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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Unfaithful husband with problems. Should I keep trying to fix our marriage or just call it a lost cause?
Q. I have been married for 4 year with a beautiful son. I have found out my husband was having a affair with his ex friend's girlfriend and that he was using again. So christmas eve of 2010 he had broke up with me and for the past year we had argu...
A. 1 February 2012: Only YOU can decide if you want to give him another chance… Counseling can help you make that decision. Meanwhile while you are working on it I would suggest no dating for you.... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 11 January 2012: NO not your approval... you miss my point... (not your fault I'm often OBTUSE)...
I just don't think that a friendship is worth risking by blindsiding a friend...
you don't go and ask approval you just FORWARN her that you are going to dat... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 10 January 2012: because friends are harder to come by than lovers and IF she values her friendship and wants to date her friend's brother common decency tells me that "clearing it" with her friend first is a good idea.... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 10 January 2012: Ah yes if you date her brother and it does not work out what happens???? I get that
I lost my virginity to my then best friend’s brother… we were YOUNG teens… I had dinner with her the other night after not seeing her for 20 years and WE laugh... (read in full...)
We have been together 5 years and he hardly shows any affection, what should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, a fabulous new year to you all. I sincerely need your advice on this one. I and my Boyfriend have been dating for 5years now. We are in love, and we've gotten so fond of each other. But i find it disturbing that he barely shows ...
A. 9 January 2012: Ok to recap
You are dating 5 years
YOU are in love with him and you believe he is in love with you
He is not affectionate towards you like he used to be
Have you talked to HIM about this and asked HIM?
What does he say
IF he has coole... (read in full...)
What do you say when a guy cancels at the last minute?
Q. I text him yesterday telling him that i couldn't do what we originally planed today but i was still free today and we could do something else instead if he wanted to. He text me back yesterday and said i could come to his and watch a movie instead. ...
A. 9 January 2012: I understand... but isn't he a FRIEND???? you are socially anxious around friends too?
are you seeing someone for this condition?
do you have medication to help you through this till therapy works?... (read in full...)
Was I right to send him this text? He still hasn't responded and I'm devastated....
Q. So I've been dating someone for a while who treated me so well he was incredible. It felt like we were falling in love I noticed very positive changes in him. But then IMMEDIATELY after, he switched up. He started treating me so different I've been ...
A. 9 January 2012: I agree with two things
1. the relationship is over (and he was too chicken or childish to let you know)
2. you should have CALLED him to discuss this. IMPORTANT things and RELATIONSHIP issues should NOT be done via texting... (read in full...)
What do you say when a guy cancels at the last minute?
Q. I text him yesterday telling him that i couldn't do what we originally planed today but i was still free today and we could do something else instead if he wanted to. He text me back yesterday and said i could come to his and watch a movie instead. ...
A. 9 January 2012: no one is saying TEXT him. PICK UP THE PHONE and CALL HIM
this having relationships by text message is going to be the death of society.
he's just a friend you said he was not your boyfriend.
what could you have possibly blown unless y... (read in full...)
Friends can cuddle... Right?
Q. Okay, I've been friends with this guy for a good few years now, I'll call him B. I've recently broken up with my previous boyfriend of 7 months, things just weren't working out. I hug all of my guy friends and all of them know a simple hug for a ...
A. 9 January 2012: you straddled him
you lay down and cuddle
he puts his hand on your bum
you both clearly surpassed the friendly hug
and now he's had second thoughts and put the brakes on it.
and the "I can't flirt with other girls" tells he knows alo... (read in full...)
Please offer suggestions to help me please my wife in bed.
Q. I have been married to my wife for 9 years and in that time I have only been able to make her orgasm during sex a handful of times. She doesn't feel comfortable with oral (giving or receiving). I can make her cum by rubbing her clit, but she sa...
A. 9 January 2012: I get what your wife is saying... sex with my partner is FINE for me.. He cannot make me orgasm but then I don’t' think my orgasms are his responsibility... as far as I'm concerned... sex is about him being pleased because nothing he does will ... (read in full...)
Boy troubles! Do I tell the boy at school to get lost? And is there hope for me with the 19 year boy in the army? I like the army guy.
