a new excuse will take the place of the current excuse.
IF he was truly interested he would step up his game NOW.
Human nature is possessive. My bf a... (read in full...)
Birth control and tumors-does anyone think their is a connection?
Q. Dear Cupid. I am 17 yrs old and am diagnosed with a benign tumor in my breast. They call it "fibroadenosis". I've also been on birth control for 7 months but have not told the doctor. Does anyone think me being on birth control has anything to do ...
A. 5 November 2011: THERE IS no link...that i know of but what I DO KNOW is: YOU MUST TELL THE DOCTOR YOU ARE ON THE BIRTH CONTROL PILLS. there is patient doctor privilege and he will not be able to tell the parents,... (read in full...)
A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?
Q. I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual ...
A. 5 November 2011: it's a bit of a gray area for me. I am fully supportive of age gap relationships when folks are older... the younger folks I tend to discourage larger gaps (more than 3 or more years) because of life stage differences. and when one is over... (read in full...)
He's a friend of my husband. What should I do now? I am so hurt by his behaviour after I played a trick and caught him flirting
Q. i always doubted that my boyfriend was not being honest with me when he said that he loves me so to prove my point i created a fake id on face book with a different female name and sent him a friend request which he accepted without knowing that it ...
A. 5 November 2011: please help? please help with what?
you are cheating and lying to your husband.
you did not trust your cheating and lying boyfriend so you lied to him and set him up and caught a liar and a cheat in another lie and cheat...
just because he i... (read in full...)
If you received or read a text like this what would you think?
Q. If you had sent a general innocent comment to a male friend about some hedgerow cutting and he would have been genuinely interested to hear about it (and your female) and they replied 'bout time to' (I must admit I like a well trimmed bush) would ...
A. 4 November 2011: what am I missing? why would I as another man's wife send a text to a FRIEND about my hedgerow cutting in the first place?... (read in full...)
Facebooks destroyed my life........found that he's not over his ex!
Q. I hate facebook. it has literally just destroyed me. I was talking to my bf online, when in the message window it said I could look at some of his old statuses. Me being me (rather nosey) decided to have a look. And there in front of me were loads ...
A. 4 November 2011: you don't know that's why he deleted her. is that what he told you? if not, you are making an assumption, I am at the point where i am going to delete my ex from facebook because he's annoying, not because i'm not over him.
... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 4 November 2011: The OP said: "The sex aside, it feels like something is missing."
THIS is a TOTALLY different statement and issue. THIS is my opinion is the crux of the problem.
I just spent a year in an LDR. We were two hours apart... we just closed the ... (read in full...)
Stealing someone out of a relationship
Q. okay now I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship. I wanted this guy first and he got with his ex and still showed signs of interest in me. Seeing as at one point I was there first but may have messed up, pretty sure I did ...
A. 4 November 2011: just continue to be yourself and not try to steal him or make him want to leave his current partner.
as far as leaving him, you ARE just friends so handshakes or light hugs are appropriate...... (read in full...)
Is it normal to need to pee after sex?
Q. After I have sex or any other sexual things, I have an urge to pee. I was just wondering, is this normal or common for women to do?...
A. 4 November 2011: you should pee just before and after sex for your health.
it helps flush the urethra out and prevent UTIs.
it's normal... (read in full...)
He said that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head that our marriage will be over!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost four years. When we had been dating for a month I told him that I hated giving head. We have been married for a little over a year now and he is telling me that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head ...
A. 4 November 2011: I agree with YouWish.
I'd help him pack his bags in fact.
It's not like you lied and pretended to like them to get him to marry you. He knew this was a limitation of your relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to allow me to see my friends?
Q. I'm coming to you all to see if I can get a few opinions on my marriage. Recently I have come to notice a few things happening. I had asked if I could go and see my friend that is about an hour drive from where I am. He said no, that it wasn't ...
A. 4 November 2011: when i as "permission" from my man to go on a girls weekend, it's not asking "permission" as I don't NEED permission, it's more of my way of saying "honey do you mind if i go this weekend... do we have plans i forgot about etc?"
a grown adult in... (read in full...)
Do guys eventually give up if the girl wont have sex with them?
Q. do players get turned off by girls who don't want to have sex with them straightaway? surely at some point they lose interest and give up on a girl who won't give them what they want?...
A. 4 November 2011: players will give up
men that want full long term relationships will probably persevere. ... (read in full...)
He's been extremely annoying with his continual requests for anal sex!
Q. Hey everyone, I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love very much. BUT (isn't there always a but?) he keeps pressuring me to have anal sex with him. I'm happy to do it once a week or so, but every day is too much and it hurts. Also, he doesn't like ...
