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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 24 November 2011: while i eat the same thing for breakfast 99% of the time, I do not like the same meal for lunch and dinner every day.
variety is the spice of life..
I guess for me personally I'm a bit different. I do not care where my man gets his appetite as ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: this is the only way I can think to explain it...
when we train dogs to stop doing a behavior we don't want they will at first do it... but then they get snarky...and they start doing the behavior more and more and more... this is called an extin... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 24 November 2011: The fact that he won't give you his phone number... BIG HUGE RED FLAG.. he's NOT who he says he is....
please please please be careful.... I know you will NOT listen to us... I just want you to make sure that you are careful... do not meet him... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: oh OP I hope so and wish you well...... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: and if you sit him down and tell him to "stop cheating or I'm gone" what do you think he will do and how will you respond because to be honest you already gave him a pass by forgiving him more than once and letting him NOT be repentent.... (read in full...)
Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?
Q. I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ...
A. 21 November 2011: no it's not worth waiting for him
again ... what will you do in 10 years when he wants to leave you for the new and improved model?... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: so do you forbid him to masturbate too?
... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: THE OP SAID: " I will not be in a polygamous relationship and as far as I know she told him no"
what if she had said yes? then what?
The OP SAID: " He didn't apologize to me and said he doesn't regret doing it."
ok so he's NOT sorr... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: of course you think of if she misses you.. and of course she is hurting... change hurts and it's scary.
so tell me what parts of the relationship is she missing...the parts where she uses and abuses you? the parts where she emotionally ... (read in full...)
Is he just marrying her out of comfort? Ignore his feelings? if he felt nothing then why did he try to avoid me?
Q. So one of my prior classmates in graduate school and I were in the same class . He is 40 I am 25. Anyways throughout the class we got to know each other and I realized that we had a LOT in common, and in a way we spoke the same "language" I open...
A. 21 November 2011: He proposed to his GF and is going ot marry her..
you have a crush on a man you don't really know... just because he looks at you does not mean he is going to dump his whole life to be with you...
he didn't go for coffee because he doesn... (read in full...)
A never ending cycle of us fighting and in the end he says its always my fault
Q. I don't know what to do. I've been seeing someone way older than me, and at first I thought he was amazing and everything..but maybe because he puts off himself that way. He thinks he knows best about everything and thinks very highly of himself. He ...
A. 21 November 2011: and you stay with a man who does not sexually satisfy you
who calls you WHORE because WHY?
you give us a list of all the bad things.. is there an equal list of all the good things?
personally this is not about his age but his personality ... (read in full...)
How do I let him down gently without hurting him?
Q. I'm friendly with a guy thru my circle of friends. We met recently and he's very nice and funny BUT too young for me and I don't think I feel any sparks. He's been trying to get me to go out and I wouldn't mind but not more then as friends. How do I ...
A. 21 November 2011: Well let's say that it's not the age that's the problem... unless you are over 18 and he is under 18...
the problem is that you "don't feel that way about him".... and that's not age specific... at least it should not be.
but there is NO grea... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 21 November 2011: I would not have an affair... if you are that unhappy I would consider at minimum a separation to determine if you are happier alone with the children than if you are happy with him.
sounds to me like neither of you are very happy.
and whi... (read in full...)
My friends will laugh when they find out I met him on a dating site
Q. Hi, i have recently met my new guy on a dating site. My friends will laugh if they know where i have met him,but he has no embarrassment and refuses to lie about it. Also me and my ex broke up over me being on dating sites. Even though its nothing ...
A. 21 November 2011: and you care what OTHERS thing because why?
I've met so many people I dated online that I have to REMIND myself that my current partner and I met in real life.... I forget...... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: "He still treats me like his gf"
explain to me how sleeping with other girls means he still treats you like his gf???
I don't get that.. unless YOU are OK with him being sexual with other girls, it's disrespectful and it's wrong. and if ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: I won't insult your feelings or your beliefs but I will say that if you feel THAT strongly about it you are probably better off finding a new partner that has the same beliefs you do and leave your current partner for a woman who is ok with ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: do not let her in when she shows up
do not take her calls
DO NOT FEED her emotionally with ANY CONTACT.
in this case for your sanity you need to go NO CONTACT...
it sucks for a while but it will get better faster if you do it that way... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 21 November 2011: I have a house with FOUR bathrooms... and only two people... we still ASK and coordinate when we take a shower... it uses up the hot water and if one of us showers the other has to wait.
or if I'm doing laundry or washing the dishes the other sh... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 21 November 2011: it will improve... it's nice when you get someone that kisses the way you like... but it can be fun to teach someone to do it the way you like..
have fun.. good luck.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 20 November 2011: do they live with their parents? and share a hot water tank?
yeppers it's a polite thing to do.
