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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!
Q. My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is ...
A. 18 December 2011: sounds like you are making progress... give her time do not push it... she has to come to the life changes herself.
... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: this is the only way I can think to explain it...
when we train dogs to stop doing a behavior we don't want they will at first do it... but then they get snarky...and they start doing the behavior more and more and more... this is called an extin... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: of course you think of if she misses you.. and of course she is hurting... change hurts and it's scary.
so tell me what parts of the relationship is she missing...the parts where she uses and abuses you? the parts where she emotionally ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: do not let her in when she shows up
do not take her calls
DO NOT FEED her emotionally with ANY CONTACT.
in this case for your sanity you need to go NO CONTACT...
it sucks for a while but it will get better faster if you do it that way... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are new to sex....advice please!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months tomorrow, and both gave each other our virginities a month ago exactly. Our physical relationship has never been anything but perfect for each other, he cares more about me being satisfied ...
A. 18 November 2011: oh sweetie I'm so sorry for you...... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: YOU are not lonely or worthless nor are you alone she is being manipulative. continue to be strong...... (read in full...)
My wife loves a 65 year old man!
Q. I'm 26, my wife's 26 also . we spend 3 years together Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she love some one a 65 -year-old man and that it was basically just she is crazy about him, and that 5h...
A. 17 November 2011: I'm not sure I get this but are you saying that if she loved a man closer to her age you would let her go to him?
so what does his age have to do with it? why is the fact that he's 65 the ONLY issue?... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 17 November 2011: OP no one knows what they want two years from now... it could all blow up in a year ... it could be perfect for TEN Years then blow up...
I met "THE ONE" when I was 19... I married him at 21 and divorced him at 29...
I think the idea that yo... (read in full...)
Would you let your man/ or girl live with their baby mama/ baby daddy?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months, and he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he has a kid with her and another one on the way... then he told her that he did and he didn't see the relationship with them going anywhere. ...
A. 17 November 2011: so let me ask you a question...
when your 23 yr old 'man' is 26 and you are 20 and no longer please him and he leaves you how will you feel?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in need of a confidence boost... might a sexy photoshoot do that or will it do the opposite?
Q. I want to give my girlfriend a boost to her confidence. I tell her regularly that she is beautiful and gorgeous, but she is still self-conscious of the size of her body. She isn't obese by any means, but she is admittedly a LITTLE on the big side. ...
A. 17 November 2011: my girlfriend did that.. her boyfriend loved the shots...
personally I've had "glamour" shots done before... and i cried afterwards, everyone else liked them and I felt fat and ugly....
just want to share the OTHER POV in case it backfires...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is extremely lazy, has no ambitions in life and his personal hygiene is a big issue!
Q. My boyfriend is extremely lazy and has no ambitions in life. He doesn't do his schoolwork, puts everything off till last minute, has no eagerness to do anything. When I come over his house, usually I would want to go somewhere but he will instead ...
A. 16 November 2011: he is what he is.
are you in love with him as he is or his potential?
if it's potential time to go.
... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!
Q. My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is ...
A. 16 November 2011: I agree that she needs a medical work up to rule out depression or any other mental illness before moving forward with other suggestions.... (read in full...)
Is surgery worth loss of sensitivity?
Q. I'm not talking about implants! I know most men are against implants but are for other surgeries(reductions, lifts, nipple reductions etc) From your point of view, do you think better looking breasts are worth the loss of sensitivity? ...
A. 16 November 2011: my breasts became MORE sensitve after surgery.
why?
because the doctor explained that we like them better after surgery so we listen to them more.
that's all well and good but I can't stand to have my breasts touched now as they are overly s... (read in full...)
I want to have sex every night, he doesn't. How can I lower my sex drive?
Q. I need some serious help, I have a very high sex drive, I want to have sex with my husband every night before bed, but he isn't the same way. Is there anyway I can lower my sex drive? I don't know what else to do, I've tried getting my husband more ...
A. 16 November 2011: if everything else is ok and you just need the orgasm them masturbate.
I have a hand held shower massage.. it's pretty much part of the daily event in my house....
I have a much higher sex drive than my partner (i'm 51 to his 38 btw)....but i... (read in full...)
How do I word something to her that makes her realise that it's not appropriate to cancel dates at the last minute when a lot of prep has gone into them?
Q. I met a girl through internet dating. She was lovely and I'd really like to see her again. We've been texting each other etc and seem to get on ok, but she doesn't seem as keen to chat as before we met up. Having said that, she's been ill and - ...
A. 16 November 2011: She's been ill... maybe she was waiting to see if she felt better before canceling?... (read in full...)
I'm way more into him than he is to me
Q. Okay, so I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We have talked almost everyday since than..but never met in person. Over the past 2 years we fell in love. But we are not and never were in an exclusive relationship. He has had one girlfriend since ...
