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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 31 January 2012: Well congrats on the engagement first of all.
IT appears from the first post that she was THINKING of going to the gym… but did not…. Is that what happened…s o you were worrying about something that had not even happened yet??? And now she’s ga... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 24 December 2011: with all respect to the last poster, I do not think that a person who can and does orgasm is asexual. ASEXUAL people do not desire sex... the OP does...
OP I may be guilty of an assumption here and if I was in my prior post I am sorry... if ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about problems because it reminds him of his ex
Q. Hi Aunts, I was talking to my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years about a problem I was having with my Dad. He said he didn't want to talk about it, and it took me a while to work out why. First I thought it was something I had done, but I managed to...
A. 24 December 2011: oh well then what you start the vent with is "honey I don't need or want you to fix this... it's a girl thing I just want to whine and rant about it and all you need to do is LISTEN to me... nod occasionally and maybe go uh-huh now and then"
Men... (read in full...)
My husband said he doesn't love me. Should I just move on?
Q. have trouble in communicating with my husband..he told me he doesn't love me..but there are some ways that i feel he's just not telling me what he really feels..there are some point that i still thinks that he has another woman..but he insisted in ...
A. 23 December 2011: DO you want to try to fix this? IF so you can ask him if he is willing to try to fix it and go to counseling.
IF you don't want to fix it or he does not want to try to fix it then yes you should move on as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
I don't think my b/f is attracted to me or anyone!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, we moved in with each other about 6 months ago. The problem is I just don't think he's attracted to me. I don't think he's attracted to anyone! He doesn't seem to take any interest in anything ...
A. 23 December 2011: He may just have a low sex drive. It’s not that uncommon. He is probably attracted to you and loves you but his desires and his way of expressing his feelings are different from yours. Is he affectionate? Does he work or just hang at home and ... (read in full...)
I've decided to break up with my Bf. Should I wait until a week or so into the new year and just have a peaceful x-mas?
Q. I have decided to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because I no longer feel right in the relationship. I made this decision finally yesterday after lots of thought over the past few weeks, so it's not a spur of the moment thing and I am not ...
A. 23 December 2011: I am with YOUWISH. I would wait till after the holidays to do this. Holiday break ups even if not Long term relationships stay with you forever....
BUT in addition, if the only reason you are ending it is vague dissatisfaction or minor issues o... (read in full...)
Pet names to call your boyfriend?
Q. Hey girls....what are some good cute pet names that you call your boyfriend? And also..what's a good birthday gift for a guy? ...
A. 23 December 2011: Honey Pet names are very very personal. I call my current partner Keeper. He calls me CRITTER which folks think is terrible.
My ex-husband’s fiancé calls him Goose... I don't see it but oh well..
I called my first husband snuggle bunnie..... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about problems because it reminds him of his ex
Q. Hi Aunts, I was talking to my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years about a problem I was having with my Dad. He said he didn't want to talk about it, and it took me a while to work out why. First I thought it was something I had done, but I managed to...
A. 23 December 2011: You are correct that you should be able to talk to your partner about anything. He is being unfair and childish. Have you told him how you feel?
... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 23 December 2011: MOST women do not orgasm from intercouse. like 70% DO NOT! I'm 51, I'm healthy I can orgasm from oral or manual but not from penetration no matter what... no matter who..
I feel him in me... and it's PLEASANT but it's not the be all to end a... (read in full...)
He wasn't like this before. What's behind him being less helpful and more domincating and egotistical?
Q. okay...hello everyone! my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and though things have not been all that normal, we have had very rough patches i have somehow survived till now. i feel he is a little dominating and egotistical....
A. 23 December 2011: If you are dating for just a year and things have been rough and abnormal from the beginning why do you stay?
If he is dominating and egotistical this will NOT change. IF he is not giving you what you need he is not a very good boyfrien... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I'm going to be left on the shelf!
Q. Hi, I am now the single one out of all my friends and I don't know what to do. I'm 31 attractive and have a good Job in recruitment. I'm living with friends in London and always had a good social life. However that's recently changed. Al...
