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Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 31 January 2012: Well congrats on the engagement first of all.
IT appears from the first post that she was THINKING of going to the gym… but did not…. Is that what happened…s o you were worrying about something that had not even happened yet??? And now she’s ga... (read in full...)
Revenge cheating...will it help ?
Q. i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive ...
A. 22 December 2011: I hope this works for you. She's right what's past is past and if she is committed to you and your relationship, and YOU can move past it, then it CAN work....
People can make positive changes... I came from an open marriage (how I met my curre... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 22 December 2011: I would strongly caution as a short woman that BMI is not a great way to determine what we should weigh. IN addition if she has ALWAYS been heavy many bariatric surgeons (those that focus on helping obese people lose weight) do not want us to get ... (read in full...)
Do you think she does these things because she likes me?
Q. ok here is my question... I just turned 19,and am quite gud lukin from face to body physique, overall quite attractive.........I just went to college 6 months before,there's girl n i like her(she prettie n sexy) but i hav no idea she likes me or no...
A. 21 December 2011: IF you asked her out and she said no... then she made it clear she's not interested in you as more than another student in the class...... (read in full...)
Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights?
Q. Sometimes the mother wants an abortion and the father wants her to have the baby. Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights? A Post in here made me think of this question. Would like to hear peoples opinions...
A. 21 December 2011: TOUGH topic. I am very pro-choice and yet I don't feel that the FATHER'S choice should carry as MUCH weight as the MOTHER'S choice.
I think that a man has a right to know that he's going to be a father.... but if it is NOT a long term rel... (read in full...)
Should I choose a major that I like or challenge myself to something new that I have an interest in?
Q. I'm graduating next year and I having a heard time choosing a major my choices are business management and graphic design. I can't choose between the because it's pros and cons the reasons are I love to draw industrial design and graphic design is ...
A. 21 December 2011: why not have a double major?
I have a degree in psychology but i do computer security for a living... lots of times just having a degree is the important part...
also you can change majors at any time.... I started out in Elementary Educa... (read in full...)
Do you think she does these things because she likes me?
Q. ok here is my question... I just turned 19,and am quite gud lukin from face to body physique, overall quite attractive.........I just went to college 6 months before,there's girl n i like her(she prettie n sexy) but i hav no idea she likes me or no...
A. 21 December 2011: sounds like she likes you... why not ask her to go for coffee with you after class?... (read in full...)
I am so in love and really want to start a life with my Bf, but we are still rather young. Am I being irrational? Should I tell him how seriously I feel for him?
Q. In the midst of a joking conversation, my boyfriend (22) and I (21) of six months somehow got on to the subject of children and I joked that because of one of his dorky, but lovely and endearing traits (Star Wars obsession) we shouldnt procreate, ...
A. 21 December 2011: It's still early in the relationship and you are young but not children so if it continues in this vein... it sounds GREAT...
you are not being irrational and it sounds like he has similar feelings...
how and when do you know? sounds like YOU ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to ask for anal anymore!
Q. Me and my wife have a nice intimacy hot life, everytime, love, careless, so hot, so hot everytime we have it! She loves so much when i put my finger in her anus but when i try to have an anal intercourse with her she doesn't want it! Why she doesn't ...
A. 21 December 2011: she doesn't want more than a finger because it's LARGER and it HURTS....... (read in full...)
My Gf has asked me for £50, I said No, was I wrong?
Q. Hi all, been with my gf for 3 years she has never worked (she is 19) and neither has her mum I have worked since I left school. I spend quite alot on her having to buy food lending her bus money etc etc sometimes it annoys me sometimes it doesn't. ...
A. 20 December 2011: You are not wrong. You need to tell her exactly what you think. That you have covered many of her expenses without her working (and why is she not working???) and that you just can't afford it now. AND if you believe like I do that it's a SCAM ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 20 December 2011: there are no exercises that will keep or destroy breast tissue. Fat will be lost but breast tissue will remain. The only thing she can do is keep her pec muscles strong....
skin at her age will probably rebound nicely...she needs to eat well... (read in full...)
I am due to fly out to see my bf but he has just dumped me! I am distraught!