A. 4 November 2011: "will he break up with me if I keep saying no?"
maybe
and if he does it's not great loss
If you do not like anal sex do not have anal sex.
it's that simple.
if he wants it daily and he hurts you then he's not a fantastic loving boy... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 4 November 2011: You say you've been on a few dates and then you say "after so long"
there are some folks that define a few dates as a casual relationship... if you see this as more than casual and want a more serious relationship with this woman then step up ... (read in full...)
I can never talk to my LDR boyfriend anymore and I may be pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a Long distance relationship only a 2hour drive away. Were almost at a year in January but have been friends for 5 year going on 6. These past three months he's hardly talked to me but he doesn't stop completely. One ...
A. 3 November 2011: Oh dear. I have a bad feeling on this LDR... I just ended an LDR by becoming live in partners We spent a year driving up and down I-95 as we too were 2 hours apart by car... so I get exactly what you are saying.
I don't feel positive for you ... (read in full...)
Could losing your virginity kick start your period?
Q. Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount o...
A. 3 November 2011: ah mid cycle... hmmm... I'm not a doctor or even a medical professional but cycles can change.... if your flow is very heavy or you are concerned or problems continue next month I would contact your doctor.... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 3 November 2011: OH trust me I know all about forgiving mistakes. And I have no problem with it. But my concerns for you are on a slightly different level.
1. you started with "my boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow" you posted as if you were both com... (read in full...)
Does not texting mean lack of caring?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for only 3 months, but it's a really meaningful relationship. I have an excellent judge of character and I now he isn't playing games with me. So I've voiced to him a couple times the importance to me of letting me ...
A. 2 November 2011: my boyfriend was not one for daily contact. I told him i needed it and he learned to deal with it.
it can be normal for him not to contact you after just 3 months together... that's not a long period of time.
his feelings surely can be ge... (read in full...)
I've been in great relationship for years, since I was 14. Why do I feel like I'm missing out?
Q. I have been in a relationship for about 2 years with my boyfriend, i love him more then anything in the world, but i enjoy people flirting with me. I don't really do it back, and if i do it's only little comments every known and then, nothing heavy. ...
A. 2 November 2011: I'm 51 and I'm a huge flirt. That's how I ended up with my boyfriend. I was married and flirting... (with permission)
now I'm with my man and I still flirt and i asked him "does it bother you that I flirt?" and he laughed. I flirt like I breath... (read in full...)
Is she too close to her brother?
Q. Is this strange or am I just being too sensitive? My wife and her brother are a little too close in my opinion. He is always touching her, putting his hands on her, they watch tv with their arms around each other, they used to share an apartment and ...
A. 2 November 2011: was this a mail order bride kind of thing?
she is 21 you are more than double her age...
she is turkish you are posting from USA....
I'll bet two months mortgage it's NOT her brother.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes me to refer to him as daddy is this a red flag?
Q. My boyfriend sometimes likes to refer to himself or have me refer to him as "daddy". Is this a red flag that he's someone i should never have a child with, or am I overthinking this? ...
A. 2 November 2011: no it sounds to me like he's watched enough porn in his day that he thinks that it's hot to be called daddy during sex.
my boyfriend is much younger than me and he calls me baby all the time...... (read in full...)
She has been abusive but threatens that she can't live without me if I leave. please help!
Q. 2 years 3 months ago i was single and i was just out of an open relationship when i made friend with one girl on facebook.we started to chat everyday and she kept on telling me how her boyfriend was treating her badly....i felt very sorry for ...
A. 2 November 2011: Oh dear.
she's emotionally abusive
she's physically abusive
over and over
neither of these is an isolated incident.
the truth is that the background information does not matter.
the entire question can be summed up with:
"My girlf... (read in full...)
We argued, and now he wont reply to my texts and I can't get in contact with him!
Q. I had an argument 3 days ago with my boyfriend of 3 years. It was such a stupid little argument, so supid that i don't see the point in writing it here. After the argument, he walked away and went home. I texted him soooo many times telling hi...
A. 2 November 2011: he's your boyfriend of 3 years and you can't call the landline?
why not?... (read in full...)
When boyfriend's parents come visiting, things go missing!
Q. Me and my partner live together, we've been together for 4 years now; he's a great guy, kind, loving and caring. Our relationship does have the occasional squabble, but over trivial things, not things that cause break-ups in other relationships. ...
A. 2 November 2011: how old is dad? it might be early onset dementia.... (read in full...)
Is it normal that your guy asks you if he really loves you? or is he cheating??
