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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Is it over?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space ...
A. 27 December 2011: STOP trying to have a relationship via TEXT Messages.
plain and simple.. make a phone call.. ask her out
don't send texts that are songs... again TEXTS are for IMPORTANT time sensitive things.. "train is 15 minutes late" NOT to make a pe... (read in full...)
I wish I was beautiful and that guys gave me attention, but sadly I'm not like that
Q. I'm ugly, and that means guys pass me by, ignore me, don't approach me, or when they do it's obviously a momentary thing just 'cause they're desperate for sex (believe me, I can tell, I've learned to tell!). My friends are really pretty, and they ...
A. 27 December 2011: If the good looking guys and the ugly guys laugh at you and turn you down and you say all you want is to be flirted with and treated like they are going to get laid by you (which is all they are doing when they buy drinks for a pretty girl is hoping ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.
Q. Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...
A. 27 December 2011: you should sleep with him when you feel ready not before. there is nothing wrong with taking it slow.... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's lazy, unhygienic, has cockroaches on his bed,wants to get married and live in a trailer park..I'm done with him! Is it bad if I break up with him through text?
Q. Hey. I have an issue. I've been dating my bf for a year, and I want out. The problem is, he doesn't know I feel this way... Yet. I told my friends that I wanted to break up with him and when they all got drunk at a party, they told my bf's best ...
A. 27 December 2011: Break up face to face but do it in a quiet PUBLIC location... cuts down on the drama. "hey can we meet at Starbucks for a coffee" and then quietly outline the issue. ... (read in full...)
What lessons can I learn from this? My Boyfriend left without any warning after almost 1.5 years
Q. I’ve read a lot of wisdom on this site so I thought I’d seek some guidance and advice from you wonderful people. My BF of 1.5 years left me without any warning a month ago. I came home and all of his stuff was gone and only a note left saying...
A. 27 December 2011: Until folks accept that it's HARD WORK to make a relationship work, these sort of things will happen. I"m with a partner now that asked me to go to counseling early on in our relationship (before we were together a year)... not because of funda... (read in full...)
After 9 years he still doesn't know if he wants to start a family with me
Q. Should I break up with my boyfriend of 9 years? I have been dating this man for 9 years, we have had our ups an downs, but i have never felt so lost. There are a lot traits about him I love and Hate. But my biggest issue is he won't talk about ma...
A. 27 December 2011: I have learned that men do what they want fairly quickly... if he wanted to be married and have children after 9 years you would be doing it already. I hope the night of thinking and peace brings you answers.... (read in full...)
My Bf doesn't want me to wear revealing clothes in public
Q. i was on my facebook and my boyfriend and me were messaging. we just turn 1month together~! (: and well im going to see him today but i told him im going to be wearing my favorite black skinny jeans with my tight pink shirt. (have to admit the shirt ...
A. 27 December 2011: be yourself... dress to please yourself... if he does not like it, he can either get over it and accept it or he can leave. AND honey if he leaves he was not meant to be your bf because you would never be able to be yourself....
I have the oppo... (read in full...)
How do I hide that I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. I am deeply in love with a boy.one day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i ...
A. 27 December 2011: You don't have to DO anything. NOR do you have to volunteer the information. I would not LIE if asked forthright "are you a virgin" but to be honest it is NO ONE's business but your spouse/partner. Many hymens are broken on virgins before... (read in full...)
Everytime I tru to end the relationship, he tells me "I don't know what may happen in the future."
Q. My boyfriend of 14 months lives with his girlfriend of 4yrs... Everytime I try to end the relationship he tells me i don't know what may happen in the future. What should i do?...
A. 27 December 2011: Say "I do and it involves me getting my life back" and LEAVE. he's manipulating you... he has a girlfriend... and he's NOT leaving her for you... accept that. leave him. do not let him cry or whine or make promises. IF you really want ... (read in full...)
Can I operate to become a virgin again?
Q. Can i have my virginity back by doing an operation?...
A. 27 December 2011: you can have the hymen returned... but why you would want to I don't know... I never actually remember losing mine I am sure i lost it at a very young age from climbing trees, cartwheels, splits and horseback riding... but like all but a few... (read in full...)
He can't have loved me like I thought! Is he a loser?
Q. Me an my x broke up 3 months ago. I have never heard off him since. I did cheat on him, but i was drunk and it meant nothing. He changed his number. He cannot love me like i thought because he would have wanted to sort our problems out. Is it time ...
A. 27 December 2011: Your X broke up with you because you CHEATED. Being DRUNK is no excuse for bad behavior. You will NOT do things against your moral compass even when drunk. So morally you felt that cheating on the man you loved (or thought/said you loved) was ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.
Q. Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...
A. 26 December 2011: Well the gap can work but what you want at 19 is not what you want at 30... that being said.. my fiance is 38. I'm nearly 52. It can work. ... (read in full...)
