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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: this is the only way I can think to explain it...
when we train dogs to stop doing a behavior we don't want they will at first do it... but then they get snarky...and they start doing the behavior more and more and more... this is called an extin... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: of course you think of if she misses you.. and of course she is hurting... change hurts and it's scary.
so tell me what parts of the relationship is she missing...the parts where she uses and abuses you? the parts where she emotionally ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: do not let her in when she shows up
do not take her calls
DO NOT FEED her emotionally with ANY CONTACT.
in this case for your sanity you need to go NO CONTACT...
it sucks for a while but it will get better faster if you do it that way... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 21 November 2011: it will improve... it's nice when you get someone that kisses the way you like... but it can be fun to teach someone to do it the way you like..
have fun.. good luck.... (read in full...)
I saw his father in the bathroom and now I'm mortified!!
Q. I am completely mortified. I was going to my boyfriends house, he greeted me and it just so happened that I really needed to pee. Well he has a bathroom right next to the front entrance, a little one. The door wasn't closed and it was dark so I ...
A. 18 November 2011: it happens
I was a teen and saw my grandpa naked when he got out of the shower once.. i was embarassed...
you apologized
he was probably as embarrassed as you.
time to let it go.... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? He broke up with me through a text
Q. How do I completely move on from this guy I was completely in love with easily???????? We broke up on August 24, 2011. He texted me at 3:30 am saying that it wasnt working out. I have no idea what-so-ever as to why we broke up. So help me please ...
A. 18 November 2011: she forgets what it's like to be your age... how sad.
I'm sorry...
Hold your head high
be as mature as you can be
and ignore him as best as you can.. keep it what we call "professional"... (read in full...)
Do emotionally abusive people really love you, but need professional help, or do they not love you ?
Q. Do people who are emotionally abusive really love you, but need proffessional help, or do they not really love you ?. I need to get out of a relationship with my emotionally abusive boyfriend, but i'm finding it hard to let go. Can anyone help ?. ...
A. 18 November 2011: it does NOT matter if it's just you or every woman.. it is what it is right now
WHAT about this man do you love.
do you love HIM NOW as he is or do you love his potential or do you stay thinking your not worthy of better?... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour?
Q. If a man knows a woman is not attracted to them (as in she has repeated many times that she just does not like him in that way) and when she is drunk, he persists in asking her to sleep with him and argues with her reasons for not wanting to (and ...
A. 18 November 2011: NOT normal
rude
creepy and childish.
... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 18 November 2011: go to uni.../college etc... keep his friendship but do not be exclusive.. DO NOT make him promises...
I'm 51 I go for YOUNGER men... MUCH younger men... I could NOT handle anyone in their 20s much less their teens... so I worry that his desire f... (read in full...)
Is she interested? Whenever we are together all she does is talk about other guys!
Q. I have a girlfriend, who I think is totally amazing. She tells me she misses me, that she loves me, and wants to be with me forever. That's all when she texts me, when we're in person, she constantly talks about other men. I don't mean every 6 ...
A. 18 November 2011: I sometimes feel like i'm not enough for my man.. he talks of Demi Moore and others... and I tell him.. "I don't feel like I make you happy and I'm not enough" and he tells me "you are and you do... I'm just always looking to make things perfect ... (read in full...)
Email traffic with my first love suddenly quit?
Q. A few months back I started talking to my first love. It started off innocent and then got flirty. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and I said the same. We made plans to meet but it didn't work out. Our emails started getting ...
A. 18 November 2011: well if it was me I'd want some sort of closure... just stopping emails with no explanation is not comforting but it's one way of ending it.
do you want to be with your current partner or your first love?
if with your current partner, then yo... (read in full...)
How can I change my G/f's mind about sex? She's had some nasty experiences in the past but my friends' are nagging me about why its taking so long with her
Q. Hey guys, me and my gf have been dating for 5 months already. The thing is she's a virgin and I'm not, I of course care about her and do not want to pressure her into doing anything shes uncormfotable with. We've been talking about sex (well maybe ...
