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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I wrong for being unhappy with the engagement ring?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of 4 years and I just recently got engaged. I'm really happy and excited about it all, because I had been pushing the whole get married thing for so long. We shopped around for rings and at first I didn't care which one he'd...
A. 28 January 2012: "Theres nothing he can do to fix this. I won't let him. I'm just going to be wrong and sad for the rest of my life. Somethings in life you just don't get a re-do. This was one of them."
OH dear OP,
I"m so so sorry you feel this way. I know tha... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for being unhappy with the engagement ring?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of 4 years and I just recently got engaged. I'm really happy and excited about it all, because I had been pushing the whole get married thing for so long. We shopped around for rings and at first I didn't care which one he'd...
A. 27 January 2012: "WE shopped for rings"
Did you give him an idea of what you wanted or did you expect him to read your mind? At first you didn’t care but now you do? I get that.
When my mother got engaged they went and picked out the stone at the diamo... (read in full...)
I'm worried about gettin waxed down there
Q. I'd like to get my hair " down there " waxed lol, but i'm too embarassed about a stranger seeing my private parts, and how much hair there is there lol. I'm also worried about it hurting. How can i feel more comfortable about having it done ?. Also, ...
A. 27 January 2012: oh btw the exfoliating and moisturizing should be done on a regular if not daily basis.. not just the week before... I was not clear on that... it's a regular maintainence thing...... (read in full...)
Should I stay with a mentally ill boyfriend?
Q. Hi all. I've been with my bf for almost 3yrs. He has as few problems with anxiety and depression. He has even been on anti depressants for 3months. Anyway whenever he drinks even a little these feelings he has amplifies and the smallest thing can ...
A. 27 January 2012: At a younger age, I was not equipped to deal with a partner who was a depressive with an alcohol issue. I do not think that you are either. I do not think it’s in your best interest to continue this relationship. Yes his meds need to be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hates animals and wants to get rid of my dogs!
Q. My boyfriend off and on for the past 6, years wants me to give away my dog who is 9 and my rescue puppy who is 3 then find a job in his state and move in with him he moved away 5 years agao and we stay in touch meeting when we could in talking ...
A. 27 January 2012: While I rehomed my dogs for my partner there are many reasons I did so. ONLY one of which was that my partner is deathly allergic and afraid of animals. AND HE TRIED to be with my dogs it did not work for him(he could NOT breathe(or see as his ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 27 January 2012: It’s so very true. Cindy is my sounding board on so many things. We all know we can GIVE advice but we rarely take our own… it’s truly “do as I say not as I do”
Well last night two things happened: 1. We decided NOT to change our plans at all a... (read in full...)
I'm worried about gettin waxed down there
Q. I'd like to get my hair " down there " waxed lol, but i'm too embarassed about a stranger seeing my private parts, and how much hair there is there lol. I'm also worried about it hurting. How can i feel more comfortable about having it done ?. Also, ...
A. 27 January 2012: I get waxed down there and go totally bare and I'm nearly 52 so how embarrassing is that?
exfoliate and moisturize well at least a week before.
take ibuprofen about 2 hours in advance
the first time it will hurt.... but then the hair starts... (read in full...)
We're dating, but her family is trying to set her up with another guy!
Q. I recently started dating a 17 year old girl. As a couple by ourselves we work out great. We agree on many important things. She's pretty mature for her age too. The problem is that I think her family is trying to set her up with another guy. Her...
A. 26 January 2012: are you 18 or 21?
because if my 17 yr old daughter was dating a 21 yr old man I'd not be thrilled... to be honest I have no issues with age gap but 17-21 is a big gap whereas 21-25 is not such a big gap.
so biding your time might be a best ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: I promise not to leave crumbs! :-*... (read in full...)
Lack of sex a reason to break up?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over two years. She recently moved in with me about five months ago. Prior to moving in, she would come over to my place on weekends. We’d snuggle before bed and have sex at least once a week. Now that ...
A. 26 January 2012: Oh tough question… sounds like it’s beyond lack of sex.. there is a lack of affection too… We have differing schedules as well.. I am an early to bed early to rise person.. he prefers to stay up late and sleep later… with his work schedule he’s ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: OP I hear you… so this is a new problem for you and yours?
My guy does not do the laundry and when he puts it away he leaves my stuff on the bed for me to put away and that’s fine… he just doesn’t know where my stuff goes or how I like it and that... (read in full...)
Should I leave or stay? My ex husband cheated and may have a child with her...
