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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is there such a thing as a "leg-fetish"?
Q. I understand the whole foot-fetish thing, but is there a specific fetish toward 'legs'? A female friend and I were discussing what we were in to and I told her I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs, which she said is a foot-fetish. However, I'm not ...
A. 5 December 2011: So Sageold guy...
a great housekeeper and cook with a great set of gams and good oral skills? winning???... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have two wives?
Q. I have 7-year old wife to whom I have loved somuch and trust but later I realized she had had hidden lot of past history, for which I have gone through the hell and got fed up with thinking about but not able to leave her and go away and I had many ...
A. 5 December 2011: Interesting Point Chalice makes, having someone to take the heat off of her may be what your first wife wants... maybe she wants out of the marriage and does not know how to tell you?... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 5 December 2011: "I understand what everyone is saying, except I feel if he were cheating on a significant other he wouldn't have taken me to his work to introduce me to his coworkers/friends, which has happened"
REALLY? My dad cheated on my mom with a co-wo... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a "leg-fetish"?
Q. I understand the whole foot-fetish thing, but is there a specific fetish toward 'legs'? A female friend and I were discussing what we were in to and I told her I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs, which she said is a foot-fetish. However, I'm not ...
A. 3 December 2011: ROFL! well that gets rid of the amputee fetish....... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a "leg-fetish"?
Q. I understand the whole foot-fetish thing, but is there a specific fetish toward 'legs'? A female friend and I were discussing what we were in to and I told her I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs, which she said is a foot-fetish. However, I'm not ...
A. 2 December 2011: So SageOldGuy... you cannot have sexual climax without a woman's legs being involved?... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have two wives?
Q. I have 7-year old wife to whom I have loved somuch and trust but later I realized she had had hidden lot of past history, for which I have gone through the hell and got fed up with thinking about but not able to leave her and go away and I had many ...
A. 2 December 2011: I assumed he meant he had a wife for seven years not a seven year old wife... which would give new meaning to the terms 7 year itch would it not?... (read in full...)
Where is he getting his sexual needs met? I'm worried he has an addiction to meeting new people....
Q. I have been datiing this man for a year and we fist we all over on another and then as a year approached it became less. i know how relationships go and they do settle down in the sex department the longer your together. i was even married for 15 ...
A. 2 December 2011: he may not need sex that often... for some men (my current bf for example) cuddles and affection are way more important than the actual act of sex. they can jerk off and get that release easily.... but the affection and cuddles and kisses is what ... (read in full...)
My husband makes no effort for me!
Q. My husband used to be very GQ and with his former wife and a couple of former girlfriends he always dressed up when they went out. But ever since I've known him he puts absolutely no effort into his appearance and if I suggest he shower, or put on ...
A. 2 December 2011: Dressing appropriately for an event is part of being an adult...
I tend to over dress because my bf asks me to dress up for him... but most of the time he's in jeans or sweats (like for movies and stuff) and I dont' bother about that.. but when... (read in full...)
My married lover wants to continue seeing me while he ties up loose ends with his soon to be ex-wife
Q. I am involved with a man who is still married but unhappy. he tells me he will file for divorce within the next 5 months because he is unhappy. he wants to wait to do it because she is not able to support herself financially due to their debt.......
A. 2 December 2011: yep if you really like him then your best bet is to drop him till AFTER he's legally separated or divorced (for example in my state there is no such thing as a legal separation you are either married or divorced)
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friend has crossed the line
Q. I am friends with my boyfriend's guy friend and his girlfriend...We double date occasionally. Well, I never really talk to the guy friend and my boyfriend never really talks to his girlfriend, except when we're all together...so this guy recently ...
A. 2 December 2011: My take on it is that's just the way he is... I don't see him as flirting with you.
Personally he clearly has you slotted as a friend and his idea of friends is that he can joke around and speak his mind. He sees you as one of the guys IMO.
... (read in full...)
Why is he in touch and how do I handle this situation?
Q. Hi, so my first proper boyfriend from 8 years ago, we dated about 1.5 years back then. We bumped into each other about 5 years ago or something, said hey yadi ya as you do. But every so randomly he sends hello's on facebook. We're not f...
