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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I Co-Dependent?
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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How you can tell someone loves you
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23 November 2011: So many times we see folks here saying "I know he loves me he tells me he does all the time" “But” I want to scream, “but how does he SHOW you he loves you” because I learned that WORDS without ACTIONS are meaningless. A partner that says “I lo...
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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I thought we were dating but he's still remaining active on his online dating account!
Q. Three weeks ago, I started dating a guy through on-line dating . I think we are a really good match for each other. He is exactly what I am looking for in a guy and seems really keen on me. He treats me really well and we have the same values, ...
A. 27 November 2011: three weeks... and he has not said he is exclusive...
you are going out you are not going steady....
until you two have "the talk" both of you are free to date who you wish.
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Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?
Q. I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was ...
A. 27 November 2011: stop worrying...
if she is on birth control pills ("the pill") she's probably NOT pregnant.
if this happened a week ago a pregnancy test won't work yet..
and here's the way to figure out a woman's FERTILE time... while not an exact scien... (read in full...)
Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?
Q. I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...
A. 27 November 2011: Honey I was married to a man like this... there is NO sense in confronting him. he will just deny deny deny and make up more lies and rational sounding excuses...
you will get no closure from this man... he is not capable of a mature honest r... (read in full...)
Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?
Q. Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over som...
A. 27 November 2011: How to get over someone?
depends on so many things... what the relationship was, what it is, what you want it to be...
a lot of this is just time.... time does heal a lot... it creates emotional distance...
however if this is a crush you'v... (read in full...)
Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?
Q. Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have bare...
A. 26 November 2011: I agree do this break in person.... ... (read in full...)
Colourblind test
Q. Hi guys need help-not romantic stuff but please help me as your advice is really cool and appreciated. Hey guys sorry to disturb but i need help-very worried got an opportunity to apply for a highly paid job but need to do a colourblind test. I...
A. 26 November 2011: Women are almost never colorblind, they carry the gene and pass it on to their sons....... (read in full...)
Question on genetic testing...
Q. I was wondering ,if anybody familiar with genetic testing? Does it really work? There is serious mental problems in my family, and I want to see , if there is anything shows up, as a genetic explanation. Does genetic testing shows any predisposition ...
A. 26 November 2011: AFAIK, there is no genetic testing for mental illness... but it is clearly in many cases genetic.
Testing can be for things they have found the gene for, cystic fibrosis, (general populations) Tay Sachs,(predominantly Jewish population) Sickle C... (read in full...)
Technique of sex with elder lady
Q. I am going to have sex with a lady elder to me by three years..she is 44. I want to know how should i go about it all the way from beginning (kissing) to end (till she is complete). And what should i do if i come early, then what should i do ?...so ...
A. 26 November 2011: are you a virgin? is this why you are so worried?
she's the same age you are... once you are past counting half birthdays age becomes somewhat irrelevant...
if you are experienced in the ways of love, you do everything exactly the same.
... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not? If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as I'm stumped
Q. I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good. I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good loo...
A. 26 November 2011: I gotta agree with CindyCares.... pretty much word for word...... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you 'squirt' during sex?
Q. This is a bit of a strange question, and i'm not sure if anyone can actually answer, but it's worth a shot i guess. A few years ago, someone once told me that i 'squirt' during sex. I know what squirting is, but no-one else has ever told me thi...
A. 26 November 2011: From personal experience I tell you that I did it ONCE in my life and I was 51 when it happened... keep trying to find it again....
and you will know.... for me I felt a cool feeling fluid flowing down my body.... and it was thin like pee....... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend told me not to miss him?
Q. I guess I made him angry or sad because when he was going to go out to have lunch, I told him in a happy way "have fun" and he said that I seem to be happy not to talk to him, which isn't true. he also told me he wants me to talk to ...
A. 25 November 2011: you are 17
you are long distance
he is mean to you (you said)
he said you act like a child
you play games with him by being logged on invisible to see if he is logging on...
how do you know he loves you?
let's start with 17 is too young ... (read in full...)
His flirtatious behaviour and sexual conversations with other girls really hurts me. Am I wrong to feel this way?
Q. First of all, I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read my question in advance. You see, there is this guy, my ex. We dated for 6 months and had a relationship that was all I had ever wanted. He was honest, caring, understanding and just ...
A. 25 November 2011: How you feel is how you feel.... you can't control it. all you can do is control your actions.
Personally I don't see much hope for this relationship...... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for telling this guy to delete my number?
