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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 9 May 2012: Congrats to you for entering a new stage. Thanks for the update...... (read in full...)
I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 15 January 2012: DO NOT GIVE HIM YOUR SOCIAL!
do not make any legal commitments with him.
honey he's not worth the air he breathes.... (read in full...)
I didn't mean to, but now I'm stuck faking orgasms for my boyfriend!
Q. The first time me and my boyfriend did anything sexual, which was just fingering, I faked it. I dont know why, but I could tell he was getting tired, and frustrated, because i've never actually orgasmed before, and although it felt really good, I ...
A. 12 January 2012: simple you try it...
ya never know... but in order to figure it out you have to figure out your own body first.... (read in full...)
We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her
Q. I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...
A. 4 January 2012: and you know she's with him how?
Let me tell you that men fall in love when they miss a woman. women fall in love when they are with a man....... (read in full...)
We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her
Q. I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...
A. 4 January 2012: Well then it sounds to me like maybe she’s not “returning to the Cali. Boyfriend but rather to school….
LDRS due to school CAN work sometimes…
Maybe you need to talk to her about it?
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend constantly think I'm cheating when I'm not!
Q. I need desprate help I love my girlfriend to bits but she is always thinking I am cheating on her when I am not She constantly thinks she hears and sees proof when I am not doing anything For example I'm on the phone with her all day everyda...
A. 4 January 2012: Sadly this is not anything you can fix. Her insecurity is causing this problem.
I personally know my man looks at other women.. but as he's said "he comes home to me" and that's fine.
I think that you need to tell her point blank that she n... (read in full...)
Why does my vulva itch?
Q. My vagina, and entire vulva, is quite itchy at the moment. I had a bit of pain while touching myself since about five days ago, but that was only when I went near it. I didn't think much of it seeing as I didn't touch myself very much and it caused ...
A. 4 January 2012: It could be yeast. With a first time infection like this a medical exam is a good idea....
once you learn what the symptoms of yeast/thrush are, you may be able to treat it over the counter depending on if the medication is available where yo... (read in full...)
I really need help in losing weight! My dr. only gave me diet pills that didn't help
Q. ok so im not sure how to word this delicately so im just going to blur it all out. im fat. morbidly obese to be precise. when i hear it i feel physically sick at myself. but why is this not enough to stop me from binge eating? i always have been ...
A. 4 January 2012: more thoughts on this...
remember that whatever changes you make have to be PERMANENT.... it's a lifestyle change...
so make your changes small and managable.
writing down everything you eat and drink is a good thing and it has helped m... (read in full...)
We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her
Q. I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...
A. 4 January 2012: So did she TELL YOU when she left “I’m done with you and returning to my Cali. Boyfriend” or are you making the assumption that it’s over?
Have you contacted her?
... (read in full...)
I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 4 January 2012: Six months after you asked you are still at it with him… it’s so hard to do what we know is right isn’t it?
I get it. I do. My heart aches for you that you are so torn and think so little of yourself that you feel you are worth this lousy be... (read in full...)
How can I ease the pain I get when having sex with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are a LDR and so whenever we see each other we are always quite physical. However he is quite big and it took me a few times to get used to his size. After we've had sex a about two or three times over a period of a few days I ...
A. 4 January 2012: Every time you have intercourse it causes the vaginal walls to swell... if they don't go down to "normal" before the next time, they will swell on swell.... see what is happening?
... (read in full...)
I really need help in losing weight! My dr. only gave me diet pills that didn't help
Q. ok so im not sure how to word this delicately so im just going to blur it all out. im fat. morbidly obese to be precise. when i hear it i feel physically sick at myself. but why is this not enough to stop me from binge eating? i always have been ...
A. 3 January 2012: I was morbidly obese. I tried diet after diet... I finally 2.5 years ago had gastric bypass... now I still struggle... I have to watch what I eat and exericse but it's much easier now....
if you binge eat the first thing you need to do is addre... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?