A. 18 November 2011: First question from me: WHY is YOUR sex life ANY of your friends business??? this is between you and your lady... and by discussing it with your friends you show her disrespect.
why do you want to have sex? you should want to make love to a wom... (read in full...)
In 10 months we have never been out anywhere together and only his brother knows about me, should I leave him?
Q. Hi I was just wondering why men always have to play games when they know a woman likes them? I met a man nearly 10 months ago now we live close by he asked me out and I have a three year old son from a previous relationship. anyway I couldn't get a ...
A. 18 November 2011: Tell him to call you after the diet when he can take you on a proper date. that will be asnwer #1
After 10 months and you've never gone out... you are not a couple... he shows up.... you give him food and drink and company...
are you havin... (read in full...)
What are symptoms of a ruptured uterine fibroid, and treatment?
Q. Havent been feeling well all week. Fatigue, adominal pain... woke up this morning with exteme adominal pain and bleeding. Have a history of uterine fibroids. Had intercourse on wednesday and it was a little painful. Is it possible i had one and it ...
A. 18 November 2011: You need TO SEE THE DOCTOR ASAP.... we are not doctors and I'm not going to play one on the internet.
... (read in full...)
Sex life is not enough for me and she is not willing to try anthing to spice it up! What can I do?
Q. hi me and my girlfried have been together 5 yrs. And have a 1 and a half yeah old. My problem is my partner no longer seems to enjoy or want to initiate sex. I know over time you have sex less but we are still in our 20's and have sex probaly twice ...
A. 18 November 2011: Well she has a 1 1/2 year old that she's chasing around all day... that's exhausting... and if she's working outside the home she has two full time jobs... running the home and childrearing as well as bringing in funds.
Do you help with the hous... (read in full...)
New boyfriend's female friends.....
Q. Hi hi.. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months. Its all going well, we have been taking it slowly, not rushing anything, and were both really happy. The thing I am wondering about it, is the fact that he has so many female ...
A. 18 November 2011: if it's OK with you then it's FINE. it's the two of you in a relationship so it has to work for you and for him not for anyone else. Your relationship YOUR rules... if others question it, well then that's THEIR problem you owe folks no ... (read in full...)
Is she interested? Whenever we are together all she does is talk about other guys!
Q. I have a girlfriend, who I think is totally amazing. She tells me she misses me, that she loves me, and wants to be with me forever. That's all when she texts me, when we're in person, she constantly talks about other men. I don't mean every 6 ...
A. 18 November 2011: is she talking about FAMOUS people? or people she knows?
big difference in my opinion... if it's famous folks it's pretty harmless even if it is a bit disconcerting...
if it's folks she knows, that's a bit more upsetting and not nice....
... (read in full...)
He was too cool, but I still see his old personality
Q. My ex and i broke up after a year about a month ago. Hes moved on from me but im still madly in love with him. He broke up with me because he was "too cool" for me, but I still see the old personality in him. How can i get him back? Please answer as ...
A. 18 November 2011: You can't get him back honey. YOU can't MAKE someone want you or love you.
Time to let it go and move on. I know that your heart is breaking... but this too shall pass I promise.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is extremely absent minded and has a very difficult time expressing himself emotionally
Q. My bf cares about me deeply, but he is extremely absent minded and has a very difficult time expressing himself emotionally. Arguments are awkward and drawn out, because he freezes up and frequently asks what I want him to do or say, because he ...
A. 18 November 2011: I prefer arguements in writing (my ADHD makes it hard for me to be verbal and keep track of what's going on)
It makes my BF nuts because he has a mind like a steel trap and forgets NOTHING... we are working with a therapist to figure out how to c... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be around our baby ever, am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello viewers...I'm back and now I'm shy if 27 weeks pregnant. Things aren't the greatest for me but better.I'm having my third boy and the father still has nothing to do with us. and is mom and brother has accepted the fact and he has beaten his ...