A. 2 December 2011: your NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG. AND if you want to be friends with him and you are comfortable with it, then do it. There is NOTHING wrong with ex partners being friends. I've never been FRIENDS with an ex... I've been FRIENDLY and that is a big ... (read in full...)
What do you think of this matchmaker's insights?
Q. I was watching this um...interesting show the other day, "Millionaire Matchmaker" and my first impression was, "eh. Superficial, loud. Predictable to an extent." But, the "matchmaker" said something that interested me in a sense. Her advise w...
A. 2 December 2011: I happen to agree with her when it comes to adults. We are talking folks that are out living on their own established in the work force and contributing members of society.
I think it applies to men and women however. You pretty much do know ... (read in full...)
My friends don't support my decision to take a year long hiatus from dating
Q. Dear Aunts. I just found out that my bf of 11 months got a new g.f . So i left him last week and decided that i won't date for atleast 1year. But my friends don't accept my decision, they keep reminding me that i am weird, (especially now because ...
A. 2 December 2011: YOU do what YOU need to do and WANT to do. DO NOT live your life to make your friends happy.
You are wise to take a break. I would not put a time frame on it however, I would just live your life and when you are ready you will know it. What yo... (read in full...)
Will our sexual spark come back, even in our 40s?
Q. My wife says Im too horny all the time and we are in our 40's and Im wondering when the sexual spark will return. I have waited for a long time for this but lately I am thinking she has lost hope and is not intrested in me anymore or sex for that ...
A. 2 December 2011: if she's not sexually interested and she's had a medical work up and it's not physical (i.e. hormonal) and you guys have the ability to adapt for the decrease in natural lubrication (which is the biggest problem for peri-menopausal and menopausal ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a "leg-fetish"?
Q. I understand the whole foot-fetish thing, but is there a specific fetish toward 'legs'? A female friend and I were discussing what we were in to and I told her I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs, which she said is a foot-fetish. However, I'm not ...
A. 2 December 2011: You just are a leg man.... my boyfriend will easily admire a great set of gams.. Betty Grable insured her fabulous legs in case she injured one and lost her career.
It's not a fetish. just wait for summer when legs are out again!
and dat... (read in full...)
I've pretended everything is ok, but want to break up with him. How do I do that when he thinks everything is great?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 6 months, we are not official but it was definitely heading that way. I have always been iffy about the idea of being with him coz he was a player but I thought Id give him a chance. He hasn't done anything ...
A. 2 December 2011: You have to be honest with him. Chigirl is so wise in that you should bring stuff up as it happens but we all know how hard that can be...
So maybe now as things come up you can let him know that it's not working for you....
and chocoho... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 2 December 2011: KC i see the link you posted is about DISORDERS...
planned parenthood http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/birth-control-pill-4228.htm
says:
It's pretty common for people to be confused about how birth control pills ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have two wives?
Q. I have 7-year old wife to whom I have loved somuch and trust but later I realized she had had hidden lot of past history, for which I have gone through the hell and got fed up with thinking about but not able to leave her and go away and I had many ...
A. 2 December 2011: I can't say it better than what chigirl said....
IF it's legal and your first wife is ok with it and you can support love and care for both of them equally then you can have two at once. Even in countries where polygamy is legal, I believe ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want me the way I want him?
Q. For the last six months or so, I have been really aroused because of my husband. Not that I wasn't before, but lately he's just all I can think about, and I can't wait to rip his clothes off. Here is my problem, whenever I try to start something ...
A. 2 December 2011: Honey you have two children... you have plenty of experience...
I assume the thing he wants you to do more often is blow jobs... just watch your teeth...curl your lips around them a bit..
and find out what he likes... ask him.... ... (read in full...)
Will the relationship ever work?
Q. me and my boyfriend was together over a year he broke up with me monday cause the same girl that has been giving ur drama and touble since the day she found out we first met. he said he was tired of the drama and he was tried of me listening to the ...