Q. Ok so its less than a week before Xmas. I am due to fly out to be with my boyfriend tomorrow (6 year relationship) and he has just told me, out the blue, that he doesn't feel the same way about me any more... and he told me by email. I am totally ...
A. 20 December 2011: OUCH. I am so sorry he was such a schmuck. To end it right before the holidays and by email... I hate him.
I would NOT get on the plane and go to him... change the ticket and go on a vacation. If not now, later.
What a shock to you. H... (read in full...)
Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?
Q. Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a ...
A. 20 December 2011: My opinion: he's lying.
now: this was THREE years ago and if he has NOT done anything since that time to cause you grief or believe him to be lying about other things, you have to decide what to do.
for ME if it was three years ago, and... (read in full...)
Revenge cheating...will it help ?
Q. i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive ...
A. 20 December 2011:
I don’t think that forgetting is right but forgiveness for a ONE TIME mistake that happened in the past often is a good start for healing. Revenge Cheating is NOT a good idea…..
I am not sure WHEN you found out…. If this happened 5 m... (read in full...)
If this man likes me why won't he pursue me?
Q. If this man likes me, why won't he persue me ?. I am 27, and he is 60. Now, i know that is a huge age gap, but he seems like a really nice man, and i do like him. He has said that he would go after me if he was my age, and ke kept asking if this guy ...
A. 20 December 2011: I am a HUGE supporter of age gap relationships being in one myself… but even this one you are suggesting pushes the boundaries of sanity in my opinion. He’s a flirt and he’s flirting with you because it is fun but he’s wise enough to know that as ... (read in full...)
Would he cheat if he had a chance to?
Q. me and my boyfriend are having some problems at the moment. he has been messahing other girls asking for nacked pics and chatting other girls up he says it werent him but i dont thinl i believe him. we have a lil girl together and thought we were ...
A. 19 December 2011: He says it wasn’t him. So who was it? And why are they using his phone and do you really really believe that? I don’t.
Would he cheat if he had a chance to? Maybe. Many do… maybe not… only he knows this. If you don’t know him well enough t... (read in full...)
Should I Do as my heart tells me and marry him then start this long distance thing?
Q. Hello everyone and happy Xmas in advance :) So, my bf proposed to me and asked me to marry him in Sept. Which qould be wow! if he hadn't just moved abroad for work (2hr plane ride). I cannot leave my job over here at all. All I can do is go be ...
A. 19 December 2011: so will the long distance be temporary for work or is this a permanent thing?
if it's temporary and you love this guy then go for it.
the goal of LDRS is to NOT be LDR but to be close.... (read in full...)
I like this girl but haven't come to terms yet with what I am. What should I do?
Q. When I drink, I tend to make out with girls. Specifically my friends. I made out with this girl lastnight who I'm close to and I think I like her. But I am scared because I've never actually felt feelings towards a girl before. She is bi-sexual but ...
A. 19 December 2011: 1. you are NOT old enough to drink in the states till you are 21. STOP DRINKING. in addition, if you are out of control when you drink, dont' start again when you are 21
2. it's normal to not know your sexual orientation yet... I did things w... (read in full...)
Guy is drunk texting me at 3am... I like him...Should I go?
Q. So I have a crush on this guy who also happens to be my coworker and its apparent he likes me back. And recently he started drunk texting me to come over at 3am so I can keep him company. We've only been talking a few weeks, so I ended up telling ...
A. 19 December 2011: the only reason to text a woman at that ungodly hour and say come over is to get laid.... DO NOT do it.... (read in full...)
MY LDR of 9 months has just cut contact and won't answer my calls... Help me please??
Q. My LDR boyfriend of 9 months has just suddenly stopped taking my calls and answering my texts. I know hes ok and still alive because there is recent activity on his facebook page. We last spoke on the phone last week and everything was fine. Now he ...
A. 19 December 2011: He’s no longer your boyfriend. I’m sorry. This is his chicken way of ending it. But the truth is you had to end it. And you did.
“I text him to say I cant be doing with the head games and that its over because he was on his last chance a... (read in full...)
