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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I Co-Dependent?
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 27 January 2012: It’s so very true. Cindy is my sounding board on so many things. We all know we can GIVE advice but we rarely take our own… it’s truly “do as I say not as I do”
Well last night two things happened: 1. We decided NOT to change our plans at all a... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: I promise not to leave crumbs! :-*... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: A watch is a great idea... and I"ve gotten a few private suggestions that are great.
As i told Chigirl.... things may have to be on hold now... he lost his job this morning and while we are not worried (and can make all our bills with my salar... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: For all his insanity (wanting me to propose and he's taking my last name) he likes romance and tradition... just like men offer women an engagement ring, and many women feel like it's not a "real" proposal without the ring, I believe he would like ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 25 January 2012: UPDATE:
My divorce was final on 1/18/12 I just found out about an hour ago so now I'm full throttle preparing the proposal.
This is what I have so far:
Asking on 2/29 (Sadie Hawkins day)
he already has a ring I bought him that he wears ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OMG!
do i have to get married in a toilet now???
did i tell you all we are going to elope to Vegas?
I want to wear a red dress and black hooker shoes!
I DO
I DO!
ROFL!
I am really struggling with this.. I so want it to be... (read in full...)
Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?
Q. I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and s...
A. 9 November 2011: yep it sounds like it could be allergies to what he's eating!
AS for condoms... go buy some yourself and carry them with you... better safe than sorry...
... (read in full...)
Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?
Q. I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and s...
A. 9 November 2011: Lesbians are not allergic to semen. Some women are sensitive to some men's semen... it happens straight or not.
It could be just your boyfriend or a general allergy or it could be something he's eating...
What are you using for birth contro... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OH such great ideas.
He works from HOME! :SOB: so I can't do anything like the banner... that's a great idea
and while SVC loves SEX... Keeper tends to be a bit more reserved about those things.... but I love the strawberries and champagne th... (read in full...)
Too many arguments make me want to walk away!
Q. Hello so i have a boyfriend hasnt been that long since we started going out just over a month, but we have so many arguments. We must have one even if its only small every day or most days. We have only had one big one, but he begged and begged me ...
A. 8 November 2011: at 16-17 and dating a month... if you are fighting that much I would say it's not really worth the effort to make it work....
what are you guys fighting about?... (read in full...)
Married 10 years and I've never gotten a blow job!
Q. Im married for 10 years now , ans never gave me a bj how can I change that she said she never will because she's not an animal she only likes one poaittion. She hates doge style as we'll how can I change that because im locking around now and don't ...
A. 8 November 2011: She said she never will and she never has and now after 10 years you want to change this.... ouch.
will she go to therapy? if not, then if you are THAT unhappy, you may have to end the marriage....
if you are looking around now and don't wa... (read in full...)
Hes been hurt in the past and now wont trust me!
Q. dear readers, i have known this guy for a few months now and im having a few difficulties. he was hurt in the past by his father whom he once trusted, but the father abused this guys mum and his siblings. so i understand where he migh...
A. 8 November 2011: I don't think you should continue with him.
If he does not trust based on how he was raised vs a girlfriend that hurt him, that's old ingrained learned behavior...
He will probably require therapy to get past his mum being abused in front ... (read in full...)
Is my ex just being nice to try and get in my pants? I don't want to fool around with him as I still want a relationship...
Q. So I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we've just started talking again. He says he doesn't want a relationship with me anymore, but later told me he still wanted to fool around. But I still have feelings for him and still want to ...
A. 8 November 2011: I agree drop contact.
especially because you have feelings for him.
no good can come from him getting his jollies at your emotional expense.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with loneliness?
Q. Hi .how can i manage the loniliness of a long distance relationship.my husband has been away for two whole months. I feel lonely....
A. 8 November 2011: Oh I would be so loney for my honey if he was gone for two months... I hope he's coming home soon.
can you guys SKYPE? do you talk on the phone?
what hobbies do you have?
girl friends you can go out with?
are you working? what do y... (read in full...)
She spent the whole time dancing without me. Am I right to be annoyed?
Q. My girlfriend and I both came from relationships where we both were unfaithful. Understanding this we have trust issues. I make every effort to be mindful and respectful of her feelings to insure she is comfortable with my actions. Recently we went ...
A. 8 November 2011: Do you dance?
if not, then no she was not inconsiderate you were at a DANCE club.
IF you dance and she refused to dance with you then yes that's a problem...
I think we need MORE info in this case to help...... (read in full...)
I feel something with him, but I think he doesn't.
Q. why do we feel chemistry with some people when we sleep with them and with athers we dont. i felt chemistry with this guy and now am falling for him. i think he doesnt...
A. 8 November 2011: Why we do is a mystery.
IF you feel deeply about someone who does NOT return your feelings, then you should consider what your next step is.. as Aunt Honesty said.. talk to him.... (read in full...)