A. 1 December 2011: the only person who knows what HE wants when he says he wants a "break from the relationship" is him.
but my gut tells me that there is very little hope for this relationship.
how often have you had to beg him? once? ok...twice... no... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 1 December 2011: my 77 year old father has a cell phone for god's sake.
and if his parents were still alive they would too.
you can buy a burn phone at walmart for 12 dollars and for $50 per month have unlimmited text, calls and data.
NOT having a phone is... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend to ditch her boyfriend?
Q. My best friend always comes to me for advice on her relationship. Her boyfriend does not treat her right. He texts other girls and while they were on a "break" he slept with his ex. I hear her talk on the phone with him and she says I love you but ...
A. 1 December 2011: Go to her and say
"I have a problem, I have a friend who is being mistreated by a man she loves and I don't know how to get through to her"
She will assume (we hope) that it's someone else... then she can ask "well what's going on?" and ... (read in full...)
How do I help my girl friend?. We're loyal and faithful to each other. But in the past she was promiscuous and was sexually abused
Q. I'm 26 Male. She is 24 Female. Dated for 9 months. She's been with 18 men and has had a very promiscuous past. She told me she had been wild, but I had no idea how wild. She admitted to dating someone when she started talking to me, but I blame ...
A. 1 December 2011: I met my current partner when I was in an open marriage. I am currently monogamous by my choice with my partner. I have had many partners in the past and by choice.
BUT my partner trusts me to be honest and open with him about it. And I am... (read in full...)
Why would a guy throw it all away for a random one night hook up?
Q. This may be a brad question, but it just doesn't make sense to me why a guy would cheat on a good girl that hes been with for a few years. I was absolutely good to him. Im as sincere as they get. Im honestly the type of girlfriend most guys are ...
A. 1 December 2011: because he could?
sorry that he did this to you but you yourself said "i was able to look past all his imperfections"
IS IT POSSIBLE he was the way he was to you on purpose so that you might consider not being with him?
i know my pa... (read in full...)
How do I let my SO know I don't want a relationship?
Q. How do I let my significant other know that I don't want a relationship? He has told me that he is a manipulative bastard, emotionally dead and not good enough for me. I can't see anything completely wrong with him now, he has told me that he loves ...
A. 1 December 2011: you want him in your life by your side but you don't want a relationship. color me confused.
WHAT do you want from him a FWB thing?... (read in full...)
He's gone from callimg me "hot and sexy" to "beautiful and gorgeous," does it mean anything?
Q. Hi Guys, I realise this isn't a serious thing and it isn't a problem, I am just wondering and don't have anyone I can ask. Thanks for your responses in advance. I have been seeing a guy for a while now, he was my friend before hand and he has...
A. 1 December 2011: MUCH BETTER!
It's much better to be beautiful and gorgeous than hot and sexy...
yeah it strokes our egos to be hot and sexy but to be honest that's reserved for girls they want to fuck.
beautiful and gorgeous are for women they love and ador... (read in full...)
Will not getting him a huge gift make him hate me?
Q. I am freaking out over my boyfriend's Christmas gift. He works and I don't (I'm looking for a job though!) and I have some ideas - a video game he's wanted for a long time but never got around to buying it, a good webcamera for his computer because ...
A. 1 December 2011: what you spend dollar wise is not the same as what your heart spends for him. He won't hate you. get him one of the things he asked for if you can afford it.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want me the way I want him?
Q. For the last six months or so, I have been really aroused because of my husband. Not that I wasn't before, but lately he's just all I can think about, and I can't wait to rip his clothes off. Here is my problem, whenever I try to start something ...
A. 1 December 2011: why would you think YOU are the problem?
sounds like he has a problem...
have you asked him at a time when you are not trying to be intimate what's going on? do you prefer mornings and he prefers nights (that's OUR big problem it's a t... (read in full...)
Would it be better to not get married and disappoint our families?
Q. I am due to get married in three months. For the past two years I have been catching my soon to be wife in darting chat rooms. She has been clumsy and left things around,including guys phone numbers. I have never been able to get past this as she ...