Q. Mod Note: two adjacent questions from same poster have been combined. I'm a freshman in high school and I'm having major "relationship" problems with this senior boy. I don't even know what's going on between us. The other day I was walking in the h...
A. 9 January 2012: tell the first boy if he touches you again you will call the police because you do not want to be touched at all and it's assault.... then DO IT....
as for the second boy... let it go honey, he's in the army and he's too old for you for right no... (read in full...)
7 months of dating, boyfriend has no job, no income, doesn't seem to care
Q. Hello, i really would like some advice. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months and the whole time he has had no income and hasn’t been studying or attempting anything really. I have two jobs, looking for another, live away from home and am a ...
A. 9 January 2012: YOU'VE applied for jobs for HIM?
RUN FOREST RUN!
honey if he's not in school and he's not working then his personality is such that he's NOT a go-getter...
if he is not pulling his weight... he never will....
no date.
just... (read in full...)
Mother doesn't like my boyfriend because she thinks he might be like his mother!
Q. Okay so me and this guy really like each other and we are pretty much dating but my mother does not like him at all. She really doesn't know him she judges his by his alcoholic mother who is also a drug addict. But he is nothing like that he got ...
A. 9 January 2012: you are 13-15
he got accepted to pre-law for college so he's 18??? or close to it?
how much time is he spending at your house?
what do you mean by dating?
as a mom I would not want my daughter dating an 18 yr old if she was 15... and I ... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 9 January 2012: is it cause he's your friend's brother or cause he's younger??
... (read in full...)
Could my friend's mom be interested in me?
Q. For a while now, iv been wanting to have sex with my girl friends mom (not my partner but a really close friend.) Me and the girl had sex before but now were just friends which is really weird because I never thought it could happen. But everytime ...
A. 9 January 2012: As a hot single mom, I can tell you that NO she is not truly interested in anything other than her kid being happy and being nice to her kids friends that she approves of...
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I love my wife, but lately I hate her! Will a divorce make me happy?
Q. I hate my wife more than I have ever hated another person! I also love her more than I have ever loved snother person! I have read that love and hate are the opposite sides of the same coin and that indifference is far more damning...
A. 9 January 2012: I understand exactly what you are going through.
Yes Hate and Love are the same emotion at opposite ends IMO.
Will divorce make you happy? No one knows... but honeypie is right a full formal trial separation sounds like a plan to start with... (read in full...)
Is there really someone out there for everyone?
Q. Do people actually always find someone.....? I'm 28 and am wondering if there really is someone out there for everyone. I have friends and am comfortable enough in a crowd but I just can't seem to meet anyone. Everyone keeps saying to be pat...
A. 9 January 2012: People will find someone if they are available to be found… that means being out and about and while not LOOKING being open and available to new people and experiences… join groups… stretch your wings a bit.
Even at 18 you settle btw… there is... (read in full...)
Unfaithful husband with problems. Should I keep trying to fix our marriage or just call it a lost cause?
Q. I have been married for 4 year with a beautiful son. I have found out my husband was having a affair with his ex friend's girlfriend and that he was using again. So christmas eve of 2010 he had broke up with me and for the past year we had argu...
A. 8 January 2012: he hasn't even been clean 6 months... but if he's truly clean and working his program and you are in counseling that is a good sign...
reminders of our past are good they remind us to strive to improve... none of us is perfect and we have to ... (read in full...)
How do I help myself?. As I can't change him. Do alcoholics tend to avoid loved ones who are concerned about them and hang around with their "drinking buddies?
Q. I am positive my boyfriend is an alcoholic. I just put the pieces together and it all adds up every time he goes on these binges, I don't hear from him. I thought he didn't want me anymore but it wasn't that, I know he loves me. It is the drinking...
A. 8 January 2012: You cannot help him. He has to help himself.
If you cannot manage to leave him (the best thing for you) then you should go to AlAnon meetings... http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/how-to-find-a-meeting
I am engaged to an alcoholic. There i... (read in full...)
Can my LDR boyfriend have blocked me on msn by mistake?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with a British man for eight years. Although our relationship is fantastic when we are together, I've caught him trying to cybercheat on me several times. He loves women's attention, and has several female ...