He chose to watch sexy nurses instead of time with me!
Q. My boyfriend chose watching sexy nurses on TV instead of reading the horoscope with me...what should I do?...
A. 8 November 2011: have you told him you want him to read the horoscopes with you?
can you read it at a different time so he can watch the sexy nurses AND read the horoscopes with you?... (read in full...)
How can I forget these images of my girlfriend with her ex's?
Q. I want to know how can I take my mind off things from my girlfriend. She had sex with t different guys before she met me and several times with them but now I'm with her and since she told me I really got mad. It gave me the bad picture of thinking ...
A. 8 November 2011: I agree with Chigirl... I think it best that you let her go...
as a woman who has had multiple sex partners I can tell you that those in my past are never in my head when I am with my current partner...
the past is not fixable it is wh... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: oh wow... LEAP YEAR... February 29th is a Wednesday.... I just checked... hmmm... I doubt we could do the wedding on that day.... but if we could that would be fun...
I cannot propose during a fight... I wish I could... he expects me calm and cool... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: he has light hair so the gray does not show and he wears it very short (high and tight military short) and he has a full head of hair... and it's thick... oy.... not a wrinkle on that baby face. He has gray in his beard but he stays clean ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: ROFL... we do but NOT about this.
and the age thing I'm not so easily amused by.... I feel so old compared to him... I look my age, he looks 25... ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: I like simple and classic too... maybe over thanksgiving then since we are going to be going out to eat one last time up near a place we have gone to several times... that's a GREAT idea.... (read in full...)
What's stopping him from asking me out? Is it the age difference?
Q. I'm a 21 years old. At my work there is this older man that I talk to I know he's about 9-10 years older than me. He's a really nice guy and is always a frequent customer at my work. We always talk and I can tell between us there is an attraction, ...
A. 8 November 2011: Maybe he's just flirting.... the age difference is not much to be honest. my boyfriend is 13 years younger than I am...
maybe he does not mix business with pleasure and won't ask you out beause he has a business relationship with your place of... (read in full...)
16 year old in love with an attached 23 year old
Q. I am a 16 year old male an I have fallen in love with my 23 year old co-worker who is dating our manager what do I do? she says she is leaving him for me when she gets her car I just need advice....
A. 8 November 2011: In the USA it is illegal for a 23 yr. old to date (i.e. be intimate with) a 16 year old and she will go to jail for it.
Is it even remotely possible that she's just kidding you and teasing and flirting? and that because you have a mad crush (a... (read in full...)
She says she cant live with me but cant live without me! What can I do to get rid of my wife's inconsistent behaviour?
Q. I am married for the last 20 months . I am 28 whereas my wife is 27. 20 months back, I met her in a stadium while watching football match and I lost my heart to her within no time. In the stadium, offered her 600000 Euros to marry me as I was ...
A. 8 November 2011: let me get this straight..
you saw her in a public place
you did not know her before this
you did not have mutual friends
you offered her MONEY to marry you
she accepted.
this is a business deal then... not a love match.
are you a bad p... (read in full...)
I feel bad because I'm always saying no when he asks me out, how can I make it up to him?
Q. Over the past week I've been really really sick like I could hardly leave my bed without assistance. My fella doesn't know how sick I've been but has asked me out 4 times and I declined due to my illness like he asked me to a chariy event, Dinner , ...
A. 8 November 2011: Does he know that you said NO because of how sick you were?
you need to make sure he knows how sick you were and that's why you said no...
how long have you been going out? ... (read in full...)
Is 'dry humping' morally wrong?
Q. We were making out and it just happened, we're both Christians and we want to wait till marriage to have sex, but is it wrong that we dry humped and we both enjoyed it? ...
A. 8 November 2011: I think if you had to ask and feel that much guilt about it then yes it's wrong for you.... (read in full...)
How do I handle my girlfriend? She is acting like a complete bitch!
Q. I need help with my girlfriend She is acting like a bitch and I know she is not but she says I constantly annoy her and always tell her what to do when the only thing I tell her to do is to don't drink to much whenever she does And she gets a...
A. 8 November 2011: I think that it's time to cut your losses and move on..
she's drinking
she's disrespecting your desires
she's already told you she will sleep around on you if she feels like it (and unless you are ok with this and it goes both ways it's not ac... (read in full...)
I don't want to let him go, but I need to if he doesn't see a future with me
Q. We've been together just over a year. I know he loves me in some fashion (I am one of maybe 3 people in his life that actually understands him and that he feels totally comfortable with). I asked him the other night if we were going anywhere with ...
A. 8 November 2011: He's hedging his bets. "Perhaps" "maybe" all IMO not good signs...
IF a man who wanted to marry you was asked he would say "YES WHEN I get the finances in order and this is what I'm doing to do so"
oh and BTW everyone "settles" ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she's only been with 2 men, but I don't believe her. Am I right?