A. 18 November 2011: My take on this is:
1. he should be made to financially help support a child he created.
2. it should be done through the courts with wage garnishment if possible.
3. you should get an RO or PO if you are afraid of him and also make sure t... (read in full...)
Does this guy still have feelings for me? or does he just want the best of both worlds?
Q. i just recently been dumped by my bf of two months (we were fwb for 6 months prior to him asking me out) he said that he felt that we would just be better off as friends, and that he doesnt feel like nothing had changed between us when he asked me ...
A. 18 November 2011: He's not confused he's USING.
honey you slept with him, you are "an easy lay" as the boys used to say... you are a sure thing for him... no dinner, no movies, no flowers, no romance... he's got an itch and your his scratching post...
Persona... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: Maybe that's how he knows how to kiss... perhaps you have to teach him to kiss the way you like to kiss...
this is going to be one of those conversations you have to have with him...... (read in full...)
One month later, Why don't I feel more connected to her? What's holding me back?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now. She's 18 and I'm 23. She's a nice girl, fun to be around, good sense of humour... but as yet, nothing is really drawing me in to her and I don't know why. I am the first boyfriend she ha...
A. 18 November 2011: I agree that a month is not a long time to know if you are right or not...
What I would do to help yourself figure it out...
make lists
get a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle
make a PRO list on one side all the things... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to hug a teacher?
Q. first of all,there is an english teacher that i really like and she's a female teacher. she teached me before two years and we are still in the same school and i see her every week. but the problem is that she told me that she's going to another ...
A. 18 November 2011: No I'm sorry but sadly it's become inappropriate for adults not related to you to hug you, especially teachers.
there was a time when I was young and in school that they could.. now here in the united states a teacher can go to jail or lose the... (read in full...)
Can a guy's car make him more (or less) attractive?
Q. Here’s a bit of a strange question. Does the type of car a guy has make him more attractive or less attractive? Does it have an influence on women? The reason I am asking this question is because of this, I used to have a classic BMW, one with ch...
A. 18 November 2011: I agree they were looking at the car not the guy.
as long as he and his car are neat and clean and maintained I don't care what he drives..
my man was driving a 1989 plymouth sundance that was his grandmother's before he had it... he's still... (read in full...)
Met him online, love him, but he wants sex before marriage
Q. Gud evening , my question is . I met a guy online he live in abroad so since then we have been chatting on november 2011 he propose to me he said he's coming back next month and we will make love before marriage and am not ready to make love ...
A. 18 November 2011: sounds to me like a scam to have sex with you sweetie.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and in love with 2 men!
Q. im 27 weeks pregnant and am in love with two men, one is obviously the father who i love as my friend the other i am extremly attracted to what do i do?. ...
A. 18 November 2011: are you bf/gf with the baby's father? and thinking of cheating with the other guy?
does the baby's father know you don't have romantic love for him?
I need these questions answered before I proceed...... (read in full...)
Could this be a sign of cheating?
Q. I am constantly flirting with my husband. I send him sexy text messages, I shower him with hugs and kisses. He very rarely sends any messages back to me, and I don't get the same affection in return. Is it possible that he is cheating on me?...
A. 18 November 2011: ah that's easy to solve... have him "tuck you in" then he can go back to what he was doing... that's how we cope with my earlier than his bedtime.
the issue comes up if he's staying up later than you to avoid being intimate... if that's the c... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? He broke up with me through a text
Q. How do I completely move on from this guy I was completely in love with easily???????? We broke up on August 24, 2011. He texted me at 3:30 am saying that it wasnt working out. I have no idea what-so-ever as to why we broke up. So help me please ...
A. 17 November 2011: you can go to the teacher and ask him/her to move your seat...that way you are not so close to him in class...... (read in full...)
Sex while music is playing?
Q. Hello everyone, just after a few personal opinions here! Do you think it's a good idea to have sex for the first time while music's playing in the background or can that be a distraction from (or to) your partner? I'm thinking classical music, ...