Our sex life has stopped being fun, she says its because she is not comfortable 100%, any advice please?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years, the relationship is going alright, however certain things are making me feel a little unappreciated, and I know this sounds selfish, but it's all to do with sex. For the first year, the sex was adventur...
A. 19 December 2011: Well since you’ve talked to her I can’t suggest talking to her… but I would suggest you clarify her answer as it does not make sense to me….
You have been together for two years. You are sexually active and yet she says she does not feel com... (read in full...)
My husband accused me of being insecure after he was flirting at his christmas party! Am I insecure?
Q. Recently my husband and I went to his company's annual party. I have met a few people he works with but I do not know anyone well. It is awkward for me because once we get to the party he acts like I do not exist and gets mad if I stay wit...
A. 19 December 2011: NO I think you are quite justified in your requests...
I do not think you are insecure.
Now had your hubby introduced you to these women as "my lovely wife" it would have been insecure had you been upset...
why are women from a bar that is... (read in full...)
My father does not like the older man I am dating!
Q. I have been seeing this wonderful man for the 10 months, I'm 23 and he's 38, at first I was sceptical about the whole age thing but I couldn't help myself so we'd sneak away and meet each other at the local park or go a drive.. Anywhere as long as ...
A. 19 December 2011: It's hard to be 23 and legally an adult and still financially a child dependent on your parents. Your dad is a bit over the top here but as a dad I can understand his concern. I hope you can too.
Your kids will not be “bullied”
My form... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 19 December 2011: OH OP your followup tells me so much more now than the original post…
You are ANGRY with him in general for not stepping up at home….
I’m sorry you lost your first husband and the second one is not filling the shoes he left as well as you woul... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend's in denial of being bisexual and won't admit it for fear of me telling his family & friends
Q. Hi Cupid, I am a 46 year old heterosexual female and have been in a relationship with a man for 2years. I recently found some gay porn and photo's of young boys having sex on his computer. When I confronted him about this he denied it straight away, ...
A. 19 December 2011: just because a man had ONE homosexual experience when he was young and he watches gay porn does not make him bisexual.
I'd be more concerned about the kiddie porn than anything...... (read in full...)
I cant control my erections! Help!
Q. Am a reserved guy of 22.anytime a girl tourches or even playing or discussing romantic issues with a girl i usually gets an erection which i can't control or surpress.i don't actuallly know what's wrong with me or know the reason for that or what ...
A. 19 December 2011: First of all there is NOTHING wrong with you... it's NORMAL!
I'm sure one of the men here can better explain why this happens... I just know it does and it's normal....
not much can be done to control it... and as you get older it will ha... (read in full...)
Had sex with my younger personal trainer who is in a relationship and now I feel totally used!
Q. So after being a client for the last 5-1/2 months (he's my personal trainer, once a week) We started texting each other, then we starting sexting, sending pictures of our selves. He is not single, I am, however he is 17s my junior. We broke down ...
A. 19 December 2011: if you feel so trampy why would you consider doing it again?
if it was all about him why would you consider doing it again
If he's not available (he's now a liar and a cheater since he's in a relationship unless he had "a note" as we call it) w... (read in full...)
Sex with a new person felt like the first time? WHY?
Q. i lost my virginity in june and was sleeping with the same person until october; so i am used to sex by now. so why when i slept with someone else a few days ago did it still not go smoothly? The other person has also lost their virignity so why d...
A. 18 December 2011: because even with tons of experience on both sides sex with a new person is still new and you have to learn each other's moves etc.
it takes a few times to learn the new dance of a new partner.... (read in full...)
I need answers please! We're friends after his rebound. How to win him back?
Q. My ex of 5 months broke up in August. He rebounded and contacted me immediately after. We hadn't talked during that time. We went to a movie and we acted the same as before. We hung out a few times since then but not as often as when we were ...
A. 18 December 2011: I'm sorry but it's just a "filler" situation until he finds someone to move on with...
IF he wanted you back together you would be together. This is the easy way for him to ease out of the relationship. He does not have to be alone and yet he d... (read in full...)
It's Driving me crazy, I cant get hold of my boyfriend! Am I Over reacting?
