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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I Co-Dependent?
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 27 January 2012: It’s so very true. Cindy is my sounding board on so many things. We all know we can GIVE advice but we rarely take our own… it’s truly “do as I say not as I do”
Well last night two things happened: 1. We decided NOT to change our plans at all a... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: I promise not to leave crumbs! :-*... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: A watch is a great idea... and I"ve gotten a few private suggestions that are great.
As i told Chigirl.... things may have to be on hold now... he lost his job this morning and while we are not worried (and can make all our bills with my salar... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: For all his insanity (wanting me to propose and he's taking my last name) he likes romance and tradition... just like men offer women an engagement ring, and many women feel like it's not a "real" proposal without the ring, I believe he would like ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 25 January 2012: UPDATE:
My divorce was final on 1/18/12 I just found out about an hour ago so now I'm full throttle preparing the proposal.
This is what I have so far:
Asking on 2/29 (Sadie Hawkins day)
he already has a ring I bought him that he wears ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 18 November 2011: go to uni.../college etc... keep his friendship but do not be exclusive.. DO NOT make him promises...
I'm 51 I go for YOUNGER men... MUCH younger men... I could NOT handle anyone in their 20s much less their teens... so I worry that his desire f... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 12 November 2011: he didn't apologize?
beg your forgiveness?
fall to his knees and say "i'm not worthy"
just a " i won't do it again"
damn straight skippy you won't.
I think he's a bit too calm and relaxed for his goof to be that easily forgiven... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 11 November 2011: he should feel bad
he's a shallow loser not you...
... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend I'm ready to have sex with him?
Q. Im a 16 year old girl who is a proud virgin, and my ex boyfriend who i like has asked for sex in the beginning and I told him no. He now after 6 months still likes me and never even hints the idea. But now all of a sudden im craving sex! What do I ...
A. 11 November 2011: I agree with Miamine... wait for the right guy NOT an ex boyfriend.
in this case don't settle for LIKE
wait for LOVE... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 10 November 2011: I had a whole answer earlier today and the network crashed... ugh.
let's see if i can do something almost as good....
you start by telling him
"it's not fun any more" (I told my last husband I was only staying as long as it was fun)
t... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 10 November 2011: Sageoldguy nailed it.
I had one FWB with an ex boyfriend once... with almost no time between breakup and FWB... it was pleasant and just kind of faded away.... I still have fond memories of him
my current BF (soon to be fiance) started ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 10 November 2011: I agree with Honeypie.
you need to dump her and move on.
the fact that you view her as selfish and inconsiderate because she won't have sex with you says that you guys are incompatible as partners.
... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 10 November 2011: ok we need more info
why and how do your parents know him... do they have or did they have a relationship with him?... (read in full...)
She has broken my trust - is it ok for me to ask her to no longer contact her ex's and change her phone number?
Q. my gf has recently completely broken my trust in her and its the second time she has damaged our relationship. the first was she was catching up with an ex boyfriend and lied to me about it and i later found out and second she was having an online ...
A. 10 November 2011: you can ask her but to be honest if she wants to do it she will continue to do it and she will lie to you...
this exact issue was one of the reasons my marriage broke up
I told him not to contact his online girls, he said he would not and he... (read in full...)
The Guy is Distancing himself from me and I don't know what to do...
Q. I started talking to this guy on an iPhone dating app and he seemed to really like me. I gave him my number and we startes texting and Skyping the same day, we really hit it off. Only problem is he lives about 1000 miles from me :( well we've only ...
A. 10 November 2011: "thanks and please no rude answers"
wow... define RUDE.. is that where we tell you what you dont' want to hear?
you don't bring it up... after ten days it's not really anyting yet.... and clearly he's already feeling that he made a mistake..... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 10 November 2011: 2 years...
one night stand
unforced confession...
I can't tell you what YOU should do but more than likely if it was ME I'd forgive at least this one time...
but then I have an open policy if he sees something he wants to hit he jus... (read in full...)
After all these hints he didnt propose! I'm getting depressed about this, what should I do?
Q. I thought he was going to propose last night. We've been together for three years, and the hints he kept dropping were leading me to believe that. But he didn't. Instead, to celebrate our anniversary he gave me some chocolates and flowers. I told ...
A. 10 November 2011: So why can't YOU propose. He may say no but then you have your answer...
You bought a house together with a man you are not sure is going to marry you... what will you do if he does not marry you?
every couple I know who lived together and the... (read in full...)
