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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 30 November 2011: so glad to hear that our work here has helped you! Thank you for the update. ... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 29 November 2011: Like EyesWideOpen said you can't do right by EVERYBODY so you have to choose who to do right by.
As a parent your responsibility is to your children. Teach them what is proper behavior in a relationship..
so staying with a man that makes you u... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 24 November 2011: while i eat the same thing for breakfast 99% of the time, I do not like the same meal for lunch and dinner every day.
variety is the spice of life..
I guess for me personally I'm a bit different. I do not care where my man gets his appetite as ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: this is the only way I can think to explain it...
when we train dogs to stop doing a behavior we don't want they will at first do it... but then they get snarky...and they start doing the behavior more and more and more... this is called an extin... (read in full...)
What was this - friends with a little bit of benefits?
Q. I have a question about friends with benefits (FWB). My wife and I watched the movie 'Friends with Benefits' about 2 weeks ago. This past weekend we were at some of our friends home, and the topic of this movie came up. I just casually said, yep, ...
A. 22 November 2011: I always think of FWB as intercourse ... (read in full...)
He lied to me and I'm starting to have my doubts about him
Q. Two days ago my boyfriend told me he had to go do some work-related stuff. He told me it would take him a couple of hours and he would come see me right after he was done. Five hours or so later (it was really late by then, around 12am or somethin...
A. 21 November 2011: will you ever trust him again?
if not... might be time to end it.
i've stayed with men I did not trust... it did not end well...... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in sex? This guy has confused me.
Q. Me and this guy work together and have known each other for a while. The night we were out with co workers he admits to having his eye on me for a long time. (this wasnt the first he told me that a few months ago but I was on the rebound and wasnt ...
A. 21 November 2011: RED FLAG #1 "he admits to having his eye on me for a long time"
this sounds like he's planning something... that he knows he wants to have sex...
RED FLAG #2: "move forward" with me and explore this but that hes not looking for a serious re... (read in full...)
I want to be the girl he always wants to call!
Q. Well there's this boy that's my ex, he's 14 and im 16. we're always talking on the phone. does anyone know any questions I could ask him cause we're both shy and we don't know what to talk about??? I want to be the girl that he would always want ...
A. 21 November 2011: hanging out and being buddies is one thing
hanging out and hoping he will like you as more than just a casual friend is totally another thing... and he may pick up on that and feel pressure you don't intend...
being friends with a boy y... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: oh OP I hope so and wish you well...... (read in full...)
How do I move on? Lost all my friend. Broke up. Is it my fault that my ex now drinks so heavily and smokes weed? He never did those things with me.
Q. Okay... This has been something that has affected my daily life for almost a year now. I'm fourteen I am a freshman and I start on the varsity basketball team. I have two parents who love me and have never given up on me after the horrible things I ...
A. 21 November 2011: he blames you because he's too childish to accept responsibility for his behavior.... many addicts are like this and in denial.
HIS BEHAVIOR IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
you should have no guilt.. you did what you thought was right. Your parents rea... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: and if you sit him down and tell him to "stop cheating or I'm gone" what do you think he will do and how will you respond because to be honest you already gave him a pass by forgiving him more than once and letting him NOT be repentent.... (read in full...)
I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?
Q. Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...
A. 21 November 2011: so you want revenge on him...
ah that' simple..
LIVE WELL
IGNORE HIM
LOOK BEAUTIFUL
IGNORE HIM
GET ON with a happy healthy life...
IGNORE HIM...
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If I send him a gift would that make me look desperate or obsessive?
Q. Hello, is it ok to send a gift (nothing expensive) to someone I have not met in person yet? -We have been writing emails to each other for about a month, and lately he has not written much, but he sent me an email a week ago saying that he was very ...
A. 21 November 2011: nope i would not send anything...
if he wanted to be in touch with you he would be
when i started LDR with my bf (we knew each other from something in real life) he kept telling me how busy he was and how he had no time for me and how schedule... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I want to wait till marriage to have sex now!
Q. I'm 19, going on 20, and my boyfriend is 20. Now, I'm the kind of girl that always believed in the "no sex before marriage" rule, and pretty much raised to believe sex is a taboo thing that is only for married couples, to make babies. But recently ...
A. 21 November 2011: " we all know what happens at the wedding night"
really? tell me.
I've had THREE and NONE of them involved sex.....
seriously. I was too damn tired.... (read in full...)
How can I divorce my husband when I'm all he has?
Q. I've posted a few times now and had some really good replies. I'm now in a situation where I am so unhappy with my life/marriage that I am actively pursuing affairs. In the 7 years we have been together we have grown apart, we are so different now. ...