Q. Hey everyone ... Happy Thanksgiving :D I have a question, am I wrong for ending things with him? I've been talking to This Guy.. he's 25 I'm 20. I don't date guys with kids because its way too much drama for me. But I gave him a chance, as long ...
A. 25 November 2011: he's scummy I wouldn't even be friends with him.... (read in full...)
Is sex outside the marriage infidelity when it's a 5 year plus sexless marriage?
Q. I have a very long term friendship with a woman. Her marriage has been dead for many years but stays because of her high school children and financial reasons. My marriage has been over for 10 years. During coffee last week , sex became a topic. She ...
A. 25 November 2011: unless you have permission from the spouse, it's infidelity.
... (read in full...)
My wife stares at other men when we are out together. What to do?
Q. My wife is 10 years younger than me. I'm 38 and when we go out I find her staring at other men. I try to tell her it bothers me but she just denies it. Should i even bother going on in this relationship?...
A. 25 November 2011: so you would end your marriage over your wife staring at other men...
does she stare so hard they notice?
does she lick her lips and say "yummy" under her breath?
is she slipping them her phone number?
are they older or younger?
I'm 5... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a friend's daughter?
Q. I was having a conversation the other day about morals, and the person asked me if I thought it was ok to date a friend's daughter. We didn't go into depth in terms of which friend, how long you'd known them, etc. personally, I couldn't see a p...
A. 25 November 2011: not a child you had known since she was born... that's odd to me.
I believe in age gap relationships... I have friends in their 60s I have friends in their 20s and 30s. I am actually OLDER than some of my friend's parents... but they are not ... (read in full...)
Me and my friend told our other friend's mom she was cutting herself..
Q. Hey, my friend and I told our mutual friend's mom that she was cutting herself and we don't know what to do! So last year the friend that's cutting herself, aka E, had alot of guy drama. She really liked this guy and a friend of hers told him twice ...
A. 25 November 2011: she secretly is very GLAD you told her mom because now her mom can get her help.
You did the right thing and E will forgive you and probably be friends for life with you... you created a special bond by helping her the way you did.... (read in full...)
He called it off, but now contacts me. What does he want??
Q. So ive been going out with my bf for almost two months and a couple of weeks ago he broke things off with me. He said that he thinks we are better off friends, but since then he has been texting me all day and will invite me over to his house. And ...
A. 25 November 2011: he wants you for sex and fill in till he finds someone else....... (read in full...)
His text left me confused! What do you think he meant by this?
Q. hi - it is official i hate texting !!! This guy and i went out a couple of times and we slept together. Always initiated by him. I texted him asking to go out for drinks and he replied something VERY confusing: "i have to go out with some colleg...
A. 24 November 2011: well my first take was that he was saying "yeah, I'll meet up but don't think of me as your boyfriend" but what everyone else said about his meeting makes sense too....
I'm afraid you are going to have to ask him....... (read in full...)
Bumped into a guy I used to date and he wanted me to go back to his flat, is he still interested and in what way?
Q. Ok, so yesterday, i bumped into this guy that i used to be seeing , and he wanted me to go back to his flat with him to reminisce, as he put it. I couldn't go, unfortunately, as i had already made other plans, but i'm hoping i'll bump into him again ...
A. 24 November 2011: he is interested in sex with you nothing more...... (read in full...)
Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!
Q. Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first be...
A. 24 November 2011: so if it's only three months, would you be opposed to limited contact for that period of time till he is legally separated?
why or why not?
if he says he will be separated and you believe him then you have nothing to fear from having a bi... (read in full...)
Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!
Q. Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first be...
A. 24 November 2011: I also like what Ampersand said.
Here Is my story:
first the husband part...
I was married. what I thought was happily...My husband was home every night and on the computer .hatting... occasionally he would go "play poker with the boy... (read in full...)
Why is he pulling away?
Q. Here's the whole story.. I started dating a man one month ago that I met 10 years ago He was my art teacher (not high school or anything) group lessons But we had a similar circle of friends and he was only about 10 years older. So we stayed in ...
A. 24 November 2011: he got laid and he's satisfied.
when he's horny he'll be back.
your choice what to do with it.... (read in full...)
Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!
Q. Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...
A. 24 November 2011: umm when my boyfriend was 20 I was 33 so age means nothing
if you miss her tell her.
of course you say she's bratty and deceitful... so what part of that are you missing? you said she didn't take hints when you wanted to be with your buddie... (read in full...)
Is a 30 year old man too old for a girl of 19?
Q. Ok so I met a guy in April met at a nightclub he was 24 we hit it off got together but within about a month weird things started uhappening he kept having serious accidents I couldn't get thru to his phone he could only call me he claimed it was a ...