Q. My boyfriend who i'm in a ldr with has ignored my phone calls all day. He phoned me last night and was fine. Today I try calling him 3 times and he hasnt answered. I know he has no credit to call or text me back. But its driving me crazy that I...
A. 18 December 2011: yep I figured there was backstory we were not getting.
I wish you well and hope you get what you need and want.... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!
Q. My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is ...
A. 18 December 2011: sounds like you are making progress... give her time do not push it... she has to come to the life changes herself.
... (read in full...)
We want to have sex. How do we stay safe?
Q. Hello, i'm sixteen and ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half months, we both want to have sex, and neither of us never have. I dont know how to know if im ready, and i dont know if its to early in the relationship, should we wait ...
A. 17 December 2011: I agree with Celtic Tiger, In order to be mature enough to have sex you have to be mature enough to discuss it with at minimum a doctor.
My (step) daughter came to me when she was nearly 16 to be put on birth control pills and I was happy to... (read in full...)
It's Driving me crazy, I cant get hold of my boyfriend! Am I Over reacting?
Q. My boyfriend who i'm in a ldr with has ignored my phone calls all day. He phoned me last night and was fine. Today I try calling him 3 times and he hasnt answered. I know he has no credit to call or text me back. But its driving me crazy that I...
A. 17 December 2011: so? what was it? I'm curious.... yeah sometimes in an LDR you can't get a hold of your partner....
has something happened to make you feel so nervous?... (read in full...)
Am I being controlling, or am I just being cautious and protecting my marriage from further destruction?
Q. Hello, I need some advice and opinions. My wife and I have been married for 16 years and its been a pretty tough marriage from the beginning. We have both been faithful over the years, but not real happy. I just recently realized that I've been a v...
A. 16 December 2011: Hi!
IF your wife is 36 and you have been married for 16 years then she married you at 20 and was NOT even LEGAL to go out to bars drinking with her friends before marriage.
I am betting that you do treat her much like a child. She was barely N... (read in full...)
My friend has breasts like a lady! Is this normal?
Q. Hi Can anybody help me? i know a guy whose got breasts like a lady's and he was asking me why is his left breast bigger than the right one and is it normal? I hope to hear soon. He's so worried. Can anybody help?...
A. 16 December 2011: the human body is not symmetrical. ONE side is always larger than the other.
If your male friend has large breasts (Gynecomastia)
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/gynecomastia/DS00850
he should see a doctor and have a physical to rule out m... (read in full...)
Does he know the pain I go through when I know he's looking at porn?
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and we have always had sex reguarly, its never been the same there was also something to spice it up everytime. But recently within the past few months maybe he would reject hav...
A. 16 December 2011: if you told him you don't like it and he still does it and you can't like it or tolerate it then you need to leave him.
porn is about sex not making love.
and PORN does not put you down... YOU put yourself down and PORN does not make you fe... (read in full...)
My crushes always like my prettier friends
Q. I like a guy, who is a friend of mine. But, I think he likes one of my other friends. Neither of them knows I like him. I won't tell them. My friend is so much prettier than I am... she has great hair (I have thin, ugly hair), green eyes (I have ...
A. 16 December 2011: deep sigh....
some men like small boobs and brown eyes...
my grandmother used to say "there is a cover for every pot" she meant that I would find my match....
some men like tall women... I don't appeal to them. Some men like younger... (read in full...)
Let's just be friends....
Q. Hello lovely people :) I am having a little rant here, because I truely do not understand the thinking behind this statement "Let's just be friends". Say you have been on a number of dates over a month or longer, you feel things are goin...
A. 16 December 2011: "Let me translate for you:
"i want to sleep with you but not make a commitment because I'm NOT That into you"... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated with multiple girls
Q. Found out my boyfriend cheated on me with 5 girls from my area Including MY BEST FRIEND. His defence was " technically we're not in a relationship its more of a friends with benifets thing " He introduced me to his family as his girlfriend, birthday ...
A. 16 December 2011: if this is how he feels, there is nothing you can do.
I would also advise getting a new best friend.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my brother I'm dating a guy 5 years older than me?
Q. Hi everyone1 im 17 and dating a guy who is 22, he is my first bf and im crazy about him but here is the problem. i live with my brother and he dosen't know about it. He asked so many times if i was dating and i said no, i think if he finds out that ...