How can I enjoy sex with my partner who has a small penis? And is masturbation ok even though I'm in a relationship?
Q. how can i make myself to enjoy while having sex even though my partner have a small penis? And is mastubation good for someone who is in a relationship?...
A. 10 November 2011: define SMALL....
my partner is on the low side of "average" now and I enjoy sex more with him than with my larger sized partners.
and masturbation is perfectly fine for anyone in my opinion. I am in a live in relationship and still masturbate... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 10 November 2011: he tells you he loves you... does he SHOW YOU?
my last husband TOLD me he loved me. he never SHOWED me with actions... he always did things that hurt me but that HE needed to do.
current partner NEVER says "I love you" I have heard it ma... (read in full...)
He is not calling... should I call or give him space?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for ALMOST 2 years.....he usually calls me multiple times a day sometimes even more.... but recnetly ive been alittle busy so i could really answer his calls but to make up for missing his calls i sent him a txt ...
A. 10 November 2011: I don't purposely NOT answer my phone. That's not a good assumption. My BF actually left a message day before yesterday that started with "I got your damn voicemail AGAiN YOU NEVER hear your phone"... and it's true... I rarely hear it ring so I ... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 10 November 2011: if it started as casual I hate to tell you it's still casual for him....... (read in full...)
I think he's technically be cheating. Should I be concerned? Considering that he is completely satisfying me?
Q. Hey... I am in a relationship that has been going on for 9 months and it has come to my attention that my bf is 'cheating' on me. I know it sounds strange but I am unsure of how I feel about this. Basically the situation is, my bf is lovely, ...
A. 10 November 2011: if you go through his messages you don't trust him.
how can you say a man you don't trust makes you completely happy?
sex will not make him stop his emotional cheating...... (read in full...)
Gagging and deep throating
Q. Ok imma keep this plain and straight to the point. My man likes oral sex just like any other man. I like givin to him. My only problem is that I really can't get it own my throat just yet. I can suck it really good but deep throating is very scary ...
A. 10 November 2011: so don't do it.
I don't deep throat... I gag too much
get him nice and wet... use your hand to meet as far down as your mouth can go and make sure he' all encased in mouth and wet hand... it will work fine and no gagging or choking...... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fake an orgasm?
Q. If you fake an orgasm while your partner is trying to please you, is it rude? Me and my bf (of about a year) were having some fun a few days ago, and he was trying to get me to orgasm with his fingers, and it felt good, but after a while I realiz...
A. 10 November 2011: It's wrong to fake it... I never fake it.. yes BF gets dissapointed that i don't orgasm but to lie to him would be a bigger sin....
Tell him the truth...
most women are not able to orgasm during sex (especially penetetraion) I am 51 I have h... (read in full...)
We have not spoken for over a week and its his birthday tomorrow. What to do?
Q. I need this advice before the end of today. Me and my boyfriend had a disagreement and we have not spoken for a week and three days. Even though he was at fault I was willing to forgive him so I called him last Thursday but no response. I did leave ...
A. 10 November 2011: calling from an unknown number
hang ups etc
all too Juvenile for my taste... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 10 November 2011: Ah so the problem is simple... he's not a good boyfriend you want more.
so yes the answer is to end it. You are clearly not happy.
He is NOT going to change.... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling such a strong sense of loss if I didn't even plan to have a baby and I know I wasn't ready?
Q. Hi Im 21 and found out i was pregnant on Saturday, both me and my bf were not ready for a baby and it wasn't planned but we accepted it. On Monday I miscarried, it was only 3 - 4 weeks. Since then I haven't stopped crying, im not sleeping well and...
A. 9 November 2011: Because even if you weren't ready you lost your child. that's upsetting. no matter what.
... (read in full...)
We have not spoken for over a week and its his birthday tomorrow. What to do?
Q. I need this advice before the end of today. Me and my boyfriend had a disagreement and we have not spoken for a week and three days. Even though he was at fault I was willing to forgive him so I called him last Thursday but no response. I did leave ...
A. 9 November 2011: yeah I agree it's too long. He's done and if he's not you should be.
let it go. do nothing.... (read in full...)
I treated my b/f like a king, he cheated and I need to move on but I'm a mess!
Q. my boyfriend of three years cheated on me. i know i did nothing wrong i treated him like a king and it still backfired.i know he has a lot of issues but none of that was an excuse for what he did. i am devastated! a complete mess. i want nothing to ...