A. 24 November 2011: I agree with everyone else. his age is not the problem.
his lies are
his manipulation is
the fact that you sleep with him and yet only on his terms is.
a broken jaw? and you can't see him.. crock of well you know ....
when my partner ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 24 November 2011: while i eat the same thing for breakfast 99% of the time, I do not like the same meal for lunch and dinner every day.
variety is the spice of life..
I guess for me personally I'm a bit different. I do not care where my man gets his appetite as ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: this is the only way I can think to explain it...
when we train dogs to stop doing a behavior we don't want they will at first do it... but then they get snarky...and they start doing the behavior more and more and more... this is called an extin... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 24 November 2011: The fact that he won't give you his phone number... BIG HUGE RED FLAG.. he's NOT who he says he is....
please please please be careful.... I know you will NOT listen to us... I just want you to make sure that you are careful... do not meet him... (read in full...)
Feeling really depressed and lonely, what should I do?
Q. Hi. I recently started going to college, after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend due to her cheating on me. At the time, I was really hopeful that I'd be able to find another girlfriend at college. But I can't really find anyone. Almost every girl ...
A. 24 November 2011: I have a degree in Psych...
not sure about there but here only medical doctors can prescribe anti-depressants. (and is insulin over prescribed? are glasses over prescribed?) so that a counselor is usually only able to do talk therapy....
g... (read in full...)
How can I make sex feel as good as masturbation?
Q. Since I was 3 or 4, before I even knew anything about sex, I've performed a type of masturbation where I'm on either my side or my belly with my legs crossed and rub myself aggressively with both hands. I'm 18 now and still do it. It feels ...
A. 23 November 2011: why is LUBE such an evil thing to you?
so many women think that if they don't lubricate enough themselves then they aren't attracted to their partner.. and that's just not true...
what about having him use his hands to mimic the pushing of t... (read in full...)
He hit me, but I still think about him...
Q. Here it goes... I am a 21-year-old, single mother at this point. My current ex is the father of my child. In the beginning of our relationship, he was kind, caring, sweet, loving and good to me. However, we did have our problems. I cheated on ...
A. 23 November 2011: I admit that back in May I hit my partner.
I was very angry and out of control. It was not an excuse. And just because I'm a woman does not make it any better. I never sould have hit him. It was WRONG. and I was horrified. I could tell you... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 23 November 2011: if your doctor diaganoised it then she can prescribe the dilator kits...perhaps insurance will cover them..... (read in full...)
Career vs Love - what comes first?
Q. What's more important? • a career that pays $10k more than you currently earn... With greater responsibility and pressure. Or... • being in a loving relationship, building your own home and having a future with somebody that loves you? Your wag...
A. 23 November 2011: depends on if I'm currently earning 30k or 60k...
personally at this point in my life, I make decent money I'm going for love...... (read in full...)
Has my friend lost it?
Q. My guy friend has been dating this girl ten years younger who's really immature. I think he's all caught up in his ego being that she's so much younger. I think he should be with someone grounded and more mature especially since he's got a kid. He's ...
A. 23 November 2011: it's his mistake to make... don't discount her just because of her age...maybe he wants her to move in so she has a reason to mature more quickly... while you can see the error of his ways there is not a lot you can do about it and you need to let ... (read in full...)
Girls' night out - girlfriend comes home drunk at 4am
Q. My girlfriend went to a nightclub for a girls' night out last night, came back at 4am and spent the first hour of today throwing up. How worried should I be? The poster for the event she went to depicts a young lady sitting down in a chair, with...
A. 23 November 2011: sounds like she went out with the girls drank too much and got hung over.
your follow up says that you don't trust her and why (and it's a good reason)... so now you have to decide if you want to try to trust her and put the bad feelings out of y... (read in full...)
Husband expects me to take his side and cut daughter out of lives. I can't do it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 16 years and have 2 children together. My daughter is 19 and my son is 14. For as long as I can remember, my husband has always been mean to my daughter. Recently, she has moved out of the house with her ...
A. 23 November 2011: It's going to be very very hard to get him out of your house.. is he on the deed?? or is it just in your name?
he's abusing you.. and that's grounds for divorce.
can you speak to a lawyer and find out how to make it happen?
how he can be ... (read in full...)
I am so scared to see him, I feel like I look even worse than I did when he left!
Q. Hey everyone, so the guy who I've had a thing with for awhile, a very long while actually(two years almost), is coming home from college for the week. I wanna see him so bad, but at the same time I don't...I'm not good enough for him and it hurts me...