A. 23 December 2011: my only question is your going to be 32 so what's wrong with a 25 year old if he wants a serious relationship?
when I was 32 my fiance was: NINETEEN!
after 25 or so age means NOTHING... don't discount the younger men...... (read in full...)
He's reserved. Though he really does love me. But, how I can get him to open up to me?
Q. I've been in a relationship with this guy for 9 months now. I got into the relationship knowing that he was very reserved and to himself. But I felt that if he spent more time with me and started feeling more comfortable, that he would open up. ...
A. 23 December 2011: You cannot love a person's POTENTIAL you have to love them where they are. IF they change and improve that is the bonus.
My guy can articulate all but love... and yet I know he loves me by how he acts.. we did get into counseling to learn to... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?
Q. It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...
A. 23 December 2011: Ok this is going to be a bit TMI but I swallow. I always have. I have NEVER tasted semen.
If you get the penis far enough into your mouth when the man ejaculates it goes PAST your tongue right down your throat and you then swallow it r... (read in full...)
I have a texting relationship with a guy and his mom passed away. What should I do?
Q. So, there is this guy that I used to text like 24/7. He would text me occasionaly over the next couple of months afterwards but not so much recently. Well anyway, his mom passed away a couple days ago and I need help as to what I should say to him. ...
A. 23 December 2011: Go with your dad. this is something best done face to face.
just tell your friend how sorry you are. and be available for him if he needs you.
don't be all up in his face unless he asks you to...some folks need to be surrounded by fr... (read in full...)
What are your weight advice tips for the new year?
Q. Basically, for my new years revolution i want to lose some weight. I am overweight not majorly but yeah i would like to lose abit of weight. I am just over 11 stone (72 lbs) i am a size 12 to 14 ( european sizes) i...
A. 23 December 2011: at 5'3" and 154 pounds losing a bit of weight is a good idea but remember that BMI does not work too well for us shorter girls...
do not base what is your ideal weight on an arbitrary number. If i weighed what the CHARTS said I should weigh, I... (read in full...)
How long can a relationship like this last?
Q. Okay so there this couple and both of them are cheaters. The girls boyfriend has ask me and everyother girl he knows if we wanted to mess around with him and of course I said no even though I don't like her . And today I found that she's having ...
A. 22 December 2011: why do you care?
what they need to do is either break up or open the relationship to others. Personally open relationships I know only work if both partners are very secure with themselves and the relationship they are in and they are on the s... (read in full...)
Is it usual for the boyfriend to say I Love You more? I was the first to say it and still say it the most...
Q. Me and my GF have been together for almost months and two weeks now. well to start i said I love you first. I don't know Y but I did. we had only been together like a week or two at the most. and she was very excited i said it and surprised I said ...
A. 22 December 2011: It was in my last relationship. Now I said it first and I say it more. I think it depends on the person. As for what’s going on with you, you’re settling down into a long term relationship where you want the person, you love them, care about them ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents that I really want to marry him?
Q. It has now been three years that I've been dating my boyfriend (the same one that my previous question was about; I'm very glad I didn't break up with him), and now I'm pretty sure I've found my future husband! :D Excitement! One problem. I have ...
A. 22 December 2011: READ what CindyCares posted again and again.. it makes great sense.
1. You are 20 he is a child of 18…. Are you in college? Is he? When are you planning this marriage? Next week? next month? Next year? All are TOO SOON.
2. You w... (read in full...)
He loves being with me but isn't in love with me. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I got pregnant within the first month of being with him. During the pregnancy things were going good between me and him. After the baby was born we started getting distant from each ...
A. 22 December 2011: Are you the same woman that posted about how to get this man to marry you?
He's putting conditions on being IN LOVE with you isn't he?
lose the weight and I'll find you attractive again... sorry that's BS espeically as you just had a baby ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to rethink marriage? He wants to be with me but just not ever wed.