Q. My screen name is blackwidow48, because of how I feel inside. I have been married for 16 years, but divorced for 2 years yet, my ex got evicted and asked if he could stay with me for a few months to save money and that was 8 months ago and he still ...
A. 26 January 2012: he stays with you... you need to get him out.
if you rent.. and his name is not on the lease get the help of the rental office to evict him... or better yet... end that lease find a new place and move and don't tell him.
if you own the home... (read in full...)
Is it me or is it him? Has he brainwashed me, or do I need to end the relationship?
Q. Back on here again about the same person I put a question on here about in 2010. I suppose that says it all. I desperately need some advice so if anyone can spare 5 mins to read this I'd appreciate it. I'm in a very troublesome relationship. ...
A. 26 January 2012: If you feel worse two years after things have improved what are you expecting to improve more now?
He’s only been coming “home” for three weeks now and even YOU know he will go back to his old ways…
“he lives in my home” right there tells me... (read in full...)
Why do I keep feeling so sick whenever I go out drinking?
Q. Hey I seem to have a bit of a problem that affects me going out and enjoying myself, not sure if anyone else has had the same problem but I've receieved comments about it. Everytime I go out drinking I get so far and feel the need to throw up, and...
A. 26 January 2012: do you feel you can't go out and have fun without drinking alcohol?
I could for the rest of my life never have a drink and have more fun than I care to admit.
why do you feel you NEED even the occasional drink?
I've had a surgery th... (read in full...)
Unwanted hair....
Q. Recently I've noticed I've been getting dark hairs on my neck, chest (in between my boobs), around my nips and my bum and down the back of my legs. I shave the legs and bum hairs, but i pluck the other hairs on my body. I'm scared of what this may ...
A. 26 January 2012: agreed if this is new hair that a medical work up in in order to determine if it's hormonal.
If it's just the way it is... well most women have hair on the backs of their legs...
I have a full brazilian bikini wax and the last time I did ... (read in full...)
He said I'm allowed over to his house any time I want, but is it ok to just show up?
Q. This guy has given me his address and he said i am invited to his place anytime, so do you think it's ok if i just go there, without sending him a message asking if it's ok, or saying when, e.t.c ?. He only lives about a 15 minute drive away from ...
A. 26 January 2012: have you ever met this guy?... (read in full...)
His friend recently died, and our date was on the day of the funeral. Was it wrong of me to suggest another date some other day?
Q. I was supposed to go on a date with a guy I just met on friday night. A friend of him/guy he knew well died two days ago, and he texted me tonight and said he had to go to a funeral and "memorynight" on friday. I said I understood and that i was ...
A. 26 January 2012: I don't think it was wrong of you at all. It was very kind of you in fact. Texts are no way to have a conversation.
If youa re that concerned call him. I don't always answer every text i get.. if i did we'd go back and forth forever...... (read in full...)
I want to trust him again!
Q. hey, how do you know when you can re-trust someone? I ask because i still feel troubled from time to time about my bf of 16 months. Everything's great right now, but i caught him sexting an ex-workmate at 6 months, confronted him right away and was ...
A. 26 January 2012: I have never ever been able to trust again someone who betrayed my trust... of course they never went long enough without a further betrayal to make it easy enough to do so.
I would think that if AFTER a year of exemplary behavior you still ar... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has genital herpes. What should I do?
Q. I'm dating a guy for a while who has admitted that he suffers from genital herpes. We haven't had sex yet. He claims that he has been cured but I was reading somewhere that herpes is incurable. Now I happen to be in love with him and I would like to ...
A. 26 January 2012: Dear OP, I would for sure go very very slow on the physical contact. Also you do need to determine if he truly believes he’s cured or if he just said that… the way he approaches his illness is important. If he truly believes he is cured you ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: A watch is a great idea... and I"ve gotten a few private suggestions that are great.
As i told Chigirl.... things may have to be on hold now... he lost his job this morning and while we are not worried (and can make all our bills with my salar... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: To the Anonymous OP who has never refused to cuddle… I have one of those men now. He’s a delight… but his sex drive is very very low and I often settle for a kiss and a cuddle when I want more… sometimes to the point that I OFFER a blow job and he ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: For all his insanity (wanting me to propose and he's taking my last name) he likes romance and tradition... just like men offer women an engagement ring, and many women feel like it's not a "real" proposal without the ring, I believe he would like ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 26 January 2012: well then for sure you tell them. have some faith in human nature.... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 26 January 2012: ". As far as being clean...what is that about."
I was just responding to the poster before me when he said:
"et's apply that concept a little more broadly and see how most women like it. For example, let's put "cuddling" and "romance" and "c... (read in full...)