A. 7 January 2012: I will buy the not wanting to give up a good job to move... so why do you continue with this relationship and not try to find someone closer... my fiance just gave up a home of 10 years and is risking the loss of a very good job to move down here ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend asks me to download porn since he doesn't have a computer!
Q. is it wrong for me getting upset that my "fiancee" watches to much porn even after i had told him that it bothers me that he do, he even watches it in front of me when we get in to a argument and even asks me to download his favorites for him ...
A. 7 January 2012: would you prefer him to lie to you and pretend he doesn't watch it?
good for him for being honest.
yes you are wrong... this is who he is and this is what he does... IF you don't like it you can end the relationship.
there are men out t... (read in full...)
Would you read your partner's diary if they accidently left it out?
Q. If your significant other left a notebook or journal at your place by accident, would you read it? Do you think you could resist, or would curiosity get the best of you?...
A. 7 January 2012: would NOT read it... it's private.
I would give it back and say "you left if, was there something you wanted me to see?" because I know my private stuff is never left anywhere... I'm very careful to keep it under lock and key...... (read in full...)
Can my LDR boyfriend have blocked me on msn by mistake?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with a British man for eight years. Although our relationship is fantastic when we are together, I've caught him trying to cybercheat on me several times. He loves women's attention, and has several female ...
A. 6 January 2012: The PRIMARY goal of an LDR is to NOT be an LDR any more.
IF after 8 years you guys are not married or living together this is as good as it gets.
Since you don't know what he does when you are not with him, you will never trust him will y... (read in full...)
"I'm Not Your Trophy Girl".
Q. I have been talking with this guy for the past 3 months. He wants me 2 Be HIS WOMAN.BUT i havent really said yes 2 him. THIS IS WHY... We Talk alot on the phone. I Told him im pretty much a"Jeans and T-Shirt " laid back kinda woman.He tells me if ...
A. 6 January 2012: OP I hear you and I agree with you totally you should NOT do anything or wear anything that makes you uncomfortable. I have my limits to how short I will go... and I dress the way I do for both of us...
for example he's on his way home... ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps asking to slow things down says he cares about me but isn't in love with me
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 monthes things i thought were pretty good we live in different states but only 1 hour away.... we have been seeing each other every weekend i usually go around 7 friday night and stay until around 6 ...
A. 6 January 2012: I just ended an LDR with a man who was MUCH like yours. I always went to visit him.. I felt morn her him than he felt for me... or so I thought. You need to LISTEN to what this man is telling you. GIVE him the space he asks for. I learned that... (read in full...)
Were they dates?
Q. Just needing some clarification. I can't believe how hard it is to define a date. It's made especially hard because the boy I hung with had a girlfriend already. My definition of a date is an outing with romantic interest. Agree? Disagree? The...
A. 6 January 2012: I had a lunch date today. With my girlfriend. NOT a romantic dating girfriend but my best friend girlfriend...
A date is just a term....
it's a label for something....
search your feelings and figure out why it's so important to ... (read in full...)
I treat this guy like a king, but he is unorganized has not time for me and doesn't like anything I suggest to try to help!
Q. I'm a 43 year old divorced woman dating a 46 year old divorced man for a year. We have each been divorced for years. I've had 2 relationships before him. One with a man who was a jackass and treated me badly, but whom I loved so very much...I ...
A. 6 January 2012: ADD folks are really really BAD at relationships... in general... we don't do relationships well, we don't manage our time or resources or money well at all.
we tend to be grossly underacheving at things in general and look lazy stupid or crazy... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel angry after breaking up with a loser?
Q. About a month ago I broke up with my then-boyfriend. We had been together for a year and a half at that point (it was an online relationship), but he was not good for me for a number of reasons, most obviously because he is 31 years older than me. ...
A. 6 January 2012: yes it's normal to be mad, sad, angry, embarrassed etc etc etc..
you are not a loser
you are not shameful
and if you were my child i would hug you and tell you what a jerk he is and take you for lunch and shopping...
you are young and tru... (read in full...)