Q. My boyfriend of a little over a year doesn't want to get married. We have a baby, and he said that he want's to spend forever with me, but he just doesn't want to get married. I have always dreamed of getting married, and it's something I want. Not ...
A. 22 December 2011: Sadly NOTHING you can say or do will make him marry you if he does not want to.... (read in full...)
When you reach a certain age and want kids would you "settle" for a reasonable partner but it lacks that certain 'spark'?
Q. A question for the ladies out there. When you reach a certain age and want kids do or would you "settle" for a reasonable partner that potentially would be a good father/provider but doesn't provide the excitement or spark or where there isn't quite ...
A. 22 December 2011: Having any relationship requires compromise. That’s the PC way to say settle.
If you want a long term fire, do you go for the quick flash and burn (passion) or do you try to build a slow deep fire that burns long and slow and hot undernea... (read in full...)
She wants a child and I want to make her happy, but I don't feel ready! What should I do?
Q. Hello dear cupid friends,i have a problem and need advice. Me and my wife will complete 5 years of marriage on july next year. There she'll be 29 years old, for this reason she wants a kid, it's her dream. I have 25 and will have 26 next year. The ...
A. 22 December 2011: if we always wait till things are perfect we never have children.
yes they are expensive
yes having a good job and a place to live and a good way to care for the child is important
but having EVERYTHING perfect is not going to EVER happen... (read in full...)
What does this dream about the boy I like mean?
Q. Okay i had this dream about a boy i like, i dont really know what that means, i would really like to know and ill tell you about the dream. i went to my family's house and there was an apartment by it so i went over there and i had family there, ...
A. 22 December 2011: It means nothing honey it was a dream... you like this boy and he's on your mind... kissing him is on your mind
your mind is just getting rid of the clutter....
enjoy the dream.
if you ever do get to kiss him it might be very different t... (read in full...)
The woman I'm interested in has just lost her husband, I know she is in mourning but I don't want to lose her to anyone else! How do I handle this situation?
Q. I fell in love with a woman at work but she was in a relationship and got married two years ago. Over the past 4 years I have not mentioned my feelings to her but it is fairly obvious that we are atracted to each other. 6 weeks ago her husband ...
A. 22 December 2011: I had to read your age SEVERAL times....
You have rendered me SPEECHLESS. She lost her husband THE LOVE OF HER LIFE tragically two years after marriage SIX WEEKS AGO. My father lost his wife 16 YEARS AGO AND he still mourns her. There is NO WA... (read in full...)
My husband's family don't respect my kitchen
Q. My husband had told me that some of his fathers friends were stopping by because they were driving up from Florida to Ny and they were stopping through. I had never met these people but it turned out they were actually staying at our house. No ...
A. 22 December 2011: Do these people leave a mess for you to clean up? Do they use ingredients you planned to use to make dinner? What is it that irks you so badly?
Before I can address HOW to handle this I need a better handle on WHY this is such a big deal for... (read in full...)
I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?
Q. I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...
A. 22 December 2011: Sounds like she is insanely unstable in terms of relationships and the new guy sounds about the same. It’s not his place to determine your relationship with her. That should be between you and her. Sadly for her she was probably going to be ... (read in full...)
Can't help thinking she's settling for me....
Q. I'm having real trouble working out if my gf is reAlly into me or not. We've being seeing each other for a year now but she seems to avoid sexual or intimate contact with me wherever possible. Usually she cites tiredness and has never said it's ...
A. 22 December 2011:
We are together just a year as well. I am 51 to his 38.
I prefer sex in the morning. My man at 1 am in the morning… I go to bed around 10 pm… do you see the problem here? It’s not that I’m not into him, it’s not that I don’t want him..... (read in full...)
Revenge cheating...will it help ?
Q. i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive ...
A. 22 December 2011: I hope this works for you. She's right what's past is past and if she is committed to you and your relationship, and YOU can move past it, then it CAN work....
People can make positive changes... I came from an open marriage (how I met my curre... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 22 December 2011: I would strongly caution as a short woman that BMI is not a great way to determine what we should weigh. IN addition if she has ALWAYS been heavy many bariatric surgeons (those that focus on helping obese people lose weight) do not want us to get ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend needs a rather large loan. What to do? Help!