He flirts secretly with other women on Facebook. What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend is pretty much perfect. he always makes time for me. he trusts me. we never argue. he always tells me he loves me, and how he wants to one day get married and have a family. he always tells me he never speaks to other girls anymore, ...
A. 25 January 2012: how can a man who flirts so outragesouly behind your back and then lies to you about it be perfect?
what did he do that made you not trust him in the first place?... (read in full...)
What should a teenager wear to a posh restaurant?
Q. Hey guys, I am to go out with a "friend" on saturday night for dinner and I don't know what to wear, basically. We're both 17 so it's not like I have a suit and I wouldn't really feel comfortable in a shirt/trousers. It is a posh restaurant and i...
A. 25 January 2012: the shirt if it's a nice button down with a collar and the chinos sound perfect and tuck the shirt in and wear a belt...
you can call the place and ask them what's appropriate...... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be loved, even though I am hot tempered and jealous!
Q. I am a type of person with a hot temper and jealousy. Can someone teach me how to love? What can i do? ...
A. 25 January 2012: you can love the problem is finding someone willing to put up with your temper and your jealousy....
my fiance is hot tempered but so am I.... we refer to our relationship as feisty...
jealousy however is an emotion rooted in insecurity... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 25 January 2012: No we don’t compromise we get divorced or we fight and have affairs . I have NEVER met a man who is willing to cuddle and romance and be cleaner than he wants for a woman. And I’ve had MANY husbands and partners and I have always had the higher ... (read in full...)
Is it a good thing to jump back into the relationship so fast and move in?
Q. I was dating a guy a yr ago he was 41 and I was 20. and at the time i was in trade school, working and taking care of my gmom. And he was working none stop and had to move to atl for his job. The relationship didnt last very long because we didnt...
A. 25 January 2012: 41 to 20 is a big gap. I would not move in together either.
especially if you feel he was paternal towards you.
I'd see him but give the relationship LOTS of time to grown... what you want at 20 will not be what you want at 25 trust me.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has genital herpes. What should I do?
Q. I'm dating a guy for a while who has admitted that he suffers from genital herpes. We haven't had sex yet. He claims that he has been cured but I was reading somewhere that herpes is incurable. Now I happen to be in love with him and I would like to ...
A. 25 January 2012: you cannnot be cured of Genital Herpes. You can reduce the outbreaks and the severity with medication but it's a lifelong thing.
IF He says he's cured he's LYING.
my brother has Hep C and his husband has HIV they have been together over 1... (read in full...)
I want more commitment and want to live with my B/f but he has no interest in it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. we love each other alot. I would really like to settle down soon and maybe think of having children. But I dont feel like we want the same things. I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to move i...
A. 25 January 2012: I would not wait for him. After 4 years he would know if you are his special one.
"I don't want to get married" is code for "I dont' want to get married TO YOU"
I have seen it a zillion times... Man is 40 years old.. does not believe in m... (read in full...)
What is his problem? He disappears for days and is uncontactable.
Q. Okay so I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now we get along well AND we understand each other perfectly were even compatible zodiac sign wise ( hes a scorpio AND I'm a Pisces ) and everything is perfect except for the fact that every ...
A. 25 January 2012: My first husband was a scorpio and I'm Pisces. DO NOT go by that sweetie... it's a crock.
3 months is NOT a long time...
and every once in a while in the first three months he disappears for days or longer and it's still perfect????
3... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has become verbally abusive after finding out I had sex before I met him
Q. I met my bf 2 yrs ago. I am 24 and he is 28. We love each other so much but the problem is my past. I had another bf in my past before I met him. I loved that guy too(but not as much as this one) but he just cheated me. I didn't want to have sex ...
A. 25 January 2012: He does not love you. A man who loves a woman does not call her names. He's abusing you.
Leave him.... (read in full...)
I am older than him. He finds fault all the time. How do I deal with this relationship? Is he over me?
Q. ModNote: two questions combined, as clearly about the same issues I love my man and even though he's younger than me. He makes a fuss about things and everything he say is true and I'm always a liar. We get together and he pick some of the mos...
A. 25 January 2012: Sounds much like our relationship I am older and my partner is nit-piky complaining about EVERYTHING...
Personally if you are unhappy now and can get out... DO IT.
People do not change as they get deeper into relationships they tend to let the ... (read in full...)
If I drink energy drinks can I have sex multiple times?
Q. Hello. Me and my girlfriend are going on a trip to New York City and she been making comments like having sex all the time multiple times a day on this trip. It's only days, I'm a little nervous I won't perform okay. She is 31 and I'm 20 and a...