A. 23 November 2011: oh honey, you are only as bad as you think you are
HE asked to be with you and you said no because YOU think he deserves better.. what he can't make his own choice?
you are so great and powerful you KNOW what he wants and needs better tha... (read in full...)
Does the contraceptive jab protect from STI's, does it hurt and should I tell my mum I'm having sex?
Q. i have asked my mum to book me an appointment and she has...the appointment was for me to get the contraception impact done. I am having in up in my arm on thursday, but my mum asked why i wanted it :\ i said to her that i cant handle having periods ...
A. 23 November 2011: contraceptive does not protect against STIs (STDs here in the states)... only condoms will help protect against them.
if you are in a monogamous relationship then have STI testing with your boyfriend... and if you are sure he won't cheat on you t... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my 5th cousin?
Q. ok is it wrong for me to be dating my 5th cousin.i told my mom and she says that is my choice of who i date but is it wrong?...
A. 23 November 2011: you are barely related. I don't even know past my first cousins...
I dont' see a problem...... (read in full...)
How do I greet him and how do I figure out if he likes me too?
Q. I recently met this guy online and we really hit it off. We text each other practically every day. I'm going to meet him in two weeks, but I'm really nervous. I'm taking a friend with me, but I'm not sure how to react. I'm a really shy person and ...
A. 23 November 2011: you start with HI and go from there. if you feel ok about out and he goes to hug you, hug him back if you want...
glad you are brining a friend
make sure mom and dad know and that they know
where you are going
who you are meeting (his f... (read in full...)
Are gay thoughts normal for teenagers?
Q. Are gay thoughts normal for teenagers? I'm very interested in girls. But I'm having gay thoughts that really scare me, I'm not attracted to other men in any way. These thoughts make me feel stressed and anxious. I don't want to be gay and I want to ...
A. 23 November 2011: nobody wants to be gay... trust me... my brother is gay and he loves his husband madly but he said if he had his choice... yeah.. wife, kids, picket fence, station wagon the whole nine yards would have been his choice...
that being said... havi... (read in full...)
How can I make sex feel as good as masturbation?
Q. Since I was 3 or 4, before I even knew anything about sex, I've performed a type of masturbation where I'm on either my side or my belly with my legs crossed and rub myself aggressively with both hands. I'm 18 now and still do it. It feels ...
A. 23 November 2011: it's not unusual that you started masturbating at a young age.. it's perfectly normal
I think that you have taught yourself to orgasm in only one position with only one type of stimulation... and while that feels great it's going to create probl... (read in full...)
Feeling really depressed and lonely, what should I do?
Q. Hi. I recently started going to college, after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend due to her cheating on me. At the time, I was really hopeful that I'd be able to find another girlfriend at college. But I can't really find anyone. Almost every girl ...
A. 22 November 2011: if you feel depressed then see the doctor for some anti-depressants.
depressio is a chemical imbalance in your brain.. if you needed insulin for your diabetes you would take that or wear glasses to correct your eye sight.. it's the same thing...... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: so do you forbid him to masturbate too?
... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: of course you think of if she misses you.. and of course she is hurting... change hurts and it's scary.
so tell me what parts of the relationship is she missing...the parts where she uses and abuses you? the parts where she emotionally ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: I won't insult your feelings or your beliefs but I will say that if you feel THAT strongly about it you are probably better off finding a new partner that has the same beliefs you do and leave your current partner for a woman who is ok with ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 21 November 2011: do not let her in when she shows up
do not take her calls
DO NOT FEED her emotionally with ANY CONTACT.
in this case for your sanity you need to go NO CONTACT...
it sucks for a while but it will get better faster if you do it that way... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 19 November 2011: you have no pictures of you on Facebook?... (read in full...)
Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?
Q. I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...
A. 19 November 2011: yes i want to know if he is asking for "adult" type photos in that case the answer is NO do not send them
there are I am sure photos of you on facebook already so he knows what you look like
he's' nice and sweet... how old is he, what does he... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: YOU are not lonely or worthless nor are you alone she is being manipulative. continue to be strong...... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: IGNORE HER! YOU IGNORE HER totally
block her number from your phone
do not be alone.. be at work
be with friends or family that will give you an alibi should this crazy woman actually try to get you in trouble.
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How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: change is hard. leaving someone even someone that is mean and cruel leaves you really alone and it's scary. continue to be strong... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: you want to be done with her so don't answer the phone... let her be done and sleep with someone else...
be strong... we are here for you!... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 30 October 2011: you really should see a doctor about it.... (read in full...)
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