Q. My 24 year old boyfriend took out a loan to get some repairs done on his car, without realizing that he would have to change his insurance to be eligible for the loan. Now he's paying double what he would pay for car insurance AND an extra $50 per ...
A. 22 December 2011: I'm going to advise you that the INCOME from the loan the month he gets it should stop his SSI btw... if they do a review and find the original loan he will OWE money to SSA.
a second loan will cause an additional overpayment.
you can draw ... (read in full...)
Is it important to have things in common when you date?
Q. Everyone I've dated, and people that have shown interest in me have never shared anything in common with me. Personality, hobbies, likes, interests etc... I was seeing someone for a little over a month and that ended because we had little i...
A. 22 December 2011: yes it's important. I mean how else do you meet? what else would you talk about?
The issue is what is the commonality.
because while my fiance likes his MMO computer game it bores me to tears but I listen to him talk about it...
OTOH... (read in full...)
FWB said I love you, then took it back?
Q. Today I was talking to my fwb when towards the end of the phone call he said "I love you". I immediately replied with "what" since it was such a shock and he repeated it. I said "no you don't" and said bye and hung up. A few minutes later he...
A. 21 December 2011: I agree, ending a phone call often includes "love you bye" for me... drives my fiance nuts when i say it to others.
... (read in full...)
Do you think she does these things because she likes me?
Q. ok here is my question... I just turned 19,and am quite gud lukin from face to body physique, overall quite attractive.........I just went to college 6 months before,there's girl n i like her(she prettie n sexy) but i hav no idea she likes me or no...
A. 21 December 2011: IF you asked her out and she said no... then she made it clear she's not interested in you as more than another student in the class...... (read in full...)
We're unofficially dating and he's flirting with another girl
Q. I'm dating this guy nothing is official yet but I recently found out he has been talking to another girl using the same pick up lines on her as he used on me and been flirty and offering to meet up. Am I making a big deal of this ? Also should I...
A. 21 December 2011: you're not official... he can do what he wants...flirt with who he wants..
if he wants to date more than one girl that's his choice as long as you guys are not a committed couple....
if you can't deal with him flirting with other girls and... (read in full...)
How do I help my wife find her next husband?
Q. I have decided my wife deserves a new husband. I cannot give what she feels will make her happy. She and I have discussed this subject at length and I am simply not the man for the "job". She does not know I have reached this conclusion but I ...
A. 21 December 2011: I saw this in a movie once Susan Sarandon was dying and she picked Julia Roberts to be the new STEPMOM...
If you want out you should leave but don't blame the "my wife needs a better husband" on the reason. That's a crock.
more than 50% of ... (read in full...)
Is sarcasm a bad trait?
Q. Is sarcasm a bad trait to have? Do guys not like sarcasm? Not bad sarcasm just a mild if-you-ask-a-stupid-?-I'll-give-a-sarcastic-answer kind of sarcasm. Im just wondering because thts a really big trait of mine .. :P...
A. 21 December 2011: depends on the person. I have a huge sarcasm gene... sometimes my current partner does not like it. OH well. ... (read in full...)
What does his status mean?
Q. my bf put up a status on fb for a few moments and went straight offfline again, and it worries me what he wrote.. "My fragile heart is been done so wroong... It seems like pain is been my only friend :'( " we're having no problems at the momen...
A. 21 December 2011: you should ask him........ (read in full...)
Why does this guy only text me after 11pm?
Q. Hello everyone, so there's this guy. I have had feelings for him in the past, but he's currently in a relationship. I really don't know my feelings for him right now. I've hung out with him recently, and I've noticed that (unless he wants to set up ...
A. 21 December 2011: he's busy with his GF till then and then he wants to see you... he's using you, lying to her and cheating on her...
if he leaves her for you, he will do the same to you
and at 11 pm young lady you should be in bed and getting sleep... you nee... (read in full...)