A. 17 November 2011: I sometimes would put smooth jazz on the cable tv channel so that we had the glow of the tv and some music so the teens and dogs wouldn't hear us....... (read in full...)
Could this be a sign of cheating?
Q. I am constantly flirting with my husband. I send him sexy text messages, I shower him with hugs and kisses. He very rarely sends any messages back to me, and I don't get the same affection in return. Is it possible that he is cheating on me?...
A. 17 November 2011: It's Possible... anything is possible but just because he does not text you back or give you affection in return does not mean he's cheating.. he may not like to text and he may not be an affectionate person.
what else is happening or not happe... (read in full...)
Do emotionally abusive people really love you, but need professional help, or do they not love you ?
Q. Do people who are emotionally abusive really love you, but need proffessional help, or do they not really love you ?. I need to get out of a relationship with my emotionally abusive boyfriend, but i'm finding it hard to let go. Can anyone help ?. ...
A. 17 November 2011: Emotionally abusive people love to the best of their ability.
IF you need to get out and can't we need to worry about YOU not him...
what is making it so hard to leave?... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on love?
Q. Hello Everyone, I know this is a question that is asked a lot on this site but what do you guys think of love? Like, is it eternal or not? Is it limited by the era we are born in, the country we are born in, religion, etc? I mean, I'm just trying ...
A. 17 November 2011: If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.
I have loved older men, younger men, Jewish men, catholic men, agnostic men... etc.
the only limits to love are the ones you place on them.... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: YOU are not lonely or worthless nor are you alone she is being manipulative. continue to be strong...... (read in full...)
My marriage isn't working, I'm involved with a married woman and I cant even divorce my wife and be with her, because she says her husband is abusive and will harm us both.
Q. I am 38 and I have been married for 19 years to a woman 2 years older than I am. My marriage has been difficult. We even separated for a year 10 years ago. Our sex life is poor and we have some really deep issues that we cannot compromise on. One ...
A. 17 November 2011: You should divorce your wife and move on... Your lover is lying... if her husband was truly abusive she would be too afraid of being caught to have an affair OR if she is as smart and strong and self-sufficent as you say she would be strong enough... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about her comment about my cum?
Q. hi guys and galls. The other night me and my new partner were having sex and when i came she told me i gush rather than squirt. And its the most cum she had seen in one go. It felt great to me and no other partners have said anything before. Any ...
A. 17 November 2011: nope no reason for concern at all... carry on!... (read in full...)
I lied about my age to this 27 year old guy whom I've been seeing. Said I was 20, when I'm actually 18. Now what?
Q. im 18 and im seeing a 27 yr. old, i lied to him about my age and said i was 20, but were really starting to click and hes going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon because hes REALLY into me. I want to tell him before we get any more serious because ...
A. 17 November 2011: You are right, you must tell him right away. and tell him the truth that you were afraid your age would put him off. You may have a lot of making up to do and you may have trust issues after this so be prepared in case he takes it badly.. I know my ... (read in full...)
Is it weird going off to university as a virgin?
Q. This is going to seem like a bit of an overreaction probably...and it's probably a silly question. I guess I'm feeling a little insecure about being a virgin. I'm only 17 and in my last year of school, but it's starting to look like I'll be hea...
A. 17 November 2011: my SON went to college at 18 a virgin... very common (and yes I know he told me....)... (read in full...)
How can he just turn his feelings off for me?
Q. I recently posted a question about having not heard from my boyfriend in a week. I ended up calling him that night to see what was going on and he ended up breaking up with me. He said that his feelings had been changing in the past two months and ...
A. 17 November 2011: ah the pain and suffering diet... it sucks. honey he told you it was changing this is not all of a sudden... stop trying to see hope where there is none. I'm so sorry. this hurts but he's done....... (read in full...)
Do cheaters usually regret cheating?
Q. About a month ago my boyfriend of three years told me he cheated. He told me a couple days after it happened. This was the first time he had done it. As he was telling me he was very apologetic and he cried. That was the first time in three years I ...