A. 16 November 2011: honey, Men MOVE MOUNTAINS for women they love...
two years... NY to MN...money... well a google on expedia of round trip from NY to MN is under 200 dollars... just saying...
what are you losing if you give him space and find out he's NOT RO... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 16 November 2011: many many MANY years ago I had a boy say to me
"friends are harder to come by than lovers"
he was spouting teenage crap and we all said yeah of course... now nearly 40 years later it's so true....... (read in full...)
No man wants to get married, they can't stay committed to one woman, and ogle my female friends! Thats what HE said!
Q. First off, this is a bit long so thanks to any for reading! Im not sure if I am overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I are approaching our 5 year anniversary and have lived together for over 4 and a half years. He swept me off my feet, convinc...
A. 16 November 2011: Take the job.
move.
ATTEMPT to do LDR with him.
honey after 4 years he knows what he wants and Marriage is not it.
in my case, I started a NSA FWB with a man last November. He never wanted to get married. He does not believe in it. I was... (read in full...)
Is it common for men to invest so much and then stop contact after 2 weeks?
Q. Hello, I need advice. Please. I had 2 incredible dates with this man. We kept in touch almost every day for 2 weeks. He brought up lots ideas for future dates and complimented me a lot. Not just on beauty but on my personality, jokes, interests. I ...
A. 16 November 2011: I have heard and read that men fall fast and fall OUT just as fast and that's why we need to dole out our attentions like JU-JU bees.. ( a small candy)... i read it in a book called "why men love bitches"....interesting book...
is it rude tha... (read in full...)
Whats the deal with my ex? One moment she tries to talk and says she misses me, the next moment she disappears!
Q. Hi I'll keep it brief. Im so confused * 6 weeks ago ex dumps me after 6 months. Likes me but not falling in love!! * 2 weeks later she txts Hi, u ok? I reply briefly Im ok and then silence from her * Then 4 weeks of no contact * This ...
A. 16 November 2011: "threatens to delete me for ignoring her"
tell her to go ahead.
then ignore her.
drama.queen.needs.to.be.gone.... (read in full...)
I'm scared my penis won't give her an orgasm because of what I've been doing to make it bigger!
Q. I was watching a jelqing video because I want to make my penis longer and thicker, but the speaker said that too much pulling causes the tendons or ligaments or whatever to become weak which makes an erect penis not stand straight up and be ...
A. 16 November 2011: A penis is totally useless for giving most women orgasms. Size does NOT matter in this case...
as for standing UP straight... you mean flat up against your belly..... as you age, drink, smoke, party etc... your errection will no longer be flat ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 16 November 2011: I get it totally.
and for ME and mine (and yes I put up with a lot of crap the other aunts would not trust me) I'd forgive him.
he came through in the end...sometimes they have to be shown what's the right way.
as for not taking care of h... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: IGNORE HER! YOU IGNORE HER totally
block her number from your phone
do not be alone.. be at work
be with friends or family that will give you an alibi should this crazy woman actually try to get you in trouble.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gets a girls number at the bar and lied before, deal breaker?
Q. So I have a major decision to make. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I just found out he's quite the liar. Back in January, he went out with his friends and told me they were going one place but I found out they went to a b...
A. 16 November 2011: the going to the bar is not a deal breaker... but the lying is.
the problem is that he feels he has to lie because you made it clear he should not be going to the bar because you dont' like it.
then there's the whole "i was drunk" defense..... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is working over Christmas - again! I'm furious, help please!
Q. Hi guys, please help, i am fuming! My bf does shift work and he has a responsible role. This year will be our first proper Xmas togther. Let me explain...last year he decided to work a night shift on Xmas day. This meant i got to see him for a round ...
A. 16 November 2011: I see you being upset more about the fact that he does not ASK you how you feel about making plans more than the actual plans themselves... (possibly because you would not be cooperative about it)
you complain that he made these plans for Christma... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: change is hard. leaving someone even someone that is mean and cruel leaves you really alone and it's scary. continue to be strong... (read in full...)
My wife loves a 65 year old man!
Q. I'm 26, my wife's 26 also . we spend 3 years together Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she love some one a 65 -year-old man and that it was basically just she is crazy about him, and that 5h...
A. 16 November 2011: I agree with Aunt Honesty.. she's clearly telling you in words and actions that the marriage is over.
I'm so sorry...
... (read in full...)
Trust issues with an otherwise perfect boyfriend... help
Q. Ok so i i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year.. before we started dating i said i didn't want to get into a relationship because i've dated a porn addict in the past and been cheated on several times (not to sound like the victim here! ...
A. 16 November 2011: if he lies he lies. he won't stop. they can't. I've never met someone who lies about things that they are asked NOT to do who will stop doing them and then tellt he truth about it. A person cannot be forced to stop doing something, they have to ... (read in full...)