My son would be heartbroken to find out his coach has been cheating with my wife, his mother!
Q. Dear reader, For several years I have been suspicious of my wife cheating me. Recently some things have happened that truly made me believe she was cheating on me. So, I launched my own personal Investigation with the help of the Internet I picked ...
A. 21 December 2011: Why is this the coach’s fault? What good would transferring him do? You seem concerned about your son’s hero worship of this coach are you not concerned about your wife’s infidelity?
Besides, once you resolve your home issues, he's still sl... (read in full...)
Are we not suited for each other? Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years is annoying me. Iv been very supportive of his college and work. I asked him to do afew things around christmas now exams are over and he cant as hes to work. In the last few weeks his behaviour has been particularly annoying ...
A. 21 December 2011: IF you are unhappy with basic aspects of his personality and you can't accept them, then it's probably best to part ways now...
you cannot love a man's potential
you cannot love someone and expect to change them
if you do not love them where ... (read in full...)
I feel as if our lives are just wasting away!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now and we really have a great relationship with one another. :) It's just that he never really wants to go out and do anything. He says he just doesn't get much enjoyment out of anything ...
A. 21 December 2011: Clearly you two have different ideas of what’s fun. He likes to stay home and do “nothing” and you want to go out. I suggest that you find friends to go out with and do things with that make you happy so that when you do stay in with your ... (read in full...)
When I'm horny, I make very poor decisions!
Q. Alright so im just going to say this. When I am horny i make very poor decisions. This girl I dated for awhile turned out to be crazy. Like faking a pregnancy crazy...anyway I dont want anything to do with her but when Im in the mood I think of ...
A. 21 December 2011: I agree with bluecow... delete her information.
and when you get horny take care of yourself before you do anything stupid...... (read in full...)
My co-workers tell me this older guy is looking to settle down, and I don't know if continue whatever it is that we are because I'm not what he's looking for
Q. So I've been talking to my coworker for a good few weeks, not too long really. He's about 8 years older than me, and we talk constantly. we'll text eachother literally all day until almost 5am (not all nights). He'll always text me goodnight and all ...
A. 21 December 2011: I would wait to think about what HE wants until HE TELLS YOU. what OTHERS say is mere conjecture.
Can't see any harm in going out with him and getting to know him and see what develops. ... (read in full...)
Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights?
Q. Sometimes the mother wants an abortion and the father wants her to have the baby. Is an abortion ever morally wrong because it transgresses the father's rights? A Post in here made me think of this question. Would like to hear peoples opinions...
A. 21 December 2011: TOUGH topic. I am very pro-choice and yet I don't feel that the FATHER'S choice should carry as MUCH weight as the MOTHER'S choice.
I think that a man has a right to know that he's going to be a father.... but if it is NOT a long term rel... (read in full...)
Do you think she does these things because she likes me?
Q. ok here is my question... I just turned 19,and am quite gud lukin from face to body physique, overall quite attractive.........I just went to college 6 months before,there's girl n i like her(she prettie n sexy) but i hav no idea she likes me or no...
A. 21 December 2011: sounds like she likes you... why not ask her to go for coffee with you after class?... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 20 December 2011: there are no exercises that will keep or destroy breast tissue. Fat will be lost but breast tissue will remain. The only thing she can do is keep her pec muscles strong....
skin at her age will probably rebound nicely...she needs to eat well... (read in full...)
Revenge cheating...will it help ?
Q. i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive ...
A. 20 December 2011:
I don’t think that forgetting is right but forgiveness for a ONE TIME mistake that happened in the past often is a good start for healing. Revenge Cheating is NOT a good idea…..
I am not sure WHEN you found out…. If this happened 5 m... (read in full...)
I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?
Q. I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...
A. 30 November 2011: I hit my boyfriend ONCE and felt horrible about it. THERE IS NO EXCUSE for violence. I told him I will NEVER raise my hand to him in anger again and I have not and will not.
Abuse is abuse and I hate that women get a free pass so often when the... (read in full...)
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