A. 21 November 2011: Cheating is wrong you know that.
but i get the whole what I wanted at 21 is not what I want at 29 thing.. I lived that... I had two kids and I had to leave... i had no job but I had family.
YOU give yourself a LOT Of POWER by saying he will t... (read in full...)
Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?
Q. I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ...
A. 21 November 2011: no it's not worth waiting for him
again ... what will you do in 10 years when he wants to leave you for the new and improved model?... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend does not appear to respect me. What should I do?
Q. hey, so this is my first relationship ever, and him and i have been in a relationship for over a year now, he's over seas right now so we video call, instant message or call each other but he speaks to me really disrespectfully. So i asked him about ...
A. 21 November 2011: " i'll start respecting you when you show me that your worthy of respect"
and what pray tell have you done that makes him think you are not WORTHY of his respect?
I'm betting nothing...
stand your ground.
seriously I do not think he... (read in full...)
He held my hand, tickled me and looks at me at youth group. Does it mean he likes me?
Q. So, I'm a fifteen year old girl. I just started high school. I went to youth group tonight and we were playing a game and I would sometimes look around the room and would always catch this one guy looking at me. After youth group he came up to me a...
A. 21 November 2011: yeah hon he likes you...... (read in full...)
Does he mean we aren't serious or what?
Q. I've been seeing Mr X for a month now and as of thus weekend still never asked what he wants/is looking for. But he lately seems to be pulling away a bit. Yesterday I called him on it and said I just dont know what's going on with us and that I ...
A. 21 November 2011: don't you think you should have had the "where are we going are we monogamous?" BEFORE you had sex?... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating on me ?
Q. So recently my girlfriend received a text message from an unsaved number. I told her to respond to it and she did it very hesitantly. She responded who is this. I then asked her to turn on her on sound because i was suspicious. So we were on the bed ...
A. 21 November 2011: why would you think she is cheating.
maybe it was a wrong number?
the problem is you don't trust her.
will you ever?
if you don't trust her why do you stay?... (read in full...)
My vagina is so small it is stopping us from having sex! Help!
Q. I am married from 4 months, me and my hubby tried a lot to have sex, but it never happens :( I feel my vagina is too small and his penis is too large for me. I read some articles saying that vagina feels small until the hymen breaks. But how to ...
A. 21 November 2011: have you been to the gyn for a medical work up?
that's the FIRST thing you need to do.. get a gynecalogical exam...
... (read in full...)
She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, ...
A. 21 November 2011: you are over-reacting very badly to be honest...
... (read in full...)
I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?
Q. Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...
A. 21 November 2011: at 14 and 16 age DOES matter...
at 22 and 24 not so much...
do you even GET what FWB means?
it's for adults who have had sex and have an urge and no desire to have a long term life partner... VIRGINAL TEENS DO NOT NEED FWB...
if you fe... (read in full...)
This girl who my fiance works with, thinks its her responsibility to wake him up every morning for work! If he doesn't answer she will keep calling like 5-6 times!
Q. My fiance and I are both 20 and well he has this girl that is his friend who also works with him and she calls my fiance every morning like an hour before he has to go to work and tells him not to be late.If he doesn't answer she will keep calling ...
A. 21 November 2011: you've talked to him.. what does he say?
I'd personally answer the phone myself... and say.. "I've got it covered he'll see you at work"...... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 21 November 2011: only you can make this choice but it sounds over and over and over like you know what you SHOULD do and just need someone to give you the RIGHT reason to do it?
so if raising your kids to think that emotional abuse and being cruel to the woman yo... (read in full...)
I want to be the girl he always wants to call!
Q. Well there's this boy that's my ex, he's 14 and im 16. we're always talking on the phone. does anyone know any questions I could ask him cause we're both shy and we don't know what to talk about??? I want to be the girl that he would always want ...
A. 21 November 2011: no he won't like you more if you monopolize his time.
also if you are 16 and he is 14 and you are sexual that's not good for you depending on what state you are in it can get you in trouble.
if you can't see that what you want at 14 is no... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: so do you forbid him to masturbate too?
... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: THE OP SAID: " I will not be in a polygamous relationship and as far as I know she told him no"
what if she had said yes? then what?
The OP SAID: " He didn't apologize to me and said he doesn't regret doing it."
ok so he's NOT sorr... (read in full...)
She has left me and is now engaged to her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am a male 24 y.o a graduate student study abroad. When I study abroad, I met this angel, she is the most beautiful girl I ever seen, and I love her so bad (we came from the same country, btw). The problem is that she already have a boyfrien...