Q. so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and w...
A. 3 January 2012: For what it's worth... I wear anything from a size 4 skirt to a size 10 jean... it depends on how something is cut....
I average size 6 so that's what I say
but I was a size 26/28 at one point.....
... (read in full...)
I like her personality but am not attracted to her. She wants sex and I'm just confused!
Q. ok im in a massive mess. i started talking to this 16 year old going on 17 online a few days ago. we got on straight away and instantly clicked. we organised to meet one day this week. we spoke about sex and i told her that im a virgin. she was ...
A. 3 January 2012: you must tell her the truth that you don't find her attractive that way... it will hurt her but it's better for you
also if she already said she thinks she's falling in love after one visit... be careful... sounds like she has no clue what it'... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriends jealousy going overboard? Or is it ok?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend were at my house in my room just listening to music. and than His friend comes over and jumps on my bed next to me. i just rolled my eyes and said what do i own this great honor to? he gave me a smirk and said you can be ...
A. 3 January 2012: Normally I think jealousy is overboard... in this case it's not jealousy.
he's defending your honor...
Block this "friend" of his do not let him facebook you or phone you or text you...
do not respond at all
IGNORE this so called friend.... (read in full...)
How can I ease the pain I get when having sex with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are a LDR and so whenever we see each other we are always quite physical. However he is quite big and it took me a few times to get used to his size. After we've had sex a about two or three times over a period of a few days I ...
A. 3 January 2012: you may need to find other ways to express your love for each other using other methods of intimacy other than just penetration...
are you doing a lot of foreplay?
are you trying different positions?
if you are tensing up now that you ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to not worry about what my parents think of my partner, I think he could be the one. How do I just live my life for me and not worry?
Q. Hi, I'm extremely upset at the moment and would be ever so grateful for your advice. I'm in my mid-thirties and met a very loving, warm man who is 2 years older than me, about 2 months ago. Having been single for a while and not having had much luc...
A. 3 January 2012: Make your own choices.
your parents really at this point have no say in who you live and love with.
I just took my FOURTH fiance to meet my dad... not for his blessing or his approval but because I had to get it out of the way before we married..... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to think I am crazy
Q. Okay well me and boyfriend got into a bit of a fight. He said i don't have time for him and i didn't want to tell him why i don't! i go to counselling and i have to focus on school but i'm scared to tell him about the counselling because maybe he ...
A. 3 January 2012: Tell him. he has a right to know you are getting healthy.
To me the only people that are crazy are the ones that don't go for help when they need it.... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't breathe in this unhealthy co-dependent relationship!
Q. im in a relationship with a really wonderful loving caring man. it will be 2 years in Feb. BUT i feel like a child in this relationship. I cant put my finger on what is bugging me but i just feel like not myself with him. I moved in with him in June ...
A. 3 January 2012: I am NOT seeing co-dependency in your description of this relationship. how does he try to keep you dependent on him? how does he try to keep you ill and needy so that you stay with him? again how are the two of you co-dependent?
I sense a ... (read in full...)
If I'm more attracted to girls but still like guys, am I bi?
Q. I have always been attracted to, fancied and gone out with boys but i find some girls attractive and it is getting more frequent that i am finding girls attractive. Also if i see a girl and a guy naked i prefer the look of the girl. Am i Bi? ...
A. 3 January 2012: I date and have relationships with men. I consider myself bi because i'm open to sexual relationships with women or men... and enjoy both....
just because you find women attractive does not make you bi
nor does being bi mean you have to be 1... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of her boyfriend!
Q. I know its selfish, and ignorant... I have no troubles with women, and i have ran in to the problem. Well, she is cute, funny, and has what this guy wants. the problem? Her boyfriend... She has told someone she likes me, and she almost came to a ...