Guy problems. I like one particular guy. But am I only ever going to be a Friend with Benefits to guys I know?
Q. I am having some serious guy problems. We are like friends with benefits once in a while and we go well with each other. Any way we talk all the time and well I have giving him hints that I like him. He does send some hints every now and again. B...
A. 6 January 2012: there is nothing wrong with you but if you want more than FWB you must stop having sex with him.
I mean if I am dieting and someone offers me a cookie I might eat it anyway... not that I need or really WANTED the cookie but it's there, it's ... (read in full...)
"I'm Not Your Trophy Girl".
Q. I have been talking with this guy for the past 3 months. He wants me 2 Be HIS WOMAN.BUT i havent really said yes 2 him. THIS IS WHY... We Talk alot on the phone. I Told him im pretty much a"Jeans and T-Shirt " laid back kinda woman.He tells me if ...
A. 6 January 2012: if you don't want to change then don't.
I'm a jeans type of girl or I was.
My man PREFERS me in shorter skirts and high heels.
I give him say over what I wear ON DATE NIGHT ONLY.
there are days he goes "blech pants" and i go "suck it... (read in full...)
I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?
Q. Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint...
A. 6 January 2012: he yells at you in front of others
he ignores you
he turns off his phone
he's kind to other women and not you?
and you want to be with him why?... (read in full...)
How can I be in love with 2 men?
Q. I have been married for two years. I left my ex ( the man that I had two children with) and soon after started dating my husband and shortly after that I got married. This whole time, my ex has been saying that he wants me back and I have thought ...
A. 6 January 2012: Glad we could help!... (read in full...)
What do I need to be told? What lessons do I need to learn? I have a huge Teacher crush.
Q. Hi I'm 14 years old...ever since this school year started i met my social studies teacher, and I'm heavily in love with him. I totally understand this is wrong and those of you who think so i won't listen to you so don't bother. Anyway he ...
A. 6 January 2012:
so you WANT to be selfish and childish?
i don't think you need any help there... you are doing fine all by yourself.
Listen honey a grown WOMAN would know how to entice a man
once you know... do it... then you are ready.
not bef... (read in full...)
My girlfriend rates guys and says whether she would date them or not?
Q. I'm a marine currently on deployment. I have a girlfriend back home and i just wanted an outside view on my situation so that i know im not thinking irrational or being too jealous. The thing is that ive noticed that lately my girlfriend has been...
A. 6 January 2012: ya know it's one thing when I see a nice looking guy and I joke that i'm going to "put him on my to-do list" and what your GF is doing... she's over the line IMO
and to NOT talk about it... that's wrong too.
I think it's time to cut bait on t... (read in full...)
Feel like she is acting like a single, not us as a couple. Is my feeling valid and normal?
Q. We have been together for about 9.5 months. We are compatible with each other and intend to take the relationship to the next level when the time is right. There is this thing that keep bugging me and upsetting me a bit. I am 32 and she is 28. B...
A. 6 January 2012: I was going to post this long thing… but I don’t need to Mishmash has it totally covered for me.
I agree if you were seriously a couple (i.e. engaged or living together) then she needed to check first but if you didn’t have premade plans prior to... (read in full...)
Why does he choke me or restrain me during sex?
Q. The guy im having sex with will start to choke me or pin me down right before im going to orgasim. if i push his hand away from my neck or move away from his hold he will stop and hold back for a bit. then it starts all over again. he wont let me ...
A. 6 January 2012: because it gets him hot... if you dont' like it then you need to tell him NO if he can't comply then you are sexually mismatched and need to consider ending the relationship.
we actually use a bit of retraining and choking play in our sex live but... (read in full...)
Are men in their early 40s usually uninterested in sex? He tells me some relationships don't need sex
Q. Hi, do men in their early 40s go off sex?. My partner is 42 and our sex life is non exsistent. He says he is tired and that some relationships dont need sex, that you can be with someone and friendship is more important. I am 6 yrs younger than him ...
A. 6 January 2012: NOT all men in their 40s go off of sex...
has he had a medical work up? could he have LOW T?? they have patches for that... it's not just about sex with low testosterone... there is being tired...
if you are not affectionate the... (read in full...)