Q. Is it normal that your guy asks you if he really loves you? or is he cheating?? I mean he was like I love you.. I said I love you to .. he said is it true? TELL ME THE TRUTH.....
A. 2 November 2011: I agree with Candid Cally... he's just insecure about how you feel about him.... (read in full...)
Does he love me or not?
Q. so this guy i knew since my teenage proposes me. All though i had feelings for him, i just kept asking him if he really meant it or if he is just playing games with my feelings. He assured me that he had feelings for me and he knew that i love him ...
A. 2 November 2011: I'm sorry I do not believe him to have the same feelings you do nor do I think you should wait for him.
I think you should forget about him and move on.... (read in full...)
Talking with a strange guy, he seems to be interested but ignorant at the same time
Q. The thing is that i met a guy through social network website , then he added me on Facebook , i liked his pictures , he looks amazing like my dream man , i gave him my number and he texted me , i asked him to meet up but he said it is too early ...
A. 2 November 2011: Keep him deleted. He's playing games with you...
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How to approach this girl?
Q. where i work is a supermarket, and i often go over there for lunch. For quite some time now i have been seeing this gorgeous girl over there, sometimes walking with her mate, sometimes on her own. We always make eye contact with each other, but the ...
A. 2 November 2011: When girls brush their hair away from their face.. it's a flirtatious mood.
just walk up to her and say "hi, I see you often and was wondering if you would like to get a coffee or something?"
see what she says...... (read in full...)
Could he be cheating? I'm Confused and need advice about his behavioral changes, please?
Q. I have been in this relationship for 4 yrs now. Everything has been going well. But last week while doing laundry I noticed some staining if you will in my man's undies. Ok I know that doesn't mean much, it can happen. But then one of his unde...
A. 2 November 2011: I personally do not believe once a cheater always a cheater. My father cheated on my mother once. She forgave him and 9 years later she died in his arms (I was there) and the man cried for the first and only time in his life... he never cheated ... (read in full...)
B/f is always on the phone with me but can't be bothered to see me
Q. Hello Aunts... And uncles ofcourse, please advise me... For 6 months I have been seeing a lovely man who I met through work, we began texting and it all went from there. We began meeting up outside of work every now and again - we don't see each ...
A. 2 November 2011: sounds to me like he's not really interested in a real relationship with you.
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After whatever happened between us, does it mean that he fancies me or does he like me as a really good friend?
Q. I was out at a party last night and went back to my guy friends flat after to watch a scary movie with another friend. We were all sitting under a duvet and he pulled my feet towards him and gradually started stroking them. I have always had on/off ...
A. 2 November 2011: If he fancies you are you dumping the 6 yr old boyfriend?
IF not why does it matter if this boy fancies you?
... (read in full...)
When boyfriend's parents come visiting, things go missing!
Q. Me and my partner live together, we've been together for 4 years now; he's a great guy, kind, loving and caring. Our relationship does have the occasional squabble, but over trivial things, not things that cause break-ups in other relationships. ...
A. 2 November 2011: " and I suspect it might be my boyfriend's dad, it can't be his mum as she's so gentle and caring"
don't be so quick to assume it's dad. Ted Bundy was a lovely fellow and many people liked him. He met the author Ann Rule when working a su... (read in full...)
Is it ok to text my ex since he stopped contacting me?
Q. I was seeing my ex recently and things were going well. Now all of a sudden he has stopped talking to me and messaging me. It is okay to message him pulling him up on the situation. Because I really don't think I did anything wrong....
A. 2 November 2011: is it OK?
sure it's not illegal...
is it wise?
probably not.
why is he an ex?
what were you seeing him for?
if it was sex then it was just hook up time... drop it drop him move on and let it go...... (read in full...)
I did all the housework at first, then we had a baby, and now he wont help out!
Q. Ive lived with my husband for 8 years. We had our first child this year. I work full time and so does he. Before we had a child, I did all of the housework, yardwork, clothes and dinner myself with no help. Now that we have a baby, I have very ...
A. 2 November 2011: When he asks what needs to be done do you TELL him or do you WRITE A LIST.
I can't always see what needs to be done.. my boyfriend is in charge of making up the lists of things to be done and we split them.
I suggest drawing up a schedule of th... (read in full...)
I want to meet up with her, but we didn't meet on a dating site. Am I reading too much into her being nice?
Q. Hi all, I have been talking to a girl on a penpal site and she seems really nice and I was considering after a bit more talking to ask about meeting up. The problem is, she says that people seem to just message her saying things about her being'...
A. 2 November 2011: She may be interested in beiing friends... she's complaiing about men wanting to meet up for hooking up not having friendships/relationships.
The only way to know if she's interested in meeting and being friends IRL (and maybe MORE later on down ... (read in full...)