I hate my boyfriend's son and ex!
Q. I really hate the fact my boyfriend has a 15year old son and i hate his ex even though i dont know her.I have very strong hate feelings towards them and i hate it when his son comes to stay.We have been living together for 2 years and i have my own ...
A. 16 November 2011: Why do you hate this child? what has this child done to you to make you hate him so...
sounds to me like you don't like that your partner had a life before you (but it was ok for you to have a life before him)
are you in therapy to figur... (read in full...)
How do I approach the guy I like? He is in a band and I don't want to seem like a crazy groupie!
Q. so theres this guy that I have been watching from a distance for a couple of weeks now. not in a stalker kind of way but he is in a band that often plays close to where i live and i go to watch them when i can. for the last few weeks i have just ...
A. 16 November 2011: don't assume that skinny men don't like fluffy women... I know lots of thin men that prefer women with meat on their bones...
sounds like telling him you like his music is a good start...
are you sure he's available?... (read in full...)
How do you know if you have outgrown a friend?
Q. Hi everyone, I was wondering if you knew when it was time to slowly let a friendship go? How do you know that you have outgrown a friendship? Recently I found myself having negative thoughts about a friend, and it bothered me. She has been a c...
A. 16 November 2011: When I have outgrown friends, for similar reasons, lack of stuff in common.. we have just faded away... slowly... sad but true...
so when she calls to do stuff just be busy.... eventually the friendship will be one sided and it should fade awa... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 16 November 2011: When she asks "can I"
and you are uncomfortable with it, instead of giving her a pat "sorry I'd rather do it myself" tell her why she can't do it.
"no sweetie I'm going to do it because I am afraid to let you use the big knife and i don'... (read in full...)
She said to me during sex "would you just finish" after only 10 minutes! I always thought lasting longer was better....
Q. hi their. I have confidance issues when it comes to how long i last during sex. I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse. Once she had cum we moved on to the sex. I was prolonging cumming ...
A. 16 November 2011: after making me orgasm with oral sex I would be thrilled with 5 minutes of intercoure.
You need to talk to her and found out from her what works for her and you...
Also what you call SEX is actually penetration/intercouse...
... (read in full...)
Just learned that I may not be my son's father
Q. I need to make a HUGE possibly life changing decision. My wife and I are married for almost 15 years. When we met she had just broken up with her ex-bf. We dated for about 6 months when she told me she was pregnant. I did the right thing, and we ...
A. 16 November 2011: I get the whole biology thing.
I get the whole SHE LIED TO ME thing
to fix those things I suggest you talk to her first and then if you are not happy with the answer you could request a DNA test.... but that's just going to be a piece of pap... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: you want to be done with her so don't answer the phone... let her be done and sleep with someone else...
be strong... we are here for you!... (read in full...)
My wife's son is tearing us apart! What to do?
Q. i have caught my wife's son (21 year old) with large quanities of skunk weed 3 times now, the first about a week after we were married 2 years ago,it turns out that he has been reported to the police on 5 occations by 3 different people on our ...
A. 16 November 2011: The two things that are the major cause of second marriages ending MONEY and STEPCHILDREN
not sure how long you are married
if she does not love you why did she marry you? are you just a wallet to her? if so RUN...
your house? you'... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable around our house with teenaged daughter walking around in just underwear!
Q. Our oldest daughter is now 15 and tends to walk around the house in just her bra and underwear or nothing at all. My husband and I get on her about it all the time, but she doesn't seem to care. Will she grow out of this or will it get worse? Is ...
A. 16 November 2011: Interesting to me that most folks find this NORMAL. I do not.
My teen girl would NEVER walk around in bra and panties. She would wear a cami and short shorts (almost as bad) but never bra and panties and NEVER in front of DAD... (occasio... (read in full...)
How can I leave my husband without hurting my kids?
Q. I have been married 27 years to my high school sweetheart and we've had our good and bad times in our relationship. I've tried to leave multiple times through the years for different reasons but have no family and always felt alone and that I couldn...
A. 15 November 2011: Would you want to leave if there was not this other man?
why is this other man so powerful over you?
what do you need to leave? are you sure you want to leave?
ending a marriage no matter what is hard.
a lifetime of marriage is harder.... (read in full...)
Seeing one girl and slept with another
Q. Okay I'm beginning to have a serious dilemma.. I've been exclusively with this girl (not officially dating, but basically) for about 8 months now and things have been going great. I started college in the fall and she just happened to be moving ...
A. 15 November 2011: Change your perspective on her how?
she told you she didnt' want to know
you are not exclusive and serious as far as I can tell (tell me if I'm wrong)
so... no harm no foul
but using alcohol as the excuse is WRONG... just say NO is the r... (read in full...)