What is worse: His age difference or his lie?
Q. My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level....
A. 6 January 2012: THE LIE is the problem.
what else is he lying about? ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to have sex but it brings back feelings! Should I do this?
Q. Dear Cupid, I recently got back in connect with my ex and we've been meeting up and things are just like they used to be when we were together. He calls us "friends" yet he has asked me to take his virginity. But what he doesn't realise ...
A. 6 January 2012: Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place.
it's simplistic and not totally 100% true but it's point is that women use being physical to show they are being close and intimate.... it's not like that for men (in general)
I would... (read in full...)
My mom will not help. How old do I need to be to get birth control without a parents permission and without prescription?
Q. I was just curious about how old i have to be to get birth control without a parents permission or without prescription. I'm 14 now, and i know i shouldn't be on it now, but it's not what you think. I have horrible cramps to the point that i stay ...
A. 6 January 2012: I agree that ibuprofen (motrin or aleve or advil) taken starting a few days before your period till the day the period starts or a day or two after will help with the cramps...... (read in full...)
I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?
Q. Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint...
A. 6 January 2012: He sounds like my guy… there is not a lot you can do… here are your choices:
1. Keep your mouth shut and never speak unless spoken to and only give simple one word answers.
2. Have no opinions or ideas
3. Have him pick your clothes and insp... (read in full...)
My mom will not help. How old do I need to be to get birth control without a parents permission and without prescription?
Q. I was just curious about how old i have to be to get birth control without a parents permission or without prescription. I'm 14 now, and i know i shouldn't be on it now, but it's not what you think. I have horrible cramps to the point that i stay ...
A. 6 January 2012: how about instead of asking her for birth control you ask her to take you to the gynecologist for a check up and to make sure everything is ok and see if the doctor can give you something for your cramps since that's what you really want.... (read in full...)
G/f says she hit her ex. Will she hit me?
Q. I just started to date this beautiful girl. She is everything I had ever wanted and acts just like a lady. However a couple of things are concerning me, 1. Is that her ex bfs things are still in her place, yet she says they broke up 3 months ...
A. 6 January 2012: Oh dear... it's the paycheck...
if his stuff furnished the place that means she will need furniture.
saying something (I need counseling) and doing something (getting a counselor) are different things... listen to her actions not her words.. ... (read in full...)
First online date...Pointers?
Q. I sign up on i dating site there this guy on it asked me if i wanted 2 catch up for a drink on saturday night . Should i go and where the best place to going never being on a dating site before? and what should i watch out for any help would be grea...
A. 5 January 2012: meet him somewhere where you can sit and talk and get to know each other... just a drink early enough so he does not think you are going to go home with him.. starbucks is a fav of mine and i often see newly dating couples there (you can so tell a ... (read in full...)
I know my ex was wrong for me but why do I keep thinking of him?
Q. i was dating a guy for 3 yrs,we met in junior college and dated for 3 yrs..during the 2nd yr of our relationship i moved outta town and he started getting super possessive.he didnt like me talking to other guys n stuff,hed get paranoid if he called ...
A. 5 January 2012: you are thinking of him again because he stroked your ego when you saw him.
give it a few weeks and it will pass.... (read in full...)
How can I be in love with 2 men?
Q. I have been married for two years. I left my ex ( the man that I had two children with) and soon after started dating my husband and shortly after that I got married. This whole time, my ex has been saying that he wants me back and I have thought ...
A. 5 January 2012: Unlike the first poster, I get that you can love more than one person at a time. I see that you left your EX BEFORE you started dating your husband so I know that you are truly torn with these feelings.
Sadly our society does not deal with pol... (read in full...)
G/f says she hit her ex. Will she hit me?
Q. I just started to date this beautiful girl. She is everything I had ever wanted and acts just like a lady. However a couple of things are concerning me, 1. Is that her ex bfs things are still in her place, yet she says they broke up 3 months ...
A. 5 January 2012: You just started to date a woman who is 3 months out of a long term relationship. Let’s address your concerns one at a time:
If her BF broke up with her 3 months ago and she still has his stuff she needs to let him know he has X number of days ... (read in full...)
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