... (read in full...)
I cant believe he's treating me like this, when HE was in the wrong!!
Q. thought i really knew a guy i worked with. we got on really well and i liked him a lot but ive found out hes basically lied to me for the past 2 years. ive helped him enormously and stopped him getting sacked-helped him with major financial ...
A. 20 November 2011: what a gift he gave you.
YOU were not a bad friend. He was a LIAR and is UNTRUSTWORTHY
when caught liars get defensive.
be glad he was just a friend... I'm divorcing one of these liars now... ... (read in full...)
Still not over the fact that my B/f cheated on me with his ex, 2 yrs ago. I cannot help but compare myself to her..
Q. My bf basically cheated on me emotionally (just not physically) with his ex about a year into our relationship. We had a massive argument about it all and he suggested he would drop all contact with her to make things work with us. He did this and ...
A. 20 November 2011: You have NOT forgiven...to forgive means to move on and remember so that if they do it again then you can say... second time... fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me...
do you really think that beauty which is surface only is what ... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 19 November 2011: you have no pictures of you on Facebook?... (read in full...)
He chose to spend our 1 year 10 month anniversary with his college friends!
Q. Ok I know this sounds a bit stupid but yesterday was our year and ten months anniversarie but he kept telling me last week that he was gonna surprise me wit breaking Dawn tickets and so I was just thinking it comes out Friday it's our day Friday ...
A. 19 November 2011: yes you are over reacting... 1 year AND TEN MONTHS.. BFD hon BFD...
2 years I can see... but still counting MONTHS?? come on...... (read in full...)
I met someone online but everyone is always concerned for my safety!
Q. I think it's terrible how a minority of wicked people can forever tarnish something which could be used for the good. I met the love of my life (and I'm not using those words lightly) online in August 2010. It wasn't a dating site, just one for ...
A. 19 November 2011: I agree your friends and family should meet him... that will help. and when you go to meet him they need his name his date of birth his address his phone number where you are going how you are getting there where you are staying and whe... (read in full...)
He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?
Q. My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. ...
A. 19 November 2011: what would knowing all the details do for you? I don't think you need the details... I think you need to accept that he was open and honest with you about his past and move on. ... (read in full...)
Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?
Q. I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ...
A. 19 November 2011: if he leaves his girlfriend of 9 years for you what's to prevent him from leaving you in 9 years for something new and younger? why do you want a guy who is willing to abandon a long term love?... (read in full...)
Penis is too visible. How do I wear my underwear appropriately?
Q. bit of a personal question like but here goes, my penis is about 3-4 inches when flacid and about 7-8 inches erect but my problem is when flacid my penis sticks straight out like a perfect 'L' against my abdomen, and when erect it is almost touching ...
A. 19 November 2011: if when "flaccid" it sticks straight out and you can't bend it how do you pee?
if you can't tuck... time to discuss this with the doctor...
or have dad show you how to tuck properly...
I've seen HUNDREDS of penises of all races and siz... (read in full...)
He's separated, but still married and I really fancy him. He's also getting over breaking up with his Gf. Am I doing the right thing to go out with him?
Q. hey a friend of mine asked me out today, i've fancied him since i've known him but there are a few problems. 1 he's married, separated, but still married. 2 he's just had a messy break up with his girlfriend so he's near enough public en...
A. 19 November 2011: a married man with a baby and an ex girlfriend and you are 17..... what do I think you should do? RUN AWAY... this is nothing but heartbreak waiting to happen ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm worthy of this girl
Q. I have been very ill lately, having seizures and panic attacks, due to a hereditary nerve problem. I recently met a girl who is 14 and really took to me. She called everyday to see if I was okay, and she has just been an angel to me. I am 18 and a ...
A. 19 November 2011: she is 14 and you are 18, it's a huge gap here in the states it's also illegal if you do anything sexual with her and it can ruin your life...
she's 14 she is a CHILD.... just because she's got a pretty face and models and does movie extra ro... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 19 November 2011: yes i want to know if he is asking for "adult" type photos in that case the answer is NO do not send them
there are I am sure photos of you on facebook already so he knows what you look like
he's' nice and sweet... how old is he, what does he... (read in full...)