Verbally abusive boyfriend keeps saying that I'm dumb and good for nothing
Q. Dear Cupid My bf used to abuse me verbally once in a while before and now he started doing it almost every day. He says its getting difficult to even hold a conversation without getting angry with me, nowadays. He often says i dont know anythi...
A. 26 December 2011: My first husband was an emotional abuser. I left him. Emotional abuse is WORSE in my opinion than physical abuse. we can't SEE the bruises. we can't see the abuse... we feel it but we learn to discount it as they (the abuser) continue to beat us ... (read in full...)
I wish I was beautiful and that guys gave me attention, but sadly I'm not like that
Q. I'm ugly, and that means guys pass me by, ignore me, don't approach me, or when they do it's obviously a momentary thing just 'cause they're desperate for sex (believe me, I can tell, I've learned to tell!). My friends are really pretty, and they ...
A. 26 December 2011: I'm going to bet you are not ugly. I am going to bet you BELIEVE you are ugly and sadly that is WORSE.
I know a woman who as a teenage was not all that attractive, thin hair, big nose, tiny breasts... she just was awkward... and had not grow... (read in full...)
Was my disappointed reaction to be expected? He visited a lap dance place after his work Christmas party
Q. Hi everyone and merry christmas. so i wanted to ask some advice and opinions off of you. so i met this guy online 3 months ago and we have totally hit it off and we have chatted loads and got on really well and plan to meet up in a couple of w...
A. 25 December 2011: you are feeling jealous and insecure.... is it normal?
probably if you like the man more than the amount of contact you have had.
you know in your brain it's not right for you to be upset and yet your gut and heart bother you that he DARED to... (read in full...)
I want to wear my bikini, but my Bf gets teary and upset at me doing this. Is he over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend gets all teary and upset when I express interest in wearing a bikini. He hates the idea of someone looking at me but I'm proud of my body and sometimes I just want to show it (most of the time however I like adequate coverage...) Is ...
A. 25 December 2011: What Caring Guy said... it's an over the top reaction and it is either that he's not secure enough to be a healthy partner or he's being controlling and manipulating with his behavior in which case he's again not a healthy partner.... (read in full...)
He's on a 'am I hot or not' site and it's really hurt me..
Q. I have asked and been given some really good advice from this site before so I am hoping again you can help me. I have been with my partner over 2 years, this year we have had a bit of a rough patch, but things have been great recently,or so I ...
A. 25 December 2011: Duck is right... he's trying to make this YOUR fault but he wants out....... (read in full...)
How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?
Q. Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i ...
A. 25 December 2011: i never use them at all... texts are not a way to have a relationship. texts are to convey quick important information "leaving now home in 15" is the kind of text i send...... (read in full...)
Should I meet some one I don't want to meet just to please my boyfriend?
Q. I dont really know how do put this but here goes. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we have a pretty solid relaionship we get on so well and we always have a laugh and joke. but recently (as in the last week) I have bee...
A. 24 December 2011: two things:
1. i want to know my fiance's friends. after nearly a year of dating you don't know his best friend.....unless you have been the one to prevent the meeting, i'd see this as a red flag that he has not wanted to introduce you
and the... (read in full...)
I've only met him 3 times. Is accepting his invitation to a party potentially dangerous?
Q. I've been invited to a house party on New Year's Eve, and i'm not sure whether to go or not. I recently met this guy. We have met up in public three times so far ( including the night we first met each other ). And now he wants me to go to the ...
A. 24 December 2011: you've met him 3 times in public...
if you have his full name, date of birth, address and phone number and the location of where this party is... and you are just being a worry-wart then do this:
MEET Him at the party
make sure he knows that y... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 24 December 2011: with all respect to the last poster, I do not think that a person who can and does orgasm is asexual. ASEXUAL people do not desire sex... the OP does...
OP I may be guilty of an assumption here and if I was in my prior post I am sorry... if ... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 24 December 2011: ah yes but hugging a friend means hips don't touch so who would know...
I mean i never hug male friends with more than a lean your shoulders in kind of hug... full body hugs are reserved for my partner.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 4 years started being a prostitute.
Q. i found out my girlfriend started hooking she says she only been doing it for a month.she is a heroin addict that recently was taken off methadone. she says she is only giving blowjobs i know different.she said she started doing this because i am ...
A. 24 December 2011: Sweetie, being involved with an active addict is painful and if you can get out you should...
SHE SAYS is not the same as SHE SHOWS...saying I love you does not mean they do... they have to show you... with deeds and actions... one of which is... (read in full...)
How are some women out there able to cope with these sort of self-centered, self-serving and extremely selfish men?!
Q. Dear Aunts, I want to believe I'm an emotional person and like lots of love and attention. I have been married 5 years and its like my husband has stopped kissing me altogether. The last time was about 8 months back, when I initiated it and before ...