Q. I dont know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for the last 5 years, but I cant trust her. I am 25 and she is 24. She has told me that she has had two boyfriends before me who she had sex with, but I have heard that she has had more. I think ...
A. 8 November 2011: No I'm sorry you are NOT right.
You are very very wrong.
You are
1. basing your choice on what OTHERS have said, not the woman you supposedly love.
2. not trusting her based on what you were told NOT what you know.
3. wanting to "get even... (read in full...)
My brother's fiancée is cheating, do I show him the proof or not?
Q. Hi I am in a bit of a dilemma, I was invited by a friend onto a dating site called Badoo. So I joined to see what it was as I had no idea, and I came across a profile for my borther's Fience (definitely her as it was her picture) stating that she is ...
A. 8 November 2011: My first thought is that it's old... can you verify the last time she logged on. My fiancee has a profile on OK cupid we just never took it down but he's not logged on the site since March!...
Secondly you may want to talk to HER first...... (read in full...)
How can I cover a bruise on my face?
Q. I have a bruise on my face and i am worried as i have to go out on Wednesday and i don't want people to notice it. i have very short hair so it might be hard to hide it that way. i could put make up on it but i'm not sure if it would still be ...
A. 8 November 2011: OK guys I'm going to tell you how I got a bruise on my face... please do NOT always assume that a bruise is inflicted by another person...
I get bruises on my legs often as i walk into table corners frequently. I also managed LAST AUGUST to be... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend have an STD he doesn't know about, and transmit it through oral sex?
Q. Although my boyfriend's never been officially tested for STDs, he's pretty sure he's clear. From what I know, he hasn't had many previous sexual partners (although he didn't always use condoms because his then girlfriends were on birth control, and ...
A. 8 November 2011: You can contract STDs orally.
He needs to be tested. If he refuses that says a lot to me....
When my bf and I got together both of us has blood work and were tested for STDs. Twice right away and six months later.
it's not that big a d... (read in full...)
My hair was messy after grocery shopping and my husband automatically assumed I was cheating?
Q. So i went made groceries today and when I got back home my hair was a little messy (i wear clip on extensions and these are really old and ready to be disposed of) but when i got home my husband asked why is my hair messed up which made me mad ...
A. 8 November 2011: so your husband did NOT accuse you of cheating outright?
he asked why your hair was messy and you just assume that he's accusing you of cheating?
Are you being abused? emotionally? or mentally??? sounds to me like he's beating dow... (read in full...)
How has your past sexual experiences affected your marriage/Serious Prospective Relationship Experienced persons Opinion preferably
Q. Hi DC members This is a sex related question. I would like your honest comments about having several sex partners before you settle in life(find your soul mate/Mr. or Mrs Right to start a family with). I mean all the people you have been involved...
A. 8 November 2011: I"m here to skew your data
age: 51
sex: female
three husbands
getting a divorce
going to marry again (4th husband)
multiple sex partners both male and female sometimes more than one at a time....
the man I am with now, I w... (read in full...)
Love bites or hickeys?
Q. hi i was writing to get some tips. i'm 15 and it seems alot of people my age are giving 'hichys' or love bites to their partners. and that's what i'm worried about the thing is i don't know how to give them :S. i'm worried about doing it wrong when ...
A. 7 November 2011: doing them on purpose is gross... I'm not going to teach you how to do them... if they happen naturally they are in need of cover up.... (read in full...)
Give it another chance? or is he using me? do you guys think he lied to me when he said he didn't meet anyone?
Q. Dear friends... i need some advice. I broke up with my bf 5 months ago and It's been really hard. I know our relationship wasn't working and that we tried so many times to be ok, but we argued a lot! i never stopped missing him, though... ...
A. 7 November 2011: IF in doubt, drop out...
stop rowing the relationship boat and see what happens.
do not call him
do not text him
do not suggest getting together
see what he does...
personally I agree that he was not able to replace you and he's just... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't talk to me at his birthday-party! Did I overreact?
Q. It was my boyfriend's birthday and he invited a lot of friends to his house. The problem is he stopped to chat with everyone but me and that got me really upset. He often looked at me to see if I was doing ok, but I kinda missed him and started ...
A. 7 November 2011: To me this is the key "I know he hadn't see his friends for a long time and he basically sees me everyday at college"
he sees you every day
he came to see you at the end of the party after visiting with his friends that he had not seen and won... (read in full...)
Ex says I should have sex with him because I owe him my virginity since he waited for me
Q. Me and my now ex-boyfriend just broke up because of me not being in love with him anymore. Although we're broken up, he's telling me to have sex with him so we can both loose our virginities and then he'll move on. He says if we do have sex, he'll ...