Have I had my chance already? I still love my late husband. Or should I search for a husband so my child will have a father figure in her life?
Q. I just start dating again after 3 years after my husband's death. He was always be in my heart but i think my daughter keep asking my for a daddy i try to explain to her that daddy will always be with us, and he's watching over us. I just nee...
A. 19 November 2011: you can't find a mate to please your child...
where is your dad? where is her father's dad? does she have uncles? those would be great male role models and figures for her...
as for YOU.... I am deeply sorry for the loss of your husband... (read in full...)
Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?
Q. I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anym...
A. 19 November 2011: so you plan to spend your entire braces experience in your room doing nothing?
I hate to tell you that YOU are the only one who notices them that much... practice a Mona Lisa smile... softly closed lips... DO NOT press them together.. just a n... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but I don't want to lose her
Q. I had fallen in love with a girl.i love her so much but when i proposed her i came to knw he had a bf whom she loved very much my heart got breaked after listening it bt frnds i dnt want to lose her.wat should i do plz help...
A. 19 November 2011: You have to move on. she was never yours and she is not yours now. she has a boyfriend and she is loyal to him. clearly you have good taste in women... so go find a different one... one that is not already taken.... (read in full...)
My brother threw our long lost homeless father out. Did he do the right thing?
Q. Hey i'm conflicted. You see my father left me and my mother and my older brother when we were kids. Since then we've struggled to make ends meet. But now my older brother is successful. he's an architect now. and we're living comfortably. really ...
A. 19 November 2011: why are you wondering?
your dad magically shows up after all is well and good and he holds his hand out for help but he did NOTHING to help you as children... did NOTHING to be a dad to you.. and NOW wants everything...
if your brother g... (read in full...)
I dont' want to waste my time with the wrong man
Q. Hi I'm a single mum of 2 beautiful children under 5 and last September I met a wonderful man online. The relationship has been great, he's amazing with my children and I love him with all my heart...but I can't shake this feeling something isn't ...
A. 19 November 2011: you are depressed and need to be treated for that before you can fix the other things.
Your partner is with you now. he's good with your kids. he is concerned about your feelings...
when he meets with his ex to go over divorce things..... (read in full...)
I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender
Q. hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like...
A. 19 November 2011: OMG are you looking for things to fight with him about?
you are probably very capable of taking care of yourself but in the dark at 5 feet tall a strong wind can blow you off balance what do you think someone who WANTS you down can do?
what ab... (read in full...)
Should I just take the plunge and call her up one day?
Q. Hey everyone, my story is somewhat long, so please bear with it and many thanks in advance. Firstly, I am 21 years old male and I have been attracted to a girl I work with (infrequently anyway) who is 22. I would say that, from the moment ...
A. 19 November 2011: if you don't ask you will never know... I vote for asking...the worst thing she can say is no...... (read in full...)
How can I make him forget about her and fall in love with me?
Q. i met this guy a few weeks ago he told me he likes me but there is something wrong. he has broken up with this girl, its been like one year and they where together for 6 year. He hasn't forgotten her. How can i make him forget about her and fall in ...
A. 19 November 2011: Bonnie Raitt said it best: "I can't make you love me if you won't"
IF he is not over his ex you really don't want him... you are just filler and rebound..... just be his friend... (read in full...)
How do I ride him successfully?
Q. hi everyone. my man wants us to try different positions and its exciting but my problem is how to be on top. we've tried it but l just can't do it, l feel so heavy like my body wont move up or down and its so bad, once in he'll slide out coz l ...
A. 19 November 2011: try it reverse... with your back to him.. (called reverse cowgirl by some)...
if your knees are bad woman on top doesn't work well..
if he's larger you may need pillows under your knees....
or try side by side positions (scissors, sp... (read in full...)
He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick
Q. Something is bothering me a bit. I am currently very sick, and yesterday I was much worse. I was at my boyfriend's house when suddenly my symptoms got really bad. I begged him to drive to the winn dixie right next to his house to get me some ...
A. 19 November 2011: I get this totally... and NO I don't think you are over-reacting... ONE of the ways I KNOW my man loves me is the tender loving care I get from him when I am sick...