A. 3 January 2012: There is NOTHING you can do to get rid of her boyfriend till she is ready to do so she won't do it.
the question then becomes if he thinks all is well and good and then she dumps him... are you going to trust this person to not do the same to ... (read in full...)
Are we moving quickly and acting out of lonliness?
Q. I just met someone two weeks ago and things have moved quickly for us. This is NOT a pattern for me. But Ive been single for a bit (him too) so Im worried maybe we are both just acting out of lonliness? HOWEVER, I do feel VERY comfortable with him...
A. 3 January 2012: why not just go with the flow and enjoy it and not worry till you need to?... (read in full...)
My stomach makes noises in class, how do I stop feeling awkward?
Q. When I'm in a quiet classroom I tend to think and worry about my stomach making funny noises around other people. It makes loud noises that people think are funny because it sounds like I'm passing gas or have to use the bathroom. I'm the cause of ...
A. 3 January 2012: take Beano every morning it works on all gas
and carry Gas-X for when you feel it build up they make strips you dont' need water to take
and stop thinking you are the center of everyone's universe...you are the center of YOUR universe only..... (read in full...)
My much older ex won't let me move on.
Q. my ex kicked me out of our home in may. he then used me once a week for 4 months until I told him I wanted more commitment - his response was that he was happy how things were going between us and didn't want anyone but me but if I want to rush ...
A. 3 January 2012: he used you once a week for 4 months because YOU allowed it. Personally every story has two sides...
you say he kicked you out of your home... does HE own it and allowed you to live there?
I realize it's a drastic move but can you be trans... (read in full...)
My wife's friend is marrying my wife's 1st boyfriend and we don't want to go to the wedding, should we?
Q. We need advice. My wife has this good girlfriend that she's known for a few years. We're married 4 years now and everything is great. This girlfriend hasn't been a big part of our life because of who she's dating (and now marrying). This girlfrien...
A. 3 January 2012: the past is the past...
I think you should let it go and be adult enough to celebrate the happiness of her friend.
Heck my current fiance and I game with my soon to be ex husband and his fiance.... the past is the past..
... (read in full...)
I didn't mean to, but now I'm stuck faking orgasms for my boyfriend!
Q. The first time me and my boyfriend did anything sexual, which was just fingering, I faked it. I dont know why, but I could tell he was getting tired, and frustrated, because i've never actually orgasmed before, and although it felt really good, I ...
A. 3 January 2012: I also vote for not lying but you can't tell him you lied...
My man cannot bring me to orgasm no matter what he does.
in all my years with a partner there was only one who could and that was through oral... other than that.. nope.. not going... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?
Q. so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and w...
A. 3 January 2012: Size 12 american is QUITE LARGE? umm no.
14 is average....
12 is not QUITE LARGE.......
granted 12 is not a tiny petite fragile looking thing... but she's not Cass Elliot either...
doesn't matter... my advice is the same... y... (read in full...)
He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...
A. 3 January 2012: He respects every word you say? What do you think will happen if you ask him to have NO CONTACT with her? IF you are bothered by it and YOU don’t tell him, then yes anything that goes wrong is your fault for not sharing your feelings…
How c... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?
Q. so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and w...
A. 2 January 2012: You can not love a person's potential. you have to love them where they are and if they improve it's icing on the cake.
... (read in full...)
After everything that has happened, I'm sad for days on end, but don't want to get medicated!
Q. Hiya, I'm 31 and married with 2 children an 8year old and one about to turn 1. I would consider myself a happy go lucky person that takes everything in my stride normally. recently I have found everyday things harder and herder to cope with, and I ...
A. 2 January 2012: If you needed insulin or glasses would you deny yourself those things?
You have had a horrifically difficult year and need a bit of help.
Your situation led to depression. The depression feeds on itself and creates a neuro bio CHEMICAL imbalan... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a girl who isn't a Christian?
Q. Dear Cupids, I am a very strong Believer and follower of Jesus Christ (in other words, I'm a Christian) and I think I'm in love with a girl that isn't Christian. Is this alright? Should I go for this girl and ask her out? Sincerely, ...