A. 24 December 2011: My partner does not believe in much foreplay but it works for for us in that he does believe in lots of kisses and cuddles whenever we are together this includes on the couch watching tv or sleeping in bed.
you have sex a lot but you are not inti... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?
Q. just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...
A. 24 December 2011: IF you have to ask then deep down inside you know the answer.
and Jonas has a good point...
and doing it by accident... well yeah that might happen once in a while... but if she's like me, then when you leave she can fix it on her own no probl... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about problems because it reminds him of his ex
Q. Hi Aunts, I was talking to my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years about a problem I was having with my Dad. He said he didn't want to talk about it, and it took me a while to work out why. First I thought it was something I had done, but I managed to...
A. 24 December 2011: oh well then what you start the vent with is "honey I don't need or want you to fix this... it's a girl thing I just want to whine and rant about it and all you need to do is LISTEN to me... nod occasionally and maybe go uh-huh now and then"
Men... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 23 December 2011: ROFL.. my ADHD made me forget that conversation... sorry!
I guess I'm very clear about my flirting and if someone thinks I am hitting on them, they are making it up in their head.... ... (read in full...)
I suspect she's dating someone else
Q. Hello people! Recently I started talking a lot with this girl I met through one of my friends. We have been together a lot and we hung out 2-3 times a week. I told her that I was interested in dating her because I liked her and would like to fi...
A. 23 December 2011: she's not that into you....
you should consider her a friend nothing more...
... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 23 December 2011: to IamheiAmHereToHelpYou:
see that's where you are missing the point... flirting is NOT sexual. if it's harmless and friendly even with babies it's FLIRTING
if it's sexual it's HITTING ON THEM...
for me when I "flirt" with my fiance i... (read in full...)
Why snog me if he likes a different girl?
Q. Hello :) Right its quite complicated but here goes. :L I have a friend whos a boy called ant and we have been friends for a while now and get on really well. Hes in the same class as me so we are always together and recently i have started to like ...
A. 23 December 2011: I'm American and I actually wasn't sure till the end was Snog was.. I thought it meant sex and my response was still the same then.. BECAUSE HE COULD.
remember this slightly tongue in cheek saying:
women need a REASON to have sex MEN just nee... (read in full...)
Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?
Q. Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...
A. 23 December 2011: what happens if 3 years after you get married he starts going out without you... and being secretive? will you trust him then that he's not having an affair?
if you think you can, then use that to help you make your decision.
I know that I... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 23 December 2011: I don't find it disgusting as long as he does not grind his erection into me...... (read in full...)
My b/f's ex calls every month to remind his to pay his support and its stressing us out!
Q. My boyfriend pays his child maintenance on the first of every month and he has never defaulted, pays the full amount plus extras, but the ex phones him first thing in the morning every single first day of the month, every month without fail to tell ...
A. 23 December 2011: oh I Love Cerberus's idea of turning it around and pre-empting her with a phone call BEFORE she calls to say "check's in the mail" kind of thing.
... (read in full...)
He contacts me to cheat on his girlfriend (while he's drunk) and when I ask for an explanation, he won't give one!
Q. Okay.. So i had a thing with this boy, a while ago, but it ended. Now everytime he has a girlfriend or things end with his latest one he contacts me again, and its hard cause i still have feelings for him. Anyway he recently contacted me (drunk) ...
A. 23 December 2011: he was thinking with the wrong head...... (read in full...)
Am I a sex addict?
Q. Hi! I´m a 16 year old girl (and Im going to make 17 years next month, january) and lately I have been wondering why do i think at every second about sex. At the beginning, when i started to noticed it I thought that thinking about sex all the time...
A. 23 December 2011: Thinking about sex all the time is normal when you are a teen…
I would be happy to BET MONEY that when you finally DO have sex you will be SADLY disappointed.
How can you say “I love sex” when you have no clue what it is going to do for ... (read in full...)
I'm not over him and I don't know what to do
Q. Ughh, I feel like I'm asking questions all the time now! Sorry. Anyway. A couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up ya know, and well, I kind of miss him. People keep saying no commitment, just have fun and date, which is all fine and dandy I ...
A. 23 December 2011: it takes time to get over an ex especially at the holidays.
he's moved on and you need to as well.
my BFF and i have always had the 6 week rule... you get to mourn and be self indulgent for 6 weeks.... (read in full...)
My younger brother has NO concept of money!
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I really need your help. I'm here because I'm completely out of ideas regarding my younger brother and his spending habits. His last text to me ("I spent $200 on dinner last night") was the final straw. He is 21 and still in ...
A. 23 December 2011: You need to tell your mother that her issues with HER SON are just that… HER issues not yours. Yes she is unhappy and venting but it’s not right to complain about one child to another.... (read in full...)