Of course, sometimes he has no clue just how sick I am... I was sick on our v... (read in full...)
He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?
Q. Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go d...
A. 19 November 2011: Person1234 does make sense...
see I go without oral because I get so many other things from him. He will rub my feet, my back, etc. he will spend as much time as I wish paying attention to other body parts or use OTHER methods... just like I d... (read in full...)
Astonished that he could have done something so evil
Q. Okay, here's the situation. I met this guy randomly and he asked for my number. I met him after a few days for a first day, and we instantly clicked. I saw him again and again for months and quickly fell in love with him. After the first month I ...
A. 18 November 2011: A leopard does not change it's spots...
he lied and cheated on his wife.
he's lying to you (trust me a scorned wife tells the truth and if she wanted him back she would have called you and told you to drop dead...instead she o... (read in full...)
How to locate a sibling that was put up for adoption?
Q. My husband has a younger brother that was given up for adoption. Both of his parents have passed and the only information I have is...... His birth name (which I believe was changed after the adoption) The hospital he was born in the year he was b...
A. 18 November 2011: are there any websites of adoptees looking for birth families?
maybe they have a place you can post online?
I also agree with what tennisstar88 said.... (read in full...)
New baby, but an unsupportive abusive husband. No wonder I'm depressed. What should I do to cope with all this pressure?
Q. I've been feeling very unhappy after I got married.. been feeling depressed..I had a baby 7 months ago; I have been staying at home watching the baby and my husband has been complaining about expenses. He 's been telling me I wish That he could be...
A. 18 November 2011: YOU are being abused. You and the baby are in danger with a man with an irrational temper.
Can you contact a local women's shelter to see if you can get assistance to move out with the baby? IF you need help to find one you can google the term... (read in full...)
Sex is all about him - he does nothing for me and I feel unsatisfied
Q. What do you make of this? My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. married for 7. We have 2 children. OK this is going to get kinda graphic.... so we recently went 18 months without having sex. If he ever wants it, it completely ...
A. 18 November 2011: have you told your husband how you feel?
if not, you have to tell him..
if you say you can't tell him, why not?
are you afraid to tell him? why?
... (read in full...)
He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?
Q. Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go d...
A. 18 November 2011: we used to joke that my husband (now my ex) could breathe through his ears...
as a woman who has done this he needs to breathe through his MOUTH not his nose...
and yes when i was 300 pounds it was MUCH harder than now when I'm less than h... (read in full...)
Bit of an anti climax...
Q. I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, ...
A. 18 November 2011: have you talked to her about how you feel? that would be my first step
since all your parts are in working order it's your brain that's the problem
I would talk to her tell her how you feel and what your concerns are and see if she's ok back... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are new to sex....advice please!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months tomorrow, and both gave each other our virginities a month ago exactly. Our physical relationship has never been anything but perfect for each other, he cares more about me being satisfied ...
A. 18 November 2011: oh sweetie I'm so sorry for you...... (read in full...)
I saw his father in the bathroom and now I'm mortified!!
Q. I am completely mortified. I was going to my boyfriends house, he greeted me and it just so happened that I really needed to pee. Well he has a bathroom right next to the front entrance, a little one. The door wasn't closed and it was dark so I ...
A. 18 November 2011: it happens
I was a teen and saw my grandpa naked when he got out of the shower once.. i was embarassed...
you apologized
he was probably as embarrassed as you.
time to let it go.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: Maybe that's how he knows how to kiss... perhaps you have to teach him to kiss the way you like to kiss...
this is going to be one of those conversations you have to have with him...... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: YOU are not lonely or worthless nor are you alone she is being manipulative. continue to be strong...... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: IGNORE HER! YOU IGNORE HER totally
block her number from your phone
do not be alone.. be at work
be with friends or family that will give you an alibi should this crazy woman actually try to get you in trouble.
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How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: change is hard. leaving someone even someone that is mean and cruel leaves you really alone and it's scary. continue to be strong... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: you want to be done with her so don't answer the phone... let her be done and sleep with someone else...
be strong... we are here for you!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are new to sex....advice please!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months tomorrow, and both gave each other our virginities a month ago exactly. Our physical relationship has never been anything but perfect for each other, he cares more about me being satisfied ...
A. 15 November 2011: I think you two are over thinking it.
just go with the flow and relax and laugh.
LAUGHING during sex is OK... ... (read in full...)
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