A. 9 November 2011: What he did is NOT ABOUT YOU... it sucks to learn this.
GREAT BOOK: A Fine Romance by Judith Sills... it's in paperback...
there are also numerous books on healing a broken relationship/etc.. I had one at home but it's out of print and can't ... (read in full...)
Considering 2 guys for a FWB relationship but should I consider either of them?
Q. About 8 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was really hard on me because i was really in love with him. It took me months to get over it. Now Im finally getting my life back and I feel really good. But I'm starting to miss having someone ...
A. 9 November 2011: I am sorry as a huge proponent of free love and meaningless sex I'm going to vote NO to FWB...
someone always gets hurt, usually the woman.... (read in full...)
Partner has a loan which will take 4 years to pay off. I'm having second thoughts
Q. Hi not sure if I am being silly here but need advice so I can make up my mind about something but I have since discovered that my partner of 1.5 years is paying off a nearly £18,000 loan which will take about 4 years to pay off and was shocked to be ...
A. 9 November 2011: well i pay for my kids cell phone bills and the youngest is 25... just easier here for that to happen and my partner accepts readily that my children are my responsibility even as adults. (heck my father still helps me with MY bills sometimes)...
... (read in full...)
I'm 6 weeks pregnant, against abortion and the guy is no longer interested in me and has a girlfriend
Q. 6 wks pregnant and worried about our relationship? Is he done with me now? What should I do? I'm 18 and have been in college mostly interested in singing only interesting thing about college is this guy I'm highly attracted to. We had hooked up...
A. 9 November 2011: if you are against abortion then it's NOT an option. cut and dried.
however, being pregnant is not a reason for him to be with you.
you should tell him he has a child coming however..everyone has the right to know they are a parent even if t... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 9 November 2011: if the only reason you are not having a "real" relationship is due to age, then go for it.
Granted I think that at 18 you may change your mind later on and if I was him that would be MY fear...
if you both want to be togther then DO IT.... (read in full...)
Should I continue flirting with her even if I know we can't be together?
Q. I am having problems reading this girl She was visiting my town for 4 weeks by some relatives. When we met we were attracted to each other the first week, we went on a moonlight walk and kissed. She doesn't own a phone but she used one of ...
A. 9 November 2011: It's long distance
you can't be open about the relationship and you were not together all that long.
I strongly think that friends is the way to go...
Relationships are hard
relationships without family support are harder
LDRs are HARDER ... (read in full...)
How did this backfire?
Q. I don’t understand how one guy, basically a stranger can make me feel so terrible about myself. A guy who complimented me more than any guy, so why am I doing this to myself! I met this very, very good looking guy one night, he went on about ho...
A. 9 November 2011: Interesting, I don't think I'm young enough, or thin enough or pretty enough or smart enough or that I make my man happy... and he thinks I'm NUTS because I make him happy and he thinks I'm pretty and thin enough and smart enough etc..
what ... (read in full...)
How do I get my children back?
Q. i have two son ,but both are leave with my father in law and my husband was death .my sons are scered to come with me beacuase my mother in law is learning wrong .now i want back my children so what can i do ? please give me an answer ...
A. 9 November 2011: who has legal custody of these children?
if you do take the police and go get your children.... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 9 November 2011: Sounds to me like it's not a good fit.
it's nice that he cares for his sister but what arrangements has he made for her for when he no longer can care for her??? (i have a disabled child so we planned ahead for his care after we are gone)
... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 9 November 2011: When I was breastfeeding my sons I could not take birth control pills but I did not want to get pregnant.
so what I did was
temperature charting with Natural Family Planning. Even though I am Jewish I took classes from the Catholic Church in my... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend I think her relationship is doomed?
Q. My friend cheated on her long term partner of about 17 years. He was always good to her. She treated him pretty poorly when she decided to dump him for the fella that she had been cheating with. Few years on now she has married this guy. Deep down I ...
A. 9 November 2011: I would not say anything to her...
besides it may work out for her.... then how would you feel?... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OMG!
do i have to get married in a toilet now???
did i tell you all we are going to elope to Vegas?
I want to wear a red dress and black hooker shoes!
I DO
I DO!
ROFL!
I am really struggling with this.. I so want it to be... (read in full...)
What can I say to this 20 year old guy who is interested in me? I'm hesitant.
Q. I know this guy, he's 20 and am 31 i was just wondering why is he interested in me, when he can have anyone he wants? I am worried about the age difference when keep asking me out. i say sorry I'm too old for you and he says I'm not old. What d...