A. 25 January 2012:
At 20 you should have a short "recovery" period and be able to have sex at least several times in a 24 hour period.
Energy drinks won't affect that...
I worry that she's putting A LOT of pressure on you...are you sure this is what YOU wa... (read in full...)
Pregnant and having cramps. Should I go to the doctor?
Q. hiya! i feel really silly asking this, especially on here lol! but i know how amazing you guys are :) so.. im 20 weeks pregnant! finding out on monday whether im getting a little him or her :) this is my first pregnancy (second.. i misscarried in ...
A. 25 January 2012: ANYTIME you have anything wrong you call the doctor.
CALL THE DOCTOR...... (read in full...)
My mum makes me feel like having sex, even when in love, is wrong!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and I know its not very long but I am very much in love with him and we have recently started having sex. However, my mum is a very prude person and I can't even talk about us sleeping in the same bed ...
A. 25 January 2012: Sounds like a UTI... you need to get to a doctor and pee in a cup for a culture... s/he will give you an antibiotic (usually Bactrim) and something called pyridium for the urge....
until then sitting in a warm bath of water helps...
btw whe... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 25 January 2012: UPDATE:
My divorce was final on 1/18/12 I just found out about an hour ago so now I'm full throttle preparing the proposal.
This is what I have so far:
Asking on 2/29 (Sadie Hawkins day)
he already has a ring I bought him that he wears ... (read in full...)
I just got married and am not interested in sex!
Q. hello please advise me; i am a newlywed with just about a month in marriage. i got married as a virgin but since then i have been having trouble making love to my husband; i am simply not interested. what could be the problem and how can i overco...
A. 25 January 2012: you will need to have a medical work up first to make sure there are no medical issues that have to be addressed.
do you love your husband? was this a marriage of choice?... (read in full...)
Adam or Eve, am I being played?
Q. am i jealous, stupid, controlling, or just kidding myself loving this person? what would you do? I have dated this 30 year old Micronesian for 3 months before we decided to be official. It was nice, I planned a whole day for the to of us and the...
A. 25 January 2012: IF I had a guy that told me to quit my job and he would pay for me and my child to live with him and he continually looked the other way as I played him... I'd do it too... human nature.
KICK HER OUT!... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like me on top!
Q. My man isn't satisfied with me ontop ... I've done all the tips from cosmopolitan and different sites. Still he seems unsatisfied ...its so bad to where when I see his unhappiness I get sick of trying and walk out the room...I feel less of a woman. ...
A. 25 January 2012: you see his unhappiness? have you asked him why he's unhappy?
and everyone else is right if this is a deal breaker for the relationship then it's not a great relationship.... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 25 January 2012: Not before you have sex with them.
If you are looking for a long term relationship then you will spend lots of time with them getting to know them BEFORE the sexual conversations come up...
ONCE you are ready to be sexual with them is the time... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 25 January 2012: Eddie,
As in life, the person with the lowest level of commitment or desire sets the guidelines. The person with the higher drive has to accept it or move on... it's easier to give up then to give in when it comes to wanting sex.
I want ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it
Q. My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...
A. 24 January 2012: Next time he says "fine we'll never have sex again" I'd say "great works for me" and go on about my business...
what does he do around the house to help you?
does he do chores?
does he do child care?
does he romance you? cuddle you? ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OMG!
do i have to get married in a toilet now???
did i tell you all we are going to elope to Vegas?
I want to wear a red dress and black hooker shoes!
I DO
I DO!
ROFL!
I am really struggling with this.. I so want it to be... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 9 November 2011: OH such great ideas.
He works from HOME! :SOB: so I can't do anything like the banner... that's a great idea
and while SVC loves SEX... Keeper tends to be a bit more reserved about those things.... but I love the strawberries and champagne th... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: oh wow... LEAP YEAR... February 29th is a Wednesday.... I just checked... hmmm... I doubt we could do the wedding on that day.... but if we could that would be fun...
I cannot propose during a fight... I wish I could... he expects me calm and cool... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: he has light hair so the gray does not show and he wears it very short (high and tight military short) and he has a full head of hair... and it's thick... oy.... not a wrinkle on that baby face. He has gray in his beard but he stays clean ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: ROFL... we do but NOT about this.
and the age thing I'm not so easily amused by.... I feel so old compared to him... I look my age, he looks 25... ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: I like simple and classic too... maybe over thanksgiving then since we are going to be going out to eat one last time up near a place we have gone to several times... that's a GREAT idea.... (read in full...)
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