I left my boyfriend for another man, but now that other man has left me for his ex girlfriend
Q. So I wrote on here a little while ago about cheating on my bf well I ended up doing the right thing and breaking up with him. I continued to see the other guy but now he is back with his slut ex who treats him like shit. Well I have told him I had ...
A. 15 November 2011: let it go....
what would you be fighting for? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are new to sex....advice please!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months tomorrow, and both gave each other our virginities a month ago exactly. Our physical relationship has never been anything but perfect for each other, he cares more about me being satisfied ...
A. 15 November 2011: I think you two are over thinking it.
just go with the flow and relax and laugh.
LAUGHING during sex is OK... ... (read in full...)
Dumped by text. Why should I do the right thing? They all betrayed me
Q. I got dumped by text and cheated on. Then for some dumb reason everyone took my exes side. Then I ran into the two faced sheep and they ignored me. Why should I do the right thing? They all betrayed me. What makes them think that it won't happen...
A. 15 November 2011: so if these people like a cheat who dumped you by text why do you care what they think?
as for the right thing...
live well it's the best revenge.... (read in full...)
How to have the "we need to talk" talk with a guy??? Any help appreciated!!
Q. This guy and I have had an on-again off-again thing for nearly three years now. Nothing physical, but we have a hell of a lot of chemistry. And it isn't just "Oh your attractive let's have sex"-- it's a legitimate I care about you and hope you're ...
A. 15 November 2011: It's OFF again and it's clearly staying OFF...
he's not answering your emails... and won't contact you
he's telling you LOUD and clear what to think... he's done.
what closure do you need/want?... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't work and I pay all the bills. Please help me see this from a different perspective.
Q. I am at a tough point in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and have been best friends for 2 years before that. I love him a lot, and I think he loves me too. However, after starting to live together, the ...
A. 15 November 2011: he's not working
he's not looking for work
you are living together and paying all the bills....
you THINK he loves you... why do you think he loves you? what does he do that makes you THINK he loves you?
what is he doing to contribute to t... (read in full...)
I cancelled plans to visit my long distance boyfriend. Now he says he doesn't love me.
Q. I was supposed to go visit my LDR boyfriend but didn't because of stresses in my home life and lack of funds (he said he would've helped with money, but then I wouldn't have any). Now he says he doesn't love me anymore! I've told him that I ...
A. 15 November 2011: LDRS can work.
BUT there are things that are required:
HONESTY (and you were not honest with him when you said you didn't love him or doubted the relationship because you needed him to soothe your feelings)
COMMUNICATION
TRUS... (read in full...)
It's been a week since I last heard from my boyfriend
Q. I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right ...
A. 15 November 2011: sounds like he's not rowing the boat for this relationship which means to me that he's NOT interested in making it work.
LDRs are hard. at your age even harder.
I'd really consider since this is not the first time he's done this... leaving ... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...
A. 15 November 2011: i would not mind online friends as long as it was above board and not flirting. I would object to dating sites.
so my vote:
give up the dating sites
and give me more info on these online friends...
males? females?
what do you d... (read in full...)
Would you let your man/ or girl live with their baby mama/ baby daddy?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months, and he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he has a kid with her and another one on the way... then he told her that he did and he didn't see the relationship with them going anywhere. ...
A. 15 November 2011: he's your boyfriend
he CHEATED on someone else WITH YOU which means he has the potential to cheat ON YOU with SOMEONE else.
he has a child with her and one on the way
HE BOUGHT A HOUSE... you are 17 he is HOW OLD?
Honey cut him lose and ... (read in full...)
I'm sick and tired of him ignoring me! Help!
Q. My bf of 2 years was ignoring me lately and most of the times he wont call for a week. I told him repeatedly this is not acceptable, even he is busy he should have atleast left me a message. Anyway i lost my control and didnt call for nearly 2...
A. 15 November 2011: you are rowing this relationship boat he's just coasting.
sounds to me like you are way more into him than he is into you...
time to move on.... (read in full...)
Are people joined at the hip once they marry?
Q. Once people get married are they joined at the hip? Do they get time outs like a week at a time, a few times a year? On average is this acceptable? Kids can survive without a parent once in a while right? Do you think giving partners time out will ...
A. 15 November 2011: every couple has to do what's right for them
some couples are joined at the hip others are not.
I personally like a girls weekend now and then and have done 10 day road trips with girlfriends... with daily phone calls home...
I am not def... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011: kids try to play one parent off the other.
"daddy said I could"
presenting a united front is critical
also kids TEST... they LIKE rules... they PREFER rules but htey fight against them to TEST you... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 15 November 2011: I'm a mom
I"m old enough to be a grandmom.
I love all the aunties here but I am going to give you my POV which is a bit different.
First of all I am sorry deeply for your loss. How tragic. And for the pain you will continue to endure ... (read in full...)
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