A. 9 November 2011: IF he can have anyone he wants and he wants YOU why are you to deny him?
IF the ONLY reason you are saying no is his age, I would say at least give him a chance... and then on your date you can ask him WHY...
perhaps he has a misconception th... (read in full...)
Curious about oral sex or just being silly
Q. This is probably a silly question. Well I am a girl and openly bisexual but not sexually active and my friend is bi-curious or whatever and lately she keeps bringing up sex with me. Talking about how she wants me to perform oral on her and ...
A. 9 November 2011: If you are uncomfortable with her texts tell her.
I'm bisexual and one of the things I've found when I'm active in that part of my life is that bi-curious girls are often hinting and teasing but when push comes to shove they have to really be re... (read in full...)
Should I consider Saving a Long-distance Relationship or Should I let it Sink?
Q. My girlfriend has recently brought up to me that the distance is tearing her apart, and she doesn't know what to do anymore. She talked about upcoming semesters and how much longer it will be until we see one another again. I asked her if she still ...
A. 9 November 2011: Ok I need more info...
1. were you ever NOT LDR.. is this just a college thing or did you guys meet online?
2. is thanksgiving the first visit?
3. how far apart are you?
4. the closer to 21 you guys are the better... and while 18-21 is... (read in full...)
I don't seem to be part of my boyfriends future plans. I love him what can I do?
Q. In a text spat last night, my boyfriend hurt my feelings and actually "dismissed" me from further contact that night. We have had serious discussions recently about our future together. After ALL we have been through and ALL I have supported him ...
A. 9 November 2011: OUCH!
so you are having CRITICAL LIFE changing conversations via TEXT messages?
I dont' think this is wise. these are conversations that have to be had face to face.
I think my boyfriend loves me less than I love him and he thinks i love... (read in full...)
Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?
Q. I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and s...
A. 9 November 2011: yep it sounds like it could be allergies to what he's eating!
AS for condoms... go buy some yourself and carry them with you... better safe than sorry...
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!
Q. My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please ...
A. 9 November 2011: The only thing he's messing around with is your trust and your relationship.
this would be a betrayal of trust to me. and it would not be acceptable.
I would not believe him.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in Jail. Not sure how to cope or to help him?
Q. Help please. . . So my boyfriend and I were in a car wreck on monday we are both okay for the most part the car insurance covers both of our medical bills and there is full coverage on the vehicle well after the accident we were taken to a tow yard ...
A. 9 November 2011: First of all I am sorry about the accident... we had a bad one in April and had similar issues...
Did your boyfriend know of this child? is he paying his support? if so does he have proof? Is he working? are his wages garnished for the support?... (read in full...)
Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?
Q. I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and s...
A. 9 November 2011: Lesbians are not allergic to semen. Some women are sensitive to some men's semen... it happens straight or not.
It could be just your boyfriend or a general allergy or it could be something he's eating...
What are you using for birth contro... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OH such great ideas.
He works from HOME! :SOB: so I can't do anything like the banner... that's a great idea
and while SVC loves SEX... Keeper tends to be a bit more reserved about those things.... but I love the strawberries and champagne th... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: oh wow... LEAP YEAR... February 29th is a Wednesday.... I just checked... hmmm... I doubt we could do the wedding on that day.... but if we could that would be fun...
I cannot propose during a fight... I wish I could... he expects me calm and cool... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: he has light hair so the gray does not show and he wears it very short (high and tight military short) and he has a full head of hair... and it's thick... oy.... not a wrinkle on that baby face. He has gray in his beard but he stays clean ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: ROFL... we do but NOT about this.
and the age thing I'm not so easily amused by.... I feel so old compared to him... I look my age, he looks 25... ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: I like simple and classic too... maybe over thanksgiving then since we are going to be going out to eat one last time up near a place we have gone to several times... that's a GREAT idea.... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 4 November 2011: The OP said: "The sex aside, it feels like something is missing."
THIS is a TOTALLY different statement and issue. THIS is my opinion is the crux of the problem.
I just spent a year in an LDR. We were two hours apart... we just closed the ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 4 November 2011: You say you've been on a few dates and then you say "after so long"
there are some folks that define a few dates as a casual relationship... if you see this as more than casual and want a more serious relationship with this woman then step up ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 1 November 2011: well Gee there's nothing left for me to say all the other uncles and aunties said it just right.
A FEW DATES does not mean a girl should have sex with you.
SEX does not define a relationship.
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