A. 17 November 2011: in my experience they regret getting caught...... (read in full...)
Self-conscious because he seems to pay attention to the parts of my body that need toning
Q. For men (and women who can relate): When I am intimate with my boyfriend, he tends to grab onto my "cushions" - I'm a bit of a voluptuous girl (130lb, 5'5) and I guess it makes me uncomfortable that he is grabbing onto my thighs or tummy because it ...
A. 17 November 2011: 5'5" and 130 is far from fat or zaftig or voluptuous... you are just fine.
men do not want skin and bones.. I was 135 this summer at 5'2" and my bones stuck out everywhere... my boyfriend complained i was TOO THIN...
he grabs your bits becaus... (read in full...)
My wife loves a 65 year old man!
Q. I'm 26, my wife's 26 also . we spend 3 years together Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she love some one a 65 -year-old man and that it was basically just she is crazy about him, and that 5h...
A. 17 November 2011: I'm not sure I get this but are you saying that if she loved a man closer to her age you would let her go to him?
so what does his age have to do with it? why is the fact that he's 65 the ONLY issue?... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 17 November 2011: OP no one knows what they want two years from now... it could all blow up in a year ... it could be perfect for TEN Years then blow up...
I met "THE ONE" when I was 19... I married him at 21 and divorced him at 29...
I think the idea that yo... (read in full...)
Would you let your man/ or girl live with their baby mama/ baby daddy?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months, and he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he has a kid with her and another one on the way... then he told her that he did and he didn't see the relationship with them going anywhere. ...
A. 17 November 2011: so let me ask you a question...
when your 23 yr old 'man' is 26 and you are 20 and no longer please him and he leaves you how will you feel?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in need of a confidence boost... might a sexy photoshoot do that or will it do the opposite?
Q. I want to give my girlfriend a boost to her confidence. I tell her regularly that she is beautiful and gorgeous, but she is still self-conscious of the size of her body. She isn't obese by any means, but she is admittedly a LITTLE on the big side. ...
A. 17 November 2011: my girlfriend did that.. her boyfriend loved the shots...
personally I've had "glamour" shots done before... and i cried afterwards, everyone else liked them and I felt fat and ugly....
just want to share the OTHER POV in case it backfires...... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 16 November 2011: many many MANY years ago I had a boy say to me
"friends are harder to come by than lovers"
he was spouting teenage crap and we all said yeah of course... now nearly 40 years later it's so true....... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: IGNORE HER! YOU IGNORE HER totally
block her number from your phone
do not be alone.. be at work
be with friends or family that will give you an alibi should this crazy woman actually try to get you in trouble.
... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: change is hard. leaving someone even someone that is mean and cruel leaves you really alone and it's scary. continue to be strong... (read in full...)
My wife loves a 65 year old man!
Q. I'm 26, my wife's 26 also . we spend 3 years together Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she love some one a 65 -year-old man and that it was basically just she is crazy about him, and that 5h...
A. 16 November 2011: I agree with Aunt Honesty.. she's clearly telling you in words and actions that the marriage is over.
I'm so sorry...
... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: you want to be done with her so don't answer the phone... let her be done and sleep with someone else...
be strong... we are here for you!... (read in full...)
Would you let your man/ or girl live with their baby mama/ baby daddy?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months, and he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he has a kid with her and another one on the way... then he told her that he did and he didn't see the relationship with them going anywhere. ...
A. 15 November 2011: he's your boyfriend
he CHEATED on someone else WITH YOU which means he has the potential to cheat ON YOU with SOMEONE else.
he has a child with her and one on the way
HE BOUGHT A HOUSE... you are 17 he is HOW OLD?
Honey cut him lose and ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 10 November 2011: ok we need more info
why and how do your parents know him... do they have or did they have a relationship with him?... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 9 November 2011: if the only reason you are not having a "real" relationship is due to age, then go for it.
Granted I think that at 18 you may change your mind later on and if I was him that would be MY fear...
if you both want to be togther then DO IT.... (read in full...)
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