Do most men want a younger woman and can't get turned on by their older wife?
Q. I'm really puzzled now. I want to know the truth about sexless marriages, when it is over 20 years long marriage. Now we reached 1 year with no sex, due to my husband lack of sexual desire, what started with an ED. But it stayed undiagnosed ...
A. 2 November 2011: my 38 yr old boyfriend has ED. he drinks and smokes so that's part of it. He also has many stresses. I'm 51 and it's NOT about my being attractive to him. he finds me very attractive. My last husband was 40 to my 51 and he also found me ... (read in full...)
How do I keep a guy interested without going overboard?
Q. So, I've met a few lovely guys in the past few years, who I would have loved to have a relationship with, but I keep blowing it. I fall for them quite quickly, text them more often than I should and think I come on a little too strong (without being ...
A. 2 November 2011: Texting seems to be the way to ruin everything.
let the man chase you a bit...
be warm and inviting and friendly but only in response to him.... (read in full...)
Should I just relax and enjoy the friendship?
Q. I met a guy on an online dating site. We met ofr a first date over two weeks ago and got on great, attraction was there etc. However, after only a couple times after that he said he wants to just be friends. Admittedly, we had by this point ...
A. 2 November 2011: If you told him you can't be FWB but are happy to be friends then GO FOR IT. who knows what might happen later on.... (read in full...)
We both had sex with others, so how do we go on from here?
Q. So during this summer I met this girl who just seems right for me and that the fates had lined us up multiple times to be together. Anywho we have a romantic stint while studying abroad for 3 months. We traveled for a week after our program and she ...
A. 2 November 2011: two wrongs do not make a right...
gawd I would have said the same thing she did to you about the sleeping with an old friend but it would have cut me like a knife....
will you two be LDR... if you will be LDR I'm not sure i would recommend ... (read in full...)
Am I a girlfriend of a FWB?
Q. Hi everyone here's my problem I met a man at the beginning of the year I like him a lot we started having sex and I found myself getting strong feelings for him but he stopped bothering with me for weeks and weeks so I thought he wasn't interested ...
A. 2 November 2011: What Cindy said... agree to it but make him show you in actions that he means it and it's not a line for getting laid.... (read in full...)
Could losing your virginity kick start your period?
Q. Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount o...
A. 2 November 2011: hormones can cause the period to come on... how far away from your due date were you?
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Could he be cheating? I'm Confused and need advice about his behavioral changes, please?
Q. I have been in this relationship for 4 yrs now. Everything has been going well. But last week while doing laundry I noticed some staining if you will in my man's undies. Ok I know that doesn't mean much, it can happen. But then one of his unde...
A. 2 November 2011: Trust your gut. If you believe him to be cheating you need to talk to him about it.
Truth be told, changes in grooming patterns can indicate a new romance.
I don't know about Canadian law but here in the few states that still recognize ... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 2 November 2011: THE OP SAID:
“Well my take on these ways of men is that they need time to really be committed.”
I totally disagree. Men when they are ready to be committed fall at the drop of a hat. MY LDR guy is 38, never married… never wanted to get marri... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 1 November 2011: well Gee there's nothing left for me to say all the other uncles and aunties said it just right.
A FEW DATES does not mean a girl should have sex with you.
SEX does not define a relationship.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes me to refer to him as daddy is this a red flag?
Q. My boyfriend sometimes likes to refer to himself or have me refer to him as "daddy". Is this a red flag that he's someone i should never have a child with, or am I overthinking this? ...
A. 1 November 2011: Nancy Regan called Ronnie Daddy. My grandmother sometimes called grandpa Daddy...
Did you ask him WHY he wants to be called Daddy? I think that's an important component of this.
My boyfriend and I have nicknames for each other. Mine is ... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 31 October 2011: Oh Dear OP...
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Well first of all I know he was in an hotel because I called and asked for him and he answered but I did not speak.
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what made you even bother to check to see if he was in a hotel? TRUST? do you T... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 31 October 2011: did you expect him to admit to cheating?
of course he denied it.
what did you expect.
EVEN if it's NOT true, you don't believe him. YOU don't trust him... there is no relationship without trust.... (read in full...)
Stealing someone out of a relationship
Q. okay now I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship. I wanted this guy first and he got with his ex and still showed signs of interest in me. Seeing as at one point I was there first but may have messed up, pretty sure I did ...
A. 28 October 2011: THE OP ASKED: "I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship"
no it's NOT ok.
1. he's not yours to steal
2. to plot to do this is not nice. it's totally different if it happens (my current bf "stole" me from my then ... (read in full...)
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