A. 2 January 2012: as long as you can accept her religious beliefs as hers and respect them I see no problem with it...... (read in full...)
Pregnant to my married ex lover!
Q. Hi I had been having an affair with a married man for nearly two years when it came to an abrupt end 6 weeks ago when his wife caught him on the phone to me. We have not spoken since however we did work at the same company and he got me dismissed...
A. 2 January 2012: I agree you will need to have a Paternity test done after the baby is born and get court ordered child support...
... (read in full...)
Am I nuts, or is it wrong of my ex wife to make me a babysitter so she can get laid in her own bed?
Q. I am worried (I guess that is the best word) that my ex-wife is shirking some of her responsibilities as primary custodian of my son. She is a great Mom, but I have been asked a few times lately to take my son and keep him out to a specific time. ...
A. 2 January 2012: Ya know the KID is FIFTEEN.. I was babysitting other peoples children at that age... he does not NEED a babysitter... she is trying to shield him from another adult in his life that may be leaving... UNTIL she knows that this man is a permanent p... (read in full...)
How can she say she loves me when she treats me like I am nothing?
Q. She clamins to love me..but yet she has no time for me. We are still early on in the relationship.. 3 months.. shouldnt we still be all over each other? For the past month its just been me barely getting by.. ive lost my cool once or twice because ...
A. 2 January 2012: Good for you! Happy New Year! You did the right thing for you. I hope she remains gone and this is an easy break up.... (read in full...)
How can she say she loves me when she treats me like I am nothing?
Q. She clamins to love me..but yet she has no time for me. We are still early on in the relationship.. 3 months.. shouldnt we still be all over each other? For the past month its just been me barely getting by.. ive lost my cool once or twice because ...
A. 1 January 2012: She just doesn't want to be alone... so she hangs on to you.
Stop rowing the relationship boat.. don't call her... don't make plans...let her initiate things...
you are one hundred percent correct that actions speak louder than words and what s... (read in full...)
Why do guys grab a girl's waist?
Q. What does it mean when a guy keeps grabbing your waist? Like they will sit there and squeeze your waist? I know it sounds weird, but this guy kept doing it and I couldn't understand why or what he was doing it for, this isn't the first, time quite a ...
A. 1 January 2012: I agree with both The Realist and chigirl...
it's one of my fiance's favorite place's to grab on me.... (read in full...)
Do all guys taste bitter?
Q. I had swallowed my guy friends orgasm the other day. That was my first experience of swallowing a guys cum. I was very shocked as it was tasting bitter. I had to eat an orange to feel comfortable. Do all guys have bitter orgasm and why ??...
A. 1 January 2012: depends on what he's eating... pineapple is said to make it sweeter..
trick is to make cure when he cums he's far enough in your mouth that it bypasses your tongue totally as then you don't taste it.... (read in full...)
I don't have feelings for my girlfriend and feel guilty because of my real intentions behind having a relationship with her. What should I do?
Q. Recently,on dating site, I have got 42 years old American woman interested in me and it's been two weeks since we have expressed love for each other.I'm 30 years old. She has 11 years old daughter from her first love who left here 6 years ago. She...
A. 1 January 2012: It's not so easy to use an american to get into the country any more... you will have to marry her to get any type of permanent status here.y. and family not so easy to bring any more... we can't afford the "give me your tired and poor" any ... (read in full...)
What do people think of an 18 year old guy dating a 16 year old?
Q. ok i have been talking to a girl who is 16 and i'm 18 we have basically got straight on and i feel like i have known her for years and we both have basically shown we like each others personallity and like each other. id like to ask her out and ...
A. 1 January 2012: here in the states the only thing that would matter is that it's not legal till she's 18 so her PARENTS would have to be approving...
if it's legal where you are that's not an issue... unless her parents still have a say in what she does and does... (read in full...)