A. 21 November 2011: "a bird can love a fish where would they live?"
see I can quote silly things too.
She is NOT yours.
it does not matter why she does what she does.. if making her parents happy is important to her, then so be it.
IF you can't see that you... (read in full...)
He took part in a golf tournament with another woman because I'm not good enough! Now we cant stop rowing about this, what should I do?
Q. My husband and I both play golf. He has been a member for years and plays regularly, but I am a beginner and only get chance to play occasionally. At the weekend the club were holding an Open Doubles Competition which he wanted to play in. All ...
A. 21 November 2011: You are out of line. I'm sorry.. he ASKED you to play with him and you declined... he found someone else to play in the tourney with him... so what's the big deal???
you needed to say "i'm not ready to play in a tournament so could you sk... (read in full...)
Am I too heavy to be a stripper?
Q. Hello. I know this is a bit off topic but I was recently contemplating becoming an exotic dancer/stripper to make some extra cash but wanted some advice as to what a dancer should ideally look like. I workout about 3x a week running 30 minutes to 1 ...
A. 21 November 2011: bony women are never attractive... women with proportional curves are preferred...
does you hubby think you would make a good exotic dancer? then you probably will....
one of the most popular dancers we knew at a club was someone's grandm... (read in full...)
She has left me and is now engaged to her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am a male 24 y.o a graduate student study abroad. When I study abroad, I met this angel, she is the most beautiful girl I ever seen, and I love her so bad (we came from the same country, btw). The problem is that she already have a boyfrien...
A. 21 November 2011: she is with her "ex" and she has told you to find someone else...
"what should I do?" you ask.... you can love her but you must keep it to yourself and move on and leave her alone.
to chase after her is to disrespect her wishes.
when ... (read in full...)
My sex drive is too high! How do I stop it?
Q. I have a severe problem that I can't seem to get rid of. I have a very high sex drive and I hate it! It seems as though no matter how much me and my husband fool around, or how much I masturbate that I always feel like I'm horny and need to get off ...
A. 21 November 2011: question:
Is it the ORGASMS you crave or is it the AFFECTION?
I will tell you why I ask this:
I have a higher sex drive than my man... and yet I'm finding that lately it's NOT about the orgasms.. what I CRAVE is the affection.. the cuddles,... (read in full...)
I want to be the girl he always wants to call!
Q. Well there's this boy that's my ex, he's 14 and im 16. we're always talking on the phone. does anyone know any questions I could ask him cause we're both shy and we don't know what to talk about??? I want to be the girl that he would always want ...
A. 21 November 2011: you can't MAKE him like you.
just be yourself... truth is that he's 14 and by the time he's 16 he may want very different things than what he wants now...
does he call you or are you doing all the initial contact?... (read in full...)
He's 15 years older than me and from another country so his English is not great....should I ask him out anyway?
Q. Ok so im 21 and live in the UK....as most of us know the UK is full of people well not from here and I happen to work in a place where there is more non-UK workers than UK workers. I love my job and my old department was great as I had such a lau...
A. 21 November 2011: dating someone at work gets awkward when you break up...
I have to say there is one guy here at my office that is an outrageous flirt with me... older... very touchy feely with me.. I'm a huge flirt back but I never took it as more than flirtati... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my newborn's father?
Q. I have a gorgeous 2 month old daughter and she's my world. My past with her father isn't so great and I haven't even talked to him since I was 16 weeks pregnant, so basically forever ago! He treated me poorly and said hurtful things, as well ...
A. 21 November 2011: First of all congrats on 18 months clean and sober! BIG hard task and you SHOULD BE VERY PROUD of YOURSELF. I'm proud of you. I get that.
you are trying to protect your child...that's a good thing.
If I was you I would think an lawyer woul... (read in full...)
Is it me or the pregnancy that is causing such an abnormal behaviour??
Q. l am 24 years old and two months pregnant. problem is l sometimes hate my boyfriend for no apparent reason, l will ask him not to contact me or come and see me but ofcourse he does not listen, he will come and see me or call me. l then tend to ...
A. 21 November 2011: you had a miscarriage 3 months ago and are now 2 months pregnant?
is birth control not an option for you?
personally I think you would be better off letting this man go... clearly you don't love him or respect him enough to build a life and ... (read in full...)
I cheated and now feel disgusted!
Q. my boyfriend did not come to see like he usually does yet he knew l had wanted to be with him. so a good guy friend of mine from childhood showed up, we started drinking and all. basically we ended up having sex, me being the initiator. after it, l ...