A. 16 December 2011: what is the legal age where you are?
here it is 18 and a 22 yr old can get in trouble for dating (i.e. being sexual)with a 17 yr old.
if you are close to or over legal age then you should tell him... the older you are the less age matters
... (read in full...)
Just for a night I want to feel like a priority, not an obligation
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year and recently I've been contemplating cheating. I knew with distance I wouldn't be the main focus for my boyfriend but I never expected that I'd feel like some days he'd be talking to me out ...
A. 15 December 2011: If he is working 14 hours a day I can promise that even if you were living in the same home you would not be a priority now. He needs to eat, sleep and unwind on top of work...
It sounds to me like you are just NOT cut out for LDRs. THEY are... (read in full...)
Monogamy: How do I get there with the guy I've been with for 2 months.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2 months now and I want to know when is it appropriate to ask if he wants to be exclusive at some point. Or at 34 years old - is it just assumed at some point? We are now spending two days/nights a week together. It s...
A. 15 December 2011: Congrats on being brave. Here's hoping his actions match his words!... (read in full...)
Self conscious about my eye, how do I deal with people who make fun of me for this?
Q. So first of all, im blind in 1 eye. I don't feel like going into detail about it but I can say ive have a lot problems that have come along with it. If I look even the slightest bit upwards my blind eye goes completely crosseyed and it has been very ...
A. 14 December 2011: I'm blind in my right eye. I was born this way. When I am stressed or tired the eye moves in towards my nose and crosses... I was born cross eyed but years of patching (full time so they made fun of me in school)helped that. It just never gave me ... (read in full...)
The guy I liked asked out my friend. Do I have the right to be angry at them?
Q. Because the guy I've been in love with for three months asked out one of my good friends (and they're together now), does that give me the right to be mad at them, and should I feel bad for wishing that they'd break up?...
A. 11 December 2011: You can FEEL whatever you want. Feelings are natural and normal no matter what they are... it's WHAT you do with those feelings that matter.
And what you need to do is nothing. He did not ask her out to hurt your feelings. It's NOT about yo... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or is his story plausible?
Q. Please bear with the long description :/ Any reply is much appreciated. I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a guy who looks great on paper. He's a doctor with a prominent position and good reputation in the community. We met online. ...
A. 11 December 2011: I"m sorry as a wife who had a man who LIED to me about anything involving the online ego stroking he needed I vote for a lying cheating man here....
even if he never actually does anything with these women and uses them to just stroke his EGO and ... (read in full...)
Monogamy: How do I get there with the guy I've been with for 2 months.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2 months now and I want to know when is it appropriate to ask if he wants to be exclusive at some point. Or at 34 years old - is it just assumed at some point? We are now spending two days/nights a week together. It s...
A. 10 December 2011: P I get that you want to know at two months if this man is worth your effort or not... BUT to withhold sex without a discussion about it before hand is game playing even if you see it as a test of his feelings.... TESTS in adult life set out by ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 9 December 2011: A couple of things
1. Lovegirl it's POSSIBLE that the FIRST HUSBAND is NOT an EX but is a DECEASED husband? (she did not refer to him as EX) so let's give her the benefit of the doubt there
2. I guess I'm too modern at 51 I actually started... (read in full...)
Monogamy: How do I get there with the guy I've been with for 2 months.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2 months now and I want to know when is it appropriate to ask if he wants to be exclusive at some point. Or at 34 years old - is it just assumed at some point? We are now spending two days/nights a week together. It s...
A. 9 December 2011: “he came over and I made it clear I wasn't going to have sex with him. (just to test his reaction)”
Oh OP, you are playing games… “just to test his reaction” that’s a nasty game to play….
AND you are checking on him…. You need to TALK to ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: He got in his car and drove to get you in a snow storm and let you drive the SAFER vehicle home and you think he missed the whole Chivalry thing?
Has this ever happened before? Have you told him how you feel? Did you expect him to read your min... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!
Q. My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is ...
A. 16 November 2011: I agree that she needs a medical work up to rule out depression or any other mental illness before moving forward with other suggestions.... (read in full...)
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