Is it over?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space ...
A. 23 December 2011: I like what Tisha said.
It's almost like you are trying to MAKE this fail..
... (read in full...)
How do I give my experienced boyfriend a blowjob?
Q. ok i really want to impress my boyfriend my giving him a bj but i don't know how because i've never done it. His Ex girlfriend gave him a bj but he stoped her because he said it didn't feel right and her teeth hurt. so please help guys, i din't ...
A. 23 December 2011: it's all about wet and hot and no teeth... some sucking lots of up and down movement... use your hands at the base
curl your lips around your teeth a bit and form an O with your mouth just WATCH the teeth... and tell him to tell you what feels go... (read in full...)
Now that I'm pregnant I'm worried my b/f doesn't find me attractive
Q. I have been with my fiance for 5 years he is 39 and I am 26 I love him so much. I am 13 weeks pregnant and I am kind of scared that I am less attractive he keeps "holding" my large stomach and it makes me feel...yuk. Also his ex wife is not letting ...
A. 23 December 2011: he holds your stomach because he loves you and your baby... he's holding the baby... I thought my guy was grabing my hips to show me how fat I was but it was because he LIKES the handles... weird I know...
was the visitation with your future s... (read in full...)
My b/f's ex calls every month to remind his to pay his support and its stressing us out!
Q. My boyfriend pays his child maintenance on the first of every month and he has never defaulted, pays the full amount plus extras, but the ex phones him first thing in the morning every single first day of the month, every month without fail to tell ...
A. 23 December 2011: Don't take the call. or if that will cause her to escalate her behavior (and it might the first few months) then since he knows it's coming it should become a joke to the two of you...
January 1, 8 am the phone rings.. it's the ex on the call... (read in full...)
My husband said he doesn't love me. Should I just move on?
Q. have trouble in communicating with my husband..he told me he doesn't love me..but there are some ways that i feel he's just not telling me what he really feels..there are some point that i still thinks that he has another woman..but he insisted in ...
A. 23 December 2011: DO you want to try to fix this? IF so you can ask him if he is willing to try to fix it and go to counseling.
IF you don't want to fix it or he does not want to try to fix it then yes you should move on as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about problems because it reminds him of his ex
Q. Hi Aunts, I was talking to my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years about a problem I was having with my Dad. He said he didn't want to talk about it, and it took me a while to work out why. First I thought it was something I had done, but I managed to...
A. 23 December 2011: You are correct that you should be able to talk to your partner about anything. He is being unfair and childish. Have you told him how you feel?
... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 23 December 2011: MOST women do not orgasm from intercouse. like 70% DO NOT! I'm 51, I'm healthy I can orgasm from oral or manual but not from penetration no matter what... no matter who..
I feel him in me... and it's PLEASANT but it's not the be all to end a... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 18 October 2011: Flirting that is intended to get someone's sexual attention is very much sexual. And when done to a taken person is rude.
FLIRTING as I am talking about it, is
a. NOT sexual
b. NOT to be hidden from a person's partner
c. NOT contrive... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 7 October 2011: Thank you for your very detailed response.
I clearly see your point of view and while I disagree with it I respect it enough to think that maybe i should not talk to anyone anymore but my boyfriend.
Seriously. How in the world can I NOT flirt.... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 7 October 2011: Thank you for your very detailed response.
I clearly see your point of view and while I disagree with it I respect it enough to think that maybe i should not talk to anyone anymore but my boyfriend.
Seriously. How in the world can I NOT flirt.... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 6 October 2011: Dear Anonymous poster,
At first I thought you were male but now I am not so sure. Hard to tailor my response to anonymous folks without a gender so I'll be generic..
You said: "I hate it when people flirt with me, it makes me feel horrible ab... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 5 October 2011: Oh Chigirl you are so right what this girl is doing is NOT harmless and to me it's not even FLIRTING.. it's blatant exploitation of her sexuality to gain attention to stroke her ego.
See this is interesting to me... I would NOT classify what you... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 5 October 2011: "Tickling, sitting on their laps, splashing them in the pool, and flirting up a storm.
Oh dear... that's beyond what I'm talking about... seriously. I would never TOUCH a person I flirt with. Body contact is NOT flirting.
Sounds to m... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 2 October 2011: Exactly Cindy. A natural flirt flirts because THEY CAN... it's not to gain anything (i.e. sex) it's flirting for the sake of flirting.. it's FUN.... and yes, those are the young guys that flirt with the old ladies at the nursing home, etc...... (read in full...)
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
Q. Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
A. 1 October 2011: See I disagree with it to be honest. If someone thinks that I flirt just to hook up they would be wrong.
Flirting is not about LOVE.... it's about fun and humor... yes occasionally it's about hooking up but to me that's not true flirting... (read in full...)
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