A. 21 November 2011: How can you say you love him so when you chose to cheat on him with someone else?
no matter HOW mad I am at my man I would NOT sleep with anyone else...
you have every right to feel dirty and disgusted with your behavior.
IF you keep it ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: of course you think of if she misses you.. and of course she is hurting... change hurts and it's scary.
so tell me what parts of the relationship is she missing...the parts where she uses and abuses you? the parts where she emotionally ... (read in full...)
He says "I need you" meaning????
Q. Hi all, what does it mean when a guy says he needs you? is it a sign of co dependancy, or does it mean he loves you or what? !! Thanks - x...
A. 21 November 2011: You need to ask him...
do you want to be needed?
do you want to be loved?
do you want to be wanted?
is he NEEDY......... maybe he NEEDS you means he LOVES you but he can't say it?
Co-dependency... a person NEEDS the OTHER person to be dep... (read in full...)
We fight so much! What should I do?
Q. I have almost been with my boyfriend for a year and we fight so much. I think I love him but then theres days when I just dont know anymore. how do I make things better and save our relationship ?...
A. 21 November 2011: at 17 if it's bad, i don't think the effort needed to save a relationship is worth it...
if you THINK you love him but don't KNOW... then maybe the relationship has run it's course?
... (read in full...)
I think he's just living with me for the kids and because he doesn't want to live alone
Q. I feel my partner or supposed partner has a problem. He has started going out at wkends binge drinking and taking amphemines. We have 2 kids and our relationship has always been volitile. I dont feel he loves me and that im just the maid that does ...
A. 21 November 2011: ok so his mum died and then he moved in with you... classic use and abuse..
he's a alcoholic and a an addict and the way he lives will clearly influence the way your children learn to be adults...
He's hurting YOU and YOUR CHILDREN... do n... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has trust issues and checks my email, facebook. I don't like this!
Q. Hi! My girlfriend seems to have some trust issues. I got an email from a kind of exgirlfriend and when I saw it on the mailbox my current girlfriend was right next to me and saw it too. The following day she read thoroughly my mailbox looking for ...
A. 21 November 2011: oh I'm sorry it's a CROCK OF SHIT that it's ok to check your partner's email here in the states... I have full access to my partner's email and he to mine and our phones as well but we have TRUST so we don't check...
you are right if you TRUS... (read in full...)
It is ok for a 19 year old to date a 15 year old?
Q. I was wondering if it was okay for a 19 year old girl to date a 15 year old boy. I'm really worried for a friend of mine. He's obviously underage and still a minor and I'm sure there are legal implications of this but she seems so happy with him. I ...
A. 21 November 2011: legally no it's NOT ok
she can go to jail if she has sex with him
she can RUIN her life forever....
IF she feels THAT strongly about this young man she needs to wait till he is 18 then she can have a relationship with him.... (read in full...)
Is he just marrying her out of comfort? Ignore his feelings? if he felt nothing then why did he try to avoid me?
Q. So one of my prior classmates in graduate school and I were in the same class . He is 40 I am 25. Anyways throughout the class we got to know each other and I realized that we had a LOT in common, and in a way we spoke the same "language" I open...
A. 21 November 2011: He proposed to his GF and is going ot marry her..
you have a crush on a man you don't really know... just because he looks at you does not mean he is going to dump his whole life to be with you...
he didn't go for coffee because he doesn... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: "He still treats me like his gf"
explain to me how sleeping with other girls means he still treats you like his gf???
I don't get that.. unless YOU are OK with him being sexual with other girls, it's disrespectful and it's wrong. and if ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: I won't insult your feelings or your beliefs but I will say that if you feel THAT strongly about it you are probably better off finding a new partner that has the same beliefs you do and leave your current partner for a woman who is ok with ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: do not let her in when she shows up
do not take her calls
DO NOT FEED her emotionally with ANY CONTACT.
in this case for your sanity you need to go NO CONTACT...
it sucks for a while but it will get better faster if you do it that way... (read in full...)
Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?
Q. I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ...
A. 19 November 2011: if he leaves his girlfriend of 9 years for you what's to prevent him from leaving you in 9 years for something new and younger? why do you want a guy who is willing to abandon a long term love?... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: YOU are not lonely or worthless nor are you alone she is being manipulative. continue to be strong...... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: IGNORE HER! YOU IGNORE HER totally
block her number from your phone
do not be alone.. be at work
be with friends or family that will give you an alibi should this crazy woman actually try to get you in trouble.
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How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: change is hard. leaving someone even someone that is mean and cruel leaves you really alone and it's scary. continue to be strong... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: you want to be done with her so don't answer the phone... let her be done and sleep with someone else...
be strong... we are here for you!... (read in full...)
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