Can someone explain why people talk so positively? I think it inappropriate and don't believe it.
Q. Why are people always telling me ,that things are going to be all right, when it is not really posible in. my case. I feel deaf ears are listening my story. And they think, I m guilty. if I don t want to believe positive ideas. False hope is not ...
A. 1 January 2012: My son is disabled emotionally. He only will see the good until the bitter end.
My mother was dying of cancer. WE all knew she was dying... you at your age will probably think that it's OK she had a husband, a home, grown happy children... (read in full...)
No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months?
Q. No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months? We were casual for the first month and a half. Then we agreed to date exclusively. He swears he wants to be w...
A. 1 January 2012: IF you feel it's just about sex it probably is...
If you feel other things are wrong they probably are...
I'm just as bad as every other human being and I don't want to listen to my head or my gut... why is it the HEART always wins till it ... (read in full...)
Would texting him at midnight on NYE be a good move? we fell out, but he said to try things again in 2012
Q. i really like this boy and we've been meeting up, texting and stuff like that. we fell out but we are ok now, he said to try things in 2012.. seeing as its new years eve i was thinking of texting him how i felt at midnight? but i wouldnt know what ...
A. 31 December 2011: I"m with worldlywise... I would not text him at midnight... maybe about 2 pm on New Years Day just a simple Have a happy new year if you must send anything.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to love one child more than your other?
Q. This might be a very "rough" question.. But, let's say you have 2 children. Would it be normal to love one more then the other? Or, let's say you were put in a situation where only one of your children would live, and you had to choose which one ...
A. 31 December 2011: OH and there is a movie about this exact thing... it's called "Sophie's Choice" ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to love one child more than your other?
Q. This might be a very "rough" question.. But, let's say you have 2 children. Would it be normal to love one more then the other? Or, let's say you were put in a situation where only one of your children would live, and you had to choose which one ...
A. 31 December 2011: I have two boys... and when I was YOUR age I asked the same questions. I asked my mom "if we were all in a boat and it tipped over who would you save me, my brother or daddy?" I was forever destroyed when my mother said "daddy I can always hav... (read in full...)
My husband has been impotent for 5 years. Should I stay?
Q. What would you do, if your husband 20 years, suddenly goes impotent , without any any medical cause? He is 50 now, but he was 43, when one day to the next he just lost his erection, and ever since, he is unable to get a normal erection. He also lost ...
A. 30 December 2011: it could very well be medical! has he had a medical work up with a urologist?
can he take Viagra or the like?
there are ways to make love without an erection... mouths hands..... toys...
what kind of a RISK are you talking about tak... (read in full...)
How do you know if you love someone?
Q. How do you know if you love someone?...
A. 30 December 2011: if they came to you and said "I love someone else and I want to be with her it will make me happy" what would you do?
if you say kill her you don't love him
if you say "i'd help him be with her because it makes him happy" that's love.
lov... (read in full...)
He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...
A. 29 December 2011: I'm sorry I'm not so forgiving if after 6 months apart they are still in daily contact I'd be a bit peeved.
ocassional contact for stuff is fine... but daily texting... nope no way I'd accept that...
his not telling her about YOU is also a bi... (read in full...)
No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months?
Q. No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months? We were casual for the first month and a half. Then we agreed to date exclusively. He swears he wants to be w...
A. 29 December 2011: You’ve been with him 3 months… and you are asking strangers if you should dump him? IF you have to ask then yes you should end it. Because clearly you think it’s not worth the effort.
You have been exclusive for SIX WEEKS right? That’s n... (read in full...)
I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 22 June 2011: Umm... this is NOT a relationship.... you are rowing a boat that's sinking...
you saw him over a year ago... he's ONLY 3 hours away?
Hon my boyfriend lives 2 hours away by car if it's not rush hour... it took me nearly 3 hours to get to him ye... (read in full...)
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