A. 1 December 2011: DO NOT get married. NO NO NO NO NO! DO NOT GET MARRIED.
FWIW, many years ago my cousin cancelled a HUGE wedding THREE WEEKS before the event. She never regretted not marrying him.
she's leaving clues for you to find so you will end it. cl... (read in full...)
Man over 20 with a teen?
Q. I am a 24 year old male and I was wondering is it illegal for me casually date a girl who's 17? Or just simply be good friends with her?...
A. 1 December 2011: as others have said it's not illegal where you live but I gotta be the MOMMY here and say "how do her parents feel about it?"
... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to make the 1st move because I've never done that before
Q. Hello Everyone I need some advice on a stiuation I am, many of you guys now but here is a recap. At my work there is a customer at my work an older guy (maybe 7-8 years older) who I am really attracted to. He always comes shopping frequently every ...
A. 1 December 2011: FWIW you can ask him out for coffee if you like but it may just be that he thinks your cute and comes in on your closing nights by sheer coincidence.
I know for me that there was a very cute guy at the car repair place I've used for 20 years...... (read in full...)
She's 17. Do I keep in touch? Keep talking, or let her be until she is older?
Q. So im in college which is new to me after leaving the military and there is a girl in one of my classes who i absolutely enjoy talking to and she tells me she loves hanging out as well. she parks her car near mine most of the time so that we end ...
A. 1 December 2011: I would stay friends with her and if she is going to be 18 in a few months just wait that out.
there is not a huge gap between 18 and 24 if the man is older AND besides you MET at school which means she is mature enough to handle college classes.... (read in full...)
"Momma's boy" - attractive or not to women?
Q. Want to get some feedback from women here... I grew up without a father so my mother had to be both parents in a way. As a result, I've always been a "Momma's boy". She's not protective or invasive in my personal life we just have a very solid and ...
A. 1 December 2011: A man that has a healthy relationship with his mother is a good thing. A "momma's boy" is not a good thing.
A man who respects his mom but has boundaries with her is a good thing.
How a man treats his mother is how he treats his partner.... (read in full...)
Went through his phone. Not sure what to make of findings
Q. Huge problem. I went through my boyfriend's phone almost a year ago, found nothing, but he got really pissed and I promised never to again. But I did tonight. And I'm freaking out a little because his friend (a girl) texted him saying if she didn't ...
A. 1 December 2011: The pictures and the explanation are upsetting and I would also suspect that he was sending them to someone else... I mean why would I need pictures of his genitalia if i get to see it IRL?
You went through his phone last year and then again th... (read in full...)
Why is he in touch and how do I handle this situation?
Q. Hi, so my first proper boyfriend from 8 years ago, we dated about 1.5 years back then. We bumped into each other about 5 years ago or something, said hey yadi ya as you do. But every so randomly he sends hello's on facebook. We're not f...
A. 1 December 2011: sounds like just an old friend keeping in touch. if it makes you uncomfortable you can end the contact you have no obligation to have contact with him.... (read in full...)
I'm confused.. do I stay with him or not?
Q. i am been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 years but we have never been in touch all 12 months, he has health issues but wont let me be there for him, right know its been 10 months since we saw each other and have only im ed on yahoo 3 times, his ...
A. 1 December 2011: actually OP you want a man that is as in to you as you are into him. if he is MORE into you than you are into him you will feel pressure from him and he will feel much like you do now.
I wish for you to find a nice equal relationship.... (read in full...)
Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went ...
A. 1 December 2011: “When we talk he always starts the conversation and wants to know about my day. The problem is I'm always the one that has to call or text him.”
OP this is confusing me. Either YOU initiate the contact or he does. IF you are the one who calls or... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?
Q. Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...
A. 1 December 2011: I am so sorry your father is ill.
Have YOU ASKED your parents if you can come home with the baby? You may be surprised at what they say. A baby around may give your dad a reason to get well faster.... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 1 December 2011: KC_100 I just read your post and I have to disagree. My limited understanding is that the lining only is built if you ovulate... if you don't ovulate you don't build a lining.... then it's shed if you don't get pregnant and used by the baby if you ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend bored, or stressed, or not interested?