A. 7 November 2011: YOU don't know what to tell him? My first reaction is to tell him to "EFF OFF"
YOU OWE HIM NOTHING.
Tell him that you are perfectly ok with him losing his virginity to all these other girls that want him.... NBD in my opinion.
Perso... (read in full...)
I'm in USA and he's in Australia. Should I try to bring this LDR relationship back?
Q. Broke up with my LDR boyfriend of 1.5 years a couple months ago. Still love him, but he's being distant. Should I try to bring the relationship back? I was in a LDR for a year and a half and we broke up 2 months ago. I live in the US and he live...
A. 7 November 2011: I'm sorry you are hurting. ONCE trust is broken it's very very very hard to get back.. even in a long term marriage.... (read in full...)
Is my sister taking advantage of my late cousin's husband? Is it OK for them to date just one year after my cousin passing?
Q. My cousin died of cancer one year ago at the age of 46. She was married for 14 years to a wonderful man (whom I will call "Bill"). They decided not to have kids because she was diagnosed with cancer at the beginning of their marriage, but were ...
A. 6 November 2011: My mother and father were married for over 45 years
My mother died in my fathers arms and he cried like a baby. He loved her so much. That was 16 years ago and he still cries about her on October 23rd the day she died.
Three months later on a b... (read in full...)
Change a bad boyfriend?
Q. i dont know how to make my boyfriend change! we have been dating for a year now and...well he cheated on me like 9 months into it and i forgave him because of the situation its a long story. but my current problem is he doesn't treat me well and i ...
A. 6 November 2011: let's pretend your boyfriend can't speak..
you said you know he loves you and he tells you every day.
my boyfriend loves me and he never tells me and yet I know I am more loved by this man than any other man in the world EVER. my last husba... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is becoming a mysognist (hate women).Any ideas why he has suddenly become like this? Can I change his mind?
Q. Ok, some advice please. My boyfriend has always been slightly sexist- men do this better, women shouldn't do that job, etc. It never caused a problem between us, and sometimes was rather sweet when he would act really chivalrous. However this s...
A. 6 November 2011: you can't change him.
he has always been like this he just kept it better hidden until now.
folks are often on their best behavior in the beginning parts of a relationship.
If you have talked to him about it and he does not see a problem wi... (read in full...)
My wife is lazy
Q. I have been married for a couple of years now and most things are fine but I find my wife is lazy. This laziness does not extend to her work, as she works very hard and for long hours (we both do), its every other aspect of our lives she is lazy. I ...
A. 6 November 2011: Sounds EXACTLY LIKE me and my partner.
I have ADHD... it's not that I'm lazy it's that I can't manage to get my brain organized enough.
People think that ADHD means we can't pay attention but it runs much deeper than that... it's about relat... (read in full...)
My girlfriend could be jealous of my creative mind
Q. I am in a relationship with this girl for the last 5 years . We graduated from the same university but she was one year junior to me. She is pretty and loving girl . She is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family. She has a good job ...
A. 6 November 2011: I agree with Chigirl and CindyCares.
"I just want to hear my girlfriend saying that I am Genius whenever she hears my ideas but she just says it’s good and it doesn’t make feel me happy."
I"m going to assume that there is some language ba... (read in full...)
I'm still attracted to him and want to resume the affair. But how do I handle the fact that he also wants me to tell my husband who is really the father of our child?
Q. I had an affair with a man who is a friend of an old fling of mine from the past. Plus he’s now married. He was from my home back in One state, and I had moved to another state. We bumped into each other one evening while he was having drinks with...
A. 6 November 2011: legally in some states in the US the man a woman is married to when she gives birth is the father of the child regardless of who is the bio dad.
it's called the lord mansfield rule....
here is the list by state:
https://secur... (read in full...)
I'm in USA and he's in Australia. Should I try to bring this LDR relationship back?
Q. Broke up with my LDR boyfriend of 1.5 years a couple months ago. Still love him, but he's being distant. Should I try to bring the relationship back? I was in a LDR for a year and a half and we broke up 2 months ago. I live in the US and he live...
A. 6 November 2011: nope it will never be the same.
I have to say if someone who professed to love me and was going to come visit me said I" can't come because i'm too stressed over having to rehome my cat" I would see this as
a. an excuse to not come to me
... (read in full...)
FWB: do any of you think that we will ever be together properly? Or am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi everyone this is my situation I have been in a fwb sort of situation for about 8 months now. Naturally I want more than this. So to find out how he really felt about me I made him jealous he came around one morning and I told him I had a date comi...
A. 6 November 2011: You are wasting your time.
he's stringing you along till the first of the year, when a new excuse will take the place of the current excuse.
IF he was truly interested he would step up his game NOW.
Human nature is possessive. My bf a... (read in full...)
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