Q. I understand the concept of the honeymoon period. During the first six months or so that we were together, my boyfriend would text me things that still make me blush when I read them. (we've been together just over a year now) We were also like ...
A. 1 December 2011: and what is wrong with the comfort of companionship in a lonley life?
I really keep trying to explain to folks that PASSION is a positive and a NEGATIVE thing. Passionate people love passionately but they also FIGHT passionatly. My man and I ha... (read in full...)
Why do guys find it easy to orgasm, but many women never do?
Q. You always read about women having problems with this. Yet never any guys. Why is this? Is it because it's more taboo if a women does?...
A. 1 December 2011: well then how come so many of us can have them through masturbation but not intercourse or other forms of sex?
wouldn't having ANY orgasm and especially one through the "taboo" method of masturbation be even more forbidden?
I don't think it's... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?
Q. Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...
A. 30 November 2011: NEVER stay with someone just for the children. My children told me years after the divorce how happy they were that mommy and daddy didn't fight any more.
you are so young...are you living on your own with him?
can you leave and go home to y... (read in full...)
No more erections!
Q. For emotional reasons, I believe it's best that I stop having sex. I'm wondering if there are any techniques that can train you to never have an erection again, like pinching your skin very hard each time you get an erection. Would there be an...
A. 30 November 2011: Oh dear... being celibate by choice is one thing.
Altering your body is a totally different issue.
you cannot train your body to not have erections. They occur even when you are asleep...
I cannot think of a doctor that would perform any t... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend bored, or stressed, or not interested?
Q. I understand the concept of the honeymoon period. During the first six months or so that we were together, my boyfriend would text me things that still make me blush when I read them. (we've been together just over a year now) We were also like ...
A. 30 November 2011: we are also a couple that is together a year and just recently moved in together... and yeah for sure our sex life and emails have cooled off... but our love continues to grow.
a mature relationship is not all about sex. He’s 24 so you are at m... (read in full...)
Bed bug problem! My boyfriend doesn't believe he has them even though I get bitten!
Q. I have a unique problem. My bf wont support me on bed bug problem and its causing great strain. I mistakenly bought a used mattress a little while back and i started getting bitten all over. I sanitized everything in my place but then I think one ...
A. 30 November 2011: BEDBUGS are a rampant problem in the USA... even some of the finest hotels are struggling with them....
I would tell him... I'm sure your place is clean hon but I'm a bit neurotic so it would give me peace of mind if you would indulge me and let ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to urinate in the bath and shower?
Q. How many people urinate in their bath or shower? My boyfriend says everyone does and expects me to trust him if we bathe together. What shall I do?...
A. 30 November 2011: FWIW yeah about 30% of the adult population pees in the shower... not the bath as far as I know.
I've peed in the shower... so has my boyfriend... and we've done it in the shower together... we just turn away from each other.
URINE is STER... (read in full...)
Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?
Q. My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...
A. 30 November 2011: then marry neither and go off and be alone and figure out what you want.
if my ex that left me came back now after years of being GONE (especially if I had a CHILD with him) it would NOT make me question wanting to be with my current partner.... (read in full...)
Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?
Q. My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...
A. 30 November 2011: NOT the ex. he's just reacting to someone else wanting you.... (read in full...)
Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went ...
A. 30 November 2011: sounds to me like it's time to move on.
just get busy with your life and go out with friends and see what happens...
does he ever initiate the contact with you or are you always the one starting the conversations? if he never starts it s... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 30 November 2011: I was put on Birth Control Pills in 1974 for menstrual problems. Pain, heavy bleeding, irregular periods etc.
it helped a bit. I was 14 at the time and stayed on BCP till I was in my 20s... after I married and decided to have children I went off... (read in full...)
I'm confused.. do I stay with him or not?
Q. i am been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 years but we have never been in touch all 12 months, he has health issues but wont let me be there for him, right know its been 10 months since we saw each other and have only im ed on yahoo 3 times, his ...
A. 23 November 2011: you have not seen him in ten months........
you have IMed THREE times on yahoo in ten months.......
he does not remember your birthday........
you do not spend holidays together...
you live an a hour apart........
he goes on trip... (read in full...)
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